Second case: I am not even sure what point the younger sister was trying to prove. Also, swearing on what your parents did or didn't do is so foolish. You weren't there. It is just weird that she was trying to prevent her sister from knowing her own truth.
The info that the sister was such a young child when their mother passed made the whole "slandering our mother's name" argument make a bit more sense. To me, it seems like she was trying to preserve the memory of her mother she's had since she was 8. That's a whole lot of denial to have for her to not be able to see the clear resemblance between that man and his daughter. I spent the whole episode trying to NOT see the resemblance, to be perfectly honest.
I think because mom is no longer here, sister can't take the anger she has out on her and so she's misplacing it on her sister. Which is crazy because you can't fault the woman for wanting to know the truth she DESERVES! HER OWN truth. Sister never said anything bad about mom and what happened. She even said she understands and doesn't fault mom for her mistakes because she has her own at that age. Never spoke ill of her, never "defamed" her, none of that. I think she just has anger at the situation and the anger would be at mom IF mom was still alive to take it. 🤷🏽♀️
2nd case: The sister has a controlling problem. Trying to control your sister that’s 9 YEARS older than you is crazy. She needs to sit down and mind her business!!
I agree. The controlling sister hates to admit that her mother was promiscuous and conceived a baby in her own marriage. Her sister looked just like her father. She is just going to have to deal with the fact that her mom was not perfect.
i don't understand why she's so angry at her sister for thinking or wanting to prove that the man is her actual father. its not her "defaming" your mother , she never spoke ill of her or insulted her for it being a possibility. parents have secrets that we as their children don't know. she deserves to know where she comes from and she's not saying your mother was wrong or disgusting or anything for her sleeping with another man. why is she so angry at her? i think because the mom is dead, sister is the only one she can take that anger out on.
Because she loves her sister and the thought that her father neglected her for 37 years, neglected her until she was homeless and addicted to drugs, makes her beyond angry.
@@Joel-js2gk but she's angry AT HER *SISTER!* saying she's defaming their mother. she's also angry at the father which for that reason you said, would be valid for her to be mad at , but she's going off on her sister saying she's wrong and doing this out of spite and insulting their mom. She's not. Her wanting to know the truth is not defaming the mother. She never said anything man or insulting about the fact this happened, that mom slept with another man. She still loves her mother and even said she completely understands and has empathy for her mother sleeping with O2 men. Her anger needs to be at the mom for keeping it a secret and not at her sister for wanting the truth she deserves. But I guess since mom isn't here, she's throwing the anger at the wrong person instead of just supporting her.
Regarding the second case I hate people who weren't even born speaking or being present talking without acknowledging that there is always a possibility that they don't know everything. Remember stay Humble
Sir... you now have 15 children. Ma'am you are blessed. You said you had 2 precious stepdads and you are now blessed with your biological dad. Enjoy the time with your dad. I sure miss mine 😢 I pray the younger sister Has accepted this and her bitterness is behind her.... Much love from North Carolina ❤️
Second Case: the sister really irritated tf outta me. Sge seems to have a chip on her shoulder. I don't understand why she speaks with surety as though she there. Im really happy for Carmen and finding her Dad. My opinion the mom should have spoke up about the possibility years prior.
Maybe because she was badly hurt just to think that their mother would lie to them. And can possibly make her doubt her own father as well if the result turned out to be that her sister has a different father.@OSMRDucksLIB
This woman's sister was so mad at her saying he was her father because she was 8 years old when her mother died, and like any other 8 year old she idolized her mother. After losing her, she wrapped every good story about her around her heart and clung to the picture she made of her in her thoughts. Hearing she might be human, and when she was young she might have made a mistake threatened her perfect picture of her that's why she fought so hard and was angry.
Second case: the oldest sister is the living picture of the man next to her. I haven't watched to the end and I know what the DNA result will be. The younger sister, the one defending her mother's reputation, sees a ressemblance with the "official" father when there isn't any whatsoever. None. Zip. Nada.
Plus, how was it defaming her mother anyway? She was a young woman in her early 20's when this daughter was born. Many people that age are sexually active and not in committed relationships. She wasn't married to anyone at the time like the mother in the 3rd case.
Exactly...how could you possibly believe otherwise? That sister was just jealous and controlling....One could say, what reputation was she trying to uphold???
Second case: The sister is still in the mindset of being 7 years old and losing her mother. She can't wrap her head around her mother was a woman that lived before she was a mother to her older sister
The mothers of plaintiffs and defendants need to stay out of it ,in the first case the man is irresponsible and messy he knew that was his child stand up and be a man the grandmother of the boy is too old to be that messy.
Carmen "Big mama" I am so happy to see you are doing good . I watch this show all the time!! I cant believe i came across you! My oldest daughter that painted with your grand daughter is happy to see you too❤😊 wow! You look absolutely amazing! I am so happy to see you are doing good and got some answers about your father. i pray for so many blessings to come your way and your families way . I'm doing really good by the way! Im expecting my 3rd child, my son, in about a week❤God bless you❤
If the 1st guy wasnt at the birth or around for 3 years by choice denying the child of course his name isnt on the birth certificate and she wouldnt want him just taking him out of the blue. He doesnt know him. Hes delusional thinking hed get custody from a mom who raised him alone after he denied him.
What made me mad was after the judge said take these results and go get your name on the birth certificate. His mom had the nerve to say they have to let us do or help. No that's his responsibility now.
You know what I love about case #3. This is what you have to love about men... He said he was okay being in the role of her father, even if she was not his daughter. Men... men men, men have this ability to be "fixers" and put themselves in a role and be a father even if the child is not their own. He was okay being in that position, did not care what his family thought. Love that and women need to understand this beautiful ability that men have to be fixers... it is truly a blessing.
I don't think mama was "in the streets". He said they were together about a year. Sounds like she broke up with him bc she was unhappy or met the other guy & when she found out she was pregnant, it was easier for her to pretend like it was the other guys.
She wasn't in the streets I believe the break up was close to when she married luscious. I doubt there was window of conception was told to women decades ago. By the time the defendant was born mom was married making him legal father.
& then judge lake is telling him he has to get on the birth certificate & his mama goes its hard to get them to do anything, there is nothing they gotta do , its your son that gotta do that , & then once he is on it he can petition for visitation , thats nothing to do with the childs mother....standing there making comments under her breath, no wonder why he is the way he is.
Exactly! Living out her own past drama thru her son. HOW does she know how hard ut will be? Has she had to do the process before? ...never in this time so she needs to ket her son go forward and think for himself. Sure thing is no court will take a child being raised out of the home permanently/legally without cause.
On that last one, if he is such a great father, why were all of his kids in foster care? That poor girl. She acts like a 15 year old child. I'm glad she can trust and love her mother now, because her father didn't seem too happy about the results.
A great father, slagging his wife off, horrible man, full of himself, he’s brought up his daughters and constantly telling her she’s not his daughter, how do you do that, to your child, wicked man. Wicked. A braggart and a man that who thinks every women’s having an affair, around every corner.
Third case: First of all, the daughter looks like the man. And the mailman story sounds nutty. There was the milkman too, maybe we can get the plumber, the electrician, the cable guy, someone at the carwash, the cashier at the drugstore. I just think the man can't get over his former wife's infidelity. Second, my father had brown eyes, my mother had hazel eyes. They had five children: oldest two with blue eyes, third with hazel eyes, youngest two with brown eyes. So a father with brown eyes can have children with blue eyes.
My husband was a mailman for 26 years. The stories" Your dad was the mailmans" and a few decades earlier it was the milkman ( as I'm writing this the milkman was mentioned lol) I used to resent the mailman scenario but it was just a saying... Stay safe out there 🙏
Yup and being a person with Hazel eyes I learned that hazel eyes come from someone with blue eyes and someone with brown eyes. My son who has brown eyes and is Hispanic had three children with two different 100% Hispanic ladies with brown eyes whose family generations back have brown eyes and all three children have blue eyes. The only other person that has blue eyes is my father.
@@RindaJane I am a Search Angel and I have recently helped a lady find her grandmother's biological father. The silly roomers of "she was the mailman's baby" flew around in this situation. It turns out she was the mailman's baby. It happened before either party was married. The mother married another man after the baby was born and he adopted her. It was kept a secret who the real father was but the child knew the adopted father was not her real father.
Two brown eyed parents can have a blue eyed child, because everyone has a recessive blue eyed gene, but two blue-eyed parents can't have a brown eyed child.
2nd case was wild. The younger sister was projecting when she shouldn’t, like why would something your parent did for your sister LONG time ago gets you this defensive when it wasn’t about you nor knowing the truth wouldn’t affect your older sister in any negative way, conversely it would help her a lot…. She shouldn’t defend her mom either cause if it’s proven to be true then what?
2nd case The sister should've supported her eldest sister because she didn't know the whole truth about their parents. Parents tend to hide or keep secrets from their children thinking whether it's for the best of their children or their own.
In case 1. the devoted young mother's been keeping her baby from his father & family. Meanwhile, the father's mom publicly states she's "promiscuous," which isn't nice to say & wrongfully suggests the child is not her son's baby. But we can see the son knows the child is his, but he respects his mom & is going along with his overpowering mother. She should respect HIS CHOICE of mate, & know he loves qualities in his baby's mother that he loves about his own mother. He wants to be able to love his baby & his baby's mother too, without his own mom's unhelpful disapproval. She should let go the reins & enjoy being a grandmother. Both parties have 2 silly habits in one: 1: They Give In To Their Impulses 2: to Talk over Each Other. Everyone's saying something but no one is heard. They really should attend group counseling together, work on Listening, & practice each taking a turn to speak. "We have 2 ears but only 1 mouth, so that we can listen more & speak less." The young gentleman on the stand - he is confident he's not the real father, clearly states why & his paternity test underlines that he's 100% correct. They drag him in there, & he added a touch of humor to the situation & the judge scolded him, but he's honest, & with his calm & confident easygoing manner, he'll be such a great father someday. *final note: each family member needs to firmly make up their mind to only speak goodness of each other. It is a good discipline to speak only well of others, & builds each other up.
It's funny how some of the girls and women come on the show like they are girls scouts honor blaming the man for anything but they know they were out there and don't want to own up to it publicly.
Second case, listening to these three people talk just reminds of my grandparents and my aunts, so as a fellow ohio dweller this made me feel like I was home again
@@OSMRDucksLIB what's understood doesn't need to be explained. My point had more to do with her mentioning her mom forbidding her from having a cellphone. That was the least of her worries.
I would be very careful how I interact with tyjuan and his mother. Both took pains to try to smear your character. Be very careful they don't take your child. Seek legal help. I would personally financially help you.
They are so immature. You can not keep a baby from a man that wants to be in his babies life. Period. Talking about I didnt give the baby his last name because we are not married , LOL you shouldn't have made a baby with someone that you are not married to if that is your standard...smh the judge should have told the mothers to sit down , they wanted to be adults when they made the baby but BOTH need mommy to defend them when it comes to court for the baby. the alleged father is cocky too cocky AND immature. bad mix.
Judge courtroom isn't a place for theatrics, some cases you need not to dwell into too much details. Just give people their results and their move along!!!!
I see most of us are saying the same thing. I don’t understand why the sister was so angry and controlling. She thinks she’s better than her sister because of her drug problem. Her sister looks like her dad with a dress on. The test was unnecessary.
2 case : the sister was young when her mom died so it’s likely she has a positive view of her mother and sees this as damaging to her mother’s reputation.
Im canadian & I never got my childs birth certificate until he was 18. I only recieved a birth registration card because i had no money being on disability. Father had no part in raising our disabled child. Our courts do force the father to pay support if youre on welfare or disability.
That first case, she knew he was the father that's why she didn't want him to sign the birth certificate. He also knew he was the father 🙄 they playin custody games SMH the child is the one who loses out 😠😠
