A Preggo Faith Jenkins Exclusive Warning Singles Not to Settle | Dear Future Wifey S6, E604 

People have made marriage an idol. I’m 38. Not married. No kids. Content and happy and people are often times very bothered by it because they expect me to be miserable. Marriage is not a life goal for me. If it happens it will be a God thing.

“Your good news will always be a threat to an insecure person.” ~Faith~

I really do pray people understand it’s better to be alone than be with the wrong person. 1:03:56

"Do not take criticism from people you don't take advice from" 🙌🏿

"I would rather be single and adopt a child, than have a child with a husband I wasn't suppose to marry". Wooow 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I travelled to Paris and Lisbon by myself as a single lady. Best days ever!!!! I travelled to The Algarve with my 5 year old daughter as a single mum. Best days ever!!! My fiance and I met at a friend's wedding. My daughter and I were living our best life, even at the wedding. My fiance told the groom, days after the wedding, he would marry me. We hit off this peaceful, beautiful connection right away. The rest is history. God is the foundation of us. This is a new experience for me. Live your best life in all seasons.

She is the example of the importance of spending your single life "living" instead of "waiting". This is EXACTLY where I am now. Not one tear I've cried, negative encounter I've experienced or moment of my life will be wasted. Glory to GOD!

“You cannot be a cynic about love and attract it at the same time.” Faith Jenkins-Lattimore 🙌🏽 💯 Words & thoughts create our realities. If you want a Loving relationship, claim it, speak it, believe it!! No “but’s”, “and’s”, or “if’s.”

“ if someone likes you, you’ll know it, if not you’ll be confused. 🤯 WOW 😮that’s good

"He's one of the best human beings I know"....what an honor from a wife.

I think the biggest Gem dropped here is when she said she stopped holding on and completely trusted God with her desire..and she was willing to give up on that desire if God said so...She stopped trying to do it on her own went abt life and God came through for her, how much more would he do for you ❤❤

You're single until married. Don't glamorize married waiting and settle just because. Live while you live. If marriage happens, make sure it positively adds to your life. If marriage doesn't happen, keep positively adding to your life.

I'll be 40 in a few weeks. I've never been married. I don't have any children. God has blessed me with a great career, and I'm blessed to have a spiritual relationship with Him. Similarly, I get asked the same questions. Why are you not married? Why don't you have any children? This video further confirms don't let it discourage me, and definitely a reminder not to just settle. I'm attracting a God-ordained centered relationship/marriage. I've got the book and can't wait to read it. Continual blessings to you both.

Not a bachelors party but words of affirmation party…. Lord this podcast blessed me…. 🗣️There is not a shortage of Godly men

She said "Do not take criticism from people you don't take advice from."!!! 🔥🔥🔥

"Sis, Don't Settle" is a FANTASTIC book, relevant for women of all ages and stages of dating. Well done, Faith!

I've been through so much as a woman. Abuse in all forms.. Mental, physical, sexual financial and spiritual abuse. I had to heal myself in all those forms. I thank God for keeping me. I will not settle. ❤

That dang on time frame we put on ourselves as single folks 🙄.... I've passed all of my time frames🫣. Still no children, no husband, no white picket fence 😢 lol. I know God is working it all out in his timing, though! 🙏🏾 I will be patient because that blessing that's coming has to be something different 😁

Every time I think I’m just gonna hear some regular smegular, I’m abundantly blessed by the wisdom in this podcast. Thanks.

“Your good news will always be a threat to an insecure person” WOW!! I wrote that down

It gave me chills when God told the pastor that Faith & Kenny would be perfect for each other

This was so encouraging. Almost 40 single & african, the pressure is so much from all angles. God hear my prayer, remember me🤎🙏🏽

"Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional...Radical acceptance." Wow ❣️✋️

I absolutely loved how Faith honored her Husband by sharing how blessed she is in marriage with a Man of Character,Integrity, and the handling/care of others.

Somebody pass this woman the offering plate!!!! SHES PREACHING!!!!! ❤❤❤

As a #BlackTherapist I recommended this book AND this episode of the podcast to some of my patients. This is so powerful. Transparency is the greatest thing we can give the world. I stand on that & will always heal, loudly. Thank you for this!!

Self love is everything! The looks I get when I date myself 🤦🏾‍♀️. I'm responsible for my smile

"Sow where you want to go, and sow where you want to grow." Double wow 👌. Ephesians 3:20, yes!

To hear a successful black woman like her say she had to “learn to love herself”, this really says a lot about her character and integrity as a black woman. I too had to learn to love myself and it makes a difference in your life choices. Thank you for sharing.

WOW! "Closed doors have the meaning you give to them" -Faith Jenkins Lattimore. This is powerful!

Every woman who is on the path to finding themselves with God, should definitely listen and rewatch this. You are not alone and it does not take anything away from you just because you’re in the limbo season. The best is yet to come!💫♥️

Her level of self-awareness is GOAT level. I know her husband is blessed. Listening to this one was kinda therapeutical for me. Thanks for doing these podcasts. I really love hearing these different perspectives and I'm learning a lot. Thank you for your heart in this too! You're future wife is going to be blessed.

What a blessing hearing from Judge Faith! I'm 48 and single,no kids so Lord knows I've gotten asked "those annoying questions " all the time. I refuse to settle. I can totally relate to everything she was saying. I'll continue to wait until God sends the right one! I needed this encouragement . Hopefully my king will find me soon because the dating pool sucks.

What a beautiful, classy, intelligent and uplifting Black woman. I admired her as a young Black judge but after seeing her on this platform and speaking her truth, makes me admire her even more. I truly wish Faith and Kenny a beautiful healthy baby and a long, strong, loving and healthy marriage. I haven't had the opportunity to read her book but it will be one of my books to read for the New Year!!!

"It's easy to treat people well when things are going good. You want to know the true character of a person, how do they treat you (and other people) when things are not going well?" --Faith Jenkins @37:10

She is 1 Million times correct, Laterras' transparency and vulnerability is very attractive! Keep it LIT!!!

I kid u not guys. Took her book with me to read on a flight and after the foreword/intro I had a gut reaction that the relationship I was in would not survive. I read the book all the way to my destination and within 1-2 days, I was able to see with full clarity who the guy I was with was. He acted up and unlike all the other times he acted up, this time I heard Faith in my ears. That relationship ended before my 4 day trip could wrap up. Never spoke with him again…it’s been tough tho but I’m not settling for crumbs and hope. I credit Faith for helping me walk away.

This episode was a WORD within itself!!! I do not need to keep waiting around for someone that isn't 100% ready to move forward with me. I need to INVEST in myself more and allow God to do the rest, because he has the BEST in store for me!!!

whew as a 30 year old who is been chronically single i can appreciate her words so much

This has really blessed my heart. I’m a high achieving woman I got the great job the house the car daughter is grown and gone but I have been unsuccessful in love. Listening to this podcast changed my trajectory of thinking. I pray over every single man and woman that God will give you the love and peace that you desire and May God bless you all!!!

So many of us went through our youth navigating relationships with zero guidance. So happy for the younger generation. I also had fun in Paris alone. It was magical

This episode was SOOOOO needed for me right now!! I have been "sad" during this dating season of my life. It's the holidays and I've NEVER been single SINGLE. Like phone dry and no one to hug 😔 but I know that I must stand firm on what I truly desire so this episode gave me Hope. Thank you Judge Faith!!

She had me emotional, & I don’t have pregnancy as an excuse lol. Such a sweet and encouraging love story! Wishing them abundant blessings!🥹💙

I love what she said: it ain't fair nor possible to put the responsability of MY happiness on somebody else's hands @41:58 I felt same at that moment Loved that they did a word a affirmation ceremony wow Been single & celibate since 2016, this podcast uplifts and helps me. Could you please have @MsNaturallyMary and her hubby she'd be perfect on the show!

This is one of the best episodes ever!!! Faith's testimony is such a blessing to us single girls that are waiting on the Lord. Her honesty and vulnerability and faith is soo encouraging!!

All I can say is this is a God ordained prophetic channel, which gives a timely word with precision and accuracy which reflects the heart of Jesus through His love and grace. I'm honored to encounter such a divine ministry that God has graced you with, thank you for consistently responding to your calling Latteras 🙌🏾

Listen!!! Your wife is watching this show!! NO DOUBT! The lord will appoint both of you in the right timing! Keep stepping into what the lord has for you ❤

I can totally relate to what she is saying, throughout my 20’s I enjoyed dating and thought marriage would come eventually, it wasn’t until I graduated from college and well into my career everyone around me was asking “when are you getting married?” “when are you going to start having babies you know you’re not getting any younger?” that’s when I started getting anxious and feeling inadequate. I’ve been married for 14 years now, and one thing I’ve learned is everybody isn’t meant to be married we can be our best selves on our own, marriage isn’t a milestone we all have to reach, it is a beautiful union but its hard work even with the most stable relationship. If I could go back to my 20 year old self I would tell her not to listen to people and stress over getting married.

I showed up late to the party (2023) and trying to binge watch all the previous episodes that were produced. However, the nuggets obtained in these episodes can't be rushed through. I need time to let it all sink in. I'm so grateful for this platform and all the care that goes into each one. Kudos to you 👏🏽

WOW, this is a Godsend!! I had just been journaling my frustrations and disappointments about not being in a relationship right now. God woke me up last night with encouragement and now this podcast Faith ministered life into dead places in me. I immediately purchased the book! I'll keep pressing on in prayer and faith. Blessings from the Netherlands!

This woman is a well of wisdom knowledge rightly applied.. She absolutely hasn't taken her experiences for granted.

I’m not single but her testimony has me thinking of my 6yr old daughter. Ordering her book to gift to my daughter for when she’s in that season of her life.

This was beautiful. I am 50+ and Faith just dropped gems of life and it has given me courage/ strength to stay true to myself. It's worth staying the course and not settling. God bless everyone for 2023.🤗👏👏👏

Amen. All break ups and rejection is not about us. I held on to a relationship for 18 years. I knew he didn’t want me like I wanted him but I didn’t want start over. Eventually I walked away. Shocked him. Not sure why he was shocked. First I was resentful because when I met him I could still have children. Now I’m past that stage. I am traveling now and enjoying me. I found that I am the best date I know.

⭐️This episode has answered soooooo many of my being single questions. I’ve followed faith from judge faith all the way to divorce court but never have I received as much enlightenment as I did from her right now. You hear people say all the time to be your own happiness and date your self but they never tell you how. I write down affirmations until im blue in the face because im big on law of attraction and keeping my vibrations high because you attract the people who are on your same vibration. I know this. But Faith…. This was so detailed that I feel like I was supposed to pay for listening to you drop these gems. I just cleaned out my walk in closet and was wondering what to do with all the extra wall space. Now i see why i was driven to clean it this morning… it’s because I am going to put a picture up of you, kenny and your story as a reminder that finding someone just as healthy as me is out there. Im buying your book just as a thank you. My daughters dad was killed when she was 5 days old, this was 10 years ago. She has never seen me in a relationship because I haven’t found anyone in a good place. I don’t want my daughter growing up up not knowing how a man should treat a woman and you made me feel better about having standards. Crazy how you’ve changed my life and you don’t even know it. -Natalya Bonhomme

Don't settle. Those red flags become a whole mess in forever. A whole 24/7 mess. When you feel yourself settling, remember God doesn't do "good-enough." God's best for you is coming.

I love Faith ❤️ Her energy, her wisdom, her spirit, she is an amazing woman. This interview blessed me. Thanks so much for doing this 🙌🏽

The way that Faith spoke on paying attention to actions more than words is the way I wanted my mother to speak with me. It was lovingly direct. It empowered me!🧡

Faith’s personality and delivery are both so refreshing and life-giving. This was my pleasure to enjoy. Thank you Faith for demonstrating what a person can expect and actually have when you choose not to settle. Now, I have to go get the book! 😁

"I won't settle" 👏🏿❤️ I went straight to audible. This episode was timely as well!

I agree because I had to learn in my life not to wait on my husband at the time to make me happy and do things with! You’re spot on with the title and topics, I settled for 25 years and we never became one so I took a leap of faith and walked away from it. I’m more happier alone then I was while married. I have peace that I will not compromise with no one or nothing.

Faith looks sooo beautiful, she is glowing!!! But I do believe that is how God meant for marriage to be. It should be fruitful within your union and then it will overflow into your friends & your communities life!! Keep sowing where you wanna go & grow!

This is so encouraging, the fact alone, that she's 45 and pregnant! We are so much looking forward to the Lord blessing us with children. I am high-key encouraged! (And I'm also working in the legal field.). Thank You and stay blessed! Emily from Budapest Hungary

I am glad to listen to this because it reminded me that there is nothing wrong with me being single at 43, do not settle lady. God will bring someone made for you because wow the dating streets have taught us a lot.

Laterras, I pray you find your Wifey. You're truly a man with purpose and heart. And as a woman, I appreciate your transparency.

"Do not take criticism from people you don' take advice from"....... Deep!!!!

I'm 36. Single without kids and I can definitely relate to this.

I LOVE this: Especially when see broken down their.. 1. Patterns 2. She said If they like you, you will know. If they don't, you will be confused 🎯. I know the devil will send you, your type but God will send you His Will. I'm not getting Wet in a storm that's not mine. I'll pass. I won't settle. God timing, God's will. Laterras another Great Episode. Thank you Faith. Ordered my book and audiobook download today.🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼 Congratulations 🎉🎊🤗

I have the book and bought it last year as Christmas gifts for friends that were in or not in relationships. Hearing Faith talk about her book in her own voice was even more powerful. I have been through it all like most and have not given up on finding my husband. Laterras, thank you for this platform for men/women to see it is okay to be vulnerable and get knowledge on things that may not feel comfortable in talking to their "friends". Faith, I am sooooo happy for you and thank you for this book.

I loved this episode. I'm a 36 year old single mother and God has blessed me with a career I've always prayed for. I've been told to diminish myself so that I will not scare any potential boyfriends away. Though I want to be a wife one day, in this season I am traveling as much as I can and pursuing a relationship with God and being the kind of woman I can be proud of. This episode really is an affirmation to keep doing what I'm doing.

Whew! Closed doors have the meaning you give to them. 👏🏿

I will not settle, is my motto 😇

I can open a jewelry store with all of the jewels she dropped!!! Faith, thank you! Allow God to continue to use you. We need our sistas to help with the next generation. This blessed me. It is one of my favorite episodes.

So much wisdom in this interview. Some nuggets “ Your good news will always be a threat to an insecure person” “You will not find someone in a happy healthy fulfilled place in their life telling you that you’re going to fail at something” Consider the source… “ do not take criticism from someone who you wouldn’t take advice from… damaged dreamers are not telling you your story, they’re telling you theirs” they speak from a place of their trauma or pain not from a place of what’s possible for you . With God ALL things are possible

Send a clear message to the universe about what you want. In the meantime, appreciate your single life, continue to love and don't settle. Thank you Judge Faith!🥰

53, single, no kids and you're right, I have more internal AND external peace when I'm not dating.

For a woman to say she was ready to adopt vs. having children with a man that was not meant for her. That is real radical acceptance, and leaning on faith. I’m going to check out this book

The great thing that stands out to me is through her rejection and relationship journeys, she did not say anything about “ forget this men” “ I can do this by myself “. She was comfortable with herself but knew her desires ❤

I really resonate with Faith. She's a clear speaker and introspective thinker. I have her book on audible. It's good!

I love Faith. She is my inspiration not to give up on love and to never settle ❤🙏🏾

I have downloaded Faith's book, and it is a game-changer! I had the audio version on repeat everywhere I went, lol. It's like a close friend talking to you; when she shares her journey and wisdom. 🙏🏾❤ Laterras, you are knocking it out of the ballpark with interviews this year. God bless you, your family, and your vision. We appreciate you!

You can not be cynical about love and attract it! 🙏🏽

This podcast has restored my belief that there is a whole world of y’all out there.

Beautiful , intelligent, lovely Judge Faith ! I did read the book last year & it definitely helped me feel secure in my singleness , bc society tends to stigmatize singleness at a certain age (43) as if there’s something wrong . But In my reality there’s something very right in me choosing to embrace the season I’m in . Love this episode !

I think that it's so cool that she was the recipient of Prayers that had been prayed for him😁

Omg I wish this book was out when I was young. I am now 64 and been through enough bad relationships. Saw all the signs of a non committed relationships. I am buying Faith book and will share🌹

Another great one. Be your own cheerleaders in your relationships and marriages. Iron sharpens iron. Faith and Kenny’s marriage is and will continue to be just fine. What a blessing their child will be born into and have the joy of living under. Laterras…she’s on the way and I couldn’t be happier for you. Blessings to all of you.

Faith's book was a blessing to me. All single women need to read it.

I went over to Kindle and bought the book before this spectacular, educational, inspiring, life-affirming podcast ended. Woo! This was a blessing. I watched Kenny Lattimore's episode earlier today and Faith's is the icing on the cake. Getting both of their perspectives on their journeys is incredible! I admire the way Kenny and Faith carry themselves. You see why they're together. I pray they have a healthy, lifelong union and safe, smooth delivery of their baby.

Wow, I accidentally stumbled onto this podcast, I’m listening to it, it’s 02:30am in the morning and I just can’t stop listening to this. This was very encouraging and what particularly encouraged me was the fact that a beautiful accomplished woman in her career puts the word of God centre of her life and as always, God does not disappoint. I tap into this testimony and blessing in Jesus name. In the meantime, I’m going onto Amazon right now to order the hard copy book. So inspiring

Loved this interview! I didn’t know much about Faith but so happy to see she is a woman of God! May the Most High bless her marriage abundantly ❤️

She's not advocating marriage for everyone. In fact, if you listen to this video, she talks about being content about being single. But marriage is something she wanted, and she talks about her journey to a great marriage.

Faith seems to have a beautiful spirit. I pray that Jesus bless her and her family with everything that He has for them!

I’m crying during this interview- this woman is speaking the facts of my life and desires of my heart ❤️

I love Judge Faith! I will not settle. I'm 43, never been married, no kids( hope to have some one day with my future hubby). I choose to wait on God but in my waiting I'm enjoying my singleness. I ended a 3.5 year relationship with a Narrcicisst whom I had known well over 10 years before we started dating. Healing from that definitely wasn't easy but it has truly been worth it. My peace, my joy, my relationship with God, breaking generational curses was worth all the hell I went through to becoming a whole woman again. My standards are high and I will not settle for anything or anyone less than God's best for me. I just purchased her book and can't wait to dive in. Thank you for this podcast, you are blessing so many of us 🙏🏾🙌🏾💙.

Bro!! This was so necessary. So equipping, so healing and so freeing. From the very on set when she said you don't start over but you're starting from experience. Shackles came right off. Thank you, Mrs. Lattimore ❤

This interview was so refreshing! It gave me another boost of energy and hope to continue on this single journey in confidence that I will cross paths with my boo very soon.

Never seen this podcast. Glad Judge Faith was my 1st. This was absolutely beautiful! She preached! Almost had me cut a step @ work & definitely had me tear up. Congratulations on new baby Faith! May your marriage & family be blessed! 💕

I'm a guy who purchased this book over a year ago. It's very eye opening about human behavior in dating and how you should cultivate your own self love so that you can attract the love that you desire. Excellent job Judge Faith. This podcast was excellent as well. 💪🏾💪🏾

Best book I have ever read, all the way from Nairobi, Kenya. It's such a blessing to have women like Faith write such content. Am glad that through her book I found this community.