Bestie girl one thing I can say you and your husband are young but yall are wise wayyyyyy beyond yall years....yall were raised right!!!! Protect your home, marriage, children and peace at all cost! Your feelings are totally valid and i love the fact that your husband spoke up on your behalf and that you decided to share it on your platform. These young folks(some old too) need to see what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like. Shy people dont walk around anywhere judge other peoples homes half naked! And the friend obviously have some wool over his eyes cause how as a man you dont see that as a disrespect to you sir? Shut them demons down with the quickness girl and now that its over yall are praying people so chile just pray for their deliverance.
I would never walk around somebody else’s house cheeks out. That’s crazy as hell. That curly side part is EVERYTHING on you. You’re so blessed to have the village and family you do! I feel you about like minded people. Imagine having to date in this climate 😩
The incident gave major Playas Club vibes. The audacity to walk around in panties or short shorts where it looks like you have no bottoms is absolutely unacceptable. A hotel would’ve been found because me not having peace in my house is non-negotiable.
Zariaaaaaa! I’m about to be 42 and I thoroughly enjoy your content. 1. I absolutely love what you and your husband have built and that you guys are intentional about maintaining it. To be homeowners at your ages, is a beautiful thing. 2. I know the escrow situation was frustrating, but praise God that you guys were able to handle it, because there are definitely worse problems to have. I suggest after the balance has been satisfied, to continue to put that $400 to the side for another 6 months if you can. 3. Your feelings are ABSOLUTELY valid and justified when it came to that young lady. And I’m using the term ‘young lady’loosely. She was too shy to ask you for clothes, but NOT shy enough to walk around in her draws around your man in YOUR house?! Make it make sense? It was extremely distasteful AND disrespectful. I only wish you would have called her out as soon as you saw it. Great vlog as always!
One thing I’ve learned overtime is that you can’t teach class. There is no age limit on this statement. As a woman of the home you did the right thing. Your husband did right too for speaking up on your behalf. Happy home-warming.
The house warming party looked like it came out so good! I definitely agree I don’t think you’re wrong because yes 1 it’s your house and 2 it’s a respect thing and heavy on it ain’t give shy! I’m 24 and wouldn’t even fathom doing that!
🎉🎉Congratulations Your family is awesome. I am so proud of you and your husband. I am a Alabama girl too!! Born in Mobile. BS and Masters Degrees( Alabama State University) Montgomery. Retired and relocated to Huntsville,AL. Stay humble. Yes, surround yourselves with like minded people. Blessings!!😊😊
Girl I'm pissed off about your mortgage too! These increases are getting ridiculous out here, even apartments. You are definitely the host with the most! Such a thoughtful person 💕.
I love your home warming and the seeing the laughter/fun/memories with your family. May our Lord continue to bless and keep his love and arms around you and your family. Yessss, that girl is very disrespectful and untasteful as that's not your house to be walking around naked wtf, that's weird and no you did not do anything wrong at all and that's y'all house hold period and panties or shorts, you don't walk around others like that's at all......... I love you channel, energy, faith and content, I'm here for it always and keep up the good work and can't wait until the next vloggggg❤
It’s crazy how I blinked and I was 35 & still be remembering when my mama would say get out of grown folks face. With that being said, the generations that is coming is growing up nothing like how we grew up. To be so comfortable in someone house wearing close to nothing is disrespectful.
My sister-in-law does this dumb ish. At this point, she’s been told SEVERAL times that it’s disrespectful to the home especially when no one in the house dresses this way in the home. I’m sorry you experienced that. I’m glad you and your husband stood on BIG business.
I finally got to finish the end of the vlog!! I was always told if you are married don’t let no one who is SINGLE AROUND your man/house. Especially when you are just a baby mama and not a wife! So disrespectful to even think that was ok for you to walk around in yo panties!
Yea this is a very ignorant comment. You don’t know if that lady is single or not. And we don’t know if she had on panties or not. Like she said, the girl had on an oversized shirt so her bottoms were covered. I’m not sure what y’all think oversized means but common sense, her bottoms are covered. It’s screaming insecure.
@@Prettyface002-0 Yea something is wrong 😂 how is it giving insecure? When I said “Single” I was referring to her not being a married woman. In the video she clearly stated the girl butt cheeks was out to even know if she had on shorts/panties or not. COMMON SENSE would tell you to have bottoms on walking around someone husband let alone someone home. But like I said you never have a single female around your husband who you don’t know❤
With the CJs friend situation, it was disrespectful. But some people just wasn’t taught morals. If she was so comfortable doing that, it really hadn’t clicked that it was inappropriate. She’s been doing it for so long she thinks it’s the right thing to do. But, this was a learning experience for the both of them to come correct when they’re in people’s homes. Some folk just simply don’t know. The situation was everything you described. Now if she doesn’t have the courtesy to call you as a woman and apologize ✂️✂️✂️ them AWF 😂
I’m so glad the housewarming party turned out great sis! Congrats again on the house 😘 the whole situation with the panty girl is crazy 🙄 people are so weird! And I hate when people don’t see any wrong in crazy and weird stuff like that! Anyways, I’m in the same boat with finding married couple friends with the same values and goals as us. It’ll all work out though 😘 love you bestie girl!
Yessss ma'am let's get into ok 🙏🏾😇🙏🏾💙💙💙💙💙🫶🏾😇🫶🏾😇🤠👢 excited for the vlog sending prayers to cj for the New Job it's already done in the name of Jesus 🙏🏾😇
Hey Zaria! I’m glad you mentioned the All free & clear. I notice you buy a lot of smell goods. And most of us love smell goods in the home as well as laundry. However, I switched all my cleaning supplies, laundry detergent, dish soap, everything to clean & fragrance free as much as possible. I learned that most of all those things with fragrances & cleaning chemicals are so harmful to our health. So all the besties be mindful & try to swap out as much as you can. A lot of those things affect our health - asthma, cancers, headaches, etc.
Love loved the vlog !!! Glad y’all village showed up and showed out ❤ and girl I am with you on the respect piece! Like who would even think to walk around like that in someone else house especially when kids live there ! Like what
Hey girl hey I enjoyed the vlog per usual!!! I’m all for married couples with the same values…because you have to be careful what and who you allow in your arena!
That is bare foolishness Zaria respect and common since go along way and you are right don't let nobody disrespect what you prayer and hope for .......one love
Girl… love the theme & all the decor you did for the housewarming. Haven’t forgot about your wreath will have it out to you asap. Got some family things going on. You know RU-vid momma won’t forget. Always here to support. ❤ would love to see how you do your content planning.
Bestie, protect your home. That was mad disrespectful. Even if she didnt have clothes she could have went to walmart or sum and got sum cheap. Absolutely not. You did right friend. On another note, im so glad that the party was a success and us felt loved. Thats all that matters❤❤❤
Hi Zaria! Enjoy your vlogs & you have been coming through. Oh no,they didn't tell you about escrow.What a housewarming party,noone wanted to leave.The boys are so adorable,how did KoKo do with everyone around? Your village showed out for you &CJ,you were a great host! She knows better,some women don't care especially walking around your husband..You would be surprised how many might want your life! CJ handled it well to approach his friend. A great ending in the country,looks like you all had a blast!
Hey bestie , so excited to watch this vlog house warming party was litt ! & most definitely it all about respect with the friend thing yet along in somebody house you don’t know lord bless it 😂 house warming haul your family came through , im on the plug ins bad never tried the frabic spray definitely going to shop for some Nicole came thru with the box such a good thoughtful friend I buy the cozy comfort candle a lot from Walmart smells really goodt❤ girl when you said the “Weed Man” I was like what 😂 thought you was talking bout Mary Jane lmao
Zaria i love your content! You motivate and inspire me, i have been growing my channel for a while and due to my lack of consistency my channel is growing extremely slow... but you are so inspirational to me and everyone watching, we love you girl 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Giiiirl.i am.loving your hair ❤❤❤❤ at the end of the video!!! I absolutely love all your styles but the last part of the video i was like heeey now!!! Very beautiful
I completely understand the escrow situation!!! My mortgage payment went up $400 as well. I was in complete shock! Buying a home is a lovely process but tricky thing! Blessings to yall!!! Keep going ❤️
Girl glad you had an amazing turn out at your house warming party!!!!! And i completely agree with you about what that girl did. Unexeptable period!!! But keep shining girl ❤❤❤
Congratulations on a successful house warming! Your village showed up and showed out! With regards to the situation, you are 100% correct! It was distasteful on her (their) part.
Keep the vlogs coming! I pray God Gives you and your husband many years together. His friend’s bm was wrong for what she did! Disrespectful & distasteful
Hey gurl loved watching the housewarming party looked soo amazing. You are so right have a little coof thats what the older folks say. when Im visiting someone else home family or not i be overly dresses fuzzy socks and all. lol
You have an absolute right to feel how you feel, the both of them owe y’all an REAL apology, even after the apology, leave them right where they at! Nope… never again no more! Soooooo disrespectful!
Lolll girl, Kade was hot with you about turning that iPad down😂😂 but in all seriousness you have a beautiful family. Love watching your content bestie! 🩵 24:13
Yaayy🎉Congrats!!💃🏾Housewarming Success!! Cheers to you both and your village!!🤗Love this for you all♥️ Can't stand when folks do sh×t and then try to play dumb🙄You're better than me bestie cause they would've been waiting on that tire at the Holiday Inn Express🚮🚮 #hometraining The basics of respect!
Yeah girl i also think say with married couple but I’m single and your on the right page 😍still subscriber love you and family GODBLESSINGS BLESSINGS❤️✌🏽
Hi Zaria, that young lady definitely was disrespectful , whether she knew what she was doing or not. However, I have learned that there is no such thing as common sense only conversations. When you do not address issues when they arise, It allows situations to fester. This produces negativity and resentment. There was ample opportunity to address the issue with the young lady. Instead, you aired your frustrations with multiple people. I have been there it causes bitterness and frustration.❤
Both her and her man have no etiquette. It’s not how they feel it’s not their house. I’m glad you said something. Shy…..yeah. This story is crazy. You’re right for how you feel.
I worked with Mortgages Escrow if they are building or working on something construction and can increase. But if you guys want to add upgrades your equity can increase
