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A WOMAN MUST NEVER PURSUE A MAN by RC Blakes 

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In this video, RC Blakes discusses the negative effects of women aggressively pursuing men. He refers to this behavior as "the generation of broken consciousness" and states that it stems from a lack of self-awareness and understanding of one's worth. He argues that women who actively pursue men are devaluing themselves and making it harder to develop healthy, committed relationships. Blakes emphasizes that it is the man's role to pursue the woman, and when a woman takes on this role, it repels masculine men and attracts submissive ones. He advises women to let men take the lead and warns against misrepresenting their virtue and self-esteem through aggressive pursuit. He offers some remedies, such as being polite, well-groomed, and appearing interested when approached by men. Blakes stresses the importance of focusing on personal growth and purpose rather than desperately seeking a relationship. He ends by promoting his website, books, and mentoring program.
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@RCBlakesJr.
@RCBlakesJr. 3 года назад
Thank you for coming in today. Please 👍 share and comment. Thanks family!
@angeliagreen5859
@angeliagreen5859 3 года назад
💙💙💙💙
@karenelizabethpalmer4295
@karenelizabethpalmer4295 3 года назад
Dear Pastor Blake's,The Simplicity with your messages brings such Elasticity to the hearts of QUEENS.
@queenkathleensartin-greer439
@queenkathleensartin-greer439 3 года назад
I Appreciate You' Sharing this moment with Me' and My' Beautiful Daughters and Friends. GOD'S CONTINUEOUS BLESSINGS
@angeliagreen5859
@angeliagreen5859 3 года назад
@@ladysusanharris what are you saying?
@ladysusanharris
@ladysusanharris 3 года назад
@@angeliagreen5859 My apologies. Crazy phone🙂
@cathyzhang2769
@cathyzhang2769 Год назад
Never let a man tell you twice that he doesn't want you.
@ogagamedialogistics5816
@ogagamedialogistics5816 Год назад
He does even have to tell you once. Don't DO it.
@mimimi5140
@mimimi5140 Год назад
Ouch. I needed to see this
@sphinxkitty4951
@sphinxkitty4951 Год назад
I needed to hear this
@trishakaaay3720
@trishakaaay3720 Год назад
Amen … yes, I heard that from Judge Lynn Toler
@catyenmovimiento
@catyenmovimiento Год назад
I let him and I did pay the price, not anymore, now I know my worth.
@BELLASHOPEFORHEALINGPODCAST
@BELLASHOPEFORHEALINGPODCAST 3 года назад
My Grandmother, GOD rest her soul AlWAYS told me that when a Man is truly interested in you he will move mountains to get next to you. Sounded good to me...
@CathyLTate
@CathyLTate 3 года назад
AMEN
@eddielacrosse2
@eddielacrosse2 3 года назад
I'm sorry, but for me to move mountains for someone, I have to be passed for part where I am "chasing" her. If i am just getting to know someone, there isnt any reason to do any of that because the Woman has shown me that she deserves that.
@chumanyambe7449
@chumanyambe7449 3 года назад
100%!!!
@BeautyByBrigitte
@BeautyByBrigitte 3 года назад
Amen
@innocentlife2346
@innocentlife2346 3 года назад
@@eddielacrosse2 And if a woman is getting 2 knw of a man she jus met. Ain't no need of her holding convo about sex either until that man becomes her hubby, even deal. Amen Amen Amen🤗Now carry on Sir!👈
@nadinedaoud2538
@nadinedaoud2538 Год назад
Mothers please teach your daughters to NEVER chase a man !!! Absolutely TRUE ‼️‼️ My husband pursued me and we were married 22 years until his death. ❤️‍🩹
@Realtalkwithlin
@Realtalkwithlin Год назад
Does it mean don’t call him if he doesn’t call? Does it mean don’t tell him how much you love and miss him if he doesn’t? Thanks
@brindageorge701
@brindageorge701 Год назад
@@Realtalkwithlin Yes, child. Yes.
@hotstreak9805
@hotstreak9805 Год назад
I actually disagree with this, women are supposed to chase men.
@ms.gracefullybroken8724
@ms.gracefullybroken8724 Год назад
@@fonda7760 lol…maybe he just has a genuine interest sis
@cassandrafleming7123
@cassandrafleming7123 Год назад
I agree 100%, is your okay Nadine is it how you pronounce that yeah that's pretty that's correct and then another thing stop having these unexpectations unrealistic expectations of the man that loves you don't keep testing it why do you want him to be perfect nobody is but the man above that's sitting on the right hand of the father preparing a place for us to go back with him girl I got to make sure my name is in the Lambs Book of Life I can't miss that seat I don't understand these women I think most of the women that want a man to be perfect they like men and women they're bisexual and a majority of the time if a man is heterosexual he's completely straight he's really not going to take up serious interest in a woman that like men and women no once he discovered they like both and he's a real man and he like women only he's going to dissipate out that woman's life that like men and women why do you want men to be perfect hell if I was a man and some woman wanted me to be perfect or I would run run for the Hills why do you want him to be perfect he's human that's unrealistic I'm sure even the best of couples they don't have some kind of disagreement disagree to agree like meet your man halfway y'all can like compromise and meet somewhere in the middle that's a healthy relationship first and foremost know God love you love yourself and then it'll be safe to love somebody else why do you want a man to be perfect he's human those are unrealistic expectations expectations he you want him to be perfect hell you ain't or you wouldn't even be making a statement you wouldn't even post such
@honeybeematchmaking
@honeybeematchmaking Год назад
I used to chase men. One day I was running, with the intention of getting super skinny so a particular guy might be more interested in me (and I was pursuing him in other ways too), when I heard this voice say, "let them chase you". And I believe it was the voice of God. I stopped dead in my tracks and thought, "men would chase me??" I was confused as to why a man would chase me because my self-esteem was so low. Two babies to two different men later, and I am a single Mother who dated bums, clowns, and bullies. I am finally listening to the words I should have listened to long ago, "let them chase you". Instead of focusing on a particular man I am focusing on God and I am holding fast to accepting nothing less than a man of God who truly loves me and my daughter's. I have also realised the man I marry will love me for my heart much more than my appearance.
@makedagranger2417
@makedagranger2417 Год назад
So true. Trust me I know how u feel😌
@Kari_Michele
@Kari_Michele 6 месяцев назад
Yes ma’am 🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💗💗💗
@a_la_drinah
@a_la_drinah 5 месяцев назад
Use to be me
@reneecrotty6910
@reneecrotty6910 3 месяца назад
This sounds harsh but you need to put effort into your looks. Men are visual. Just do your best. Some makeup, pretty hair (biologically, men are attracted to clean LONG hair) and get a manicure or do your own in an elegant colour (not crazy blues or greens but pinks or reds)... He will love you for your soul but you must attact him first. ❤ Please PLEASE read the book that changed my life called "Not your mothers rules" by ellen fein and Sherrie Schneider. LIFE CHANGING.
@cletusthemysterious
@cletusthemysterious 3 месяца назад
@@tracysnipes2144 women degrade themselves
@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 3 года назад
"A woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her." ~ Maya Angelou. 🙏💝
@theonly1258
@theonly1258 3 года назад
Beautiful
@daisymarrero8404
@daisymarrero8404 3 года назад
Amen 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@cherryshyne29
@cherryshyne29 3 года назад
Lovely !
@anniewatts1879
@anniewatts1879 3 года назад
Amen 🙏🏽
@pepperpot979
@pepperpot979 3 года назад
Wow nicely put
@maleasamauro2818
@maleasamauro2818 2 года назад
A wise woman once told me, " how a man dates you, is how your marriage to him will be" I learned this truth.
@stepheessel6667
@stepheessel6667 2 года назад
Wow!
@hellhawk785
@hellhawk785 2 года назад
Amen
@Diligently2U
@Diligently2U 2 года назад
I like to look at the treatment of his Mother or the lack there of by the man I'm dating.
@mariadesol5821
@mariadesol5821 2 года назад
WOW!!! 💖💯💯💯SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO MY GRANDMA. SOUND ADVICE…. YOUNG GENERATION BETTER WISE UP AND LEARN LIKE WE DID. STAY BLESSED & GUIDED ALWAYS
@breenoele3532
@breenoele3532 2 года назад
Wise words never thought of it like that
@freespirit5904
@freespirit5904 10 месяцев назад
❤When a man sense that you are desperate or emotionally weak, they manage and manipulate you and take advantage of you ❤
@GHO5tMod3
@GHO5tMod3 9 месяцев назад
Yes
@carleanbender3789
@carleanbender3789 9 месяцев назад
Amen
@meli7315
@meli7315 9 месяцев назад
Had this, seen this, survived it and helped other women.
@erinrockofficial
@erinrockofficial 7 месяцев назад
This is sad that men do this. They should be taught better than to do this
@user-pr8yj3pj4x
@user-pr8yj3pj4x 7 месяцев назад
Exactly
@mypassions8880
@mypassions8880 Год назад
OMG, THAT LINE RIGHT THERE!!! "... Any man that you have to pursue, AIN'T WORTH HAVING!"
@marshannajohnson8584
@marshannajohnson8584 Год назад
Lord He ain't never lied. I pursued my ex husband and regret it to this day. I should have left him where I saw him
@patriciaperkins247
@patriciaperkins247 Год назад
Thank you Bishop 🤎🙏
@tinyking11
@tinyking11 9 месяцев назад
Whew!! 💯🙌🏽🔥
@nkeirukaanyadufu3607
@nkeirukaanyadufu3607 7 месяцев назад
You can say that again 👌💯
@user-ml9mn5wh2f
@user-ml9mn5wh2f 6 месяцев назад
You all are too easy lol. Keep up that energy.
@avesc4826
@avesc4826 3 года назад
"Any man you have to pursue, ain't worth having!" Period.
@daghettogandhi7242
@daghettogandhi7242 3 года назад
LOUDER
@brandonayyye3487
@brandonayyye3487 3 года назад
I think great men are more focused on pursuing their goals rather than a relationship. So if you want a great man you may need to pursue him or put yourself in his life. But if you want an average man he’ll pursue you and when he gets you he has no more goals or ambition because he got his “prize”
@jerseysteelfitness6927
@jerseysteelfitness6927 3 года назад
yet they all pursue the top 20%
@daghettogandhi7242
@daghettogandhi7242 3 года назад
@@jerseysteelfitness6927 go to bed.
@jovankrstic250
@jovankrstic250 3 года назад
@@brandonayyye3487 if he needs to be pursued, he is surely not a great man😂
@katkat-fm3wj
@katkat-fm3wj 2 года назад
If I have to pursue a man, then he's not from God.
@kateoloughlin8774
@kateoloughlin8774 2 года назад
Greetings from Ireland. Words of wisdom to live by. Never cast your Perils before swine. Kind regards Kate. 👱‍♀️💕
@jofreeman3611
@jofreeman3611 2 года назад
I like your answer. Thank you. I needed to hear that. 🙋🏾‍♀️I agree. Jo Ann👏🏾💝
@susanmccaw6047
@susanmccaw6047 2 года назад
Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@gabriellefinney4844
@gabriellefinney4844 2 года назад
Amen! Yes that's true
@glamgodess9643
@glamgodess9643 2 года назад
Amen
@santbr
@santbr 11 месяцев назад
"Any man you have to pursue, ain't worth having" Thank you pastor, I needed to hear these words today. God bless you! 🙏
@latonyapalm8676
@latonyapalm8676 10 месяцев назад
My Grandma taught me a Man Pursues and a woman CHOOSES!!! And this word just reminded me of the virtuous woman I am!!!! He just got blocked immediately!!!🙏🏾
@JulindaLeDee
@JulindaLeDee 3 года назад
My grandmother told me a woman is to be found. Never chase a man, he knows who he wants.
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 3 года назад
Grandma is right
@bln4772
@bln4772 3 года назад
Give grandma a 👊🏾 for me! 💯
@mercybanda4142
@mercybanda4142 3 года назад
Julinda, please ask our Grandma what kind of drink she loves . Everything on me her Granddaughter 😊😊😊😊😅😅 . Advice happily taken. Thanks Grandma
@rickytanner3
@rickytanner3 3 года назад
This is true. It’s not a woman’s place to chase. It’s a turn off.
@Abmarp
@Abmarp 3 года назад
Mhm
@beverleynicholls1271
@beverleynicholls1271 3 года назад
My Dad told me, A bird never lay her eggs on a tree branch, she always lay them in a nest. He told me to make sure the Man that comes in my life Married me first, put me in a house before l lay down with him. Thanks Dad RIP🙏🙏🙏
@mariami2670
@mariami2670 2 года назад
@richaispencer2925
@richaispencer2925 2 года назад
Your dad is super cool for this 🕊
@beverleynicholls1271
@beverleynicholls1271 2 года назад
@@richaispencer2925 Yes he was,thank you so much🙏🙏🙏❤
@darlynwong
@darlynwong 2 года назад
😘😘,
@darlynwong
@darlynwong 2 года назад
😘😘,
@keam2104
@keam2104 Год назад
I'm currently 17 yrs old, and I'm looking for the real definition of "healthy relationship" because my parents never showed/ taught it to me, thank you pastor Blake.
@IHavent82Day
@IHavent82Day Год назад
Wow, you’re doing awesome. I wish I had thought about this stuff at your age.
@elizabethwitt2621
@elizabethwitt2621 Год назад
The love of your life will lift you up and treasure you in good times and bad. You'll never have to wonder how they feel about you because they will make it a priority to show how much you mean to them. Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve.
@adnamahad5196
@adnamahad5196 Год назад
Dear the world we live in today is wicked be careful out there you seem intelligent cause you are here learning about self esteem which is great I wish you nothing but success love and happiness take care .
@daughteroftheking4629
@daughteroftheking4629 Год назад
When your relationship with Christ is healthy, then you will know! Seek him with all your heart, mind and soul. He will do the rest! God bless
@eve3363
@eve3363 Год назад
You should be focusing on school and not relationships.
@supernaturalvictorieswithsunny
Don’t worry, I won’t be pursuing any man at all! When he pursues righteously, I’ll respond righteously ❤
@supernaturalvictorieswithsunny
@@MB-iv4mq LMBO😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Stop it!!!!
@natural3362
@natural3362 11 месяцев назад
​@@MB-iv4mqladies. This is the type of man that should be avoided at all cost. If a man wants you to pursue him, he wants you harmed. Choose a man who loves women not men who are using women. When a man wants to be pursued, it means he doesn't want you and he is using you and he will dump you for a woman he finds attractive. This type of man is no one's father or husband. They are destined for singleness
@joanwilliams9928
@joanwilliams9928 3 года назад
If you carry yourself as the Queen that you are, you’ll attract Kings. Peace. ✌🏾
@yolandazhong845
@yolandazhong845 3 года назад
period!
@AmberSumerall
@AmberSumerall 3 года назад
Gotta look like one as well. That’s always a plus.
@celesteking1997
@celesteking1997 3 года назад
True!!!!!!!!!!
@justamanda8284
@justamanda8284 3 года назад
Just three years ago, I was out with this happily married could of 30 years, the man told me what you just said, word for word. :)
@UnfilteredBaldiChronicles
@UnfilteredBaldiChronicles 3 года назад
Not always true!! You can carry yourself like a Queen and the tigers will come. But you gotta know what cage to play in.
@sondragooden8647
@sondragooden8647 3 года назад
The man God has for you will come and find you
@thejogayogafiles
@thejogayogafiles 3 года назад
Yep. Enjoy being single while it lasts.
@2thankfulnGrateful
@2thankfulnGrateful 3 года назад
AMEN!
@everydaistyle
@everydaistyle 3 года назад
You said what you said pastor!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🗣🗣🗣
@GLeon-ov9yu
@GLeon-ov9yu 3 года назад
Amen but Im 52 & never married. Still waiting.
@honeybee2193
@honeybee2193 3 года назад
@@GLeon-ov9yu he will show up when you least expect it! Be blessed!
@michellebrown3632
@michellebrown3632 10 месяцев назад
I really needed to hear this… I found myself falling into the trap of going after men when they truly didn’t want me in the first place. They love the idea that I had all the traits of a wife… I cook, I keep a clean house, I don’t have kids, I can sew… but they don’t find it necessary to commit to me. I have to take it back to God and remember my worth.
@camille4118
@camille4118 Год назад
I’m Jewish woman but I’m going to continue listening to these videos because they are extremely helpful and this is a lot of good spiritual advice regardless if I’m not a Christian. Much respect, this type of voice is heavily needed especially in this generation.
@gracewahu8741
@gracewahu8741 Год назад
Shalom.
@annjones2945
@annjones2945 Год назад
😌🔥
@TheBthebabe
@TheBthebabe Год назад
Absolutely. The teaching of Jesus are life-changing, in a positive way. Then a relationship with Jesus has been my saving grace.
@brindageorge701
@brindageorge701 Год назад
No matter ethnicity or religion, these are truths that go back to Genesis, the dawn of time.
@Samara077
@Samara077 Год назад
@@TheBthebabe definitely I agree , especially when my father doesn’t really talk to me about this
@eleganttammyh4465
@eleganttammyh4465 3 года назад
Lord I don’t know what is going on with woman asking men to marry them… I’d rather count every grain of sand on a beach before I do that…😒
@marysmith861
@marysmith861 3 года назад
Your comment made me laugh. It makes me sick seeing a woman asking a man to marry her. Talk about desperation.
@tommyvizrima4443
@tommyvizrima4443 3 года назад
It's easy to understand. If the women us sleeping with the man for any length of time, her power base has gone (or should I rephrase to say both of their virtual bases have been compromised). Personally, at that time, I don't think it really matters who does to the asking, because 'tings garn bad aready' ... Yep my origins are JA!
@YulondaDuncan
@YulondaDuncan 3 года назад
ROTFL
@thatgirl1021
@thatgirl1021 3 года назад
YES
@meggykarimi9982
@meggykarimi9982 3 года назад
Hahahahhaha
@BlairDevonte
@BlairDevonte 3 года назад
“If you work on finding yourself, you will be healthy enough to be found by someone else.” - AMEN!!✨🙌🏽👏🏽 So good.
@Jenavee26
@Jenavee26 3 года назад
This! I was gonna quote it myself lol 💕
@janellamurphy5665
@janellamurphy5665 3 года назад
REAL TALK!!!!!! SIS.
@biblequeen4sure823
@biblequeen4sure823 3 года назад
Good analogue.
@carolynfrink5569
@carolynfrink5569 3 года назад
My God today! Screaming PREACH!
@brittanyb5942
@brittanyb5942 3 года назад
Powerful!!!
@mariah3654
@mariah3654 Год назад
"Any man you have to pursue ain't worth having." 💥 BOOM 💥
@gloriamariadc7757
@gloriamariadc7757 10 месяцев назад
1- Be polite. 2- Be well groomed. 3- Appear interested, when a person is interested in u.
@tdibetso8853
@tdibetso8853 3 года назад
'If you push him into a relationship, you'll have to push him through the relationship!'- Ps Rob (From one of his other videos)
@monajora1733
@monajora1733 3 года назад
Soooooo true 👍
@LovettbalngoodsLLC
@LovettbalngoodsLLC 3 года назад
And vise Versa. If both just was there for fun and Sex. And then want to make a relationship out of it. And move in fast and it doesn’t work.
@sunshinealways1350
@sunshinealways1350 3 года назад
I did that exact thing 35 years ago. We are still together. I am the initiator. I am exhausted and his life has been a breeze.
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 3 года назад
Fact
@leinafrancois7397
@leinafrancois7397 3 года назад
Your messages are true masterpieces , and today this one resonates to me. I praise God for giving you the key of discovering women hearts and discerning their minds. These teachings have been shedding lights over my life.I love your character and cannot thank you enough for answering God's call , devoting yourself to the knowledge that brings eternal encouragement to women in the pursuit of happiness. Thank you my pastor cause you are now , my loving pop and my cherish leader. Thanks to your lovely wife who accepts to share you with we women out there.We absolutely need these teachings of discovering ourselves as women.Thank you!
@sondragooden8647
@sondragooden8647 3 года назад
Let the man lead in the beginning so he will lead at all times.
@geo.na_824
@geo.na_824 3 года назад
But feminine man are very emotional they are good conversationalist and you can connect with them deeply no? Masculine man doesn’t love talking and they have difficulty to open and express their emotions
@geo.na_824
@geo.na_824 3 года назад
@Just Michelle interesting perspective. I agree on that they are doble minded and they can’t make a decision. It is very hard to rely on them. I am married for 13 years to very masculine energy man and sometimes I wish he has that Devine masculine in him but he doesn’t. So I wish he was a little bit more feminine side to better connect. It’s not like a masculine man is an ideal man. I would say the ideal man is a masculine man who has worked with himself to balance both energies masculine and feminine but such a man are very rare I think.
@sg5720
@sg5720 3 года назад
@@geo.na_824 then those masculine men that say they masculine are really not- they just weak men not understanding who they really are. A real man will tell you exactly how they “feel” 🤷🏽‍♀️
@sg5720
@sg5720 3 года назад
@Just Michelle those are the “modern men” you speaking on.
@geo.na_824
@geo.na_824 3 года назад
@@sg5720 yes I feel you. Some man has a complex of not being man enough or masculine enough they try to mimic other masculine guys but deep down they are insecure.
@michelleelfazzate178
@michelleelfazzate178 Год назад
In nature you never find the female chasing the male they have to work hard to impress her, another great video 🙏
@anapetela3509
@anapetela3509 8 месяцев назад
When I was 12, my Dad told me "Never tell a boy you like him". I obeyed my father without question. Thanks to him, I've never chased a man.
@lindasimyu6414
@lindasimyu6414 3 года назад
A woman looks beautiful when she is being pursued. I know my worth and most men don't like that. They like it when you settle. I will never lower my standards for anyone.
@josee-mariehowman5234
@josee-mariehowman5234 3 года назад
Good on you girl Don’t settle for less !!! 🙏
@lindasimyu6414
@lindasimyu6414 3 года назад
@@josee-mariehowman5234 I won't, I am of great value and God created me for a great purpose. Mishandling and misusing a woman is not part of it.
@BeautyByBrigitte
@BeautyByBrigitte 3 года назад
Amen
@jesussaves2822
@jesussaves2822 3 года назад
Amen Linda. You go girl!
@michellesavage8437
@michellesavage8437 3 года назад
Facts
@bellydanza85
@bellydanza85 2 года назад
“You were so desperate for a man, that you did his job for him.”
@angeliqueesprit8674
@angeliqueesprit8674 2 года назад
Well said👏🏽
@ericbreaux6124
@ericbreaux6124 2 года назад
There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another person.
@sunshine9426
@sunshine9426 2 года назад
you said the correct word, "DESPERATE!" Chilling just hearing it said! 😱😵😌😂🌞
@CharloCrossley
@CharloCrossley 2 года назад
@@ericbreaux6124 you know that's true what you said but actually men are designed to pursue women. God made him that way I want to go against and pursue other things, like each other as in other men it interferes with the delicate balance I believe. There's a very Victorian kind of a notion that women have to wait to be pursued and and in other cultures where marriages are arranged from the time of birth, and people meet at the altar and having never known each other Med each other become friends those kind of situations where people adjust thrust together to make a go of it used to be the norm. Then time to change Free Will has coming to the Forefront of decision-making for relationships and pursuit and feminism has certainly played into this relationship ideal women will go after a man if they want them!
@CharloCrossley
@CharloCrossley 2 года назад
God put me with
@rebeccal.nyange219
@rebeccal.nyange219 Год назад
Thank you so much Pastor for this teaching. Don't be a woman who needs a man, be a woman a man needs!
@natural3362
@natural3362 11 месяцев назад
When a woman is rejected, there is something broken in her heart and it will take years to heal. Never pursue a man. The rejection is too much. Stay in your power
@cpresley45
@cpresley45 3 года назад
When I met my husband 16 years ago, he told me that's why he was attracted to me because I was not chasing after him..he said I was different because he was use to women chasing him..and believe me those women had his head swollen..I had to bring him down to earth
@MorenitaBonita19
@MorenitaBonita19 3 года назад
What about if you pursued a little in the beginning but you stopped quickly? Do you think that repels the guy completely? Ask your husband please lol 😳
@Cupid_
@Cupid_ 3 года назад
Mine too, my husband pursued me and did all the texts and calls. He said he never had to put any work in before. Now that we married I am training him how to apologize and resolve conflict bcos that too he didnt have to do in past relationships. I will bring him down to earth he is on time out. LOL
@QueenLove-hw5os
@QueenLove-hw5os 3 года назад
@@Cupid_ 😆😅😅🤣🤣🤣
@highvaluelife4971
@highvaluelife4971 3 года назад
Ok now sis, you know the deal!😉
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 3 года назад
@@MorenitaBonita19 Just try to take the advice that you were given and learn from it. Because the thing is if he is not hitting you up, more then likely he went on his way. It is okay to let a man know that you are open to date him, if you comes on to you, and you are interested. But don't pursue then. They know what they want.
@daghettogandhi7242
@daghettogandhi7242 3 года назад
Any man that wants to be CHASED or for me to come to HIM, is not the man I NEED. Period!
@daghettogandhi7242
@daghettogandhi7242 3 года назад
Any man that doesn’t want a woman to love herself is not a man. Very simple.
@lisamarieromeo6122
@lisamarieromeo6122 3 года назад
Facts 😇
@jameliabobo1237
@jameliabobo1237 3 года назад
Amen
@erikacain5707
@erikacain5707 3 года назад
EXACTLY
@nevernumber2alwaysno164
@nevernumber2alwaysno164 3 года назад
I left a whole husband for this same thing ☝ #NoSir
@angela01617
@angela01617 Год назад
" a real man does not take pride in the fact: oh my wife ran me down and she caught me, she made me give in .." made my day 😁
@patronellazakaapi2387
@patronellazakaapi2387 Год назад
I wish I had heard this before, it a good teaching indeed .Thank you RC much appreciated will pass it to my offsprings
@charliesmith6564
@charliesmith6564 11 месяцев назад
Me too.a man said that and all I can say he is a clown
@AG-nn8lp
@AG-nn8lp Год назад
I keep telling women the last month that women are so far off from being in touch with themselves. We started acting like men to please men and made ourselves available for whomever. I will not ever beg for attention or affection from a man. I used to and I will never ever do that again. I needed to hear this right now! I just broke it off with my bf because I caught him lying. I remember him saying he would never break up with me and if we split, I would have to pursue him. 🙄😂 Not happening. I can see clearly now!!!!
@yourwhateverhomegirl
@yourwhateverhomegirl Год назад
😂😂😂😂 girl not I can see clearly now!!!! Ik that’s right..
@chikids6671
@chikids6671 3 месяца назад
My boyfriend of 3 years and 7 months told me to take leave off work and told me the exact date to take it so that we can spend time together, only for him to forget and say he told me another date the 19th and 20th, I felt so disrespected cos he has never for once taken me on date as I was looking forward to the date but I had to call him to remind him only for him to say he is going to work..In these years we have been together ,we rarely see eachother,I have never met his family or his two kids, he always comes to mine...je has never made me feel special, his dog comes first and then his work and then his kids..and to be honest I think I lowered my standards which I shouldn't and I really pray for someone who will treat me the way I want to be treated...
@hajahkalobwe9915
@hajahkalobwe9915 2 года назад
I once dated a man who was snatched away from me by another girl....they quickly got married and years later got divorced. when i asked him what went wrong he said, its never a nice thing when a relationship or marriage is initiated by the woman. So you are right sir. Anyway i had moved on and another wonderful man found me, we have been married for 11 years now
@traceycompass8945
@traceycompass8945 2 года назад
Excellent word!!!!
@kstarrify
@kstarrify 2 года назад
You dodged a bullet - good thing
@mbamadapeu7980
@mbamadapeu7980 2 года назад
Wishing you blessings girl
@mirandadavis2730
@mirandadavis2730 2 года назад
AMEN. I WISH I GOT MARRIED , BUT THIS VIDEO TOLD ME ABOUT MYSELF. THE TRUE. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE 🙏🙏🙏💖
@eerynessential
@eerynessential 2 года назад
Yes I So Love This! ❤
@victorinedempsey3969
@victorinedempsey3969 2 года назад
The man who God has for you, has to have enough energy and motivation to pursue you.
@missphilanji4769
@missphilanji4769 2 года назад
I will write this on a note to myself so I'll always get reminded that I don't have to be worried and desperate. Ty
@victorinedempsey3969
@victorinedempsey3969 2 года назад
@@missphilanji4769 Amen. Would be great if you could only copy and paste it. God bless.
@DeniseGatewood
@DeniseGatewood 2 года назад
Amen
@gemini8620
@gemini8620 2 года назад
Whew! Yessss!
@brittanyelisejohnson7992
@brittanyelisejohnson7992 2 года назад
@@sogood5373 Praying for you 🙏🏾, if you’re able to, seek out counseling or a life mentor to talk to. You’re not alone 🙏🏾
@luciamarzi
@luciamarzi 6 месяцев назад
I’m not religious, but these videos are 100x better than all of those self-help ones made by women who have been hurt and now teach you to empower yourself in a woke, masculine manner.
@Beyondthephysicaltarot
@Beyondthephysicaltarot Год назад
I’ve been struggling now to recognise my self worth. I’ve been depressed over the last 2 days and asked god to help and this video popped up. It’s exactly what I needed to hear and more. Thank you!!!! 🎉
@rainsoundstohelpsleep
@rainsoundstohelpsleep 3 года назад
My husband was my high school sweetheart and he chased me, a year after I graduated from high school, we got married. We were married for 33 years until he passed in February 2021 and we was as one.
@VictoriaNakaraKizer
@VictoriaNakaraKizer 3 года назад
Amen..! That was an accomplishment, and a blessing. Few have this testimony.
@shanekamorris693
@shanekamorris693 2 года назад
Wow , sorry for your loss and God bless you .
@rainsoundstohelpsleep
@rainsoundstohelpsleep 2 года назад
@@shanekamorris693 thank you
@rainsoundstohelpsleep
@rainsoundstohelpsleep 2 года назад
@@VictoriaNakaraKizer yes, I was very lucky and very well loved!!
@starslove6341
@starslove6341 2 года назад
Sorry for your loss. Hope you’re doing fine now. Stay positive and God bless you.
@diva555sg
@diva555sg 3 года назад
Feminine energy makes you attractive to a man
@MsVie2012
@MsVie2012 3 года назад
So true
@tammeramiller43
@tammeramiller43 3 года назад
Absolutely. I dont understand masculine acting women
@JMK719
@JMK719 Год назад
I might not learn from my mom or my dad or in school but I’m thankful that there are people like you that teach us the things that we were not taught for many reasons. I didn’t have a strong father figure growing up to have these kinds of father daughter talks, then at 10 my parents got divorced and my mom was too busy doing 3 jobs to care for her 2 kids. She was a masculine strong mother-father figure to me that I admired for years. My mother wasn’t aware of all the internal struggles I have growing up and how much they influenced me as an adult. I have low self esteem and believed I wasn’t good enough therefore no guys/men pursued me. Then when I hit 30’s I face pressure from the social standards, from the relatives, friends everyone that think I’m about to “expire” and I believed it. I believed I run out of time. I believed in the girl friends that encouraged “girl go put yourself out there, go get what you want, don’t wait for the men to pursue you etc...” so in a year I chased after 4 men and my heart got sicker and sicker. I dated a married man, forgot who I’m and my soul and destroyed my moral, then relentlessly went after a man that told me in my face that he doesn’t want a relationship with me and I cried in front of him, then threw myself at a man that took advantage of me sexually and said he can’t be with me, and another one that didn’t want a relationship with me but let me be with him anyways because he was lonely after separated from his ex and then dumped me for someone else. It was a year of heartbreak and sickness. I was sick to my soul. Everything you said in the video happened to me and I feel it like it was yesterday. Even after that when I met a better man who treated me a little better, he was too damaged to commit for long term relationship and ran away too. And yes I felt to my lowest. I invested in him so much, pour my heart out, got too hopeful and desperate to be finally married to a good man but it turned out I was chasing once again. Whatever the real reasons he left, doesn’t matter anymore. I have work to do with myself. And today I say screw the social standard and the pressure and the age deadline bs, I’m turning my life around. I’m not living in the cloud anymore.
@halamohamed3516
@halamohamed3516 11 месяцев назад
❤❤
@MissBluebirddays
@MissBluebirddays 6 месяцев назад
I spent my childhood with a father who told me every day how worthless I was. This is so healing (and painful because I cringe at my past low value behaviour) to finally hear from a high value man what I should have been told as a little girl ❤
@goodgirl1152
@goodgirl1152 3 года назад
My Dad told me that when a man loves a woman - that woman can do no wrong. He will gently talk to her about her flaws and if she loves him, she will see the error of her ways and be thankful. He will do everything to try and please her.
@beneficent2557
@beneficent2557 3 года назад
"If she loves him" . Most women don't contribute anything to the relationship.
@bracketvilletexas
@bracketvilletexas 3 года назад
yeah while she screws over him.. he will turn against his family that know whats she doing
@lucianom.5855
@lucianom.5855 3 года назад
🤣
@josee-mariehowman5234
@josee-mariehowman5234 3 года назад
So true !!!
@taylorfausett177
@taylorfausett177 3 года назад
@@bracketvilletexas I see you have been played. That hurts. But, my friend, women do not have a monopoly on screwing their partners over. Men do it equally. I have found that the older I get, the more I learn how to be a better partner. But some people never learn. It doesn't matter if they are male or female. Don't let resentments keep you from seeing a diamond who is right in front of you.
@hocklineandsinker
@hocklineandsinker 3 года назад
Mum always said " Never run down a bus or a man " Ran down a bus the other day, twisted my ankle, child I was looking after, almost fell out of the stroller, because it was falling over sideways 😅, and to top it all...when I did get to bus door the driver said no more space on board for me. SHAME and EMBARRASSED!!!😳 The same when you run down a man, you run him down only to find he has no room in his heart for you, and look what you had to suffer trying to get him.
@mwendapoleee
@mwendapoleee 2 года назад
I did that one time ,running after a man i called him he was talking to me but on another line his colleague was asking him about the girls he was with last evening.A few years down the line he wanted to get back to me still playin games this time thru' his Dad ,i thought if ur not man enuf to do the chasin sorry!
@TranscendingToGreatness
@TranscendingToGreatness 2 года назад
YOU PREACHING!!! THAT WAS A REAL REVELATION
@valarieharris2534
@valarieharris2534 2 года назад
😆 This just tickled me so, that I burst into laughter. Thanks for sharing🤪
@michellescott2200
@michellescott2200 2 года назад
Perfectly said!
@deemont886
@deemont886 2 года назад
Man, I love your analogy!!
@waterlilyandvine
@waterlilyandvine Год назад
I cannot express how much I love this. I was raised by a feminist and the amount of damage... I've been unpacking so much in regards to the male/female relationship and the relief I've been experiencing in realigning to my innate feminine nature has been tear-inducing and powerful. My self-worth over the years was merely a facade for I never felt powerful, and the more of the lies I unburden myself with, the freer I become.
@silverlining6259
@silverlining6259 Год назад
Feminists are often misandrists😢
@audhdcreativity5899
@audhdcreativity5899 Год назад
You are describing an abusive person, likely with mental illness, and I am so sorry for what you went through, but that's not feminism. You were traumatized by abuse, not the belief that women should have the same opportunities as men.
@waterlilyandvine
@waterlilyandvine Год назад
@@audhdcreativity5899 Yes, You are indeed correct. That's merely a label she used to feel good about the choices she has made in her life. I had recently come across a phrase that describes exactly what I could never find the right words to express: enmeshment trauma. Thank you.
@audhdcreativity5899
@audhdcreativity5899 Год назад
@@waterlilyandvine wishing you so much healing and love 🙏 you deserved better so give yourself the best care possible!
@silverlining6259
@silverlining6259 Год назад
@@audhdcreativity5899 most feminists are mentally I’ll!
@carpiediem2
@carpiediem2 Год назад
Everything, single, word spoken here is truth. I wished conversations like this were had when I was younger. Thank you 😊
@believer2010ful
@believer2010ful 3 года назад
A real man takes pride in pursuing his future wife and finding her
@Ducati007
@Ducati007 3 года назад
Where can I find a wife? A virtuous virgin?
@enniswhalen2428
@enniswhalen2428 3 года назад
@ G B - You are supposed to get out there and pursue and find her . . . .
@paulokello5981
@paulokello5981 2 года назад
A real man seeks first the kingdom of God and his righteousness. God told man to seek Him first and pursue his God given assignment, not a wife. God will bring a wife when a man pursues God and his earth assignment
@enniswhalen2428
@enniswhalen2428 2 года назад
@ P O - I neither possess your religious upbringing nor your training, but I REALLY have to admire your sense of purpose, if that is indeed where it comes from.
@JulindaLeDee
@JulindaLeDee 2 года назад
Key word is "wife".
@tinam953
@tinam953 3 года назад
My mother used to say the same, “never chase a man” value yourself as a woman!
@anniewatts1879
@anniewatts1879 3 года назад
Amen 🙏🏽
@maxk5831
@maxk5831 3 года назад
How about showing love to a man? Is that precluded too?
@nubianqueen4375
@nubianqueen4375 2 года назад
@@maxk5831 showing love is totally different from chasing
@williewalker2753
@williewalker2753 2 года назад
Where you are how do you get in this class that you are having
@sheliaking4511
@sheliaking4511 2 года назад
You are speaking the truth!!!
@BabyBee31338
@BabyBee31338 Год назад
Bishop Blakes , my goodness. This was so powerful. So many gems and quotables. Sisters please take heed and dont chase a man down. I am living proof of the pain and regret that comes with it. Please do not do it!
@sarahstarr
@sarahstarr Год назад
"You will always attract the opposite of your energy. So a feminine man wont lead the show later down the road since you both didn't start out that way in the beginning. " - the best takeaway of this talk. Thank you Mr. Blakes!
@onevenus6040
@onevenus6040 3 года назад
I think this rejection usually begins in a woman's childhood, when her father doesn't acknowledge, provide love, protection, and affection for her. She gets early conditioning for rejection and being masculine.
@halaali1721
@halaali1721 3 года назад
I totally agree, it's some time unconscious behavior because this what they did in the past as a child raised by emotionally unavoidable father
@womenofGod52
@womenofGod52 3 года назад
Or having no father in the home at all.
@venus5553
@venus5553 3 года назад
That’s me..
@prhosistentpoodle2716
@prhosistentpoodle2716 3 года назад
I also believe it could be from watching the actions of the mother and grandmother. If the mother and grandmother is not married or chasing men, there is a possibility the female child may do the same.
@annyoung4330
@annyoung4330 3 года назад
So true! That is where it started for me!
@shade_excel
@shade_excel 3 года назад
“... manifestation of masculine energy in a woman REPELS masculine men” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@ms.bornagain57
@ms.bornagain57 3 года назад
I think when a woman is smart, and wise, this can be mistaken for masculinity, when a man is intimidated by her intelligence.
@leodelicious865
@leodelicious865 3 года назад
Not with all the men acting in their feminine energy all day everyday...🙄🙄
@crownedmelaninqueen
@crownedmelaninqueen 3 года назад
Right ! Giving the silent treatment and acting stupid instead of just calling the woman and saying “ Hey it hurt my feelings when you said blah , blah..,” I mean women do it to but Ijs... I’m reading a lot of posts on IG starting with if he doesn’t text back ...
@brandonayyye3487
@brandonayyye3487 3 года назад
@@crownedmelaninqueen typically telling a woman about your emotions is a turn off for them, and if he isn’t texting back it should be because he’s working on the things that make him attractive to you in the first place; his body, his job, his goals and hobbies. A guy that can text you back all day isn’t accomplishing much
@crownedmelaninqueen
@crownedmelaninqueen 3 года назад
@@brandonayyye3487 I agree, he should be busy with his own life. Hell , I can’t just sit and text all day, I want different kinds of communication phone calls, video chats, voice memos, on top of real visits. We all get busy , but show some effort and care. I should also be apart of his world , but not his whole world. I’m not even expecting to talk everyday. Every other day to two days is fine. It’s the 5 days of silence but even in the military it could be an email sent explaining a lock down .Essentially there are no excuses, I’d love when he can say how he feels or send a kissy face emoji. That’s sweet and vulnerability shows trust in my eyes. So bring it all to me...
@dragonfly4470
@dragonfly4470 2 года назад
So true. Ive always entered with a masculine energy as a female and attracted feminine men. Its cute and nice at the begining but as time goes on i always realised i wanted a masculine man who can lead.
@tarahbruno3793
@tarahbruno3793 Год назад
No lies detected! This was wonderful and very motivating for us ladies to just relax and let the man who is for us come to us. Side note: never trust a man who doesn’t want his woman to look good lol
@carleanbender3789
@carleanbender3789 Год назад
Insecure men
@yvettejohnson9346
@yvettejohnson9346 2 года назад
Men who purposefully hurts women, usually ends up paying for it.
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 года назад
@Don Urban Lol. Not all ladies do it, but yes it is something that need to stop. The enemy will use an unhealed heart to become cynical, bitter, and unforgiving on both sides. That's why we all need to seek healing from the Lord. Seek counseling/therapy of some kind. And build a healthy and loving relationship with Christ and self. And focus on doing His will and His will alone. And know that if it is His will. He will bring the right person in your life at the appointed time. Those that wait on the Lord, shall renew their strength. You have a blessed evening/weekend in Jesus name. God loves you, and so do I. And there is NOTHING that you can do about it.
@bonitasmith6064
@bonitasmith6064 2 года назад
Those men are called NARCISSIST!!!
@chastitylampkin6028
@chastitylampkin6028 2 года назад
I wonder if this is really true, cause I have seen so many guys that don't even cry when a woman cheats on him, call him bad names and so on and so on ❗❗❗
@tahsina.c
@tahsina.c 2 года назад
If only justice was so clean
@darlathompson1536
@darlathompson1536 2 года назад
Amen! Vengeance is the Lords and HE will repay.
@sharhughes1086
@sharhughes1086 3 года назад
Never allow a man to change your chracter just because you were hurt and abused by him! Allow God to heal you inside out before you meet the next guy,, if not you'll run him away because not approachable Do not forget your the prize just relax and the right one will come along!
@janellamurphy5665
@janellamurphy5665 3 года назад
AMEN!!!!!!!👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾✋🏿✋🏿✋🏿🙌🏿👐🏿✊🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥
@monicathebeautiful6483
@monicathebeautiful6483 3 года назад
Omg! This right here!!
@irlandaise5631
@irlandaise5631 3 года назад
I notice they try to change you..for example I dont cook..and I eat mostly protein..and they want you to eat vegs..and I dont want..howver its ok for vegetarian to not eat meat..but the other way round..WOW you have to follow the establishment ...no one questions Donald trump for not eating vegs however and neither his wife...but women yes are questioned..tell you how to save electricity because I steamed my eggs for 30 min while cleaning instead of boiling them for 3 min..it made me think the man would have a mindset of saving electricity all the time.. anyway I dont want a man like that..but many are like that and want to control..I know what I consume and its ok I can pay the bill..its not that much anyway
@chrissoulful7086
@chrissoulful7086 3 года назад
Facts men and women are the prize
@Jazzy1J
@Jazzy1J 3 года назад
♥️
@relisshacollins8602
@relisshacollins8602 Год назад
Self love will win everytime!!
@c.lynnearendtcaleca7775
@c.lynnearendtcaleca7775 Год назад
Amen. I wish every woman and man could listen to this.
@lilianagallegos7621
@lilianagallegos7621 3 года назад
My dad said to me.... "a princess never chases a prince". I felt that.
@orubek355
@orubek355 2 года назад
A princess has to be found.
@trmp9923
@trmp9923 2 года назад
@@orubek355 I'd be a virgin had I never chased a man. I'm 32.
@cedarave3168
@cedarave3168 2 года назад
Yo daddy was wrong princess
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 2 года назад
I guess your daddy never heard of Boaz and Ruth
@Lovetheonewithin
@Lovetheonewithin 3 года назад
A king will never be pursued by a queen
@busydem6161
@busydem6161 3 года назад
A king doesn’t chase a queen
@Lovetheonewithin
@Lovetheonewithin 3 года назад
@@busydem6161 Being chased and being pursued are not the same.
@busydem6161
@busydem6161 3 года назад
Really and what might those differences be?
@Lovetheonewithin
@Lovetheonewithin 3 года назад
@@busydem6161 If you are pursuing someone, there's a mutual interest, could lead to a relationship.. If you are chasing, that person is running away. You'll never obtain a relationship if you're chasing someone
@jerseysteelfitness6927
@jerseysteelfitness6927 3 года назад
@@Lovetheonewithin Buzzer sound
@WOGEB
@WOGEB Год назад
The "Ole Stuff" is the "Good Stuff"!!!❤🎯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 The wisdom this man provides is Priceless!👑💯🕊️
@user-nu9do4ky1q
@user-nu9do4ky1q Год назад
i don't know about y'all ladies but hearing him feels really like talking to a father to me
@ChasingYonci
@ChasingYonci 2 года назад
“If you work on finding yourself you will be healthy enough to be found by someone else.” 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
@shirleybain9549
@shirleybain9549 2 года назад
Pastor you making plenty sense. Great words of wisdom!
@shirleybain9549
@shirleybain9549 2 года назад
Amen
@Mike-ok9oy
@Mike-ok9oy 2 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Michellemybell739
@Michellemybell739 2 года назад
My ex-husband chased me when were 19-20 years old in college like somebody crazy lol. We dated, had a daughter and were married a few years later. Although our marriage only lasted 14 years I look back and can appreciate all the letters, crazy stunts and phone calls I received when he was courting me. Now I’m 51 dating a nice guy who pursues me as well with consistent communication, affection, quality time, and kind acts. A very nice feeling indeed!
@teeramirez464
@teeramirez464 2 года назад
Girl bye sex before marriage..
@Michellemybell739
@Michellemybell739 2 года назад
@@teeramirez464 Umm duck wtf are you?!!!! I don’t give not one rat’s azz about you or your opinion!! Go back under your rock!!!
@helennewlin6864
@helennewlin6864 2 года назад
Im 54 sis and yes it is nice feeling I agree
@dontworry6968
@dontworry6968 2 года назад
That man is a simp ass. Pressuring a girl to be with him lol, in the future the relationship failed lol pathetic
@kimalonzo3363
@kimalonzo3363 2 года назад
@@Michellemybell739 she is right that God says fornication is a sin, but she is wrong and rude to judge and treat you like an outcast.
@Ruthforme
@Ruthforme Год назад
Thank you Bishop,for reinforcing the responsibilities of a man.🙏🏾
@cjay2658
@cjay2658 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for this wonderful reminder of us women knowing our self- worth. It's easy to forget in this society, but very true and on point. It never works when a woman pursues a man.
@AlwaysASolution-qj9be
@AlwaysASolution-qj9be 2 года назад
Yes! My father was working in a shoe store when my mom came in to get some heels. He made sure he was going to be her shoe sales person. When he put the heel on her foot and she looked at him, he knew she was going to be his princess forever. They were young. He worked two jobs and she was dating the governor's son. My father said he earned every date and worked just as hard for her as he did his two jobs. He won her. They were married all their lives. Three children later, my mother and father both taught us what gentlemen do and what ladies do. They were amazing role models and lifelong blessings as a family. My boyfriends loved my mother. My father never stopped working for her and my brothers learned to treat their wives like gold. They married well and are still married with children.
@magnolia2
@magnolia2 Год назад
I love this story so much. Thank you for sharing. You are so blessed to have had such parents. Not everyone can relate.❤
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 Год назад
Yass 😊
@AlwaysASolution-qj9be
@AlwaysASolution-qj9be Год назад
@@magnolia2 Thank you for your beautiful comment. Wishing you much love in life! 💕
@mogetit5999
@mogetit5999 Год назад
This story!!!!! Thanks for sharing 🖤🖤🖤
@carineramirez9493
@carineramirez9493 Год назад
But what’s your story?
@mustbeheard9834
@mustbeheard9834 3 года назад
My mother chased her husband, and it took him 10 years to marry her! 10 YEARS! I ignored my husband and I was engaged 4 months later! So allow the man to hunt you, don't be so easy, nothing makes a man happier than to hunt for his woman!
@deebojo3382
@deebojo3382 3 года назад
10 YEARS? WHEW! 😀
@devinesent7696
@devinesent7696 3 года назад
@@deebojo3382 I would have been gone
@deebojo3382
@deebojo3382 3 года назад
@@devinesent7696 Me three! 😀
@bilderberg_news4775
@bilderberg_news4775 3 года назад
Did she get desperate and put roots on him?
@mustbeheard9834
@mustbeheard9834 3 года назад
@@bilderberg_news4775A off the wall comment! Yawn...
@ms.gracefullybroken8724
@ms.gracefullybroken8724 Год назад
I’m worth finding & treasuring…PERIOD Just bcause a man can’t see our value does not mean we are not valuable..
@freespirit5904
@freespirit5904 10 месяцев назад
❤In pursuing a man you get disapproved and rejected and your self esteem is gone and whereas a man can take uncountable rejection , one after another untill he finds her virtuous woman ❤
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 9 месяцев назад
Yep
@tinyking11
@tinyking11 9 месяцев назад
💯💯🙌🏽
@MaishPosh
@MaishPosh 3 года назад
The men in my age group will pursue us but the moment we show interest they disappear so I thought I had to act uninterested to keep them, but it wasn’t fair to me because I couldn’t be myself. So I think those type of men are just dating for the sport to get validation from us to make them feel good & continue looking for the next woman to boost their ego. I think it’s emotionally abusive because my feelings are invested because I like the guy and he’s using my emotions to fill this insatiable void that’s causing him to do this to so many women. So now I know if me showing him interest turns him off to the point he’s ghosting me then he isn’t for me to begin with. I need to be with a man who is emotionally mature to receive love & not take advantage of it for selfish reasons.
@reginayfavors
@reginayfavors 3 года назад
These are the men looking for validation in the same way that women want to be affirmed and validated. Basically, these are feminine men because they are positioning themselves as women/feminine to receive what women should receive. I need to be with a man who is also emotionally mature, but this is hard to find. That's why we need to be sure that we are emotionally mature so we do not attract feminine men. God bless. Be safe.
@ButterCookie1984
@ButterCookie1984 3 года назад
Well said!🙏
@ButterCookie1984
@ButterCookie1984 3 года назад
@@reginayfavors That makes sense. Wow!! They are trying to get affirmation like a woman needs.
@girlnextdoor2836
@girlnextdoor2836 3 года назад
Don’t give up the cookie too soon.The moment they get it they don’t value you any longer.Hold out for as long as possible and don’t put your feelings into it ever.Put those feelings in selflove instead
@ButterCookie1984
@ButterCookie1984 3 года назад
@@girlnextdoor2836 The only change I'd make to this comment is about not "catching feelings with sex" Sex is spiritual and you should WANT to explore many feelings with it. Bottom line being that you shouldn't be having sex with a person at all if you want to avoid feelings.
@MzDeaux
@MzDeaux 3 года назад
"You think its for a Lifetime - it's really for the Nighttime" RC.B.
@ladyzinada5341
@ladyzinada5341 3 года назад
Boom!
@darknluvly702
@darknluvly702 3 года назад
Chile when he said THAT!!! 💥💥💥
@tdibetso8853
@tdibetso8853 3 года назад
Dude!!! I felt that!!🔥🔥🔥
@pennysam3245
@pennysam3245 3 года назад
😂
@maguiedossantos2925
@maguiedossantos2925 3 года назад
😂🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️ I felt that one in my spirit
@LazygirlLA892
@LazygirlLA892 Год назад
I wish I was taught this growing up. Sex and relationships weren't spoken about in my family so I went into adulthood with no idea what I was doing. I chased the man I lost my virginity to, and he ghosted me the next day. The rejection stayed with me in my subconscious my entire adult life and affected all my subsequent relationships. I finally found a feminine embodiment program that helped me move through it. Ive been letting men pursue me now, and the difference is night and day. Im much calmer and happier by staying in my feminine space.
@meerajakhar7275
@meerajakhar7275 Год назад
This message is off the charts! Liquid truth....in it's purest form.
@kitteng139
@kitteng139 2 года назад
“Any man you have to pursue ain’t worth having”
@Jenavee26
@Jenavee26 2 года назад
This is one of my take aways lol
@zakiahart3919
@zakiahart3919 2 года назад
So true
@user-of9bx1uk3u
@user-of9bx1uk3u 2 года назад
Correct! xx
@caoliver99
@caoliver99 2 года назад
Point blank period
@donutscakes1157
@donutscakes1157 2 года назад
You sound like a lameo... Cause you aint no real woman real woman chase little girls play hard to get
@tommycriscitello6235
@tommycriscitello6235 3 года назад
Daaaaaannnnnggggg this man said “ you thought it was for a lifetime but it’s just for the nighttime” WOW !! Preach !!!!!
@TerinaHeidelberg
@TerinaHeidelberg Год назад
You spoke up on this one sir! “You thinking it’s for a lifetime when it’s for the night time” smh hard lesson to learn! Ladies if you haven’t yet learned this by experience….please take heed and understand your value!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@freespirit5904
@freespirit5904 10 месяцев назад
❤ A woman with virtue manages her sexuality carefully, doesn't loose her body with anyone, doesn't loose with her sexuality, he can trust her and believe he can be committed to him alone ❤
@JD-qm1fj
@JD-qm1fj 2 года назад
I pursue no ones. My grandma once told me, "only build a relationship with a man who loves you more than you love him"
@katielies5669
@katielies5669 2 года назад
ONG MY BABY SITTING USE TO TWLK MW THIS ALL THW TINE AND I STILL GO BY IT BUT I AM ALWAYS CONFUAED CAUe I never loved before and I was thinking maybe it is so drilled in me !!!!
@7reload777
@7reload777 2 года назад
🤡
@7reload777
@7reload777 2 года назад
@@MB-iv4mq I 💯% agree she doesn’t even realise how toxic and demonic that ignorant advice is.
@7reload777
@7reload777 2 года назад
@T Smith Oh yes indeed! Extremely selfish, defensive / guarded and Jezebelish. Furthermore if this is the mindset of a believing woman then society has little foundation to build a family on at all. Very sad to be honest and they way she was able to just put that statement out there like it was nothing is truly sickening 🤢
@oldcash
@oldcash 2 года назад
that’s toxic af, why wouldn’t you wanna love him just as much???
@mikaelamccann1724
@mikaelamccann1724 2 года назад
My Lula use to tell me “ the Sperm goes to the egg, not the other way around“ . Good video. ❤️
@randomthoughts2095
@randomthoughts2095 2 года назад
Haha that’s great and so true
@juliedaly2381
@juliedaly2381 2 года назад
So true
@enigmaticladypisces3169
@enigmaticladypisces3169 2 года назад
❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
@chabee3666
@chabee3666 2 года назад
And a seed is planted in the ground. A plug gets plugged into a socket. A socket is stationary. If the connection is right you get what music lights etc. a man plants seeds amd a woman nurtures it. The saying what. Man outs in a woman will Multiply it.
@ericbreaux6124
@ericbreaux6124 2 года назад
There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another person.
@chir401
@chir401 Год назад
So true that a man can get rejected by women repeatedly with little to no effect on his confidence or sense of self-worth, but rejection by men will really chip away at a woman.
@gauripsych
@gauripsych Год назад
Now i feel so embarrassed of my actions in past!
@KashyGhislaine
@KashyGhislaine 2 года назад
I appreciate how you give advice WITHOUT degrading women. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for the perspective!
@LaurenDenise
@LaurenDenise 2 года назад
yes! The advice always hits differently when it comes from a man of God who actually loves and respects women.
@CarlosRodriguez-bh2ey
@CarlosRodriguez-bh2ey 2 года назад
He's very respectful of everyone. I'm not a christian but he's so wise I love hearing him talk.
@sylvannagreene8437
@sylvannagreene8437 2 года назад
Yeah, what you said….he’s not loud and preachy…and he’s clean.
@sunshine9426
@sunshine9426 2 года назад
@@sylvannagreene8437 and the minister's ALWAYS GIVING CREDITS 2 His wife, LISA! TYVM! 😂😍🌞
@key2dasitytripled17
@key2dasitytripled17 2 года назад
It dont matter which way a man give the message, today's women dont want to hear and apply it to their lives. Nice attemp tho
@anabautista8071
@anabautista8071 2 года назад
1. When a woman pursues a man, it's a manifestation in the woman of a pure masculine energy; 2. When a woman pursues a man aggressively, she is misrepresenting her virtue; 3. A woman who pursues a man is misinterpreted as a desperation; 4. The potential for disapproval by a man will shatter a woman's self esteem; 5. When a woman pursues a man, it relieves the man of the basic responsibility of leadership.
@anacandace6266
@anacandace6266 2 года назад
thanks for the recap
@noddybrown3074
@noddybrown3074 2 года назад
A woman chasing a man is seen as easy
@msdavis0326
@msdavis0326 2 года назад
Thank you for this summary 🤗
@donutscakes1157
@donutscakes1157 2 года назад
@@noddybrown3074 No she knows what she wants and is a mature woman
@someshkumar3289
@someshkumar3289 2 года назад
Wtf u talking abt, my gf approched me 3 yrs back & we still together & I lead, she follows
@freespirit5904
@freespirit5904 10 месяцев назад
❤ when you pursue a man aggressively, you're simultaneously misrepresenting your virtue❤
@monikaszirmai6980
@monikaszirmai6980 Год назад
I recently broke up with my partner, and after couple days I started to watch your and other youtuber's videos. I have to say thank you for helping me to realize how much I didn't value myself. Also you give me hope in my future, and showed me where I have to aprove and fix my behavior, get back to myself, upgrade myself, and work on certain things, on my weaknesses, and main problems in my relationships,and life general. 💖
@sisofsovereignty
@sisofsovereignty 2 года назад
5. When a woman pursues a man, it relieves the man of his basic responsibility to lead in the relationship.
@VelvetCrowe734
@VelvetCrowe734 2 года назад
Lol? What a comment full of patriarchy and stereotype. We are human not simple animals.
@dianenewman-frye5259
@dianenewman-frye5259 Год назад
I totally agree !
@IHavent82Day
@IHavent82Day Год назад
@@VelvetCrowe734 patriarchy isn’t always a negative thing. In families, I think it’s often a good thing.
@VelvetCrowe734
@VelvetCrowe734 Год назад
@@IHavent82Day wrong. Patriarchy destroyed everything because women couldn't enjoy their lives. There isn't a right thing about patriarchy when women were getting a beating from their husbands/boyfriends. Or when men should always treat women dinner and pay every bill. This isn't right either. If we want a great society with true equality feminism is the only way. Feminism is equal rights equal responsibilities. I'm willing to help woman to clean the house and cooking and she should be willing to pay at least half of a bill because we are staying together. Together in good things, together in hard things.
@IHavent82Day
@IHavent82Day Год назад
@@VelvetCrowe734 That’s crazy because my dad has always been the leader in my family and he has always been the provider and my parents have been happily married for 25 years. I think feminism has absolutely destroyed the way men and women interact with each other - and no, I’m not saying women should always be beholden to a man or that women shouldn’t be allowed to be independent. I’m simply saying men as leaders is often a good thing.
@justRemeberTheDAY
@justRemeberTheDAY 2 года назад
as a young lady I would always say, "any woman that finds a man...finds trouble." God didn't design us in such mannerism. 💯
@jodyblanchard2754
@jodyblanchard2754 2 года назад
My man is a free mason and Shriner. I'm white , and he is Black. He's also much older than me. I stopped walking to the beat of his , because he's just my boyfriend. This is creating quite a problem for me because I do not choose to get married although I do want to commitment and I'm going to key to the house what should I do?
@njkmq3
@njkmq3 2 года назад
This relationship is not for you. Run. Unless you yourself are into the “dark arts”. He will influence you. Negatively. Just MY OP.
@USAtoElsewhere
@USAtoElsewhere 2 года назад
Not everyone "fits" the traditional gender or gender roles. We are fortunately getting away from gender roles. The LGBTQ community is the group pushing the most against gender roles as now the genders are blending and that means less gender roles. I advocate feminism, which is a misnomer as intelligent, rational, intellectual, transhumanist and futurist males also can be feminist. And btw, bowing down on one knee isn't necessary to propose. My husband didn't propose. Due to my disability I was unable to work so it unfortunately was up to him to decide when and if he would marry me. We simply talked about it and set a date.
@LadyDos2008
@LadyDos2008 2 года назад
@@jodyblanchard2754 Are you laying with him?
@mariagreenidge3063
@mariagreenidge3063 2 года назад
HE, who finds a wife, FINDS a good thing...
@fabiolalubin9164
@fabiolalubin9164 Год назад
I just found you yesterday and wished I had these messages when I was starting my dating journey as young adult of 18 Lord my heart wouldn’t be so harden. But I’m grateful to learn now and know what to do and not do. God is for sure been doing a lot of healing for my heart for sure. Thank you pastor 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@LightandHealYourWay
@LightandHealYourWay Год назад
❤❤ I agree!!! I needed this message as a young adult
@jessicamckinnon1721
@jessicamckinnon1721 Год назад
This makes complete sense why my marriage didn’t work. Thank you for this message. God bless you.
@sunnysunshine6271
@sunnysunshine6271 3 года назад
That's why I'm single. Not chasing a man, but in times of the Internet that's what men expect. I can remain single, no problem at all 👍🏾
@brandonayyye3487
@brandonayyye3487 3 года назад
No we just want effort
@realrosesforever3847
@realrosesforever3847 3 года назад
Most men are visual, so they like cute, pretty, someone who looks good to them and well built. Most like a sweet, funny, intelligent personality as well as supportive. If a woman has this there are men who will pursue. Not all men, but most want the above. Support and respect and look at the man with a true heart but a smart mind, that means a lot. Just my two cents.
@Nic2Blk
@Nic2Blk 3 года назад
@@brandonayyye3487 I would like to know your definition of effort in this context. What the OP is referring to is the energy given by a lot of men these days is that a woman initiate and pursue. MY definition of effort in this context means that on the part of a woman; we let you know if we're interested and engage with you accordingly. I take your response to mean a woman should initiate. If a woman pursues a man she's operating in masculine energy. You have to decide whether you want a woman that moves in masculine energy or feminine energy? But that starts with knowing yourself as well.
@chocolatenikki
@chocolatenikki 3 года назад
Hello!!
@ReenaBINA
@ReenaBINA 3 года назад
I swear
@NoMoreTears64
@NoMoreTears64 3 года назад
There is a very fine line between "flirting" and ""pursuing"
@sandirichard5461
@sandirichard5461 3 года назад
Flirting should be in response to initial contact by the man IF, she's interested. Pursuing is taking the initial steps.
@loverofbeautifulthings
@loverofbeautifulthings 3 года назад
So very true!
@QueenMaaria
@QueenMaaria Год назад
This message touched my soul! I appreciate you so much Pastor Blakes. Some of us did not have examples and are learning from trial and error. I appreciate God leading you to do this, it is so needed and greatly appreciated. Peace and Blessings to you and your family!!! Gonna buy your book "The father daughter talks" and anything else you have. I am a supporter!
@jackiecollins9768
@jackiecollins9768 Год назад
I was always told by my mother when I was younger that a woman never pursue a man, I guess that’s why I never been the aggressive type and I thank God for the things my mom instilled in me before she passed and gone to be with the Lord
@robertajohnson9750
@robertajohnson9750 3 года назад
"Every woman is some man's type, I promise you"... " the woman is the man's Prize" This is my third time watching this video...PREACH, BISHOP RC BLAKES!!
@erikacain5707
@erikacain5707 3 года назад
I'm 29 years old and I'm still a firm believer in a man pursuing me! I know my worth and I am the prize. This was amazing!
@septemberblue1694
@septemberblue1694 3 года назад
I agree with you on that one!
@bln4772
@bln4772 3 года назад
Me too! I will never pursue a man.
@Jen-iv7rh
@Jen-iv7rh 3 года назад
Women are the prize the world wouldn't exist without us
@drezpodcast
@drezpodcast 3 года назад
speak on that worth you talk about.
@erikacain5707
@erikacain5707 3 года назад
@@norm1815 no sir I won't. What God has for me is for me specifically. 😊
@Nae6073
@Nae6073 Год назад
Thank you so much for this! So many times people tell women not to pursue men but they never say why nor do they give resolutions, let alone have word to back it up. I'm in a season of being more intentional with God and being content in my singleness, and you pointed out every single point on why I failed so much in my past relationships. It's because I was trying to lead, not intentionally but because of the type of heart I have I thought it was the right thing to do. So thank you so much for letting God use you it's well appreciated
@shonjackson9395
@shonjackson9395 Год назад
I have surrendered and submitted to my singleness as well...
@Nae6073
@Nae6073 Год назад
@@shonjackson9395 👏👏👏👏 Definitely Praying for you! it's not easy lol but it's worth it.
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