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Rainboww Rach
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11 years ago I had an abortion.
My hope in sharing this is that others that have been through the experience can feel a little more comfortable to share their story. Please confide in someone you love if you’re going through it.
If you’ve had an abortion and are needing support, please reach out at rachelwellendorf@gmail.com for coaching
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@bloodbathgraphics7872
@bloodbathgraphics7872 3 года назад
Everyone’s pro life till a situation like this bites em in the ass
@skystruck236
@skystruck236 2 года назад
They’re all pro-life until the baby comes, after that they wipe their hands clean.
@prettylyricsmarie
@prettylyricsmarie 2 года назад
@@paytonmorgan7126 Within a few hours after taking the pill.
@bloodbathgraphics7872
@bloodbathgraphics7872 2 года назад
@@paytonmorgan7126 I hope your doing okay
@bloodbathgraphics7872
@bloodbathgraphics7872 2 года назад
@@paytonmorgan7126 don’t ever think your a bad person for looking out for yourself don’t feel regret don’t feel like you’ve sinned you’ve done nothing wrong it’s your body it’s your choice it’s your money and it’s your life you’ve used your god given gift two times there nothing wrong with doing what’s right your a strong women keep doing what your doing ❤️
@sixteen.candles.4644
@sixteen.candles.4644 2 года назад
Lmaooooo so true. I personally had my kids but i wonder where Id be without kids at times.
@sandramorey2529
@sandramorey2529 2 года назад
I had mine in 1965, illegal. I'm still here and I have never regretted it. We didn't have pregnancy tests in drug stores then & I had to go to the Catholic church for one. They didn't want me to leave until I had signed my "baby" over for adoption. No Way. I lied & I left. In those days, you were on your own. I had to find the safest illegal procedure I could find, raise the money, set up an overnight stay somewhere. There was no medication abortion available. I took a Greyhound bus and I was really lucky. I had no reproductions.
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
Thank you so much for sharing. I commend you for your courage and strength.
@cM-ke7vv
@cM-ke7vv 2 года назад
Sandra, I'm so terribly sorry you had to endure that alone. That makes me so sad. Blessings.
@PYT813
@PYT813 3 года назад
Getting one Wednesday and i feel extremely bad due to the fact that I’ve miscarried a baby i wanted 5 years ago and here i am forcing myself to have one. Thank you so much for posting this video. I feel a lot better about it ❤️
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 3 года назад
I’m so happy it resonates love. Good luck 💛
@tinatijerina-ch2ev
@tinatijerina-ch2ev 2 месяца назад
Evil 😈😈😈😈
@haileeslate
@haileeslate 3 года назад
I just wanted to thank you for posting this. I’m going through mine now. And this has helped me.
@Lan-vd3uc
@Lan-vd3uc 2 года назад
No girl should ever have to go through it alone, your boyfriend leabing to go out and party or whatever is absolutley disgusting bad enough that he was 17 and you were 15 although its only 2 years theres a big physical anf especially mental difference between a 15 year old and a 17 year old, im glad you had your mothers support i couldnt begin to imagine how hard it mustve been
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
I know that was that guys best and that’s exactly why I chose not to procreate with him. That’s how he would’ve been had we had a child together. My husband now is the best father and partner and truly the one I deserve. And without my mums help then AND now that I have babies i dont know what id do… truly.
@Ramona-kh6li
@Ramona-kh6li 3 года назад
Just about to go through this process, I’m absolutely shitting it as I’m not sure if it’s the right decision or not. Deep down I know I’m doing the right thing, but I’m just scared of the pain and regret I might feel after.
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 3 года назад
The shame I felt for so many years after is WHY I share my story. What helped me in those moments was coming back to trusting in the decision I made at that time. I made the choice that was right for me in 2009 and in 2018 I gave birth to my child and later this year I’ll give birth to my second. I hope that helps. Take care of yourself on this journey 💛
@Alex-lt1bf
@Alex-lt1bf 3 года назад
i just did this process last night, so so painful😢making sure i never have to do this again.
@Ramona-kh6li
@Ramona-kh6li 3 года назад
@@Alex-lt1bf I’m literally doing this now. ☹️ I feel like today will be a long day.
@Alex-lt1bf
@Alex-lt1bf 3 года назад
@@Ramona-kh6li try to go to sleep so you don’t have to be awake to suffer through it, drink warm water to help your body pass everything quicker, use a heated blanket or hot water bottle on uterus area, and wear comfortable loose clothing.. warm baths help too.. i’m about 28 hours since i took the 4 pills and the cramping isn’t as bad, still bleeding moderately though.. i’m using the heated blanket right now haha..
@Ramona-kh6li
@Ramona-kh6li 3 года назад
@@Alex-lt1bf I’m just starting to cramp, no bleeding yet. Thank you for the tips! I hope it gets better for you ❤️
@alley2023
@alley2023 Год назад
That's not a mass of cells, that's your child. It is unique, there will never be another child like them. There is help if you took the abortion pill there is a reverseal option. There is healing after abortion. It is so sad to kill your child giving them a chance to fight for life. Even a hard life is worth living. Abortion is healthcare like rape is making love.
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 11 месяцев назад
Having a child is a HUGE commitment. Especially for a 15 year old. Forcing someone to have a child they don’t want does more harm than good. Period.
@Liahh_490
@Liahh_490 4 месяца назад
ok are you gona be responsible for that baby's life. There are several people out in this world who curse their life and expect to die instead of living. Also are you gona pay for that child. Are you gona look after that child when it needs money. No! The parents have to. Even you give it up for adoption you dont even know whats gona happen to it. What if that child suffers from childhood trauma. Are you gona leave your child with this unknown world. Dont you know how people are selfish. That baby will suffer. And the mother has to live with guilt forever. It is more harm than good. So shut up.
@sunshinelittler5027
@sunshinelittler5027 2 месяца назад
I was forced into an abortion after one of my twins had passed and the other had no heartbeat.. One of the hardest things I've ever done.
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Месяц назад
I’m so sorry. That’s heartbreaking. I’m a twin and I know twin pregnancies aren’t easy ❤️‍🩹
@hopegriffin1204
@hopegriffin1204 2 года назад
Thank you. Having to go through with this next week. Feel absolutely so guilty but I am far too young and my baby would not get the care it needs as I am still in college and not financially stable :/ it sucks
@angellong5806
@angellong5806 2 года назад
I can completely relate! How are you feeling now? Any better about your situation?
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
It does suck. But feeling guilty will only make it suck worse 💛 keep remembering the choice you’re making is the best choice for you, and try and release all the judgement
@caitlin2143
@caitlin2143 2 года назад
Same, I’m so scared and I feel so alone
@Rose-oq5em
@Rose-oq5em 2 года назад
Did you take the mifepristone and mistoprostol medication ? For the abortion I’m due for a appointment and I’m super scared would be great if you could let me know.
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
Mine was 12 years ago and I was 15 so I didn’t pay attention to medication names. I’m sorry
@haleymakena591
@haleymakena591 2 года назад
not sure if this comment is still relevant to you but usually you take mifepristone first and the second pill is misoprostol
@Lakena2552
@Lakena2552 3 года назад
I'm going through this right now! I'm scheduled for the pill abortion next week
@nataliemendoza4873
@nataliemendoza4873 2 года назад
How did it go
@Vanessa-jr3rn
@Vanessa-jr3rn 4 года назад
Hi! I’m wondering how physically painful it was, and what helped to reduce the pain. I’ve been researching and it seems that the pain varies
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 4 года назад
It felt like 3cm into labor. I’m sure it’s different for everyone though. They gave me pain pills to take but I didn’t take them - not because it didn’t hurt but because I’m not really into the pain pill side effects. Hope that helps!
@tashtash9166
@tashtash9166 2 года назад
Here I am not 1 year later watching your video. Am currently pregnant but am confuse if am to take the pill or carry the baby. I don't want to take the pills and end up regretting it after
@ILovePink-x1v
@ILovePink-x1v 2 года назад
Just look at the situation and take some time. Right this moment could you imaging a baby in your arms? Can you imagine yourself in a few years walking them into school? Are you financially stable? I really hope you choose whatever you feel is right in your heart and don’t let others sway your opinion. No matter what you choose I wish you good luck :)
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Год назад
THIS
@jadyrodriguez3210
@jadyrodriguez3210 2 года назад
I’m making this decision on Monday I’m so scared and I already feel guilty Bc I’m hiding it from family and my partner
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
Sending you love + hugs. If I learned anything from my experience, it’s that loved ones were FAR more understanding than I could’ve imagined. Especially my parents- sharing it might help lighten the load and asking for help can be so healing. To each their own but I know you’ll need a support system for this time. Lean on someone you can trust even if it’s just one person
@aprilfisher4947
@aprilfisher4947 2 года назад
@@ψυχή-τ7ξ go and tell someone who cares lol
@brekaylaparker1189
@brekaylaparker1189 3 года назад
May I ask how much or around how much did it cost. I’m aware that because of your location it’s possible for the price to different but down here I searched it up & it said around 700$
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 3 года назад
Hi! So mine was in 2009 in Oklahoma, it was $500. With inflation, $700 sounds about right
@Alex-lt1bf
@Alex-lt1bf 3 года назад
mine was $560 exactly at planned parenthood nevada
@shadowshow2259
@shadowshow2259 3 года назад
mine was $525 at planned parenthood in Maryland!
@vinnie8489
@vinnie8489 2 года назад
@@paytonmorgan7126 where ??
@richieshinall4250
@richieshinall4250 2 года назад
I agree with abortion. In fact, I think we should change the word "murder" to "retroabortion" Judge: "You committed murder. You're going to prison." Defendant: "I didn't commit murder, your honor. I committed retroabrotion." Judge: "Oh. Well that's ok then."
@ljre3397
@ljre3397 2 года назад
Right at the moment it is legal.
@Italianmami209
@Italianmami209 3 года назад
I feel horrible. But it happens. I’m going to be in the darkness again for a while but I know I’ll be back
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Год назад
Are you seeing the light yet?
@Italianmami209
@Italianmami209 Год назад
@@RainbowwRach absolutely. I’ve accepted it and I’ve moved on. Life is very bright again 💗
@DenisOmahoney-i1n
@DenisOmahoney-i1n Месяц назад
Stopped 2 girls from. Having abortion. 2 babies alive
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Месяц назад
Congrats. Did you help raise these kids? Or is she doing it all on her own
@leethya8485
@leethya8485 3 года назад
how long the pill start work after you taking... then how long start painful also done...
@lindseygore4588
@lindseygore4588 3 года назад
I just went through this last night .... ty so much for this video
@angelynareyes1918
@angelynareyes1918 3 года назад
tell me how it went I want a abortion... but scared to
@lindseygore4588
@lindseygore4588 3 года назад
@@angelynareyes1918 went well it’s worth it!
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 3 года назад
So happy this video could serve you!
@tiffanyflores9255
@tiffanyflores9255 3 года назад
@@lindseygore4588 did it hurt
@lindseygore4588
@lindseygore4588 3 года назад
@@tiffanyflores9255 yes but worth it… it’s very doable. Just the initial sac coming out is emotional …
@Italianmami209
@Italianmami209 3 года назад
I’m leaving in 30 minutes to get my second pill abortion
@mohammedsumaila7271
@mohammedsumaila7271 2 года назад
how is the pains
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Год назад
How did it go?
@natrualxhippie9358
@natrualxhippie9358 2 года назад
How long did you bleed after the procedure?
@prettylyricsmarie
@prettylyricsmarie 2 года назад
Within a few hours after taking the pill
@DenisOmahoney-i1n
@DenisOmahoney-i1n Месяц назад
I am a pro life supporter saved 2 babies from abortion. Ask them would they want to be aborted
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 дня назад
Saved 2 babies as in you’re their father and are in their lives? Otherwise you just forced someone to undergo the biggest responsibility imaginable for a human. Hope the mom didn’t die of ppd like 1/5 do postpartum
@sandraarambula1214
@sandraarambula1214 3 года назад
How bad would u say the pain was :(
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 3 года назад
I’ll be honest, it was painful. But I also EXPECTED it to be super painful. I’m currently 9 months pregnant and working through lots of limited beliefs around why I believe childbirth has to be painful… the truth is- it doesn’t! Every other muscle in our body flexes without pain so why would our uterus be any different. Expect pain, receive pain. We also get in the fear -> tension -> pain cycle this route and you can train your brain to be on the relax -> oxytocin -> pleasure cycle instead. I hope that helps love 💛
@azukarzuchastux8066
@azukarzuchastux8066 2 года назад
John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
John 7:8 “He who is without sin may cast the first stone”
@prettylyricsmarie
@prettylyricsmarie 2 года назад
It's like making your body have a miscarriage.
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
It starts your body’s cycle/menstruation
@prettylyricsmarie
@prettylyricsmarie 2 года назад
@@RainbowwRach Yes. It thins the lining and makes everything flow out. It's like a cleansing of the body and starting from scratch. No more pregnancy.
@daniellebenfield95
@daniellebenfield95 2 года назад
Shame on all of you who think this is ok!!
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 2 года назад
It might not be ok for YOU. But for my 15 year old self and SO many other pregnant people, it absolutely is the best option. Comments perpetuating shame on someone for doing what’s best for THEM is harmful af. Maybe look internally as to why you feel the need to project your negativity onto a video that has helped literally thousands of people feel seen, understood and valued ✌🏽
@Datbwoi-b1q
@Datbwoi-b1q 7 месяцев назад
​@@RainbowwRachWomen are truly evil.
@DenisOmahoney-i1n
@DenisOmahoney-i1n 15 дней назад
My relatives adopted a Russian girl. Seen good it does
@laurendavis864
@laurendavis864 4 года назад
Thank you for posting this. ❤️
@karenenriquez4326
@karenenriquez4326 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story
@sentinel6633
@sentinel6633 Год назад
Its crazy to think that a condom was never an option ...lol
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 11 месяцев назад
It’s crazy to assume you know what happened.
@Liahh_490
@Liahh_490 4 месяца назад
Darling I was at my birth control which was so effective that a single dose of tiny pill is more than effective which you have to take after sex. I took two that day. I still got pregnant.
@Swordatmidnight
@Swordatmidnight 2 года назад
I fundamentally disagree with, and I will do so even politically, because I will vote pro-life. Having said all of that, I’m glad you are well and that in your story you and your mother acknowledged your child in some way.
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Год назад
Sounds like we're both pro-a woman having autonomy over her own body
@Swordatmidnight
@Swordatmidnight Год назад
@@RainbowwRach Not to the point of a woman killing her own child. At that point it’s two human beings and unless that woman’s life is in danger, her child’s life should be respected. That is my belief and how I will vote.
@emmanuelpiscicelli6232
@emmanuelpiscicelli6232 Год назад
​@@Swordatmidnight So you just said the woman's life is more valuable than a fetuses life❗️❗️❗️
@Liahh_490
@Liahh_490 4 месяца назад
​@@SwordatmidnightOk child's life matter but what if the parents are not in a position to look after it.?
@Lashaytingz
@Lashaytingz 2 года назад
Do withdraw your blood?
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Год назад
Since it was in 2009, I'm not sure.
@Vanessa-jr3rn
@Vanessa-jr3rn 4 года назад
and thank you for posting I am writing a research paper for college
@benjaminschaeffer9797
@benjaminschaeffer9797 3 года назад
Baby
@FrangoTraidor
@FrangoTraidor 3 года назад
cela ne mène à rien
@DenisOmahoney-i1n
@DenisOmahoney-i1n Месяц назад
Anybody thinking of abortion try the prolife movement for help
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 16 дней назад
Ever adopted? No? Then be quiet.
@DenisOmahoney-i1n
@DenisOmahoney-i1n 15 дней назад
Seen adoption. In action seen good it does
@jillhaworth5554
@jillhaworth5554 4 года назад
Love you Rach 💛💛💛
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 4 года назад
Jill Haworth love you 💛
@lovekhan5876
@lovekhan5876 3 года назад
@@RainbowwRach I know what I would do. I woundnt have killed my baby. You had no right to kill that baby. You had no right to take that child's life. Your son or your daughter would be 12 years old this year.
@whitneyleger1136
@whitneyleger1136 2 года назад
@@lovekhan5876 And you have no damn right to tell her what to do with HER body. Have your opinion but don’t force it on other people.
@tinatijerina-ch2ev
@tinatijerina-ch2ev 2 месяца назад
Baby killer
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach Месяц назад
There’s no love like Christian hate. 🧿
@wildmanlopez9772
@wildmanlopez9772 11 месяцев назад
You are so brave for sharing with us all about how you killed your baby 💀
@RainbowwRach
@RainbowwRach 9 месяцев назад
Cool profile pic, bro.
@Datbwoi-b1q
@Datbwoi-b1q 7 месяцев назад
​@@RainbowwRachYour baby is dead.
@leilatorres13
@leilatorres13 3 года назад
thank you so much for sharing your story
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