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Actress Stella Damasus Speaks : Dark Seasons in My Marriages -- And Life Lessons!

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Everyone has dark seasons, and in this episode of I Overcame, Stella Damasus lays it all bare on what she went through, experiencing the unexpected loss of her husband, who was the love of her life at a young age, and being left with two children.
She also shares about experiencing two divorces and the lessons she has learned through the whole process.
I promise you, this episode will leave you emotional and inspired!
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@OrganicTreatsGlobal 3 месяца назад

Well done Stella and you are truly loved. I can relate with you darling. I left an abusive marriage after over two decades. I was stigmatised, isolated and castigated. But today i am thankful to God because He saw me through the valley of the shadow of death and i am vindicated. My children are also blessed and God is with them. God bless you.

@essierewane8405 Год назад

'No human being can complete you' I learned that about 4 years after my divorce. Truly only God completes you. One lesson- Be comfortable and confident in being ALONE.....

@rosylove1136 3 месяца назад

I really learned, be confident of yourself and know that only God can complete you

@kadeervictoriaeno1112 3 месяца назад

Wow!!!! Thank you for giving me so much strengthen this evening, I was almost losing it, widowed with 3 kids, life has been rough and tough

@UchechukwuVivianOyitabu 3 месяца назад

Jayie Aboderin loved Stella, he was musician then. His death shoke Lagos. He's from a well known family, his sister is Wumi Obe . Stella is a strong woman

@EuniceCudjoe-wl9lk Год назад

Wow.... I'm inspired by SD. I couldn't help but to cry. Because I couldn't very much relate with most of the things she been through, especially the social anxiety disorders, making people look and think of you negatively. SD I love you and keep on being you. The Lord is our strength and He's got our back. Shalom Peace.

@efejoni4581 3 месяца назад

Mama Stella you are a strong woman. Losing someone special to you it's not easy, I lost my dad 2019 he meant everything to me, I lost my mom when I was 3 years, my dad was there for me, he was sick for 5 years before he died, i didn't want him to die, he was my everything, I miss him every day of my life. But God is faithful

@graceewuzie4187 3 месяца назад

Thank you ma'am

@sandraagharese1666 3 месяца назад

So sorry, God will take care of you

@paulaofomi2771 3 месяца назад

I can relate. My dad died In 2014, I haven't moved from it. I felt betrayed too and still keep asking God in my foolish way that why did He allow it to happen. My dad was my everything.

@sonicandtails1464 Год назад

I can’t believe that I actually watched the entire discussion. It was truly inspiring to hear from Stella. I could relate to some of her struggles and her victories too. When you see women who emerge successfully after losing their husbands or a breakup, it’s usually a sign that God is with them and has taken over. I was also glad to hear that Kate has been a good support system to Stella. Kate is another strong lady that I really admire In Nollywood.

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Thank you for watching and for the feedback. Kindly share to encourage someone too.🙏🏽🥰

@ifeomaakeredolu6982 Год назад

Awesome! Thank you for sharing. God is really great

@erinmaokoro5460 3 месяца назад

I have benefited a lot from this. Thank you Stella and the host. God bless you!

@chijiokenwankwor Год назад

Wow, this is such an honest and authentic conversation. God bless you Stella 🙏

@kunezicomfortmandah88 3 месяца назад

Lessons learned cont. •If you don't allow people do things to you, they won't •You don't accept the name that's not yours •People who are judgemental are actually dealing with a lot of self guilt looking for others to pour venom on •Process and let it go to move on •Grow up to know there's no need to force things. If it's going, it's going. If not, let it go • Be okay with you •Access God's grace and favour by thanking Him daily. Gratitude is a formula. Be contented at the level you are.

@mbasitijesse 3 месяца назад

👏🏾👏🏾❤️😊

@AngieOwih-gq7jb 3 месяца назад

Thank you ❤

@obiagelinnaji2525 2 месяца назад

I came across this by accident. Such an inspiring story. Thank you Stella for sharing your story. Continue to keep your head up.

@imavivprettymama500 3 месяца назад

I practically shed tears listening to Stella. Losing a loved one especially a life partner and at such young age with children to take care of is one of the most difficult things ever.. I pray for total healing for her and I pray that God remembers her and her children for good.. Love you so much Stella Damasus🥰❤️

@Dabs1988 3 месяца назад

Cried intermittently throughout this interview 😢😢😢. Thank God for overcoming. Chaiii, we never know what people go through.

@BELETABELINDASHARON 3 месяца назад

I too cried. She was so young

@NnennaMIlodigwe-Odio 3 месяца назад

SO HAPPY I CAME IN CONTACT WITH THIS. STELLA YOU ARE A COMPETE WOMAN

@Cess886 2 месяца назад

I thank GOD for blessings me,giving me the opportunity to come across this vital conversation between these strong ladies,thanks SD and the host for sharing 😊🥰😘

@mbasitijesse 2 месяца назад

Thank you for watching. So glad it blessed you.🙏🏽🌹

@mergt.t9535 3 месяца назад

I took time to listen to this documentary to the end because Stella was one of my favorites In Nollywood in her days. All the negativity and criticisms and name calling against her kind of got me confused and l also developed mixed feelings towards her. But today l have heard from her directly and I will want to say Stella accept my apology and l apologize on behalf of the rest who judged you from HEARSAY. My people , this is a lesson for everyone to learn. Do not judge,conclude and castigate someone from a mere hearsay. Get to hear the person directly.

@udechukwuuchechukwu513 3 месяца назад

Exactly 💯

@sandraagharese1666 3 месяца назад

You spoke for many of us, thank you

@NdikumSuzzyMangwi-kg6qn Месяц назад

I was just scrolling through RU-vid and honestly it was worth watching honestly. I'm a bit relieved and from this I think I know myself. Thank you Stella Damascus.

@mbasitijesse Месяц назад

@@NdikumSuzzyMangwi-kg6qn We are glad it helped. Thanks for watching.❤️

@clarybeluche-abba1134 11 месяцев назад

Thanks for doing this Stella. It's a pleasure hearing from you, am not a social media person and not too sure I know so much about some of the stories after the death of your dear husband. But I identify with the widowhood aspect, I understand every aspect and can't judge or cast aspersions. God bless you for being you. Thank you for reminding us to know who we are and to live a life of gratitude.

@gracearreneke9926 2 месяца назад

There is so much money to be earned through social and other media just from bashing and running down people these days. Stella, listening to this presentation, I am awed by your strength in this journey and the wisdom of your mom, and how her wise words were able to help you reflect on your true identify so that you could continue to make that journey of self discovery. Unlike many, you identified and owned your own mistakes. You cannot inspire people if you haven't made the journey. There has to be a story to tell from the primary source. Ride on, Sister. Let them be with their frustrations.

@mbasitijesse 2 месяца назад

Thank you!🩵

@constancelawriw7055 Год назад

Very inspiring on both ends, keep this coming ladies. So proud of you women given our culture and how little our women speak on these issues and life in general. Much love!!!❤❤❤❤

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Thank you so much, Constance.🙏🏽🌹

@louisaabbey9109 Год назад

You're a strong and beautiful woman, Stella. Keep soaring. God appreciates and adores you❤🥰

@ngongnicoline1303 3 месяца назад

Your everyday declaration about yourself always works miracles

@sandraezejianyaele8288 Год назад

I am so happy that you guys are talking about this; you must know yourself before marriage. Don't listen to anything anybody has to say because it is your life. Again, l want to thank Stella for being so vulnerable and also for her growth which is why she is able to give the numerous advice she has given. No human being has the power to control you; this is so deep and apt.

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Thank you for the lovely feedback. We are glad you took lessons. Please share to inspire someone else.❤️

@ighoiyamu9894 2 месяца назад

I'm so grateful I stumbled on this piece, thanks Stella for boosting my confidence. Women don't die there plsss🥰🥰🥰

@AlfredblessingZidon 2 месяца назад

Wow am glad I had from you It makes me to start working on my self, wish to hear more from you again and again 💕💕

@agnesdaniel1178 Год назад

What a beautiful watch. Stella is full of wisdom. I learnt a lot

@mbasitijesse Год назад

I am glad you did. Please share to get someone else inspired. Bless you.🙏🏽🌹

@obedorji2456 29 дней назад

Nnaaaaaa this Stella no gree for beauty. Always looking refreshed and her beauty is still very much in place. Ride on our beautiful damsel and screen queen 🎉👍

@lizzyo563 Год назад

Only a fool who has not been through life will judge Stella. Thank God that He is glorifying Himself in your life. I LOVE YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤😘

@hlengiwemasondo2858 Год назад

That is so truer

@Ekwy2023 Год назад

You can say that again!

@autaruth4293 Год назад

People are always quick to judge, he that has not sinned be the first to cast the stone

@unique6449 4 месяца назад

💯

@svkkonsultsinc.2066 3 месяца назад

So people who have not experienced life are fools.

@ronkeadetoro6302 2 месяца назад

Stella is my support system for these peaceful messages, my mind is at peace now; I love you so much ❤.

@graceafuoku1045 3 месяца назад

Its really not easy hun. You are a brave lady. It's not easy losing a love one. I lost my mum in 2011, my husband April 2021 and my dad October, 2021. Only a fool will judge Stella. It's really a hard road going that path sis. Much love 💘

@ronioberuomo5111 3 месяца назад

I can really relate to Stella's experience. I actually grow up with stella in Benin. We lived two blocks apart and my mum is from the same village with her Dad. Stella was pampered growing up because she was the last of five girls. I am so sorry stella for all you went through. May God keep helping you to continue to heal.

@chipophiri908 3 месяца назад

So sad. I was also almost 26 when I lost my husband, We had three children together and they are all grown up now. God has been faithful to us all the way until now. I'm so grateful to God.

@mbasitijesse 3 месяца назад

❤️

@sandraagharese1666 3 месяца назад

🥰😍🤩😘

@omgbreezy06 Год назад

Wow , thank you for this piece , it’s inspiring and thank you SD for taking time for this narrative . I completely understand we’re you are coming from . Never be hard on yourself girl . I tell you what … you are pretty , beautiful , I couldn’t stop admiring this beauty . Beauty and intelligent Stella , congratulations and sorry for all you have gone through . ❤

@user-yg7re5yb9t 3 месяца назад

Thank you so very much! Stella is one of Nollywood’s veterans I love, admire and respect and that feeling has gone an upper notch listening to this insightful interview! Wishing her all the very best with blessings and again big thank you for organising this! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏾♥️💕

@mbasitijesse 3 месяца назад

Thank you for your kind words and thanks for watching.🌹🙏🏽

@mercyndah5418 3 месяца назад

This really worth my time. One thing i took from Stella is tell ur story. Don't let others tell ur story

@mbasitijesse 3 месяца назад

Thank you for watching.🌹

@bessjibunoh Год назад

I cried at how you described J and the only probable reason God took him. Thanks for sharing your story. I am happy that God is forever be your mainstay! ❤

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Amen! Thank you.❤

@ruthlean5930 Год назад

WOW just WOW! I was truly blessed, strengthened and comforted once again. Thanks Mbasiti and Stella Damascus. God bless, preserve and uphold you.

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Amen! We are Glad this inspired and encouraged you, ma’am.❤

@sandraswatson-oppong2762 3 месяца назад

Rita Dominic and Stella Damasus have the same mannerisms. At certain points of the interview I could see Rita Dominic in Stella.

@gladysohis7594 2 месяца назад

Exactly! I tho't I was the only one seeing it ooo

@Revabella Год назад

It honestly takes a lot to share a part of ourselves with others and I honestly appreciate this opportunity, I learnt so much from this, thank you so much Ma❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Indeed it does. You are welcome.🙏🏽🌹

@paulineelotowa5791 Год назад

WOoooo..Stella Damascus is so strong. I wish I can handle emotions like her. More strength S.D

@mariemansaray1605 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much Stella. It's a long one but trust its so inspirational that I didn't get tired watching at a go. I've always admired you and this one just added to the ❤❤ and administration. I'm actually not a widow but I've learnt a lot!!!!!!

@jaicehumpah6848 3 месяца назад

Your story is so similar to mine dear. I understand the pain of loosing a good man. Mine I used to call him J too and the tears can't stop dear. Please take heart

@adulojuesther9845 3 месяца назад

Madam SD, It's nice to see you again so sound and 'fresher' looking ! You used to be a face most delightful to behold when on show in those days. In fact nothing change in your facial adaptations especially the ways you switch, twist & slide your lips All these were the good spices that made viewer fans stayed tune and even want to keep a date with your next episode on screen. This session of interview is highly touching and resourceful. Your courage all through is commendable. May the good Lord continue to keep you abiding in Him till His coming IJN. CHEERS!

@beestewart9727 3 месяца назад

Thank you one of my favorite Nollywood stars. Just know that I love you and think big of you. You are a true inspiration and I thank God to I’ve come across this.

@adeolaolayemi8848 3 месяца назад

I pray I will be able to share my story on widowhood someday......Stella, well done for this ....really helpful, especially when you mentioned "Suppot system ".....that truly is my second good part of this phase, after my children ❤.... till now, God knows how to meet all my needs, just at the right time...and I am grateful to Him....though I questioned Him too at some point ....but still He is faithful ❤. God bless you SD for sharing your experiences 🙏

@jkaikai 3 месяца назад

Hello! Kudos to Stella for sharing such a brave and inspiring story of her like. As for me, I’m dealing with Generalized Anxiety Disorder and it has been rough. But her testimony has helped me a whole lot, since I woke up this 3AM in Maryland 🇺🇸. Once again, thanks to you both for helping me with coping skills. Actually, I was up to listening to videos or teachings on GAD and I ran into this video of yours out of curiosity. It really helped and blessed my life, especially knowing I’m not the only one battling something like this. I’m truly grateful. 👏

@bisikingskid 4 месяца назад

Thank you so so much ma for bringing this interview to us. We are blessed and grateful. Thank you so much ma @Stella Damasus for sharing with us all these. God bless you more! God bless Pathfinder TV!

@agnesepoh9525 Год назад

My love for this woman is something else. Stella you are a power house. Keep looking unto Jesus!You are an inspiration to many.I love your strength dear

@chichilove8699 3 месяца назад

Kate Henshaw is an angel ooo. Chaiii! God bless her heart! Stella became a very young widow at 26 years. I couldnt imagine then and not even now. May God continie to be your strength

@otarumary4234 2 месяца назад

Hmmmmm!!!! I was touched about it all. SD you are a strong woman!!! 👍👍👍

@olukemiaderonkeoke9503 11 месяцев назад

It's good to hear from Stella again. Despite all the...you'd always remain loved by some of us. People go through so many things and only God knows, but I admire and love your threshold, courage and confidence, despite the odds. The Lord is your strength. Keep being strong!

@chinyerebenitaike6131 3 месяца назад

Thank you highly Esteemed Stella. Iam so so glad to hear you speak, i thought i have lost you. I love you so deeply

@anthoniaehikwe128 Год назад

Lovely, thanks for the encouragement. That's why I never judge people. I'm a recent widow by the way

@mbasitijesse Год назад

So sorry to hear about this. May God comfort you and fill up every vacuum.❤

@FlorenceAdeta-sp9po Год назад

Stella you’re blessed. Thank you for staying alive. Thank you for being there for your children. And keep doing that. God bless you Stella. ❤

@patienceoluwabunmiadeniyi3324 3 месяца назад

Wow. This is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story

@ataichristine306 3 месяца назад

Am so blessed with your testimony. I am making a step out of this stressful and manipulative relationship just for the sake of one child. I have picked a lot to deal with the situation. Thank you woman of God.

@mbasitijesse 3 месяца назад

We wish you the very best. Prayers up?🙏🏽🌹

@vibaneliza2485 3 месяца назад

I have learnt a lot from your story Mrs. Stella. D. THANK YOU SO MUCH. GOD BLESS YOU. Lots of love from Cameroon 🇨🇲❤️.

@mbasitijesse 3 месяца назад

You are so welcome

@preciouswogu4609 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your story. Honestly I have heard bits of it before now. It made me pray and be solemn. I am grateful you are better. May the Lord continue to shine His light upon you. Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you

@caledhenry2433 Год назад

I have always admired Stella because I see her as real. She has proven that she is real by inspiring us in this interview (speaking the truth from her mind). I love her so much❤. God continue to protect and provide for her in Jesus name🙏

@okwyezeh Год назад

Exactly I love her for that ❤

@saidatfarawe1804 Год назад

I love this video a lot. I respect people's feelings. Stella and Omotola are the two people i love. Loving them didnt even require me looking into their lives. I just love them irrespective of their flaws. She is strong and i love the fact that she acknowledged God. I learnt a lot from the video, it is like teaching me how to express what am going through. ❤❤❤❤

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Thank you so much for watching and commenting.God will see you through your season too and give you answers and direction.🙏🏽🌹

@Ekwy2023 Год назад

Thanks Stella for being this vulnerable!

@adongosheila9215 2 месяца назад

I cannot believe, i am crying listening to this.Well done woman

@anthoniaehikwe128 Год назад

She's very beautiful , intelligent and talented ❤

@lilylily6422 3 месяца назад

❤❤❤ so beautiful indeed.

@sandraagharese1666 3 месяца назад

Thank you Stella for sharing and so sorry for all you've been through

@delightgutip1610 3 месяца назад

wow! if you honor God and have regard for yourself, there are certain ways you won't allow people treat you. This is profound, thank you Mbasiti!!

@habibattijani849 3 месяца назад

I have always being and still a fan of SD. I love that you are who u are. Just keep being unapologetically you. You owe nobody an explanation

@Sarianmiller 3 месяца назад

This is wonderful,Thank you ma'am for sharing, am in a place now that it feels like i just woke up from an abusive marriage of 15 years 3 children,spend 14 years forgiving and beging my ex husband to be a father to our kids.i just realized that i am enough and i decided to walk very very far away from abuse,i know God is with us and will akways be. Thank you, ma,am once again.

@miracleogbuigba 3 месяца назад

I am just watching but I am sooooo glad i watched till the end. Thank you Ma for sharing your story.

@bihchante8507 Год назад

Thank you so much for having the courage to share this about your life, Stella. I am going through some of what you went through. Hope to meet you someday. I also hope to share my story someday to heal someone

@mbasitijesse Год назад

We pray for strength for you. May every desire be met.🙏🏽🌹

@okwyezeh Год назад

Thank you Stella. You have always been loved ❤by me. Hearing you talk makes me love you more. Sorry for all you have been through. ❤❤❤

@ijeomaagomuo 3 месяца назад

Thank you Stella, I have learnt something from u today because I also lost my husband last year. It wasn't easy too. God is in control.

@etusjuliet5133 3 месяца назад

I have always admired Stella Damasus from movies and even with all the name callings on media then, i always felt deeply within me that she must be going through a lot that many people don't know. I have always Loved You Sis and still will. Thank God you have healed enough to tell your story and also encourage singles!

@lukongblessing9990 3 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing Stella, it's so much encouraging. From today i learned to choose to believe in myself. I also suffer from social anxiety. It's hard to deal with, you lose your self worth fighting with it.

@joycemwewa8744 Год назад

Anxiety. Just started working on myself , Journaling, listening to positive words. Joel osteen. I woke up one day and said no more. Anxiety is horrible. M praying and relying on God.

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Keep winning.🙌🏽🥰

@Chi_villagekicthen2024 2 месяца назад

We are same here. Anxiety is terrible , But the word and prayer is helping me

@MamTee16 3 месяца назад

Thank you Mama. All the lessons from your 3rd marriage are lessons I picked and will continue to run life with as I journey through this transition phase of my life.

@olobaniyipatience6168 11 месяцев назад

Awesome God thank you for helping me to come across this, SD you are a very wonderful person.It's seven years of widowhood for me.But this has really blessed me. CONGRATULATIONS SD.❤

@anitankansah4168 3 месяца назад

Stella, you are blessed and highly favored. You are a wonderful woman/mother, your words are encouraging and powerful. God is indeed with you because you acknowledged Him all through your interview. Continue to be happy and God bless you❤❤❤

@chigozievincent366 3 месяца назад

Wow! Am really relieved to watch this for this video to pop out in utube for me to watch it is a prayer answered.weldone pathfinder

@its_zin1 3 месяца назад

I’m literally in tears listening to Stella , you are such a strong woman , I always know , I love you so much .stay strong ma .

@noelledouss3142 3 месяца назад

Congratulations on your book. I am super proud of you. Remain blessed❤

@olaoyeolatunbosun 3 месяца назад

Learnt a lot from this session, Stella you made me move from one step to another.l also have same condition as you but pulling thru gradually..I stumbled across this on RU-vid,Thank you Stella you just ignited something in me this morning tanx and God bless you...

@adenikemartinsogungbe7801 Месяц назад

Thank you Stella, truly inspiring.

@praisechijioke197 3 месяца назад

You’re a very strong woman and I’m grateful to GOD for bringing you this far , despite all the challenges and down times… I can really relate.. I Love you Beautiful Stella

@joyudeh1321 3 месяца назад

This is fantastic story nd I learnt from it.... Thank u so much Stella nd may God bless u more 🙏

@titepollyndouglas946 3 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your story, I secretly judged you but I loved to you too much to judge you publicly. May God continue to grant you strength.

@joanyblaise5676 3 месяца назад

Thanks so much for sharing this. So much lessons learned.

@mbasitijesse 3 месяца назад

Glad it was helpful!

@fennaenweremadu8981 Год назад

Well done stella. I've missed you for years. I am a fan of yours in Nollywood industry. I love youu

@gloriaezeronye2644 Год назад

I am happy that I was able to listen to this interview to the end. I pray that God will continue to lead and guide her.

@TYRICchamunorwacpm 3 месяца назад

God bless you and may He give you abundant peace Stella. I feel so encouraged by your courage. I am 2 years widowed. Thank you my dear.

@audreyzatsar4164 3 месяца назад

❤❤❤Thank you Stella, thanks to the host for this amazing job. So many lessons to take. From Cameroon 🇨🇲

@agatevureglory 3 месяца назад

This was a great session.More grace to do exploit!

@utibeumoetuk8290 3 месяца назад

We thank God for helping you to discover your strength and moving you the next level of believing so much in yourself without seeking for anyone's validation.❤❤❤

@magdalenehiaguina-hr8xg 3 месяца назад

I can quite relate when she talked about working extra hard solely to provide quality and secured lives for her kids..❤

@emmanuelanthony100 3 месяца назад

Thank you Mbasiti and Stella for taking us through a unique ride and sharing such great experiences. The lessons are innumerable and i appreciate. Love you all!

@gloryorji6933 2 месяца назад

Your first husband is the real one mam 😢 thank God your are strong mam

@anthonydouji454 3 месяца назад

Stella, I didn't know much about you until when I followed your story here . Your life story is not an encouragement message for women alone but to everyone. I am highly encouraged and strengthened. God bless you 🙏

@brownadejumoke4012 3 месяца назад

I'm so emotional right now, i love you stella, God will continue to be with you and your children

@feliciaikuomola905 Год назад

You are blessed dear sister, the LORD will continue to uphold you IJMN. ❤

@mbasitijesse Год назад

Thank you! You too!

@ogbestella4325 Год назад

Stella my dear. I've always loved you and I love you still. Thanks for being real, no faking it, so down to earth and fun to listen to 🎉

@bernardacquah3222 Год назад

Our society has to grow out of labeling Widows who return to work soon after they loose their husbands. They have to feed too, they have to cloth their children and life must go on. Its sad that the people who complain are the same ones who have little to support the family.

@vcj8096 3 месяца назад

First time I tried to like a comment twice and noticed I had already liked it. God bless you, I know this came from your heart. Most of the Nigerian society are not merciful to widows, and those esp ladies who had even one child out of wedlock.