wow... truly brilliant. I really enjoyed the clarity, modesty and honesty you brought to this vital subject. You have challenged my worldview. Hopefully, with the benefit of your insight, I will be better able to walk the narrow path. Thank you :) PS. I totally get what you are saying, but I'm not sure that the stereotypical male/female role fully serves your argument. I'm sure that you would be one of the first to agree.
Spends the whole time defining the polarized love and power context - 1 sentence on the solution "choosing either love or power gets one stuck. Would rather have had at least 1/3 on the "magic trick or recipe" for operating out of a balanced blend rather than only touching on it in the short question section.