Addressing 'Abusive Culture' | Celebrity Backflips & Laughing at Gymnastics Fails. 

I hope you heal right, quickly, and with a minimal amount of pain.

Mate life is tuff we get walls that we have to climb and your coach is a very complicated wall to climb so all you must do is say to yourself she is a small minded ape and she never got loved she picks on me because she knows she can't do things like this at all and if she tells you that you suck or you are bad at this then you say to her straight why don't you do it and if she gets someone to do it then you say no you must do it and let me judge you and then you can feel how it feels and if she doesn't want to do it then you tell her that she must comment on every dam thing you do if she can't do it she must shut up and carry on coaching and if she says I don't like your attitude then you tell her I didn't ask you to like but you can deal with it so just put your foot down mate being scared is in every one but when you brake that barrier then you can easily end a conversation or put someone in there place

Jonette Escobar Hang in there friend! I busted my ankle pretty badly about 5 years ago, surgery and all that, and it does get better. I’m so glad your mom is supporting you and keep talking to her, she knows how to help you or get help. Keep doing what you love and you’ll find the right path. Feel free to message me - with your moms permission! You got a friend here in the United States. 😀

@@jennahoran8647 lucky you live in the United States it's so cool there I live in South Africa and it's horrible here

First and foremost, I want you to concentrate only on getting better and that includes mentally stronger too. I hope that if you LOVE gymnastics and you must, otherwise you wouldn't have kept getting better and moving forward, then I pray this injury only makes you more determined to do your rehab and get back out there competing. I'm VERY proud of you for being that tough. You're getting the physical help but your chosen sport is especially challenging mentally as well as physically, (actually ALL sports that go beyond just playing for the fun of it, are mentally and physically challenging) but until you can get that extra screw out, you can start training mentally to focus on yourself. Not selfishness, but during training or competition, you don't want your brain to let a negative thought in, so you need to train your brain. I'd start with when you first wake up in the morning by saying, I AM GOOD ENOUGH TO CONQUER ANY OBSTACLE PUT IN MY WAY INCLUDING AN INCOMPETENT COACH! And, say it out LOUD! It's called self-affirmation. DISCLAIMER: I'm NOT A DOCTOR, (I was a judge) but I've been through a whole lot of crap in my life including sexual and physical abuse and being told that I'm not good enough, so I bring experience to the table and compassion. Then, read or listen to people who inspire you. I just finished reading Michelle Obama's book "Becoming" and it is truly inspiring. I just watched a great show called "Kobe Bryant's Muses", it was filmed 5 years ago, so it's him talking about struggles and channelling his own frustrations and anger. I'll check RU-vid and maybe it's on here, if I can find it, I'll leave you the link. But, Google "inspirational quotes", pick the ones that make YOU feel like it's speaking straight to your soul. Then, here's the strange sounding thing, write them down on paper, cover your room with them, sit in front of your mirror and SAY THEM OUT LOUD UNTIL YOU BELIEVE THEM!! You know you're a very good gymnast, BELIEVING THAT can also be very hard. You also want to be a very good person, you could change the world someday, so BELIEVE THAT YOU'RE A GREAT PERSON, BECAUSE YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON!! As far as your crappy coach, just remember that she didn't believe in herself, she didn't think she was good enough and mostly remember that she was jealous of you and your talent, jealous for YOU being so damn good. Then, toss everything she said into the garbage because that's where it belongs and don't give her any more of yourself, she had her chance. Don't give her anymore of your energy because it will only hamper your recovery. I know it's easier said than done because it's easier to believe the bad stuff people say to us, especially women. But, make it a goal. And, when you MAKE your comeback and succeed at whatever your goal's maybe, I'm presuming Olympics? The best revenge is proving her WRONG! And, I don't know where you live, but what she did to you is considered child endangerment, at the very least and a police investigation should be started, it would in the U.S. The next girl she mistreats could wind up paralysed or worse. Take care of yourself and remember what Nile says, "TRAIN SMART, KEEP IT REAL"! Sending positive energy and prayers your way. Oh, always remember that the coach needs YOU more than you need the coach, afterall, your mama was paying her. You can find a better coach! This is the link to Kobi's 2015 documentary. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-WKEfVMSoMqM.html

Your sooooo lucky what’s the gym

@@ellier8981 it's in Rotherham

Ron Out of Water oh

@@manishchoudhary9310 no I go on Mondays

@@manishchoudhary9310 what's it got to do with you?

DAMN RIGHT YOU AND ASH SHOULD!

Nice try, but no.

@@randomisthewayforward4045 indeed or at least a duplicate for you all.

Yes definitely!!🤣

Sorry Luke, you're fabulous but Ash can do no wrong in my eyes. Nile should def just give you each one. It'll help the economy. :)

What's her full name?

@@asmr5arah Laura Crane

I was sooooooo happy to see the 3 musketeers back together. It's been too long.

btw: at my school we only had 6 weeks of gymnastics, which at 5'7" i was good at all equipment...loved the exhileration it gave me but we had no local teams nor training gyms, basketball was my other luv ...so wish in this rural city had been a gym to train :/

What's her name 😍

I hope he’s not held back for speaking out. One of his coaches there is one of the main coaches for Britain (like a Marta).

IKR?

Yeah I agree. And also Chinese gymnasts x

@@sophieb5045 China...it's most kids not just gymnasts🤐

Charlie True

Very true but it doesn’t make it right. A worse evil doesn’t a bad thing good.

A lot of ones in those countries literally live in gyms away from their family and are forced into it and abused

What gym did you go to

gamer dude657 Bit scared to say tbh in case one of the people there sees this 😂. They probs all follow Nile Wilson, as well! 😬

If ya don't need one, ya don't need one. Lol