ADDRESSING WHY I AM NOT MARRIED!!! (FIRST AND LAST TIME ADDRESSING THIS)!! 

“Still trying to learn each other” after 8 years and a kid is wild 🥴 but carry on

So making a whole human is okay but marriage is eehhhhhh 😂😂😂

Not to embarrass you but Black Love Is not Playing house with a boyfriend living in constant fornication and being a baby moma . Your relationship is nothing to model , Give your younger sisters and daughter something to look up to at least.

“Denial is a river in Egypt “ you wanna get Married it’s nothing wrong with that ,I’m sure if he asked you to marry you’ll say yes and fast! Your daughter has his last name but you dnt ☹️ financial ready for a house and child together but not to share a last name come on

Maybe I'm ole school but to say Marriage is a huge commitment is crazy..When you've created a whole child together..8 years & a baby..But still trying to figure each other out..🤔 Let me get back to minding my business..Because this whole video doesn't make since to me & Yes..I'm happily married. ☺️😊

Now if yall were to break up today & in a year from now he’s married, being a family man with a whole new woman you’d be crushed. You better demand some commitment and some respect from the man you’ve given all these years of your life too! Please ladies stop settling for being just a Baby Momma 💔

I wanna see your parent's reaction video to this one

Honestly speaking babes you aren’t married because he doesn’t see a need to marry you. You’ve allowed yourself to treat a boyfriend like a husband & that’s where many women go wrong. Some things are meant to be saved for your Husband & your husband only. Not a boyfriend. Like having a child. If you start overplaying your part, he will never fully commit to you because for what? 🤷🏽‍♀️

I will never understand people being willing to bring an entire human being in the world with somebody but marriage is where they draw the line.

One thing about Ti, she may be someone who obviously can’t be alone, BUT she never settles .. nor has she let anyone make her their baby mama. And I have to say, Daysha, you’re the perfect example of someone your sisters do not wanna be nor look up to. Yikes 😬

You can tell it bothers her cause she’s literally rambling about why his not marrying her , after all these years it should be a no brainer but she’ll learn

I hate to see beautiful women settling for men that don’t deserve them. You’re still young Daysha, please don’t waste anymore of your 20s on this man. I hope you take these comments into consideration and not take them as hate. All men do not cheat. You could easily find you a man that would be willing to treat you right, marry you and everything in between. Don’t settle for anything less just because you’re used to the same person. Sometimes change is necessary, choose you.

Girl dont be trynna get cute with us cause that man aint wifed you up 😂😂😂 You definitely waiting on that ring which is why you keep bringing up the question.. why not ignore it? lets be fr. I hate when women lower their standards because of a man.

having a kid is and will always be a bigger commitment then marriage. a marriage can be ended yall connected through that child for the rest of yall lives

You guys live together, had a baby together, been together for EIGHT YEARS, share finances together, share basically everything together but yall can’t make the commitment of marriage? Sound pretty DUMB! I love deysha but girl nooooo

She explaining all this for no reason, people are going to have their own opinions period. If she wants to stay with Quik for years & years (married or not) then thats her choice. If she like it, I love it lol🤷‍♀

You’re not too young to be married, that is a lie from the enemy. All the young people are married in my church. My bro married his wife at 19, my pastor married at 18. It’s really about knowing God and putting him first in everything you do. I’m blessed to know a bunch of young Holy Ghost filled young married couples. It’s better to marry than to burn. Don’t be deceived, you’re worth much more. You have to find out who you are in Christ or you’ll forever settle for less. Wish you the best.

I see why he hasn’t married you. I’m shocked at how your mentality is this messed up when your own mom is a married woman and your dad didn’t make her wait almost a decade to marry her . It’s soooooooo much I can reply to from this video but I'm going to let you stay crazy . If you don’t want help I’m not going waste time giving advice anymore.

im sorry daysha but you sound STUPID! you not married cause QUIK DONT WANNA MARRY YOU! it has nothing to do with marriage being a ‘business’ or y’all being happy. if y’all so happy, raising a kid, living together & you playing this “step-mama” role YOU SHOULD BE A WIFE! your parents is literally an in front example of a marriage! stop settling and lying to yourself cause he don’t wanna marry you😭😭 y’all been together this longgg, it don’t take that long to know if you wanna be with somebody or not! (& btw im very well GROWN & HAPPILY MARRIED)

I been with my husband for 17 years and we’re still learning each other and overcoming obstacles. Our biggest flaw is communication, but us being married enhances all the reasons why we want our communication to improve…if he was my boyfriend I would’ve been not give AF 😂…Sis just say you wasted your time and don’t want to start over…it don’t take 8 years to get to know a person for marriage.I don’t care what excuses y’all make up, then have the nerve to live together for several years and have a child that ties y’all together longer than any marriage 😂😂😂 tell these lies to yourself or your pillow at night 👌🏾 Gave this man all the benefits of a wife but still a baby mama 8 years later…I hope young women who watch and see this video, take lessons on what not to do…y’all sound ridiculous, you were better off ignoring the comments.

Daysha im 19 and i really wouldn’t want to spend my 20s locked down and then don’t get a ring, it kinda seem like you are saying why does marriage matter?

All the reasons you said about waiting to get married should be the same with having a baby by somebody

Saying your man can get all his cheating out before proposing to you just gave him validation to continue to cheat .. and you bold enough to accept that ? You’re 28 years old with a child (a girl child) to be exact . I hope you ain’t preaching this to her

A beautiful black love is your parents, yours is not. You’ve said before you never want to be a bm but you excuse him you changed you end result in a relationship cuz he won’t propose.

When you have Jesus Christ In Your Relationship and both individuals in the relationship are God-fearing and genuinely follow the commandments of the lord delay won’t be your portion.When you don’t put God in your relationship something that is supposed to have speed will be slow.This world is spiritual and we are fighting a spiritual warfare.Couples who are in Christ get married very early and it’s beautiful because Christ is in it and there is no cheating and never will be when Jesus is in it there is no pain no hurt no backstabbing no confusion.God makes the man stable,sure of what he wants also because he walks in the way of the lord.I pray the lord delivers you and opens your eyes and all women. Amen

It’s sad because she used to talk about wanting to be married on numerous occasions in the older videos. She seems to have changed her tune now that she knows Quik isn’t proposing anytime soon 🤦🏽‍♀️

This not it…. I still love and respect you though

4:16 daysha u cannot be serious 🧐 u really saying it’s okay if he cheats as long as he don’t do it during marriage it’s good. u stronger than me! idk 🤷🏾‍♀️ before daysha seemed like she wanted to get married like she wanted it soon so it’s interesting to see this change. just make sure ur doing this because u want to! plus the way u speak to ur supporters comes off a bit harsh, especially with all the swearing, pls be mindful day💗

Talking about “not everybody wants to be married” girl plz, God forbid something happens to that man and you at the hospital, they gon push you out that room and tell you go wait in the waiting room and you won’t have no say so over what the doctors can do to him…. Yall better stop playing with God acting like marriage is just a sheet of paper… Yall love playing with to God; fornicating and having babies out of wedlock like that shit is cute. But if she like it I love it.

Tittys be hanging low for a man that’s not y’all husband. If he passes today you won’t be regarded legally. It’s not hate or negativity these are factually ways to set yourself up for success or not in the really world. so yes it matters

you said "get all your cheating out before you try to settle down with me", not to say people do or don't cheat but that statement sounds like you're enabling someone to cheat on you. When anybody says "if we do we do, if we don't we don't - get married" makes it seem like that person is confused if they want to be married or not. if you and partner has been having conversations about marriage over the span of years of y'all being together (especially having a child and living together) I don't think either one of you should still be saying "if we do get married we do, If we don't we don't"

You committed to creating an entire human being marriage is controversial??

I don't even know what to say. They are eating you up in the comments Daysha. It's sad but a lot of women settle bc they are scared. He already had a kid when you get with him I don't even know why you settled. It's sad but I have hope for Ti she knows better.

Everbody excuses for not be married always be the same .. it’s never like a legitimate reason fr

Dayasha looking good let me start by saying that. When you get married you still learning something new about each. People are constantly changing and evolving. As long as you living not dead I hope will you be evolving. Things doesn't stop just because you married. Learn together and grow together. Chile I can't take the excuses we make for my man my man. We not about playing games in marriages.

Because it’s not a deal breaker for you , it will never be a requirement for him.

I got married in 3 months after meeting,been together 12 years and we are best friends he works I'm a stay at home wife ...so to me time doesn't matter if you find love you find love ..

Sooo many people have lost the value and purpose of what a marriage is and what it’s for .. it’s sad honestly.

Ofc u dont care about marriage because u realize that man aint gonna marry you and honestly its sad

But you’re living in sexual sin and God don’t like that.

Being a pick me girl when your parents are married and the way Papa Taylor meets the men yall bring home is crazy. I think he needs to sit down with you and reestablish some things

Isn’t his daughter like 6 and she said they been together for 8 years? Yikes 😳😮

I don’t like how he talked about you getting bigger when you had his child that in itself says alot

Never Answer Or Speak For a Man When it Comes To Marriage & Marrying You. ALWAYS! Let Him Express His Feelings And/Or Opinion. From There Youll Know 🤷🏾‍♀️💯

Marriage is not a piece of paper it represents a convenant between a man and a woman under God. Marriage is an ordained institution. The reason why you are not married is because you have done all the wifey duties before you got the ring. You moved in with a man who was not your husband and birthed a child with no benefits of marriage legally and socially. God forbid if something happens to Quik, are you aware that you won't be able to inherit his property if he passes away without a will. Usually, under intestate succession, the property goes to the spouse. Since you are not a spouse, his property will go to his parents. Leaving you and your daughter with nothing. Your heart is exposing you. You want to get married, which is good and right, dont be ashamed for wanting that. You come from a household with parents who are married. There is no right age to get married,nor the right time to get married. The time is now.

Y’ALL GOTTA GET IN THE BIBLE!!!!! Jesus 🤦🏽‍♀️😒

Daysha why is this video so rude. I'm a day one supporter. Not Fan. It's a difference. Baby we didn't get no intro no how you doing nothing you just start going in about this or that. There are SOME supporters that don't care and has never stated anything about y'all getting married or any of that so when we click on a video girl we don't want to hear all this going off and cursing. We just enjoy y'all family and videos... please let this be the last time because some of us just love and adore y'all and been watching and supporting Taylor Girlz....but the way you came at y'all supporters in this video and talked tonis was disgusting and we ant use to it. I personally have never stated anything so to click this video with this nasty attitude and message out of all the years I have watched y'all...then you told us we can go somewhere else at the end like what...yeah this was rude and too much attitude.

All these comments aren't hate. Its love its wisdom girl u better open ur eyes and mind ... u only listening to ur heart. U holdin on to yrs god forbid ull be pissed its wasted years.. just like jim jones n his forever girlfriend

Get all your cheating outtttt! Baby nah! Having a baby a way bigger commitment than marriage. Y’all locked in with a kid for at least 18 years

Marriage shows that a man is committed. That he’s in this with you for life! Why do yall always mention divorce so quickly? marriage is not even supposed to end in divorce, why think negative before it even happens? Dont let that “marriage is a piece of paper” bullshit brainwash you. Yall will comitt to having a whole child but marriage is just too much, how does that make sense? No shade but these same men that “dont wanna get married” will leave a 10 year relationship and get with someone else and get married within a year. The point is to simply know your worth because a lot of the time men will use you as a placeholder because they’re comfortable, then get what they REALLY want and you’ll be left with nothing. Just be mindful

Its sad asf you feel the need to make this video knowing damn well the only reason your not married is because Quick hasn’t asked to marry you.

I respect her decision if that's how she really feels but I would like to say for the young ladies watching this, Marriage is still honorable, ordained by God and very much worth it. When a man is serious about woman, himself, your soul, and your future, Marrying you is easy and doesn't have to be a drawn out solution. Marriage is most definitely more than a business, it is a sacred union between a man and a woman. Ladies before getting into a relationship, if you desire to be married, don't allow anyone to degrade what you want because they may not be ready. Know what you want and stand on that. If it's not a priority for you, most times it won't be for them.

Daysha 🫤 I rather you just ignored the comments and didn’t post this video because you just made yourself sound kinda behind .. You rather he cheat on you in the relationship because you want him to don’t do it in the marriage?! A serial cheater is a serial cheater babe.. they don’t care if y’all married or not they gone cheat 😂 Secondly you saying you still learning that man after all them years and you wanna learn him some more before marriage is crazy!! My grandparents who been married for almost 30 years now still learning each other everyday.. you will NEVER know someone 100% .. so stop making excuses for Quik & just ignore the marriage comments 🤦🏽‍♀️

In your situation Daysha I think it's good that you're not married because Quik doesn't seem to treat you respectfully. It wouldn't make sense to take that extra step with someone who's already cheated and isn't fully committed. People need to be asking why you're giving this man your youth even as a girlfriend more than asking why you're not married.

Daysha, i been loving & supporting you since 2016 so everything im going to say is coming from a good place. Daysha by the LOOKS of it, its not giving hes going to marry you. Everything you said regarding time is accurate! however 8 years is a long time. I can see if it was 2-3 years but its damn near a decade and your not even a fiance 😭. You’re definitely wife material for sure ! but growing up in a two parent household with married parents & u see no problem with whats going on ? You & Ti live together with your daughter and ur boyfriend sleeping over… 😭 i fwy daysha but cmon bro

I think she’s thinking that you supposed to go into a marriage prefect when you don’t. The new generation definitely don’t want marriage and mortgages it’s crazy but after 8 years he definitely should have atleast proposed.

I would actually believe you if you didn’t have a whole baby with him. You went on about how big of a commitment marriage is, but you can literally get out of that marriage if y’all realize that y’all actually aren’t soulmates but that baby? Y’all can’t get out of that. You said you need him to be sure about you and if it’s right for him before settling down, yet he put a whole baby in you and was oso sure about that. God forbid y’all break up tomorrow and he gets a new gf, he gone propose to her within 2yrs and now you’re in the mirror looking at yourself crazy because you believed that all he needed was a lil more time and a lil more money. He created a broken home with his first BM and unfortunately you’re gonna be the next if you don’t be honest with yourself sooner or later, forget getting on the internet and tryna prove a point to us. He planned a baby with you, but marriage is where he needs to sit with himself a little more? Okay.

I don’t know what moma Taylor tells you behind closed doors but it don’t look like she raised you right . Is she one of those mothers who are in competition with their daughters & don’t want to see their daughters get married? I’m asking because when a mom is jealous of her daughters she will want them to become baby mothers, she will watch them make mistakes in life and enjoy it , especially if it means she’s winning over the daughter in her eyes

Daysha I understand your loyalty for Quik. You’ve been very loyal to him over the years hence why he sticks around. But you playing in your own face atp. And tricking yourself because you love him. You want the ring. Otherwise you wouldn’t keep addressing it. Your eyes are going to open one day. You’re entirely too beautiful for this mindset. Why does he keep enjoying husband perks?

My niece will be 26 in November, been with her dude for 6 years, they don’t have any kids yet, he proposed to her August of 2023 and will be gettin married July of 2024… its way older folks that have been married for 50+ years, u think they married in their 30s? Hell, your parents are high school sweethearts and married, u think they waited more than 7 years to get married? lol you’re makin too many justifications and it’s not making any sense sis.. you probably should’ve just kept this video in the archives tbh lol smh

I get pissed every time I watch this video...Ion know why I keep watching from 11:10 and It pisses me off her telling us to kick rocks and go to another channel...😂 Like Girl yes let me go because you definitely rude AF for this video snd your attitude in it and the way you addressed your subscribers.

Let’s be real that man don’t wanna marry you let alone be committed to just u and you know that and are perfectly fine with settling 🤭 8 years yet you acting like y’all still gotta figure each other out and y’all are not super young either 😂 just excuse after excuse

It takes 3 months to know if someone will be your wife or husband. The red flags will be there if present. 5-10 years means they are not sure. Baby he doesn’t want to marry you. 😢

News flaah daysha LOL COUPLES NEVER REALLY KNOW EACH OTHER BCUZ PEOPLE ALWAYS GROW: EITHER APART OR TOGETHER. 😂😂😂😂😂.

He must be cheating.

Daysha! You’re absolutely beautiful and we can see how much of an amazing person you are. Guys don’t need time to “get it right” when they’ve found the one that they won’t even RISK losing. Daysha you aren’t someone he should risk losing and he should not be doing things that could possibly lead to you walking away. He should see that and know that by now. You WOULD NOT give this advice to Dream, you would want her to be with someone who sees her value and STEPS IT UP when it comes to her. We see you deserve commitment and good behavior. You’re amazing, and I hope you TRULY see that too.

Ti would never settle for LESS !!!!

Yall don't look right together to me just solely my opinion

Why buy the damn cow when he been getting it free from the beginning

More late night talks with Daysha pleasee! I enjoyed listening to you speak your peace & this video felt comfortable and personable 🥰

Oh boy y'all not playing in these comments. But y'all know Daysha don't read them lmao so its like y'all are talking to y'all self

Daysha you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. It really ain't anybody else's business but you and Quik. If y'all love each other and are happy living your life the way you are now, nothing else matters. That's the issue with all these people's relationships: they date for 1-2 years, get married, and then have all these communication and trust issues. People have to learn to stay in their own lane and not worry about themselves. Do what you want to do

No way I'm going to be with u for 8 years have your baby and play step-mommy to your other child 😭 get somebody else to do it

It’s not even about the marriage but your man respond to that question for me sis and that “bbl” conversation and his responses was a lil bit uncomfortable to watch but if you’re happy and okay with everything then do you girl. You honestly don’t owe us no explanation but just don’t come back with another story in few years cos them mf will chew you up.🖤

Yess I miss these chill talking videos. Whether it's your opinions on things, or advice videos, or just girl talks. I remember in the earlier days, you would do girl talk with daysha or advice with daysha and you suddenly stopped. Please start back with that! 😊😘 11:35

One thing bout Day is she gone come to YT saying some dumb shit

I been watching Taylor Girlz for years but saying “rushing into a marriage” while having a baby, home and most importantly building together in a business sense is a commitment itself and it is VERY serious. We not saying it to speak negative and project marriage but the fact you said “get cheating out” “it’s not that serious” “mesh families together” and 8 YEARS?!! Let’s be serious if he wanted he would. Daysha and deep down you know that. He just got comfortable and you have accepted it. This is not black love. He’s in his 30s with 2 baby mamas.

In my opinion marriage is a combination of love and commitment between two people, two people that will stand by each other through life’s journey. It’s a bond that goes beyond friendship and creates the union of hearts and with that both souls becomes partners for life. I look at you two married in your hearts. I know people that got married to each other and could not stand each other, did not love each other and did not get along with one another but they got married to please everybody else.

That’s right Daysha🙌🏾🙌🏾 as long as you’re happy don’t worry about what anyone says ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Daysha you just said a whole bunch of nothing

This is not bashing. This is wisdom and advice. If you don't take it, then that's up to you. And us saying something shouldn't catapult him to his knees. Maybe your fans see you as a wife and not just a girlfriend . Its wild that people want to point out divorce. Marriage is work, and it ain't for the weak. And you are going to continue to learn people along the way. That's life. You either evolve and grow or you don't.

A good woman has no desire to be just somebody’s baby momma. It’s fine if you choose to settle for less. He’s in his thirties, so taking a great woman for granted is only going to hurt him in the end.

I love y’all the way y’all are!!! You’re right everyone needs to know you are fully ready! Because you may not know that person just yet! Marriage is definitely more hard to get out of and don’t want to connect them people to your business

Watch him marry another woman in 1-2 years!

Young girl I am speaking to you out of Love. I am probably to old (62) to be a fan as long as I have been but I want to tell you of something I heard and learned... It is never a good idea for a (Man ) to move in with a woman, and I know you get to choose and do what is comfortable for you. You are a (BEAUTIFUL) girl and deserve the best and as you age you will see things you don't see now. I could go on and on but I see you have a beautiful mother (talk to her) and listen.. she should not steer you wrong. I will finish by saying I see some red flags, I will pray your strength.

I love this makeup look. You look good Day

Daysha, you look so pretty!!! And while I do desire marriage for you and Quik, i've never been one to inquire about it in your comment sections - it's super rude. Thank you for addressing this. I know that it's going to happen in due time, and when, is none of our business. People feel entitled to ask WHATEVER cus you are a celebrity (they shouldn't be, however), and that comes with the territory. And honestly, we just want the best for you. You say you're genuinely happy regardless, well then, that's ALL that matters and people need to respect that 💚

Being w some one for 10 yrs and never getting remotely close was heartbreaking so I get waiting until yall are ready but to say you dnt care I don’t believe but growing and making steps towards that finish line is important unless you dnt mind waiting another 10yrs or 20 or 40 that is alot of time but hopefully one day soon getting there will be the end goal ❤

Comments is not letting up lmaooo 🤣🤣🤣

So it’s taking him 8+ years to figure out if he really wanna be with you or not?! We wanna hear it from Quik atp

I just can't...... speechless 🙄

A marriage is beautiful especially when its ordained from God. Dont take this advice, seek God and he will definitely lead you and show you why marriage is important 😊💛 🙏🏾 🙌🏾

Yassss keep the late night conversations cuz baybeeee you got the comment section going up &&& It’s your life. I think you should live it how you want too. Mens brains don’t fully develop until they’re in their 40’s anyway.

To go a little deeper,you did say you are a believer in the word of God and that you believe Jesus Christ is our Lord and savior. If you say you live by his word then you know God is big on marriage and does not want us to fornicate/shack up. Marriage comes first then everything else financially, children,etc.. falls into place. God said him who finds a wife finds a good thing. And man and woman become one in marriage. Follow what GOD says not yourself or others

U telling Truth cause I'm not paying nobody too leave me and I don't want nobody money when I leave don't have time for that long court drama

Heyyy! You don’t have to explain yourself love

Rns ii feel u on dat daysha keep doiin yall

That’s your decision so why explain why you with him to us🤦🏾‍♀️ if you’re ok with being a LONG TERM GIRLFRIEND/BABY MOMMA than that’s on you hell if you like it we love it🤷🏾‍♀️😂😂❤️

she gone turn the comments off, y’all going in

You is beautiful i was with a man for 30yrs. And I was saying that same thing i don't want to start over and we good that nigga was cheating he even got married to another whole family for a month and I took that man back and reasonly he past away and im still angry i refuse to let another man in because of his bullshit oh I have 5 grown kids for him and I refuse to let my kids deal with anything of that same kind you deserve better baby your heart to big you letting him cheat and all i can tell oh and im 50 now I meet him in 1993