This song said exactly what I am feeling after being with a narcissist for 7 years waiting for him to change but this song gave me the courage to let go even if it hurts really bad. He will never give me what I need and deserve. Thank you Adele for writing and singing what I was feeling. I cried so much hearing it over and over but at the same time it helped me begin to heal. I send you my deepest heartfelt gratitude Adele! My daughter and I love you!!
OMG this song brought tears to my eyes... Adele your music is so real and heart felt. Thank you for your songs and your beauty behind your voice and words. You are one amazing woman and a angel on earth.
Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile. Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs. Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. I love you and send you hugs. You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you. YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice. You’re beautiful inside out. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN. I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO. It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go. I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.?? I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :) All I want for you is to stay and feel alive. Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. I need you here with me :). Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out. Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up. And anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?! - The stranger that cares about you more than anything. I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay. I hope you will remember my words- becho :) Until tomorrow, my friend :)
Whoever wrote this i thank you and whoever its intended for i hope they read this i got so much from this and to where i am in my own journey right now so I thank you my friend for writing somthing so beautiful and kind but with love and coming from a place of kindness i wish you well on your journey with LOVE XX
BECHO.. Thank you so much for this 😢😢 I just couldn't hold back the tears while reading your comment 😭 You are a life saver, just when i needed someone to talk too, you were right here 😊 Thank you so much for this mehnn💜 Love from Fiji 🇫🇯
It is the world to me that you're in my life but I want to live not just survive. I resonate with this so much. Every lines of this song describe my love life.
Sou brasileiro mas quando eu ouço essa música sempre eu caio em lágrimas, a voz dela é impecável não resisto apenas fico calado e vejo a perfeição na sua voz
Adele feels like the relationship is fake. She’s unable to continue a superficial relationship with this person any longer because of the pain it’s causing her. The pain causes drifting, and the farther they drift there becomes only one way down: crash landing. The constant lying-personified by darkness-have pushed them farther and farther apart to the point where there is no hope for them anymore. Adele feel’s as if there’s no return from the dark place they’re in. When people start to drift, you start to lose touch with them and stop truly knowing them. She realizes that she is no longer the same person she was when this relationship first began; she has matured. They’ve lost touch with each other, making a lot of space between them: mentally and physically. Adele now understands through experience that loving someone in the dark is just delaying the inevitable heartbreak. She know’s its time to move on as she doesn’t want to endure or inflict any more suffering then she already has with her own darkness.
I heard this song.. and sung my heart out. I cried my eyes out.. this song hit a part of my heart I was not ready to feel. A man who abused me any way he could get .. I didn't want to leave .. until I heard this song & felt it. My heart didn't listen until these lyrics reached my soul. I loveeee Adele 🥺♥️ this is my healing song
I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years because he is an alcoholic and has hurt me physically, emotionally, and spiritually and I just couldn't do it anymore...and this song just described everything I'm feeling and going through right now... I haven't allowed myself to cry yet and this song has definitely helped... Thank you, Adele
I've been there. Unfortunately more than once. I had to learn my own worth before I can make the right decisions when it came to picking the right men. It gets easier. Stay strong. Stick to what you know what you deserve and don't fall for the same lies with one who hurts you. You got this. Xoxo
Lyrics : … Take your eyes off of me so I can leave I'm far too ashamed to do it with you watching me This is never ending, we have been here before But I can't stay this time 'cause I don't love you anymore … Please, stay where you are Don't come any closer Don't try to change my mind I'm being cruel to be kind … I can't love you in the dark It feels like we're oceans apart There is so much space between us Baby, we're already defeated Ah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah Everything changed me … You have given me something that I can't live without You mustn't underestimate that when you are in doubt But I don't want to carry on like everything is fine The longer we ignore it, all the more that we will fight … Please, don't fall apart I can't face your breaking heart I'm trying to be brave Stop asking me to stay … I can't love you in the dark It feels like we're oceans apart There is so much space between us Baby, we're already defeated Ah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah Everything changed me … We're not the only ones, I don't regret a thing Every word I've said, you know I'll always mean It is the world to me that you are in my life But I want to live and not just survive … That's why I can't love you in the dark It feels like we're oceans apart There is so much space between us Baby, we're already defeated 'Cause, ah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah Everything changed me … And I-I-I-I-I don't think you can save me
Take your eyes off of me so I can leave I'm far too ashamed to do it with you watching me This is never ending, we have been here before But I can't stay this time 'cause I don't love you anymore Please stay where you are Don't come any closer Don't try to change my mind I'm being cruel to be kind I can't love you in the dark It feels like we're oceans apart There is so much space between us Baby, we're already defeated Ah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah Everything changed me You have given me something that I can't live without You mustn't underestimate that when you are in doubt But I don't want to carry on like everything is fine The longer we ignore it all the more that we will fight Please don't fall apart I can't face your breaking heart I'm trying to be brave Stop asking me to stay I can't love you in the dark It feels like we're oceans apart There is so much space between us Baby, we're already defeated Ah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah Everything changed me We're not the only ones I don't regret a thing Every word I've said You know I'll always mean It is the world to me That you are in my life But I want to live And not just survive That's why I can't love you in the dark It feels like we're oceans apart There is so much space between us Baby, we're already defeated 'Cause, ah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah Everything changed me And I-I-I-I-I don't think you can save me
To aqui ouvindo essa música e chorando... O meu amor é militar em MG e foi convocado pra uma missao no RJ... A dor mais doida é a da saudade.... Te amo Carlos wandrew e vou te esperar o tempo que for necessário ♥️
I remember being younger when Adele first hit the scene, mom and sister wore her out but now she is definitely a legend and one if the best female voices
My heart breaks with this song so many mixed emotions been so hurt we said so many things but you’ll always take the cherry I wish at times I could go back in time to the great times we had but we both know that’s impossible what was said once was set on stone can never be taken back 🖤
This song reminds me of my greatest past love, which lingering in my life up to now. I know I must abandon it someday in the future to move on. But honestly, just think about giving up what was mean the world to me is hurting me as much as itself.
Hi, how are you ? Good luck, and please go to your own rythm. I've been there before, so I wanted to tell you, if you allow me : Days, months, years later, you'll still think about that person, that one Great love ; and sometimes, with bitterness still. But I guess we all take that road one day, and NEED to do it. Don't be or stay in sacrificial love, You deserve respect and consideration, and to be loved and wanted. You have to feel it too, so if you're heart isn't at the right place anymore, it's best for you and your health (mental, physical..) to quit. It doesn't matter how much time, energy or whatever you think you'll have wasted in this, it is not the case ! You have acquired wisdom and maturity, etc ; and over time, you will never regret your decision and I hope, Will be proud and fulfilled ! May God bless you and give you the strength to leave what you don't need anymore. So, it's hurtful or you may be scared, but I know you will close that door, to open plenty of others that will bring the light and abundance you may be missing in your life right now. I believe in you, You are a badass ! Please, be kind to yourself (try to). Sending you a big hug and much love.
Traduzione in italiano: Levami gli occhi di dosso così posso andarmene Mi mette troppo in imbarazzo farlo mentre mi guardi Questa storia non finisce mai, siamo già arrivati a questo punto prima d'ora Ma non posso rimanere questa volta perché io non ti amo più Per favore resta dove sei Non ti avvicinare Non cercare di farmi cambiare idea Sono crudele per essere gentile Non posso amarti al buio E' come se fossimo ad oceani di distanza C'è così tanto spazio tra noi Forse siamo già stati sconfitti Ah sì sì tutto mi ha cambiato Mi hai dato qualcosa senza cui non posso vivere Non devi sottovalutarlo quando sei in dubbio Ma io non voglio continuare come se tutto andasse bene Più a lungo lo ignoriamo tanto più lo combatteremo Per favore non cadere a pezzi Non posso affrontare il tuo cuore spezzato Sto cercando di essere coraggiosa Smettila di chiedermi di restare Non posso amarti al buio E' come se fossimo ad oceani di distanza C'è così tanto spazio tra noi Forse siamo già stati sconfitti Ah sì sì tutto mi ha cambiato Non siamo gli unici Non mi pento di nulla Ogni parola che ho detto Sai che la intendevo sul serio Vale come il mondo per me Il fatto che tu sia nella mia vita Ma io voglio vivere E non solo sopravvivere Ecco perchè non posso amarti al buio E' come se fossimo ad oceani di distanza C'è così tanto spazio tra noi Forse siamo già stati sconfitti Perchè sì sì tutto mi ha cambiato E io io non penso che tu possa salvarmi
you can't love me in the dark you feels like we're oceans apart there is so much space between us but baby, we're not defeated everything changed you :)
You have given me something that I can’t live without…🥲 You gave us once your voice and music and talent. Now, we CANNOT live without them! We demand 3 to 4 new songs every year😂🥰
When you're depressed it feels like a song to yourself who's stoping you from taking that step off the edge.. You're trying to let go you wanna just throw yourself into space ans take that step down.. you wanna just step down the roof but your other self is holding you from taking that step .. Wheb you just can't love yourself anymore coz the darkness just swallowed you whole..
This emotional ballad titled “Love in the Dark” (2015) finds Adele going from dumpee to dumper as she realizes that the love is spent and it’s time to finish the relationship. “I’m trying to be brave Stop asking me to stay” “I can’t love you in the dark It feels like we’re oceans apart There is so much space between us Maybe we’re already defeated” The English songstress even nods to fellow singer-songwriter Nick Lowe’s 1979 hit in this phrase : “I’m being cruel to be kind.” 💜🎵💚
I'm in a 11years relationship and counting,very loving and fun.But each time my gf and I listen to this song it always brings us to tears.We cannot relate but still,it's painfully satisfying to listen to Adele.
