Adrienne & Jordin Sparks On Why They Married Their Husbands: ‘He Was the First Person That Saw Me’ 

Jordin Sparks creates the same atmosphere on the show that Tamera did...I love her humility and aura.

I've really enjoyed Jordin Sparks on the show . She's so humble and her contributions have been nice to hear

Whew! When Jordan said “he was the first person to see ME!” I almost cried

Love that Adrienne considers couple therapy as maintenance. The maintenance is always more important than the purchase.

In our belief system, we wouldn't have sex before marriage. So, when I met my partner, and it was clear that we were a match, we got married within 6 months. We just celebrated our 17 year marriage anniversary at the end of December. It has NOT been easy, but all these years and 3 kids later, here we are...

I cried when she said he sees the real me cause in the generation we live in today it's hard to find someone who sees you

I haven't tuned into Jordin in years but seeing this I have to say I'm so happy for her. She went through a lot with Jason Derulo and she deserved so much better. She clearly got better!!!

Can we get a permanent cohost seat for Jordin? 5 ladies can still work!

Loni calling Adrienne munchkin is so cute 🥰

I love how Loni calls Adrienne "Munchkin". 😂🤣♥️

Addriene hit it on the nail!! Its that simple!! My hubby of 32 years wasnt my bff but he is the love of my life beside my 3 kids . My heart still gets beating fast when i see him!! I also feel that for me.

What they said about why they got married was soooo sweet! I really got tears in my eyes

I love that this topic came up especially that I got married 12/22/21 🥰. Marriage may not be for everyone but it is definitely worth the wait for the right person.

In most African countries dowry still exists and its a very respected culture

Marriage is unique…. It’s not “the same” as a long term relationship.

I use to hope that I will be married in my 20’s . I am now 28, still not married. And I’m actually okay with that. It’s not a must. I’m glad that I am waiting on God to just bring me the right one. For me

seeing and hearing Jordin on the show is a breath of fresh air. it would be awesome if she became a permanent host as she adds so much to the convos

Absolutely love Jordin . I adore the idea of marriage but yeah I do feel like it has become Almost a rule in relationships after a certain amount of years versus identifying the reason for the union in the first place

Being married and being in a "committed relationship" is not the same thing...

Same for me Adrienne and Jordan. When I got married I knew/felt this man loves me for me bad/good and he makes me feel safe and secure, I knew no matter what I want this man in my life.. We got married at 25 yrs old so of course things haven't been perfect but we have learned to grow together and I love him more today than ever (13 yrs marriage, 19 yrs together).

I love Adrienne's reason for getting married. ❤️

Jordin's reason for getting married is exactly what I want for me. And I can relate to Jordin on so many levels. This conversation reminds me of Jordin's song, "Worth The Wait". My favorite song from her hands down!

4:29 That would be my only reason as well. As corny as it may sound, I think we know who "our person" is. They are the ones that conversations comes easy. You get each others humor and quirkiness. And you are super respectful of each other. When you fight, you fight fair and make up quick. Those types of connections are rare. So when you meet your best friend committing to them and only them comes easy. The thought of anyone else isn't on the radar. For me, much like Adrienne, I would only marry my best friend.

When thinking of getting married I always asked myself " Would I want a child that acts like him"? We can assume someone will be a good dad but we don't know that for sure. So you have to look at their personality good and bad.

Jordin is sooooo beautiful and that hairstyle is fire

My aunt always says marriage isn't the it goal You should marry when you're ready and have accomplished your goals

Because I’m a Christian, my views of marriage are biblical because I believe marriage was designed by God. With that being said… I’m 27 and have never been married. I’ve been proposed to and I’ve had 3 boyfriends WANT to marry me, but I won’t settle. I know what characteristics I need in a husband. I’d rather stay single than settle. That’s how much I value the sanctity of marriage.

Jordan Sparks is one of the kindest, smarter women in music today. We need a new album.

Yea, if you are waiting for sex, don’t rush into marriage. It’s hard to wait, but building that trust and friendship is important.

I have to admit that I haven’t been watching the Real as consistently as I have in the past but….hey Producers, if you see this comment, if you hire Jordin Sparks I will watch everyday! She fits right in, she’s well spoken and I believe she will bring something fresh to the show 💗

She literally looks like how she looked like in the music video for No Air 😍

I love how women are finally deciding to define their lives, their relationships, their marriages for themselves and only themselves.

PLEASE KEEP JORDIN SPARKS !!! it’s great to have a younger but also mature Millennial in the group. Love this show love 💕

I like how Loni calls Adrian Munch lol

Adrienne😪👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 And what Jordin said was beautiful "he saw me"😭😭😭😭✊🏿

I want Adrienne’s sweater tho…

Wow, that’s so true that no matter what you’d want to maintain that bond and friendship 🥺

From the initial question: the answer is no. People don’t take it seriously anymore.

Loni calling Adrienne ‘Munchkin’ will never grow old 🥰🥰🥰🥰

If you find someone and believe that they are your partner for life...you should demonstrate that trust by marrying them. As a Christian man, I wouldn't like to cohabit with someone in a relationship for years...without sealing it with a marital covenant

I'll celebrate 20 years this June. I love being married definitely couldn't do the 2022 dating scene lol

Yes Adrienne I have recognized u have been doing self care/therapy etc...the last two years since Covid...u have grown A LOT is wat I have been saying in comments...I can tell...huge difference! And yes couples therapy for maintenance...is great for the relationship!

I chose him because he chose me. After years of being picked last by everyone in my life, he was the 1st one to choose me 1st.

Thank you for bringing up marriage is good and beneficial for those who want kids

In my culture a dowry is extremely important. To us it symbolizes that you respect the lady , you value her and honor her. You’re saying to her family and your family that you have now become one big family.To us when no dowry is given it shows that the man is irresponsible. Of course dowry varies from family to family though there are some symbolic items but conclusively dowry needs to be given no matter how small or gigantic. I also think premarital counseling is very important some people call it couples therapy.

People are changing the definition of marriage. We have evolved from civil marriage contracts to romantic marriages and everything in between. It's great to see folks marrying for not only love but a true partnership. I have friends who write their own marriage contracts so it's all on the table.

I also hate that Adrienne said “it’s very Bridgeton” as if Dowry’s aren’t a global culture that has existed for thousands years but yeah let’s associate it with this dumb netflix show 🤦🏾‍♀️

Jordan is so dope. She seems like a genuinely sweet person.

Dowries still exist in some cultures.

I know many people have already commented this but Jordan Sparks would be a great addition. I love this show and hearing different perspectives makes me more open minded.

Great job on the show Jordan…Love it!!!

From my personal experience, I didn't take the time I needed to really get to know my now ex-husband, I ignored all the red flags. Now I am going at my own pace, and I find that we should really think about what We really want and it not be based on what we can get out of a person.

Wow! This was deep!! Loni thank you for asking ❤️

Let’s not start the 5th cohost comments pls. If it’s not broke don’t fix it … this show is perfect just the way it is. Garcelle, Loni, Jeannie and Adrienne… we don’t need another one. Shall I continue to remind y’all how hard y’all vouched for Amanda ?

Marriage isn’t about femininity or a women’s choice to be married. Marriage is an institution designed by God that reflects His Bride (The Church-The Kingdom, followers of Christ) and the love He has for The Bride, (and the coming together of both when Jesus returns) in the Earth. Marriage of The Lord is also an assignment and Holy Covenant. Last thing, and I say this lovingly, the choice to be yolked with a person with no regard of destiny in mind, going through the mundane “structure” of what society calls love and relationship is a waste of precious time that God has given all of us.

Loved this talk! This is a needed talk that is a must for men & women.

Love how Loni always calls Adrienne 'Munchkin' now. Too adorable.

I enjoyed this topic and chat.

if you didn't know the back history of Adrienne's husband you would think he is 'holy'. He cheated on his wife and has 2 kids fathered outside his marriage and he is still considered to be a catch by her. makes you think what kind of values she appreciates

I just love seeing Jordin, she definitely is the example of , wholesome.... you know, like she's not the average young female celebrity, she hasn't been ran through by this rapper or that baller, she's just a nice young lady , and in Hollywood that can't be easy !

I enjoyed these ladies talking about this topic!!!🤗❤

I'm just glad that Jordin choose herself over Jason Derulo. She really knew her worth when she decided to leave🥺❤️. Love her.

I love how she calls Adrienne munchkin. That’s their own special bond they have❤️

Thank you for sharing ladies. These are some of my reasons why I want to get married 😃😃🥰 I’m praying that I find the one God created just for me.

Is it just me or should Jordin be more permanent on the show

Marriage is not just a commitment but a legal responsibility. Long-lasting and committed relationships can work just as well for many ,many years it is up to the goals of the relationship between the people that are in it.

Our generation forgets that marriage is a God ordained institution.

I havnt seen Jordin on TV in awhile & I definitely think this could be something big for her. I would love to see her as a permanent co host on a show like this if not this one

I believe in marriage.I personally won't be in a long term relationship without that confirmation.But to each his/her own!

Jordin's comment is reckless as a married woman. She is advocating "shackin' up". Women who live with men aren't entitled to anything that isn't willed to them. She won't earn SSI credit from a live-in lover. Adrienne needs to be silent on the issue of marriage.

My husband and I just celebrated 10 years of marriage January 15th we have 3 children all girls I wouldn't change it for the world. Im 34 and he is 37. When you know what you want life it doesn't take long to know if marriage with someone is for you.

Love Adrienne’s response! ❤️

Dowry is still common in my culture. Sometimes I wish, the real had different ethnicity guests with different culture so we can see and have a little understanding.

Marriage isn't for everyone so yes I completely agree with Jordan. "He was the first person to see ME" ugh yes I want that in my life 😩.

I don’t think I can get married. As a disabled man, I don’t have marriage equality. This is a huge barrier for my community: get married or keep our needed medical insurance to stay alive. It is so unfair but it is the reality. Yes, some people get married but most are already over qualified and already have lost those “benefits.” Most disabled people are in forced poverty. We still do not have true marriage equality in America! I hate this society requirement on marriage when it still isn’t inclusive.

Good discussion on the topic. I would have loved to see the perspective of a married woman who comes from a background that has arranged marriage and dowery requirements.

More Jordin Sparks please?!! Shes so sweet!

I can't help thinking that if Tam was asked this question, she'd be balling right now. Hahaha love that girl🤣. Great answers from the ladies. Is @jordinsparks guest co-hosting?

Adrienne and Jordin have beautiful 😍 marriages 😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️☺️

Married my bestie on 1/1/22 ❤

Never get married just because you got pregnant, if you need health insurance from a spouse maybe. However divorce can be expensive, plus you brought the poor baby into something that wasn’t ready.

I love being married! I’m 28 we are just about to celebrate 2 years! He is the love of my life, my best-friend, the first man to make me feel perfect the way I am and that no other woman comes before me! And our chemistry 🔥 he is it for me for life and God is in the center we waited until marriage 💍

I love this!!!! This is such good tips to keep in check when I’m dating someone. Do I feel everything these girls are saying.

They talk about dowry like it was in the 1950s, my parents are still waiting on mine....lol.

So happy for them 💜Together 12 years not married completely happy 💜

Jordan Sparks speaking voice is beautiful!

Jordin Sparks looks so good in that shade of green JS🥰🥰

Y'all see a guest in one video you like what they have to say now you're begging for them to be a permanent host ...like slow tf down! Lol no one needs to be added, let these guests have their moments and it be just that.

Actually marriage started from the Bible. From God. That’s what marriage is. Now a days people has changed the true meaning of marriage.

Yes Adrienne 🙏🏽 speak on it.

The one thing I’m not looking forward to with getting married later in life is that my parents will have less time with my kids. And vice versa.

Right I have to agree with you ladies Once u know u got a good partner a good person stick by that person love that person unconditionally don’t get with somebody because of their money that wouldn’t end well that’s so true

There were some true gems 💎 dropped off in THIS segment..

I just adore Jordin 🤩 her life story has been a true inspiration to grow up beside through out the years

Marriage and being committed to one another are two totally different things. Your happiness has nothing to do with what God wants from us.

Awww I really love what Jordan and Adrianne said

Loni what’s the name of that book. I’m interested.

I agree with Jordan, its weird when I see people asking people when they getting married, especially celebrities. When its good chance they don't believe in marriage. It's not for everybody, I know people on both spectrums and both are happy. Long as both parties agree on what they want 🤷🏽‍♀

So sweet!

After that breakup joryn and Jason derulo glad joryn went to therapy and worked on herself b4 marriage that way she escape bringing a broken person to the marriage for another person to fix and make whole which is impossible