After 300 Bodies in 1 Year... Shes Ready To Settle Down 

Aba you're 100% right. I'm a guy who basically went through a f*ckboy phase between age of 18-24, where after my 9/10 high-school gf dumped me, I decided to go on a manhoe phase. I basically raked up a body count from 1 (she was my first) to around 80-100~ between those years. I basically matched left and right on tinder/bumble, didn't waste time on dates, just literally smashed, blocked, moved on to the next. The girls I did enjoy hooking up with, I kept on a rotation at any given time, basically had 4-5 FWBs for easy sex at the snap of my fingers. After years of doing this, experiencing all kinds of shades, background, ages of women--married women, virgins, threesomes, nymphos, black, white, asian, you name it I did it. I slowly realized that by objectifying girls as nothing more than a quick lay, you inadvertently de-value yourself as an opposite and equal reaction. I couldn't see myself taking girls seriously after I hooked up with girls who had boyfriends and we did it behind his back, married women, "good girls" and all that. I couldn't even imagine monogamy because I rewired my brain into being someone who wouldn't even waste a dollar on a girl--I didn't wine and dine them, or promise them, I basically straight up said I want to hook up, nothing more, and if she doesn't like it, then goodbye. It worked surprisingly well. But having a high bodycount as a guy doesn't bring your life meaning or happiness. If you think it does, you have the mindset of a highschool boy who highfives and keeps a track of "bodycounts". Random sex got boring, I didn't even remember girls names of who I smashed, or even spoke to them like equal people. Random sex got boring and I began to become picky, dropping a girl if she even slightly annoyed me. Most girls were all talk and were shit in bed, I got frustrated and annoyed and some night I wished I would have just went home to beat one off. It wasn't bringing me joy. I realized I had to quit cold turkey, I deleted all dating apps, cut off contact with my FWBs (who tried to tempt me back for just a one-night stand), and it was insanely tough, but it was like breaking a smoking habit. I focused my time on myself, going out with friends to spend time with them only, films, concerts, and NOT trying to go home with a girl or get her number. I spent time with family, my niece and nephews, reading philosophy, focusing on my Masters degree, working out, educating myself, playing guitar and writing music, and focusing on myself and my passions. It took a solid few years before I could rewire my brain. And at age 24, when I least expected, I ran into a girl who is my fiance now 5 years later, who is a 1 in a Billion wife-material and mother-material: 5'10" tall, blonde hair blue eyes, cute smile, educated and intelligent, supportive and feminine, attractive and fit, loving parents and strong family values, and someone who I wouldn't trade for 100 "bad bitches. Trust me boys. Random hookups and high bodycount will NOT bring your life meaning as a man--let alone a female who is affected even worse by it. But whatever we do in excess by indulging in blind hedonism and debauchery, you rewire your brain for that which will take time and hardwork to undo and rewire again for normalcy and stability. Just like that adage, if you "stare into the abyss to long, the abyss will stare back". Aba isn't lying. Trust me.

She made 300 men happy. Now she’s ready to make 1 man miserable.

Not only is she for the streets, she's for the galaxies.

I love how a women can think that 12 sexual partners is inexperienced when that's quite a bit more than your average male gets in a lifetime (not to mention by 25...)

This is actually insane. Sex is so much work for women - especially maintaining ph balance and all that. So the fact that she is interacting with 300 different peoples bacteria and continued the process is mind blowing. Like sis, idc what you do with your life - perhaps you will find a guy that you can settle down with. No one can predict that for you. However, what does your health maintenance look like? Were you not suffering? 😅

This applies to both men and women. If you live ya single life like a whore, don't expect to instantaneously settle down and become a good parent/partner. Life doesn't work that way, it takes constant discipline and good behavioral practices and restraints to be a good parent/partner to your significant other. It doesn't just happen overnight.

The fact that she got more bodies than the death note and she's proud of it is bizarre. Whoever choose to marry her: I'm going to pray for you.

I read she was an OF model, she can easily run through her fan list. It's not that hard to imagine how she did it.

Someone in the comments asked why her friends didn't pull her aside and guide her, telling her what she did was wrong. From a young age girls are hardwired (and their peers) to do whatever they like with their bodies, to not worry about judgement or criticism or shame, and everyone else has to shut up and act like it's okay or empowering. You cannot hold your female peers accountable. They will be defensive, in denial, not consider long term outcomes etc. They'll throw insults, say you're controlling or say you're too backwards. Take it from a gen z female, just finished HS in 2023. Just to sum it up quickly, here were some of the weird ideas held by my friend group: -Acknowledged all of the potential side effects from birth control (including increased risk of cancer if you get off of it after a very long time) but thought I was weird for saying I'll never take it. Apparently I'll change my mind when I NEED it in the future, because they don't understand you only can get pregnant like 5 days of each month lol, and your cycle is important for your hormone regulation and is normal, so I'm ok with having it exist and not supressing it. -Tried to explain to me that all girls need to go through a h03 phase to find themselves -When consoling another girl at our school through her breakup, the girl admitted that he broke up with her because he wanted to h03 around, and she said "i'd be ok with it if he just admitted that he wants to do that, but instead he broke up with me to h03 around" - no one thought to tell her hey, you should not be ok with him doing that whilst dating, it's better he broke up with you if he's gonna go do that sort of thing. No one was willing to tell her to increase her standards and not tolerate infidelity. I wasn't really friends with her so it wasn't my place to tell her off. -They said that they want a guy with lots of experience over a guy with little/none, and said if you don't want a guy with experience (aka a h03), you must be a grandma or some religious nutter. -They claim to not care about body count at all; their own, their partner's, past behaviour of themselves or someone else doesn't seem to matter to them despite it reflecting what kind of person they are. -Waiting till marriage is just a dumb and outdated idea -One girl complained that her bf didn't like when she showed her m1lkers off to everyone in revealing clothes, and all my friends were like "omg, that's so controlling, you can do whatever you like" - I was going to speak up, but girls like to gang up on each other and I for sure would have gotten hounded for defending the boyfriend. But I was completely silent as opposed to everyone else, I think that was a message in itself of what I thought. Anyways, during most of these kinds of conversations, I've at least expressed I disagree, or straight up debated with them about it. And they never want to admit I'm right, but I always end up being vindicated in the end during later conversations where they've said stuff like: -One wishes she could become a virgin again. For context, she complained when in her relationship that her Catholic ex wanted to wait (cuz you know, Catholic beliefs) and now she regrets it pushing him to do it. You can't make this sh*t up -One admitting she regretted her h03 phase because she got with bad, low bar people and was SA'd, bc men who participate in hookup culture aren't exactly upstanding dudes (who woulda thought) -Admitting that birth control "messed up their mental health" or that they felt back to normal when they got off it. (still tho, I'm weird for not wanting it lol) You cannot give advice to help your female friends. They simply don't listen, and think you're some sort of backwards grandparent. At this point, I just observe every stupid decision they make that's a reflection of the very succesful (unfortunately) s3xu4l revolution, and let them regret it later on, hoping they will learn from their mistakes because they sure as hell won't learn from your advice. Some may think I'm overreacting, but this issue is so much deeper than we all think. Girls do not have mothers who are emphasising a good role model for them, and are instead encouraging them to participate in this empowering facade of a lifestyle. Fathers cannot say a word, because they are soft and don't have the authoritative influence they once did to guide their kids. Add school s3x ed to the mix, which is not s3x ed may I add, it's just people coming in to say that body count doesn't matter, g3nit4ls don't define what gender you are, and to just be safe when having s3x, no other moral issues relating to the issue are of your concern, oh and what a BJ was llol (this was the ed i received at a catholic school in AUS, dunno if it applies to other nations, but it was sick to say the least) there was no teaching about BIOLOGY, our cycles, the ins and outs of it, hormones or anything. It was just overs3xualised and there was no knowledge being shared. Put weak parents (not entirely their fault, they're conditioned to not shame bad behaviour) and our s3xualised society together and you get a bunch of girls who think this behaviour is ok, and anyone who opposes it or tries to help is a pick me or some dumb shit. Gen z and milleniels, both generations who are already raising kids, we must do better. Teach morality and show your kids that they are valuable and not objects to be ploughed through, or to plough others with. Rant over.

Do you realize that if you even just shook hands with 300 people, you’re catching something….. She needs to be wearing a biohazard warning label.

As someone who used to work in law enforcement...I've never even met victims of human trafficking who had those numbers. To choose 300 in a lifetime isn't normal. 300 in a year is a cry for help. Her "friends" should have pulled her aside and asked her what the hell she was thinking. With those numbers, she may have a few screws lose and need some serious psychiatric help.

She’ll get married, she hit all the American standards of beauty.

If "settling down" means "lowering the expectations you have for your potential significant other" and "going for less than you deserve", she's not the one settling down; the man who choses to get in a serious relationship with her, is settling down.

"You can't just un-do a lot of the habits you built and think you can just automatically switch and be ready for that lifestyle of extreme discipline" - Aba is HITTING IT

To have 300 bodies in a year means you have to be completely indiscriminate. There's literally no way, male or female that you are finding 300 extremely attractive, clean people to sleep with. I struggle to be attracted to even 1 person in a year 😂😂😂

6:27 so true! Thats such a good point. My husband was a college athlete and we both realized that hedonistic lifestyle comes with A LOT of hurdles. Now 300 bodies in a year…therapy is needed

Thinking you’re pretty non sexual with 12 bodies at 27 is crazy 🤣🤣🤣

People who treat sex lightly, treat human beings lightly.

Props to her for admitting that openly. Ngl, This the type of shit you take with you to the grave.

I find it funny how the woman that get ran thru want the nice guy after getting run through lmao 😂😂😂 giving a whole new meaning to “nice guys finish last”

That shyt is vile!!! What the heck is wrong with this world

I don't know if this is just me, but I'm still trying to wrap my head around her being "sexually inexperienced" after sleeping with twelve different people

She became so open minded her brain fell out

She not for the streets she’s for the whole neighbourhood 😂

3:28 as soon as she said "my morals" She fn lost me!!

"Before, my body count was only like 12 and figured I hadn't had much sexual experience." That's a wild statement 😂

She's speaking with so much conviction without understanding the consequences of what she's saying and doing.

I’m happy you found your way and thank you for sharing. Not too many men want to admit this behavior.

I love the codes that women use. From needing to find themselves to exploring themselves, it's always about fucking lots of someones.

Not even the sex, but can you imagine the SOCIALIZING you would have to do to arrange sex with 300 people in a year? I go on a date and have to recover from the socializing for like 4 months. I dont think Ive even spoken to 300 people this year.

people keep trying to justify and normalise degenerate behaviour, but anything close to triple digits is disgusting imo 🤮

"lot people say I don't have morals but I do" No , you don't have any morals.

I 100% agree with yall on most subjects most of the time. But I disagree that for certainty that someone can absolutely drastically change their approach to anything if they want it bad enough. On average though its not that easy for sure. But in my case, I did meth for 9 years and one day I had a deep conversation within myself about where it was leading me and if I could realistically keep this up for many more years. So, I left state...got away from those people who were still doing it and dropped it cold turkey with no therapy. My point being, if a person wants something bad enough, they are very capable of doing what they set out to be.

Shes another perfect example of cognitive dissonance

She belongs to the universe 🫡

I had a baby with no medication and no assistance in the front seat of a car but 5 in a day and 9 in rotation made my oochie hurt way worse than delivery. She needs micro dosing treatments to get her neuroplasticity in order.

Words can’t even fully describe how absolutely disgusting that is. Like yeah more power to her but she can’t reasonably expect any self respecting individual to want a long term relationship with her after completely degrading herself.

Actions speak louder than words. She says "I want to find 1 guy to settle down with and have a family". Then she says, "I have 8-9 regulars." Her words and actions do not line up, so believe the actions.

For me, its the inconsistency with her values vs her actions. She says she wants a man who is loyal and intelligent yet she's going through 5 guys in a day. Idgaf how you live your life, we're gonna die one day if you go through 5 guys in a day, do that. I just don't understand how going 5 guys in a day is going to help her find the kind of man she's looking for. That's like trying to chop an onion with a spoon make it make sense.

8:38 the blinks of bewilderment 🤣🤣🤣 he kept his mouth shut, but his eyes couldn't stop

It’s the squeaky floors for me. That’s what keeps me coming back. 😂😂😂

As a spokesman for the streets: We do not claim her.

A girl sleeping with 5 people in a day saying that she looks for loyalty in the guys she dates is just crazy...

"Things are opening up" they are open alright 💀

She'll never be able to pair bond with anyone. No matter how much someone falls in loves with her. She'll always compare him to her best raw dog. She'll never be happy

After sleeping with 300 people: “I’m ready to find someone and settle down”. Same girl: Continues to sleep with the same 8 to 9 men everyday. How she expects to find someone after that is wild to me. 5 different people in one day, on average, is insane. This girl has problems. I hope she can get help and realize the error to her way. This type of behavior is self-destructive.

You guys ain't listening. She's had 300 but she's got her Top 8 in rotation now. The qualifying rounds are over and she's on to group stages. The Top 4 will be the quarter finals, followed by the semi's.

5 in day? in a 100 days that’s 500 bodies. absolute professional yapper

I unfortunately had to learn the hard way. I dated someone who had “already gone thru their f-boy phase and was ready to settle”, not even a shot. The beginning it seemed like he was trying but sure enough, went right back to what he knows as normal; pump, dump, rinse, and repeat. Ladies and fellas, if someone tells you they're a past hoe and their past is considered recent, chances are it isn't their past still.

Guys who are "Loyal, family oriented, intelligent, kind, non-judgemental" don't want you 💩

6:20 Aba is very right you live how you practice essentially kinda the way athletes train for years for a career you have to train your mindset for the type of life style you wish to live sure you can switch but it won’t be easy there’s reasons why infidelity is so high in this day and age people constantly remembering the crazy activities they were involved with from their past guy or girl how you live now can dictate your future

There’s no woman on earth beautiful enough to not be revolting after learning that about her.

"I wasnt a sexual person, I only had a body count of 12" feels a lot like "Im not a smoker, I only smoke half a pack a day."

Oh my goodness. This poor girl....she’s living a nightmare and she doesn’t know it. Who hurt her! She’s ruined her life 😢. She won’t be able to pair bond for life now... I’m 28yrs old and I married my high school sweetheart. She has no idea the happiness you can have by committing to one person and not dumping them and moving on to the next person in a day because they aren’t a perfect robot of a man. This is sad.

My aunt is said to have had high body county. She was a bit on the foolish side and easy to take her to bed (at least that was her reputation) She married my uncle, she had 4 kids. She never cheated, she was was still low IQ and a bit lazy. But her kids grew up really nicely, became decent young people. She's much younger than my uncle and he's taking good care of him now that he's in his 80s. Loving and caring. Life is very complicated, and older people should teach young people to be relaxed. You can have your priorites, don't changes your morals, but be a bit forgiving to people who aren't evil to other people.

What! She still has standards? Why! Family orientated? Can she still bond? This woman is definitely leaving you as soon as she gets bored

A mate of mine matched with her on an app and they went out on a date. He didn't know who she was (this was recently. Maybe a couple months ago at most) and when he showed me a pic I said google her because I swear I've seen her face. We then realised who it was. He went on the date anyway. He said it was fine but he couldn't bang her because he was turned off. She put him on blast on insta saying its the first time she went on a date and didn't bang. She also said that after the date she called up another dude to bang. This is a prime reason why these girls will never find someone that trusts then enough to settle down with them.

This is true. Ive been living my best life but I've noticed my discipline and hardlines started to slip. It's addictive. You got to really wheen yourself off chasing dopamine.

my thing is........... there's a man somewhere in the world watching this who may actually want to bein the serious relationship she craves with her. madness.

What's crazy to me, is majority of people would think it would be disgusting to share a tooth brush with multiple people but then a lot of those same people don't see anything wrong with sleeping around. Side note, I feel like if "you" want to explore "yourself" you can do that without another person; kind of the whole point of self-exploration. I don't think this makes her a bad person or anything like that, I just don't see how this could have a positive outcome for her.

Leonidas: "Spartans, what is your profession?" Her: "hold my beer."

300? This is Sparta!

The fact that she had 12 body count before that streak and considered that it meant she didn't have that much sexual experience it's mind blowing. That was 12 too much already if she wasn't married.

I have a friend who did a similar thing back at college. After a very turbulent relationship, where the two of them cheated on each other numerous times, and picked up a bunch of terrible habits in a useless relationship, she decided to "have a bit of fun" and for about 4 months, she slept with a bunch of men, about 3 a day. You do the math, the number approaches 250, if not more. I recall being quite appalled when she confessed it to me, as I was raised in a fairly reserved and devoutly religious family, and at the time it was a bit of a cultural shock, but I tried to be as understanding as possible, even though I now think it was something she didn't need, I think she needed me to get angry, to shout at her, for her to understand the seriousness of the situation. After those four months, she had become a person beyond recognition, she was formerly gentle and sweet, and quite cheerful and a little immature around the edges, she had become an absolutely heinous person, that's really the best word to describe her attitude. She hated herself, practiced a lot of things that went against who she was before. She spoke very badly of men, even worse of women, insulted them, had mood swings, moments where she cried relentlessly, she started taking illicit drugs (smoking drugs) and many other things, it was really a nightmare period for her, she had tried to commit ‘unaliving’, but I was able to change her mind. I've known her since we were children, so for me it was astonishing the change she went through. Now (it's been two years since those times) she's doing her best to change all the bad habits, or to let go of all the bad experiences that made her numb and cold, with her family keeping her warm, close to them, so that she can repair the damage she's done to herself, that happened because of a terrible relationship. For all those who think that letting loose, who think that having a huge 'number' of sexual encounters can make you happy or cool, or whatever, know that you're playing with fire, and that fire is surely much, much bolder and stronger than you.

I actually almost don’t believe her, it could be a publicity stunt. The logistics of it all seems unfathomable.

When Preach placed his shirt over his face I was almost on the floor!

That's a dope time piece you got Preach

In a single year you piled up enough men to match the literal 300 army NOW you just want one? Nahhhhh😂😂

Sleeping with 12 people in your 20's is a lot for most people. That's crazier to me that she thinks that's low, than her turning around to go sleep with 300 people in 365 days.

Bro the amount of times I've heard "I'm finding myself" and my immediate thought is... right

you guys are hilarious! thank you

Yall loving the double upload today? BE SURE TO LIKE & COMMENT. Helps us with that algo!!! Also Whats Worse? Her BANGING 300 Men In One Year OR... 5 Dudes in 1 Day?

I hate this repeatable cycle, it's so annoying. If you're a person with a ridiculously high bodycount, then go marry someone else with a ridiculously high bodycount. Stop this, "I'm ready to settle down and find someone much tamer than me" because in a sense, it's an open acknowledgment you know your decisions were bad and not fitting for a long-term stable relationship. Don't drag someone who actually made responsible decisions into your baggage dump. Most people with super high bodycounts also always lie about it when they're ready to settle down, which also shows their character deep down. People like this should be avoided like the plague when it comes to commitment, regardless of gender, because at the end of the day their bad habits will catch up to them 90% of the time. Some ex fling they run into down the street, some person they can't let go of, some bad decision from the past etc. This will also likely happen years into your relationship, leaving you dealing with the consequences because you already committed to them.

Finding yourself used to be about finding your hobbies, if you really agreed with what was taught to you at home, traveling at least by bus to visit new places and learning how you handled yourself in different environments. Now they seem to equate it with promiscuity.

A real 304 --- 😵‍💫‼️

Nah bro she's a lost cause 😂

As a guy who dealt with p0rn and am still dealing with alcohol addiction l, it isn't a daily struggle but an hourly one. Between Reddit, rule 34, the hub, and 1.75 liter of alcohol costing under $17 means that I must constantly be fighting the urge to relapse. Luckily, I have an amazing family/friends who beat it into my head how miserable I used to be and remind me of how much better my life is now.

The opening part is 100% gta radio talk

Aba is 100% right. Covid was arguably the best thing to happen to me, it got me away from university and the hookup culture that came with it, i was closed off and had to reflect on my actions and it gave me a moment to stop and actually feel shame becuase all of that one night stand shit was meaningless. It allowed me to grow as a person, develop discipline and actually function in a healthy long term relationship thats not built completely on casual sex.

Aba is 1000% correct. My question too is, why now?? Why go from extreme hedonism to monogamy? There’s something missing in that equation.

"did not have enough sex experience" - lol

She doesnt belong to the streets, she belongs to the milky way

One of my homies told me, "When you have sex with someone, your souls intertwine, and you take a piece of them and leave a piece of yourself with them. So be careful who you have sex with." That really stuck with me. I'm 22 and I'm done conquesting. I don't get how you can be almost 30 and still out there moving like that. Your soul is splintered between hundreds of people. There's no getting it back.

Uwielbiam ten kanał. Gorące pozdrowienia z Polski 😊

Shakespeazy!!! I love that and will be referring to him as such with my family and friends!! 😅

Ngl, it's kinda impressive. I don't even talk to 10 new people in a year, so 300 new people is wild😂

The fact that she had 12 to start with and decided it wasn't high enough is crazy. 12 is already higher than so many people will ever reach.

Psychiatrist needed on aisle 1

"You just can't undo alot of the habits that you built...". PREACH BROTHER PREACH!

If "She's for the streets," was a person.

"Banger of an interview" "Getting into Juicy stuff" "Things are opening up" The interviewer 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

People like that got their energies and soul into 300 damn pieces

I prego the 1st girl I sleep with. Then I married her... 13 years later, we are still together 😂. I didn't believe in abortion. My daughter is the best thing in my life. I got focused on my career. Now, on my 30s making over 6 figures with the girl that's my 1st and only. I am happy. S3x is powerful, and I honestly don't recommend sleeping around.You'rer abusing the best thing about a marriage and a relationship. It's like removing gifting from Christmas. It's not the same, is not special. I don't see her ever been in a relationship.

How is she not completely drained after having so many people enter her or fondle with her sexually? Sleeping with so many people depletes your energy and you have less and less to give when it comes time to actually have a lasting relationship. I appreciate her transparency nonetheless.

I don’t even know 330 people 🤮

“So is it like throwing a hotdog down a hallway?” Close enough 😂😂

Hearing this at first, I'm like "300 lays a year is impressive but who cares let the weirdo do her thing." Then when she's like "nice men are hard to find," I'm like oh ok she's on the crazy-scale.

The odds she finds a decent man who has any respect for her are 0-none. She's better off just embracing who she is.

Say it the easy, honest way: You are whatever you practice being. That's it.

All I'm seeing are hotdogs being thrown down an alleyway... IYKYK