HE'S THE ONLY BACHELOR to be completely honest!! I think that says a lot about his character! He is not fake! he's actually being real! I love him more for that. LOL
People need to give Brad a break and let it go!!! He is the most responsible bachelor there is! He took this responsibility so seriously, when he explains that he did not want to tell someone "well am not yet in love with you but lets pursue this and see where it goes" Chris crucifies him for it and says, " why not??" Yet when Juan Pablo picked a woman and said that he was still crucified and is now the most hated bachelor ever. It is unfair to blame Brad for not having fallen in love, its he is man enough to admit he has some issues and would rather not have lied to a woman only to end it...
Catherine Mukora I was thinking the exact same thing... It seems to be that no matter what, you have to choose someone and say I love you and propose or accept a proposal... Otherwise, you'll be - as you've said - crucified. But all the bachelors and bachelorettes that have said their "I love yous" and have accepted their proposals and in the end had called of their commitments... what? Oh! That's OK. As long as the show lasts, you must follow the rules and you'll be fine... if not, you will be forever named as: "the worst bachelor/ette in the history of the show"... if that's not hypocrisy... what is?
At first I was very angry and disgusted at Brad for not going through with a proposal. I thought he led the ladies on. After a while I realized that it took a lot of courage to connect with his true inner feelings and to be honest. He did not go along with what was expected or the media hype. He is not fickle. He was not 100% sure and he stated that. That was bluntly honest and it hurt for a while but it had to be said before a grave mistake was made. I understand the conflict he must have been going through and why he made the choice.
The comments in this video just prove that you don't understand men, at all. The women in that audience would rather believe in the fairytale than face reality. What Brad did was commendable.
i keep hearing ppl talking about how could he have turned down 25 BEAUTIFUL women. and it annoys the shit out of me because just because their pretty to look at doesnt mean that he will fall in love with them or even marry them. i'd rather he not pick any of them then pick oNe then divorce her the next friggin day.
In comparison when the beast was laying on the ground belle saved him from dyeing, she said she loved him. She didn't at 1st get his answer because he was lifeless. This is almost the same scenario with the Bachelor, however no one died.
Chris you did Not treat Brad right. Surely you did not want a fake couple. I admire Brad's honesty and his strength to face down all this hatred simply because he did not love those women.
wtf ok he walked away. He didn't think she was the one wtf. Why are they grilling him he didn't feel it. Better to be honest. You shouldn't love a man anyway he should love you first. Loving a man is like loving the help it isn't done. Why get hurt later men are crap. No matter how beautiful the woman is if she doesn't understand that men aren't her whole life she'll be doomed.
i believe in his honesty, he made a right decision. yeah, the feeling must be mutual and solid. his decision means he doesn't love anyone of them. take time in finding ms. right brad and be happy.
How the hell are you meant to fall in love with women on a reality show? It is not even a real setting. That is now how you find love. You need to find love under real circumstances, not on some capitalist reality show.
Good for you Brad! Why feel like you must continue on with these girls you had no love for? Then he would have ended up broken up 6 months later like the rest of them.
Brad favorite bachelor of all time. I respect Brad for not faking it till he felt it. But so disappointed in Chris Harrison's attack on Brad for not falling in love on his show. Chris basically fuelled the fan hate towards Brad. Is this the new trend for The Bachelor/Bachelorette? You must fall in love and propose weither you want to or not.
i still can't understand why people are taking his descision too seriously. Lighten up folks...Whenever a man makes a descision everyone gasps...stop putting him on a pedestal and just smile and move on...he made the descision that he made and that's that. He's definately not a loser... he owns several businesses and makes a ton of money..you people are the losers for being so damn emotional and jugemental like it's the end of the world. Those looks and gasps in the audience is a turnoff
@oNegLeEk that's ridiculous. no one should force themselves to propose to someone if they don't feel right about it. 19 out of 20 relationships on this show have failed because the show is ridiculous, and chooses participants poorly as well. you've got to give it to this this guy for having the integrity & maturity to nip it in the bud when he realized it wasn't feeling right, rather than start up a doomed relationship that wasn't meant to be, like most of the others have.
Fictionista Totally agree with you . Kaitlyn bedded Nick before the fantasy suite too ! Emily Maynard is not much better . It turns out she knew Tyler ( her husband ) before she did the show. She was already attracted to him before going on the show and even exchanged phone numbers with him , dated him before going on ... Good old friend Tyler ... Brad nor Jef knew back then of Tyler's existence . Check the video of Sean Lowe on Kidd nation where he talks about what really went on in the fantasy suite . Emily sexted Matt Leinart while with Jef . According to Courtney Robertson Emily even bombarded Arie with jealous texts when she found out Arie was dating Courtney ! Jef was furious when he found out . According to Ricky's obituary Emily was just his girlfriend not fancée. She kept Tyler hidden for a year pretending to be single when she had resumed dating him .
This video sucks. Taking random lines and idea and stringing them together. Bottom line: He didn't fall in love and doesn't believe he will fall in love with either of them, and that's enough to end a relationship. Why drag it on and be unfair to the ladies when you know nothing is going to come of it?
just b/c you do not have enough stronger feelings for the girl, doesn't that you shouldn't try it with them. When you first meet someone, do you have strong feelings for them. He didn't have to get engaged with them, but he could have just started dating one of them to build the relationship stronger...
I totally agree with GEO151... Why cant people appreciate his honesty? Was he supposed to lie to these girls and proclaim a nonexistent love for the sake of being on tv? Some women would rather hear what they "want" to hear rather than the truth. I'm not one of those women.
Why is it so important to you people that he tries to make it work when he doesn't have strong enough feelings for the girls? I completely agree with him actually, if he didn't think it could work, it was fairer to both of them to let them go... They would probably just break up anyway, so what would be the point? Just entertainment?
@maddie1023 I agree with you a lot on your opinion. Out of all the men in the history of the show "The Bachelor", Brad has got to be the most wisest and smartest guy to make his decision like that. All the other times, I've seen breakups and "He said, she said" problems. You got to love reality these days...
I dont understand why these desperate women can't understand that he cared for them but just did not fall in love. We all have that person that loves us but we can't love back. This is a show.. They had to keep taping him.. he had to keep going... Six weeks is too early especially to a man to say that he loves someone
The captions by the poster are clearly biased. Last example: he said he had feelings for two people but was not in love. As much as you want to hook and swallow the whole "Bachelor/Bachelorette" romantic notion, his statement is not in conflict. He cared strongly for these two women but did not love them. How insane for someone to think that he should commit himself for life when he want feeling it for his or her romance fairytale to be fulfilled through reality television.
i can see that they're making a huge deal out of this .. Brad doesnt wanna marry yet and maybe he didnt feel like he was ready JEEZ people make a HUGE deal out of everything!
I'm sorry but they should know better. Only about 2 or 3 couples survived these Bachelor and Bachelorette shows. I don't get why they put themselves through it.
He is a jerk b/c he waited until the end to tell them. He shouldn't let them go awhile ago, and not kiss them and share loving feelings with them as if he wanted to be with them... WTF>
i dont think deanna chose the wrong guy i liked jesse way better then jason i thought he was a big cry baby. And she will always know it was his kid not hers.
come on, the guy is put with 25 beautiful eligible ladies and he cant find ONE!!?? He was on the show to try to launch a show business career. He should reimburse for the cost to fly the one finalists father.
Biased commentary. He said he had feelings for two people but was not in love. As much as you want to hook and swallow the whole "Bachelor/Bachelorette" romantic notion, his statement is not in conflict. He cared strongly for these two women but did not love them. How insane for someone to think that he should commit himself for life when he want feeling it for his or her romance fairytale to be fulfilled through reality television.
i feel bad for him hes obviously on the show cuz he cant find someone and like just one woman, he could hav whoever he wants hes so hot probibly has a hard time makeing a choice
All he talks is about love, marriage, moving to spouse's place, living together, having kids, the women's past relationships then bullshit generic compliments, "would you like to go to my room?" and "ah do, ah doooo". I'm like does this guy have a life at all?
he didnt have to propose! he could have just said: i want to see if we can fall in love in the future, and picked one girl he saw potential? if you love two people you let them both go...? is this man ever gonna find a date after this? id sure not date him! if he got no butterflies from girls....I THINK HE IS TRYING TO FIGURE IF HES GAY OR NOT =)
This guy is crab! His consistent inconsistency..here obviously he just want to protect Jenni's feeling and he feels stronger 4 DeAnna...God knows what's the real reason..watching only Ellen show would make you feel he's being honest, watching both that and this convince you he's crab..well
they should just stop with these shows already.otherwise, if you can't stomach heartache and drama don't watch. i don't anymore. and now there's the bachelorette...so who's any better than who? both shows share heartache. from the first woman who leaves to the last.
i think he is gay and now realizing he cant pretand to like women after all this. he needs time to come out of the closet to himself at least. he is beautiful
