Aggressive Behavior | Autism Nonverbal Singing 

Is it just me or did anyone else hear "ba ba black shee and yes sir yes sir" I understand non verbal sounds sometimes Just "fit" but I replayed it again and again to confirm. Whether or not, Braylee is adorable and I hate that she rode the struggle bus awhile again today

She is the cutest little thing! I can only imagine the frustration these children feel with being unable to fully communicate what they want. We've had a rough couple of days as well in this respect. It has come out as anger and physical hitting, pushing etc. Today was a little bit better, so hopefully we're climbing out a bit!

Parents seem like best friends. That will certainly make a great difference. Sometimes one parent will emotionally or even physically abandon the family when a child has a problem,but these two work as a team.

Music Therapy would be an excellent option for her. She does talk...I hear lots of words. Music is the tool to use to get her talking. My son loves music as well. Thank you for sharing.

In order to try and shorten the behaviors supplying her short 1-3 word phrases such as "I"m mad" "Hurts" "I'm sleepy". Keep trying phrases until it clicks. You'll know when you got the right one. Also try tracking how many times the behavior occurs and the antecedent, behavior and consequences. Then manipulate the antecedent next time in results of a different behavior...she is Absolutely precious!!! Source: I'm a therapist in an ABA therapy clinic.

I know as parents that love your child it has to be super hard not knowing what's wrong sometimes!!!! Dance party was awesome! Sing it dad lol

I’m not formally diagnosed with autism, but I have a hunch I may have autism. I have trouble with communication, social anxiety, and SPD. My mom gets frustrated with me when I stim (typically rocking or flapping) because she doesn’t get that it’s the only thing that calms me sometimes. I get how Braylee feels when she can’t communicate with y’all. It’s really annoying when you try to talk to someone but you just can’t. She’s getting so big!! I love y’all so much!!

She was singing baa baa black sheep.. and did well with the "Yes Sir, Yes Sir"

I'm a behaviour therapist and work with kids with autism. You are the best parents she could ever have. The redirection using a chewy is perfect. You say you're just guessing what she is upset about, but you know her best. Edit: This video just popped into my feed so I don't know much about you or your daughter. If you ever need visuals for a choice board to present her with when she is upset, feel free to let me know.

My goodness she is precious. I'm a 1:1 for elementary kiddos. I hope all is well for you and your family in this tough time.

Music Therapy would be an excellent option for her. She does talk...I hear lots of words. Music is the tool to use to get her talking. My son loves music as well.

I swear miss “B” is so beautiful, she looks just like her mama!!!!!

She is blessed to have you two as parents!

Baa Baa Black Sheep Have You Any Wool.....sing it Brailey!! We love to hear that beautiful voice girly❤️

Baa baa black sheep.. lol it's stuck in my head. That was so cute tho

You guys handled that rough patch so well! I found that my work kiddos totally fed off whatever I was projecting, so I made a point of staying chill as possible, finding humorous little moments (not caused by distress) and not giving a crap what anyone else thought (besides parents and co-workers). I love that everyone's day turned around and you could go to bed happier. It's hard as a therapist's heart when kiddos are upset, distressed and dysregulated but can't communicate why; I can only imagine how it feels to a parent. Braylee reminds me so much of one of the kids I worked with eons ago. She had similar communication, behaviour and food preferences but loved drawing, getting messy, anything musical, girly outfits/accessories and the singing! The first time I heard Braylee sing, my jaw dropped. I bet they would have made good friends. I hope Braylee finds a posse of friends who share many of her interests, and that she will always sing the songs in her heart. Maybe the school bus will turn into a tour bus after the garage band. Lol

You have the most delightful child. She is absolutely precious and sweet.

Sounded like she was trying to sing twinkle twinkle little star. She's a sweetheart

My teenage son is on the spectrum. He has been taking a supplement regiment of vitamin D3, B complex, Omega 3, probiotic and Gaba. Lately he ran out of Gaba and was having melt downs weekly. Once he was able to continue taking Gaba daily, he felt so much better. He was able to share this with me. Take care. My heart goes out to you and your family. I just wanted to share what we found helped us out.

My son has days like this, he is verbal and high functioning bur there are some days where the verbal stimming/rough behavior is pretty much a constant, usually the days we are cooped up inside (we've found that some time outside on days like this really seems to help). Also, I find it awesome and interesting that she likes electronic music, my boy does too and we call them dance parties too! Mom, I can see the stress on your face hun, mirrors my own sometimes. Don't forget self care! ❤

I have a 7 year old with non-verbal autism and I never new why he was so upset all the time until it happened to me. I was incubated last year and when I woke up, I was still intubated for a few days. Not being able to communicate what you need is EXTREMELY frustrating. Now I know. I'm also a nurse. I used to take care of patients on chronic ventilators, and some of them would get so frustrated when we didn't know what they needed that they would throw things at us. These are cognitively intact adults. So yes, it's so frustrating that all you want to do is cry. I feel deeply for our children. You guys are doing a great job with her. Giving her something different to chew on rather than hurt herself. We can only do so much...

Such a brave string little girl so sad to see her so distressed but your amazing mum and dad, I love her singing it's so beautiful

You are great parents! Thank you for celebrating how happy she was outside just being herself.

My son is 11 and nonverbal also. He goes through phases with being upset. He will have a few of being fine, and then about a week of being upset. He will just cry and get really worked up for no reason that I can explain. My son is the same, if you pay too much attention to it, he gets more pissed. So I will sometimes just go sit in the other room or bathroom for about 20 minutes. Just giving him his space. It seems to help. My son also sings a lot and dances lol. It is my favorite. You guys are doing really well. Sending your family love. 🙂

Hi there, my son is 3 years old and just got diagnosed. He is also nonverbal and I cant believe how much I recognise him in your videos so I had to sub because Im looking for tips n tricks and also maybe learn along the way while enjoying ur content. You guys are amazing parents. It hit me when you said its hard not to know what the kid wants to get out of their behaviour in certain moments when anger takes over or frustration. Your daughters beautiful and I enjoyed seeing her so vocal:-)

She is so amazing. I'm so glad I'm not the only parent that has rough mornings

I was diagnosed with Asperger’s aged 4 in 2001 but luckily I managed to fought off the autism spectrum

Was fun.. Thanks for letting us hang out with you all 💚🤗

We have these days to with our older son he has these moments and I wait them out and then hes so happy after words you guys are truly amazing

I miss Minnesota so much, born and raised! I love that you guys are spreading Autism awareness, you honestly deserve more subscribers and recognition! Braylee is honestly the cutest, even when shes upset.

I’m so happy she’s trying to sing and to be honest she’s doing great at singing and I’m not lying it’s still good she’s trying to sing even though she can’t talk, I can tell she will be an great singer when she grows up if she can keep practicing, I also have autism myself but not as severe , new subscriber 💜💜💜💙💙💙

I have worked with children with autism spectrum disorder. Sometimes I had to hold the children down so that they didn't hurt themselves or other children. It took a few minutes. Then the children let go. I think you do a good job with music.

I can't imagine how children suffering from these things 100 years ago would have been treated, compare that with the wonderful nourishing environment you provide for your gorgeous, sweet girl.

Shes adorable. Ive worked with autistic people for 18 yrs and i have a degree in mental health. But autism will always be fascinating to me

Poor baby, awww.... Best parents.

We all have those roller coaster days 🎢 even when the downs are way way down one minute of an awesome up makes everything we do worth it!!! I will probably have that dang Havana song in my head all now 🎶🎶🎶

My daughter screams and hits when shes upset. I'm pretty sure it's a communication problem too. It's hard because you cant help them at all. You guys are doing a good job, it's hard sometimes

This was the first video i watched and now love you guys. Thanks for sharing your lives.

Hi Braylee!! Thank you for singing " Baa Baa Black sheep " for us .....great job!God bless you and your family 😀🙇🙅🙆👧❤💙💚💛💟❤💙💚💛💖👣👣👣👣👣👣

Such a precious singing voice may she never stop!!!

🌹 🌹 🌹 💨 👋 Thats me tossing roses onto the stage following that wonderful concert by B and the equally outstanding patience and understanding of her parents🙃

Her nonverbal singing is sooooooo cute!

She is a great singer

My daughter has just recently started to use her chewy necklace at 6 after trying for 2 yrs. She gets like that too when she's very tired or something is bothering her. She'll scream,run around, thrash,hit or push,cry. She loves music so I can sometimes calm her down with playing music n trying to get her to dance/sing with me. I heard Brayle singing "ba ba black sheep". So cute.

She reminds me of my son he's 5 he understands alot but he wants to talk but can't and bites fingers also loves music it soothes him please stay strong

That was tough to watch, really feel for Braylee and you guys, all I wanted to do was cuddle her better, so it must be really hard for you when you don't know how to make it better for her. Her dancing and singing is the best, it was good to see her happy again and the running was cool. Love the flappy jumper 💜❤️💜❤️

Those indoor hanging swings for B would be great. You guys are awesome. So patient and kind. She is lucky to have you both on her team. 😘

Oh my goodness shes adorable! It's so hard when they cant tell you what's going on. My daughter can speak but it's only echoing and naming pawpatrol pups. My daughter also loves running to...she lives in a puppy backpack with a leash lol

It's so hard when you don't know what's upsetting them. Abby is that same when she is really upset, you can't comfort her, any form of interaction just makes her worse. It sucks when you have just sit and watch and wait till they calm down. Glad the rest of the day was happy 💖

She is beautiful!

I love her little singing. She's so sweet.

You guys are doing your best! Keep up the hard work.

I sing and hum under my breath much of the time. I have anxiety and for me it's a form of self soothing. Others overhearing me often comment that they also find my singing and humming to be calming and soothing.

I look at sweet beautiful Braylee and lives in my heart Abbey and can only just barely touch on what they may be wanting and needing. It blows your mind at how horribly frustrating it is for them when they are at a loss on how to let their needs and wants known. I can't even begin to understand. I just know that I have the honor and privilege to learn from them both. I again thank you for allowing me a glimpse. 💞💞💞💞💞💞

4:40 She is absolutely singing Bah bah black sheep have you any wool ..... yes sir yes sir 3 bags full. You can hear the melody and her trying to pronounce the words but i definitely understood what she was singing. She would really be phenomenal in a music therapy setting! What a darling !

Have you ever considered giving her a PECs system or an electronic communication device like a proloquo?

The fingers biting is probably either communication-related or sensory-related. It may also be from boredom, feeling unwell, or a disruption in routine.

The shoulder dance moves are inherited lol I love that girl ❤️❤️

She is so pretty. I had a madame Alexander doll that looked just like her when i was little. Bless her lil ♡.

Love the wall hanger and it's message that you have in your dining room. Great videos.

I can’t even describe how much love I have for this family already!!💜😊❤️❤️

I'm autistic and I used to bite my knuckles or the top of my hand when I was mad or sometimes excited, like I'd instinctively just go chomp whenever experiencing a strong emotion. Took some time to break that habit.

I love the background music during the playground part. Having difficulty typing because when my son reset my phone I can no longer find the talk-to-txt...but Ill work on it.

Your guys daughter is so adorable love the singing and finger stacking.

Braylee girl you grown up in 8mths kiddo and I'm so sorry you can't tell mom and dad what's going on that broke my 💔 to see that happy your feeling better stay Blessed 🖤🌹🖤

She played my favourite song

My son is very similar to your little girl, he gets like that when he’s is pain and we’re starting to figure this out as we go!! My boy hits head especially when he has head aches and teeth pain!!

her singing is adorable

I am on the autism spectrum myself and have some trouble with communication especially when people ask me to elaborate on questions. Just the fact that she's trying her best to sing and dance is awesome. Keep on loving her. She's strong and adorable

I just found you guys on here. Braylee is adorable! I loved the part where she was singing. I have a 3 year old with non verbal autism, who also likes music.

She is so cute! Made me cry that she could not get what she wants. She sings so cutely!! So nice to see her happy! I have no children in the spectrum but found you from the Moss family. You do so good with her! She had so much fun walking and running outside so nice to see.

when she sing yes sir yes sir , it was plain as day how cute !!

She is so cute! My son is also ASD. Based on my experience, She seems to seek for regulation because of a ‘problem’. It seems that she is annoyed by the folded mat ( not in place as it is suppose to be). It looks like she want to fix it but does not know how, and does not know how to communicate that. Then music redirected the focus of the problem and alleviated her frustration. She loves music , like my son! Music is always a great therapy! She is definitely singing baa baa black sheep! I see a talent there! All the best! Beautiful family!

Maybe a future gymnast. She's so artistic: dance, sing, run, and I love the way she climbed the stairs. Her body talk a lot. Maybe gymnastic class or dance class can be really beneficial for her. Does she plays an instrument?

I know how an aggressive day can be. I've had one a few days ago. It starts with finding out I forgot my wallet when I got to work, but it wasn't time to clock in yet. I asked human resources to go back home to get my wallet. They said okay. I drove home, got my wallet, and came back, was only 16 minutes late. Still, my mood was rush aggressive because we had so many tourists for an air show shopping in our grocery store. Like I said, Fredericksburg, Texas has very limited shopping. I was rushing all over the entire store trying to do customer carry outs simultaneously trying to keep up with carts. I accidentally rushed out in front of a lady and apologized, but she was very dramatic and snotty about it. I later called my mom and we talked about my day. " You were just having a bad day," she said, " "and that the usual Fredericksburg attitude." My mom said a lady she cleans for says that a lot residents complained that a lot of tourism is getting in the way of the quality of our lives and needs to slow down. In a small city with very large crowds of tourists I tend to be very agoraphobic.

What a sweet heart!!! Mom & Dad keep being you!!! It's obvious there is Soo Much Love in your family🙏👪!!! God Bless💙🙏😇

She has a nice singing voice & I hear potential of her being able to speak in time! She is so adorable just love her!

She’s beautiful You’re both great parents 🥰

When my severely autistic son gets like this he needs silence and stimming objects like pen lids etc He wants to be left alone until he feels better and comes to interact with me in his own time. He’s taking Risperidone now and it happens a lot less (not at all so far) which is good because he was hurting himself dreadfully when he had a big meltdown 😢

Your excellent parents and Braylee is so precious

I love Braylee’s singing

Whenever I take my daughter outside that's all she does is run around,yell (happily). Until she was about 5/5.5 we had to hold her hand everywhere I went outside of my house. She would run)elope constantly.Now she'll walk behind it next to me to go to the car. It's so awesome.

Her voice is so soothing ❤️

Oh my heart that singing!!! Meltdowns must be ap hard to cope with and although there are not many ways to calm her down it still helps to have amazing parents to just be there when she is having one. Your love is so precious !! And ps.. I'm #team farm all the way yall need all the things, horses, ponies, little goats , and even maybe a few chickens lol.

My 3 year old toddler got diagnosed with autism too.His mind boggling to us because he can say at least 100 words which le learned from flash cards and can stitch words when singing but for some reason his not using it to communicate like what he needs.He would say daddy or mommy when he sees our pics but wont call us mommy/daddy.I keep bringing him to the park because he likes to run and i have to run with him because he has no sense of direction.He started preschool under IEP this January but because of covid its all online class.We are also hoping he can start his ABA in home theraphy soon.His a sweet boy and likes to hug and doesnt have tantrums for now.Man Im scared for his future but still optimistic

It has too be so frustrating for her. She'll want something and not be able to communicate.

We bought little cycling gloves for our grandson, to stop him harming his hand.

Ba ba black sheep have you any wool......twinkle twinkle little star........Beautiful!! My son also sings like you Princess!

I have High Functioning Autism and I have BPD and IED and ADHD and OCD. It's really hard I can empathize with her.

It must be so frustrating to not be able to communicate what you want to say, and you have to guess what they want. She needs a device pad.

So adorable! The sad thing is that she doesn’t know how to form actual words. But that’s alright, I was the same way until I turned 5 or 6.

My daughter does this a lot I’m always dealing with this because my daughter can’t talk. Sometimes baths help sooth it or holding her tight but that can lead to her hurting me. Rub downs. I give hope rubs on her legs she likes that. A hiding spot works with padding I do pillows in a area with a padded Matt. Drives calm her down too. She seemed aliitle upset that her lips a cracked and dry. Lip balm helps organic.

Adorable little girl looks the image of her mum.

A very moving insight into her life.

My daughter 8yr old that on spectrum loves to sing songs from 80’s or 90’s her favorite is “Heaven” by Bryan Adams hehe

She is a sweet girl. Has she been checked too see if she is tongue tied? She sounds like she is trying too speak, but then gets frustrated. 💕

Hey my love since I have aspergers and bipolar social disorder with full language I don't suffer with melt downs unless I'm in PMS flare up or unless my mental illness or health disorders is acting up and that's why my situation's is more independent

She most definitely sang Black Sheep for like two words! LOL

She's gorgeous! I'm in love with her ❤️

It could be growing pains my brother used to have them real bad but with her being non verbal we can only guess.