I have the GREATEST respect for his wife. To get married to a brother who has severe injuries, hurt near groin areas. Also, the fact that the Dr's said he may not be able to father a child. (Alhamdulillah he has a daughter). Plus, he has to empty his bladder/bowel into a bag, which is hung on his body 24/7 and leaks, from which a very strong smell is eminated. The brother mentioned it on another vid how his little daughter helps him when the bags leaks. For many women it may be off putting Allah forbid. But for the sister to love him, and decide to marry him shows what an honourable lady she is. Allahumma baarik laha. I don't think brother Ayman can get anyone better than the sister. Congratulations brother.
U do know he married a widow too who already had a child. By marrying her he’s actually like gonna be giving the wife and daughter his like inheritance and stuff. And he doesn’t have any like blood child of his own. Why does it feel as if your trying to say that she did a favour on him. Normal men won’t marry a widow with a daughter. Edit- he does have a blood child of his own but the point remains the same.
You are so blessed to have a Queen of a wife like you have. Honour her as she has loved you including all health issues. She seems like a unique honourable women.
Normal men? You mean weak ass modern UK Muslim boys. As a Libyan I can tell you it’s usually the best men who marry widows. They view marriage as something holy and usually don’t ask for any requirements other than “a good woman from a good house”. Being a widow was never seen as negative because Astaghfir allah, it isn’t. It literally means a woman was in halal marriage and is now unfortunately left without support. Men back in the days used to prioritise the Islamic community around them and would jump at the chance to marry a widow because there would be Ajr in taking care of her and the kids. My grandfather married a widow and so did my cousin. Both married widows with kids and gave them a great amount of mahr. In contrast, The UK Muslim manchild views widows as a “cheap-deal”. I want to cry when I realise that Muslim men from my father and grandfathers generation are gone and all we’re left with is Muslim mandems. اشباه الرجال🤢
Bro get over yourself. Respect your wife and don't display your private matters in public. Image or no image, don't tell the world about you wanting to marry again. Imagine his wife sat there listening, how would she feel watching this.
@@asadabdinur2286no you cant marry 4 unless you fulfill the conditions for it and if you marry without fulfilling those conditions you will get bad deeds. Please brothers try to learn your Deen the Deen of Allah Subhanu Wataala is not for your fun.
I think it shows what type of marriage he has - not a real one. For him not to care about what his wife thinks about this video, his wife doesn’t have much say in their marriage. It’s giving insecurities.
Stop putting polygany down it's part of Islam and its normal, yall making out like he's doing something bad SubhanAllah. We don't pick and choose which part of Islam we like and don't like, we are Muslims
Brother don’t say things like this, not even trying to defend Ayman in any way but saying he is still a road man even after leaving that life behind and trying to lead others out of it too is just going to come back to you during Qiyamah, we don’t know his life outside of these videos or where this conversation has gone to with his wife
Its always the wife who makes the most sacrifices and who's there for you no matter what and birthed your children. And instead of giving this woman all your love and affection because you made her your wife your family. Why break her heart by listening to others. Who said its a must to have another wife. Yes it's allowed but there's conditions. If they scared you going to fall flat on ur face. Then fall for your wife all over again and keep falling for her. Men think women just have to be okay with anything and everything even while causing immense pain.
As a women you may not understand the struggle men have. Its in their NATURE to like women alot. Not that he doesnt love his wife and yes she may like better if he stays only to her but since he has much attention it can cause fitna in himself to cheat on her. Rather than that, get another wife and still go about it mature and islamically.
@@MewhenI223but if you can't address the root which is to lower your gaze, then even 4 wives wouldn't be enough. If you're still in the Public eye after that, then what?
@@greencoolmossbut sexual relations isn't the issue. If you can't lower your gaze after 1, you could get 3 more and then after 4 wives, you'd still want a 5th. It doesn't solve the issue. Ustadh Adbulahad said this too
Men lose themselves amongst men, especially when life is going so well. Humble yourself brother, and remember where you are coming from and who was there in your darkest of moments. One wife, one life ❤😊
@ Star- Angel then why the loving wife remarries after husbands death didn't she loved her, or she wants sex with someone else that she was not able to when her husband is alive, sad women will only justify their benefit from the quran but when it says a man can marry 4 no women will say it's sunnah 😮
@@marcelolb1221yeah brother it's better to marry more than one, because if u die suddenly then ur so called loving wife will remarry and have sex with someone else, now where is love oh sorry it's fake there is no true love MAN ,, just marry more wifes it's better not to waste life on a single women who will leave u after ur death disgusting😢
AudubiLLAH min ash shaytaan ar rageem Al hamduALLAH RABB IL Ahlameen As salaam alai minat taba Al huda How 'well' is it with weak iman choking the Ummah
Subhanallah, brother, please don't give importance to your image. Your wife was by your side when you didn't have it. She supported you through your difficult times, bore your child. Now that you are blessed with a public image and Allah blessed you with the knowledge and guidance, please don't hurt her feelings. if you fall flat, Allah will raise you. Yes, multiple wives are allowed, but not just because you can. There has to be a reason. If you do wish to remarry, please discuss the reason with your wife, don't hurt her. Please.
As long as a man is financially stable and treats his wife’s fairly. There’d doesn’t need to be a reason to marry. It’s the man choice. A wife cant take the right from him… just saying. Just like men can’t take rights if women . Women can’t take rights of men regardless of their feelings.
@Hahahaha-7 I know that Allah has permitted a man to have up to 4 wives, but he has to have a reason to marry really, just having financial security is not enough. The wife needs the husband's time, attention,comfort, kindness, just likevhe needs all that from her too. if he has the capacity to have more than one wife and treat them equally, in every way, then it's different, but let's be realistic, how many men can actually do that? Bear in mind, fairness is not only to his wives, he has to be fair with the children too, when they are there. Make sure he fulfills the obligation of being a good parent and a guide to his kids as well. If he is sure he will manage all the responsibilities fairly, then sure, get married by all means.
@@zahidaharunani7169 like u and I said…. If a an is financially stable so can afford to have four wives and wants to he can wife them up Simple and he has to treat them equally too.
@@Hahahaha-7إن شاء الله Allah will show you and all the people how think just financially stable can get a wife that easy will burn you all in hell because if his wife even for a second feel sad for this he will eventually be punished
@@lifeisgoodyehet7617 r u telling me that I will burn in hell just because I said that it is okay to marry if u are financially stable and fair between ur wife’s. Listen if the wife feels sad after his marriage no we won’t get any sin because there are reasons for marriage and it’s halal for a reason… the wife might dislike smt that is good for him
To all the sisters: During niqah you can make a condition and say your husband can't marry another woman. That's it, we need to remind sisters of their rights. Please if you don't want your husband to marry another woman just make this condition and if he agrees then it's set in stone. May Allah make it easy for us all and forgive us
@@sharmianoibrahim5935 Women have rights too in Islam and if a woman demands her husband to have only her and he agrees, he has to follow this agreement.
Crazy right . Everyone hears 2nd wife and goes mad . I live in the uk I am will be frank the amount of sister without husband and divorced is shocking . Best believe those who don’t understand all the sunnah of Allah will not understand any sunnah of Allah . I am not promoting secret marriage or abusive marriage but what I do suggest is people go and speak to your local community and find out what issues the Muslim men and woman are facing . You will be shocked . Allah is al Hakim and al alim . He knows his creation he is the creator.
@naimax7 just because one man is saying this doesn’t mean it’s all men and btw what did he do wrong ? Like why are you this offended the prophet (saw) practised polygamy if you hate it that much don’t put it in your contract and yes he should put himself first in Islam you should put yourself first in all ways you should worry about your desires, your prayer, your deen more than the others. If he can fulfill both their rights then he can.
@@eishafarooq4876sister if he did anything wrong then give me Quran and Sunnah since that is the objective morality we have. If you want to say since his wife in unhappy then he shouldn’t remarry then the prophet (saw) what about him ? Aisha (Ra) and Hafsa (Ra) were known to be jealous women they would have liked to stay it monogamous but they weren’t quite Quran and Sunnah.
@@Borz.0011 brother Rasool Allah never married because of his desire.. all those marriages were due to hukam of Allah to break certain taboos, he married because of his responsibility regarding deen.. before prophethood why he remained committed to a 15 years older woman? At that time he wasn't a prophet he was a normal loving husband who can't hurt her wife because of his desire..he loved ayeshaRA but at that time scenario was different he can't refuse to his responsibility of giving uswa to his ummah...I don't want to argue only thing I know is that a normal man without prophethood and used love his wife from core of his heart will never marry as long as his wife is alive... it's so devastating for a woman otherwise hazrat Ali would have married second but RasoolAllah told him that it will hurt Fatima.. because he was not a prophet ..he was not given any hukam by Allah so his responsibility was to prioritize his wife's feelings rather than his desire..it is required I think if you are loyal to your wife and really care for her
@@eishafarooq4876mashaallah we'll said sister 👏❤ but sadly this is the reality of today men's they don't care about his wife's feelings may ALLAH grant all women the men who loves and cares for his wife from the bottom of his heart and for the sake of ALLAH
@@o_-970 quite the contrary in my opinion. It's because they've been conditioned to believe that due to their age, they'd better take what they get cuz their options are very limited if not non existent and as such, they're forced to settle even if they're miserable with that
@hadizamamud3209 Age is definitely a factor determining the value of the woman. The scholars mentioned that. You really try to shame and devalue men but want to say all women are queens and high value and Supreme worth? This has nothing to do with Islaam
@@o_-970 show me the part(s) of my comments that shamed and devalued men. I was only stating something I've discovered from experience and not going the 'women are Queens and high value and supreme worth' while men are worthless route. You definitely didn't get my point and that's ok. Cheers
These dudes are so embarrassing, imagine marrying someone who openly shared your personal matters & then disrespects you like this in public. Yuck 🤢 Edit for the hard headed idiots under my comment It doesn’t matter if he was repeating what was said to him he started his sentence with “my wife may not like this” which is him putting her feelings to the side to share private conversations he’s had with strangers with other strangers, no one asked him to share, it wasn’t necessary his personal business has nothing to do with the deen & he embarrassed his wife plain & simple.
Quran 4:3 ؕ- …then marry other women of your choice-two, three, or four. But if you are afraid you will fail to maintain justice, then ˹content yourselves with˺ one… Akhi Ayman is NOT a scholar period Man was a gangster, cant reproduce yet his wife accepted him but here he is He’s not someone one should be listening to in matters of way of living life
@@johnedger5863 so true. And I find these so called “Muslim brothers” preaching quite hypocritical in general. Take Nouman Ali Khan for example, he’s actually a scholar and from his talks and interviews you’d think he’s the most pious of scholars and gives people marriage advice. And now the truth came out of how he abused his wife and dated other women (yes Haram relationships) with sexting and everything and tricked these women into thinking he was serious about marrying them. I find these famous “Sheikhs” and Daeyas so I trust worthy and hypocritical Astagfurallah.
I am a girl and i have friends who are mostly married women. I would like to convey one thing to muslim brothers and men that is please don’t joke about second or third wife concept(if you are) because most women take it seriously and in revenge (women by nature are more inclined to vengeance) start cheating on their husbands. This is destroying our culture that is solely based on modesty. Have a good day everyone.
Yeah bc they love attention from strange men online and their college campuses. Muslim men and women have no other option but marry it’s unnatural to stay celibate and will most likely fall into zina…
crazy that she stayed with u even tho she heard of ur infertility and she had sabr for u yet ur thinking of marrying another woman astagfurallah men have no respect for their woman anymore
@ak_ag97 sister pls tell me what he did was wrong using Quran and Sunnah. If he’s fulfilling their rights, like the Prophet (saw) he is going to practice polygamy. Why are you this offended for her ? If she isn’t able to fulfill Aymans rights then he can get remarried if he wants to. Islam doesn’t follow your desires neither does it follow mine. Islam is a perfect religion with a perfect ruling. If he’s able to he can. If your saying this then the prophet (saw) married Saffiyah (Ra) after his wives stayed with him in poverty was he wrong for that ?
@@Borz.0011What kind of a weak man are you if you can't even control your lust for the sake of happiness of your wife who supported and loved you through hard times, this is how you'll repay her obedience and loyalty? If it's allowed it doesn't mean you have to, eating sugar is halal but if you're gonna eat it alot you're gonna get fat and have diabetes, you have to think about the consequences too, you can't be breaking your woman's heart her whole mental health because you feel like you're feeling horny from a couple of days
He's not infertile. He has a girl She's a divorced older woman with a child, she contacted him on social media, later she asked him For marriage. He has right to find a wife he likes
He usually speaks so highly of his wife, and that is one of the reasons I have so much respect for him. Fame and publicity are corruptive. I pray He does not pay attention to these people of knowledge. How will getting married again stop him from falling flat on his face anyway? But this is only a small clip. We must listen to the full conversation to understand why he said this.
So he is just saying what people of knowledge are telling him ...he's not saying its what he wants need to hear whole interview....but given his injuries how easy would it even be for him to find someone his wife is very special.
@@Rizembleyou absolute tool. The prophet pbuh said marry up to 4 but if you cannot treat then equally refrain from it. Don't make stupid arguments no is questioning Allah swt just pointing out yout wife may not want it and in doing so make hardship for her and break her heart. It is valid point you uneducated fool. If your first wife never accepts it and breaks your house what good is second wife when she has become your only one. If you want more than one tell you wife to be thay before you marry her.
@@Rizemblewhere does it say in Allah swts words that a woman has no right to be heart broken ? You know what haplend between the wives of the prophet pbuh. Surahs were sent as result warning them to not be like that. Think and use your brain sometimes
@@Rizemblehe didnt say something bad. Allah swt didn’t say that you MUST have multiple wives, its an option. And the best are the ones who are the best to their wives. So yea, dont break her heart. If you want multiple wives, say that before marrying her
I can never understand as a man myself. How its even possible to marry more than one and keep them both happy. It's an impossible task for 9 out of 10 men. What shoddy advice.
good luck finding a good muslim man as a divorcee in 2023.... only man who would wanna commit is some alcoholic bozo cause the muslim man gonna want a women which never married
So hes got a wife, my mrs might not like this, that is disrespectful... So she stands by a man who has to empty a bag full of waste, he talks about getting another wife.... this man is not worthy, he is still a roadman but hides behind allah for protection, shameful
I wouldn't like to mock what happened to him as Allah can make it happen to any one of us, however your right the ingratitude is great, would he even stay if he had to change his wife like she allegedly does him ....
He brings up his past all the time, I was this I was that, I come and do you in front of your parents if you're rude to them..... guys a joker deserves no attention. What so ever, he loves him self.more than anyone and sits there trying to be some gangster Muslim, he is not a good man, he not a good role model and he's no a good Muslim. He's a thug, who still threatens people in thuggish ways.... using the quaran and Allah's name like he does is disgusting!!
dear brothers and sisters have haya!! this short clip is not just. brother Ayman stated in the full interview/podcast that a second wife never crossed his mind and he would never. to see fellow mumin backbite, slander and make conclusions of who this brother is over a cut clip… or whatever have you, is mind boggling Astaghfirullah.
Instead of helping Palestinians Arabs are thinking about sex. Putin once said about the Muslim men: "If only they could direct this energy to something more useful". He is so true. I wish they were less busy with making children, marrying 4 women and getting stuck into solving their problems. In this particular time it only induces disgust.
Men marry more than 1 woman for sex?? Then why did all the prophets of Allah marry more than 1 and the companions of the prophet Muhammad PBUH?? Were they not successful in their lives?
@@rahatahmed6188slaughtering Muslims, but what he said stands true. These Muslim men always worry about sex if only they had this much energy for solving the ummahs problems Always thinking of how to fulfill their sex desires
To save your "image", get a second wife? What absolute nonsense is this? Don't go throwing scholars under the bus for your own desires. Amongst men or not, you have a bunch of young men looking up to you. And what you just did on the camera for a handful of likes and views was - in return - disrespectful towards your wife...
@@wkmk-bn6mz If sholars advise every men to have two to four wives without fulfilling the conditiones for it then they will be hold accountability for their saying. Fullfiling the conditions in the Quran is importend because if not you will be Quastioned for it. But if you FULFILL the conditions and want to marry. Then marry the second if you really cant controll your desiers. Although Allah made it clear that you lower your gaze. Wallah if you adhere to the Quran and to the Sunna everything will be inshaAllah made easy for you. But why not marry widows and divorces who struggle to find husbands like how the prophet Muhammad (peace be uppon him ) did? And inshaAllah you get rewarded for it by Allah Subhanu Wataala. My brother we advise our sisters to have patience although patience is for brothers and sisters not just the sisters
@@siuuu-lk3og 100% I agree with you. I guess the scholars perspective was save yourself from fitna and marry up to 4 the halal way instead of commuting adultery. And don’t worry scholars always advise to adhere to the Islamic obligations when marrying a second wife.
The point of allowing second wives was supposed to be to provide husbands for widows and women in need, not gor the sake of gratifying the needs of men.
@anettemnabhido6960 this is not correct because even if this was true the prophet (saw) still married for pleasure he was a man who had desires or needs. The sahaba did it for pleasure are they immoral for that ? Qoute me Quran and sunnah
Not true, am a girl and I know this is not true. Second wife not supposed to be widows or divorced. By the way his first wife is a divorced older woman with a son
@@Borz.0011no😂it is infact suppose to be fun supporting women in need not for lustful desires 😂 y'all even call Prophet lustful to justify your own claims 😂plus this man is literally so sick and needs a caretaker I don't think he can think of such luxury as marrying second time for pleasure
Assuming your in the west Would you prefer your husband just sleep around instead If he was to get a 2nd wife he would have to provide ALL of the basic necessities
@@Noor28282 so because a husband wants to sleep around a women should let him marry a second women to satisfy his needs? Where’s the fairness in that? That’s pathetic
@Roxyclooney its the disrespect to talk about things like this like the woman has no feelings. There's plenty of men out there who can stick to one woman and they can be muslim or non muslim
I don’t understand. Why would getting married again will stop him from falling flat on his face? People should give brother the benefit of the doubt and realise he's relationship with Allah is strong and he doesn't need a second wife to stay closer to Allah. The brother has been through hell, this is a walk in the park for him
So true👍 men are forcing their wive's to get second job and they are thinking having second wife auudu billaaah my ex husband did and he lost everything subhana llaah
@@nasrahgdjuma930Islam is perfect, Muslims aren't, lame of you to blame the entire religion after seeing a random who you have no idea about how he actually practice the religion lol
Firstly, this guy has many stories that seem like they're just for show. Secondly to all the sisters in here complaining Allah has made it Halal You in your lifetime will never ever ever make it forbidden to any man so get over yourself . All of our mothers in islam accepted it , so you think you are better than them?
I am a Muslim woman alhamdulillah but I will never ever share my husband with another woman.NEVER. I don’t care. He can divorce me and then get married but not when I am his legal wife. He needs to learn to lower his gaze and what’s the need for another wife when I have given him all.
@@kinglaw1882doen’t mean that the muslim women must agree with, as a Muslim women Alhamdulillah i Married 25 years we have 3 children, i will never share my husband period! And he don’t want second wife either, my story is a little bit similar, like his story, i am black from the Caribbean, he is berber from Morocco, i already had i child, i am 4 years older than my husband
If my man disrespects his wife by getting a second I will never listen nor take his advice. After everything she accepted from him he better realise he got himself a treasure
@khadijaali6856 how is this disrespectful he is doing something Rasool ullah (saw) practiced if he’s doing it in the first place. If he fulfills all of their rights, he gives them all they need why are you offended. I don’t get for the life of me why sisters like you are this offended he never said it’s for you it’s for him and his wife lol. Some of the prophet (saw)’s wives didn’t like polygamy will you say he disrespected them ? Will you say you won’t follow him ?
@@Borz.0011 stfu 🤫 all you men talk about polygamy like any of you are even 1/100 of the prophet most modern men can’t even satisfy one woman let alone 4! Most of the Muslim men I’ve seen don’t pray, don’t even help their first wives and then go back to their homelands to get married to make another woman suffer. You want to defend this but why not call this out? Satisfying a woman includes her emotions and I wonder whether this akhi could even make his wife heart happy
All muslims know that our beloved Prophet SAW married many times because it was needed at that time to help the widows. STILL his heart was beating only for a single woman at a time- first Khadija r.a & after her death only for Aisha r.a. This should be a lesson for muslim men! DON'T go astray only for your desires.
Ugh I feel so bad for his wife, imagine disregarding every single thing that could make you not want to marry someone, his severe injuries, the fact that he might not be able to give you children and what he thanks you with is wanting a second wife, that’s just too sad, I really despise from the bottom of my heart men like this
Remember the Quranic principles... there is a saying when it comes to polygamy, mens tempation arises.. but the reality is its a responsibility.... having one good marriage is better than two poorly managed spouses.... polygamy isnt a fard.. keeping your marriage healthy is.. so we need to understand what is more important .. if couples poured into each other there would be very little divorce.. Remember what your wife has done.. there is no need.. she has sacrificed and compromised.. time for brother's to think with their hearts...the men who encourage are either men who want the same but hoping another will open the path for them or very rarely have compassion towards the opposite gender... dont trade if you have a good relationship..there are people who also have jealousy and wish to break the bond.. had the sunnah been obligatory as men wish it was, Prophet Muhammad would not have stopped ali from marrying a second .. we need to think.. i hope this reaches the intelligence of the few.
This is a balanced and wise comment my dear sister. I wish everyone was reasonable and thought the way you do. Sadly most people are selfish and just use religion as an excuse to fulfil their desires. Anyone who truly fears Allah and desires Jannah will try to take the easiest route to Jannah rather than making their life harder by messing with other people’s lives and marriages.
Islam is a sex positive religion. The only time marriage is obligatory has to do with lust (protecting chastity). Lust in of itself is not evil. Islam has a different view of sexuality, in contrary to Christianity. What other religion promises sex in Paradise?
You pray ALLAH to protect her from something that ALLAH make lecit in quran, you talk about what ALLAH make lecit like something haram or wrong, like disbelivers do
There are so many men that can’t even maintain one wife or successful marriage but are pathologically fixated on their ‘Islamic right’ to have more than one, it’s truly sad. Maintain one first before even talking about it.
Lol you'd serve him pappers then he'll just go marry 2 more women that are better than you. What are you gonna do if you leave him tho? 😂 no one wants a used female
Yeah who would he fall on his face if he doesn't get married the second time, that's a weird way to "advice" someone 😂 he's doing just fine with one wife , a second marriage should be his own personal decision he shouldn't be forced into it by his so called peers.
His wife should give him his freedom by walking away. She can love him from afar, while never allowing him in her presence again. Shame on him for gain his confidence from her while stealing her peace with his arrogance.
Gain his confidence from her!!! Every person has self-confidence before he meets his wife or husband. A woman does not make a man have self-confidence. Where did you get this strange information?
@@M.SA93 Your comment is an untrue statement. Many people don’t have confidence before they enter into a marriage or any relationship. That’s why so many people wound up being mistreated in relationships because they don’t have self-confidence or self-esteem.
@@mmfogar It can be said that there is tension when entering into a relationship, and this is normal, but self-confidence is present, but there is tension between them.
@@M.SA93 Rarely do both people enter a marriage with self confidence. This is why men seek a submissive wife. Further, destruction of the females self-confidence is a prized strategy of most BM.
@@M.SA93 Again, empirical observation facts prove your statements and thought process incorrect. Too many men think that their wife should be submissive and when they are not, they try to physically harm them. In particular black men see the self-destruction of a woman, self-confidence, and self-esteem as a prize.
While Islam makes it permissible to marry up to four times, I think the save his image part is rooted more in a cultural issue. From what I've heard of this brother previously, he is married to a divorced, black woman with children. Unfortunately, many narrow-minded people probably think she's not a good fit for him despite Allah (SWT) clearly saying different.
Why is everyone so mad about this. In the original video of the interview he goes on to say that he DOES NOT want to marry another women as his wife is enough for him. You guys can’t just base your opinions of a part of a interview. He hadn’t even finished what he was saying and the video cut of
Listen, my ex husband told me that this is exactly how some brothers talk when they get together. For them, having multiple wives is a status symbol, like having a nice car. It signals hey, look at me, I'm the man and have all these women. To me it signals you're probably insecure that's why you need women to prop up your ego.🤮
Nothing wrong with getting another wife. Making it clear that you're getting another wife because the first one, mother of your children, isn't good enough IS DESPICABLE.
Your wife cant even look at a man but youre allowed sleep with another woman. No woman is ever okay with sharing their husband. Because of the circumstances, they accept it. And forcibly embrace it. Ive seen it many times, doesnt end well.
Guys Elhamdulillah i am muslim and i dont support a second marriage. There shouldnt be any need to fullfill a second mariage, especially if you live in europe, there are enough men for women and enough women for men
Imagine marrying a poor ill guy who can’t have children with you, so you help him and be a support for him. And than hearing he wants another wife and he talks about you on the internet. What a win! That’s why women shouldn’t sacrifice themselves for men
Did you see this story in a dream or what? There is no poor man who gets married at all, and most of those who marry have a middle or higher income, and also according to the support that the woman supports him. If she supports him financially, then it is her right, but if she supports him morally and emotionally, this is one of the husband’s rights, like the rights of the woman. It means that he cares for you, loves you, and spends on you, so your argument is weak in this matter
why did so many women become feminist tho ? because men are not worth it whatsoever so we started doing everything ourselves and their role as provider was gone
Any women will only accept sharing her husband if he's extremely f ing handsome(like really) and has huge amount of money, if it's opp you'll get your a** settled by the lawyer lmao😂
Don’t tell men to get multiple wives because that may not be in their capacity and might make the first wife leave him! It’s not as simple as these brothers make it seem to be! You’re not Andrew Tate bro!
In fact, this is better when she shows me her personality and leave when I marry a second woman. This makes me better off because life does not revolve only around her, but even me. Life also revolves around me, and I did not follow anything wrong, rather I followed what was right for me in religion , but unfortunately the world now has become more weak and delicate. It is necessary to the point that even women have come to see themselves as the center of the universe and men have become like sheep walking behind them. Society has been weakened by feminizing men and masculinizing women.
These kind of people give Islamic lectures, he’s clearly very thirsty, bro Whatever you do it’s really up to you,but stop being like scholars stop giving Islamic lectures.
Such stupid advices always come by 3rd person and especially when they are jealous of u because u have a pure heart and ur trying to walk on the right path I agree marrying 4 times is allowed in Islam but why tell him to marry again now ??? He just got married and had a baby let him live his life and take care of his 2 kids why put burden of another wife ???
burden? who said it’s burden, it’s a blessing, you’re just going against the sunnah for your own idiot reasons. that man has come a very long way in the pursuit of islam and is doing his best to live up to the example of our nabi SAW, nothing wrong if he wants another wife
@@rahbid121and thuss Dunya is created with alot of burden, and no soul is tested with that he can not bear, if a person takes another wife, then he surely has the capability to handle it.
@@rahbid121 yea that’s why those who can’t do justice by their second wife are highly discouraged against getting one 🤦♂️ you aren’t perfect buddy, islam is those who can support a second, third, or even fourth wife don’t often do it to pleasure themselves like most people think, most men are good, they do it so they can protect them from oppression and give them a good life, that’s why this law was instituted by allah in the first place
@@ibrahim_-_-_ yes it’s sunnah but it doesn’t mean EVERY man has to marry 4 times there are a lot of things to respect and consider before taking that huge responsibility and the very first one is to take permission of first wife so go tell ur father to marry 3 times but 1st ask ur mom and see what she says 🤗
Wdym rest of them ? Sister fear Allah he didn’t say anything wrong why are you this offended did he legislate all men should marry more than wife ? No he didn’t why are you this offended by this ?
@@Borz.0011 He's wrong. Publicly discussing his relationship and wanting to marry other woman, the man doesn't have shred of respect for his woman who's always been there for him in his tough times, you along with him should fear Allah
May Allah save us from taking Sunnah of our Prophet SAW lightly. Our Prophet implored us to treat our women well, yet we talk about marrying them like we're collecting knick knacks. Astaghfirullah.
@user-np2yj4pr8h where do I mention the word murder? The guy is obviously passionate about his deen ma sha Allah but when you talk violence in the house of Allah that’s not good for him so like I said he wouldn’t come back to our club because like all so called gangsters need their boys with them to be able to act but when they are on their own they don’t know what to do because they’re cowards it’s just the truth so don’t assume that I said anything that isn’t written it’s delusional 🤣
If it’s gonna upset your wife then don’t talk about in public if your wife doesn’t like your getting married again then that thought shouldn’t even cross mind after everything that’s happened she stuck by ur side and even saved your life make her happy bro
He got married to a divorce with a child and 6 years older than him because he thought he couldn't have children- his words. Maybe now when he knows he is able to have more he wants another one.
Ive recently Even encouraged my husband cause I thought I knew he‘s fair and just a good man. We‘ve found a Second wife and Never in my life would I have thought that 1 1/2 weeks later, he‘d just give me divorce.
Sister thee is nothing I can say here that will bring your soul any relief. But do know that if he believes that there will be peace in his second marriage by starting it with a disgusting act like this, then he's very wrong.
May Allah make it easier for you sister. I will keep you in my prayers. Know that you are worth more than you can imagine. Thank Allah for this blessing as you were able to see your husband’s true colours. May Allah grant you a righteous spouse
What is to say a second wife, or third , or fourth is going to save you from falling. If temptation gets to you think of your wife and to her ( they are all the same). Shaitan and your nafs will have you fall on your face. Sincere supplication to Allah especially at Tahajjud will help you. If you fear you have absolutely no self control and will transgress, then take on 2nd. Staying in Allah's pleasure is the most important.
What????? People of knowledge??? Brother I don’t know what kind of people of knowledge are telling u these things but has no substance, they can give u excuses but have no legitimacy in what they saying…. These type of people of knowledge is who I would be taking a couple of steps back from
