Please pray for me, I have so many sexual urges and I'm finally able to control it but it's hard, I wanna get married but I struggle alot mentally so I'm unable to put the effort to learn some useful skill to start earning and get married. Allah has helped me alot in the last month, and earning is the only hurdle that remains in my life.
Ameen. Many of us teenagers and young adults are being tested this way also. Make dua and pray to Allah to make it easier for us. And remember “Man will not get anything unless he works hard” (Surah al-Najm, 53:39). So work hard and smart. And Allah will give us beautiful pious wives, and bless us with cute, and believing beautiful baby girls and boys. Ameen.
go out to work with intention of just nikah (islamically legal) with no care of everything. even widow or older woman with 100$ mahr. once the fish bite, you will use all of your muscle and bones to pull the fish, and Allah will help 💪 Modern society made zina easy and marriage hard, even in islamic majority countries. Just. Nikah. and. Grind.
eventually you will find the woman, young or old. Lot of girls got deflowered with promised marriage, then left. But if your intention is Allah, you will suceed finding one.
God does not burden any soul with more than it can bear: each gains whatever good it has done, and suffers its bad- ' Lord, do not take us to task if we forget or make mistakes. Lord, do not burden us as You burdened those before us. Lord, do not burden us with more than we have strength to bear.
@@Shinobu2506. Ask Allah (S.W.T) and believe in him and his timing ,maybe He might not grant you your dua right now because it's not right for you or it's not right time for you because he loves you , So be patient sister
Good Allah, how scarily accurate this is to my current situation. I kept debunking non muslim videos but my heart still felt like debunking them more, their stupid claims disturbed me, i debunked them but still didnt felt no comfort in myself. I begged Allah to help me and to remove this discomfort and it wouldnt go away, from this video i realized that if I didnt stop debunking and going back to these anti Islam channels, no matter how stupid and false their claims maybe I would never feel comfort in myself. Ya Allah help us all, let today be the last day we suffer from these addictions InshaAllah
SubhanAllah, I watched the original video years ago and I still remember it to this day. It was so impactfull to me I had actually written down all the main points and until today it is my wallpaper Alhamdulillah
perfect time to end the video genious. now people are more lost. you provided a problem most people go through and cut out the part where he can get a solution. Absolute genius move tbh.
Well the message was more to make those people wake up and the solution, as impossble as it seems to be, is to quit that kind of environment when we can we we still have that tiny flame of imaan in us. But i understand some people just feel hopeless and lost so an advice and little tips would be the least.
Mashaallah, every word he said right now is related to my present, the fitnah will make us delusional and addicted and then to overcome the guilt we will start questioning Islam instead of leaving the bad habit May Allah protect us all and guide us in these times
I needed this reminder. I’ve been making dua 🤲🏾 for Allah SWT to help me overcome my shortcomings and desires, just guidance or any sign, and wallahi after salah this video popped up on my feed. Subhanallah ☝🏾
Subhan Allah 😢 May Allah guide us all to the straight path and forgive us all and grant us all a good ending and grant us all jannatul firdus Aamiin Yaa Rabbi 😢🤲
I just recently started praying 5 times a day because I feared to have that regret, the regret of not repenting sooner, the regret of not asking forgiveness from Allah before it's too late. I don't know if this is just normal for a starter like me, but whenever I pray, reciting Surah or doing sujood, there's this voice inside my head, asking me why I'm doing that, or is it really necessary to pray? That voice even ask me if Allah really exist, and that makes my heart doubt of the things I'm doing. I can't focus properly during my pray, and I'm scared that my pray is not counted because I'm having those doubts in my head and in my heart. Is this normal? Or it's a sign that I haven't totally surrender to Allah?
Asalam Alaykum dear brother/sister. These thoughts are from shaytaan, your sworn enemy and mine. You may not have previously had these negative thoughts and that’s because shaytaan didn’t have to worry when you’re not praying. When someone isn’t practicing the deen he doesn’t have to work hard to get them off of it. Now that you’re praying and submitting yourself to Allah he is trying to get you to doubt everything. He may claim you’ve broke your wudu, or that you don’t really believe in God, or try to suggest negative things, etc etc. i had the same issue when I came back to Islam and I partially still struggle. Seek more knowledge on shaytaan. Go to a reliable sheikh like your local imam that is Insha’Allah on the correct Aqeedah. You will be safe if you go to a Sunni mosque and if you haven’t got a close mosque search “Sunni mosque near me”. Ask the imam/sheikh about the wiswas you’re having as he will likely be able to clear it up. Read translation of the Quran as well and look at the promise of shaytaan and his plans for humanity. Look at Hadith regarding shaytaan and it’ll affirm your faith.
Also there is a Hadith (forgot which one) saying that the Ummah of Muhammad Sallalahu alayhi wa Salam are not held accountable for their thoughts. You are not held accountable for what you think, especially when these thoughts are from shaytaan (external) may Allah protect you and guide us and all the Muslims
Definitely shaitan on your case bec you have turned to Allah swt .... keep going be strong FIGHT him(those whisperings) ... May Allah swt bless you with fortitude Ameen May Allah swt bless all those who are struggling to get back to Him with guidance and fortitude Ameen
@simjaeyunultimatefan6529 The shaytan in charge of disturbing our solah is Khinzib ...shaytan can only descend upon those who are lying and wicked. Zikr Subhanallahi Maliki Quddus is highly recommended. So keep your faith in ALLAH and Rasulullah SAW zikr La Illaha IlAllah ,send selawat,Istighfar and cry a lot,and make doa for brothers and sisters who are suffering from was was and any addiction. Imagine ALLAH in front of you and you are nothing without Him,each time your thoughts go away bring it back again. We are asked to pray as if it is our last prayer before we die. Usually all nafs will die and 1 can focus. If it still persist dry spit 3x on left and say quietly (just move lips and no sound)Au'dzu Billahi Minash shaytan nir Rajeem. Shaytan Iblees are jealous of sons of Adam bcoz he refused to make sujood but here you are on the way closer to ALLAH and Haiya Falah(Come to Success as how the azan calls us to do). May ALLAH help you to overcome this problem..Aamin.
Akhira requires scarifies which I'm refuse to be doing, I'm on the last stage of the ayat because i have deluded myself into wishful hopes and only the command of Allah is left.
But how to deal with family who are not believers and do Haram as a normal thing? Do i have to leave them and be alone? I live in Latin American country and Haram is all around. So do I have to pack everything and travel to a Muslim country knowing that I don't have resources to do it and secondly I don't know the Arabic language? This put me in a big trial and choose between my love ones and faith.
You don’t necessarily have to leave the place. Start giving dawah to your family members first through your improves character and manners which you can learn from the life of Prophet Muhammad (Saw) and then by showing the proof that Islam is the ONLY truth and all the other religions are corrupted either because their books are not authentic and have been tampered with or they have no logic or proof to back up what they’re preaching. There’s a lot of videos on RU-vid alone which you can watch to improve your dawah skills and depending on what religion your family belongs to, I’m sure there are videos disproving that religion, especially if it’s Christianity. May Allah help you
I'm in a similar situation and I've had thoughts too about just leaving and living alone in a Muslim country but after a while of reflecting and learning more about Islam I've learned that I just need to try my best in changing my character and conduct. There will be fitnah everywhere you go, the world is in a terrible state and there isn't a safe haven state for Muslims anywhere. We need to change ourselves as much as we can with the fitnah banging on the doors while doing everything in our power to stay away from it, build our faith and knowledge, and be an example of what Islam is to people around us who have only ever seen Islam through the news stations when ISIS or Al Qaeda are brought up. We've been chosen to fight what looks like a losing and hopeless battle, where we are surrounded and picked apart from the outside and the inside. But it is not for us to win, we are completely powerless, weak, and poor. It is Allah, Al Latif (the most subtle) who will win this, with or without us. His army is never defeated, his promise is never broken. Jannah isn't cheap and we will be built up and stripped down over and over each time growing in faith and reliance on Allah alone. The ultimate victory isn't living peacefully in the mountains with a big family of righteous wives and children, it's in choosing to do the right thing even when it's difficult, it's in submitting to Allah alone and not your culture, your family, friends, whims, desires, that only lead us astray into sin that numb us from the reality and seriousness that we need to take in our lives. Allah found us lost and guided us through his glory and mercy, not because of anything we could ever offer him.
