Yeh although she's a pretty female the 3 kids and 2 baby daddies which means neither man chose or saw her as wife material, means there's nothing but a cool date or sexual encounter. Here SMV is super low, definitely not wife material. And the kids ages probably would drop her even lower on the value scale unfortunately.
Real men, know real men. This brother is a MAN with system, order, and structure. He has morals, and integrity; a reason as to "why" he moves the way he does. The fact that he didn't get on here, and act like a "thirsty" male was a turn on to both of these ladies. It was apparent from their demeanors. Kudos to the brother for representing himself well, and demonstrating what black male excellence should look like. This brother made me proud, (something I don't say often) because he dispelled the myth, that ALL BM are *Dusty, Crusty and Musty* out here. WE ARE NOT!!!!
His eyes went closed when she said she had 3 kids because he was thinking, “damn, I gotta deal with 2 baby daddies? Nah fam! That’s why he said at the end, “I’m good!”🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude almost went into cardiac arrest when she mentioned those kids and baby daddies 🤣🤣🤣 yet she was asking all those things as if she was the catch . The audacity 🤣🤣
You left out the unmitigated gall of her as well smh/lol. She had to come clean, once she found out that her looks and sex wasn't going to captivate him to a capacity where she could have the majority of the control...
Talking about having a man is a "Bonus". That's her way of saying she don't need a man. Clear Sign of a toxic person to be with. Arrogant, no tact, self serving.
They played him and wasted his time with a bad surprise. He was just trying to get home and unwind after a long day of work and they put him on a live public platform just to be mismatched. He’s a gentleman for how he reacted.
So when women ask where are all the good men at..... realize they are out there, but when the product that's as cute as this but just as used....why would you buy that ???
Many women will overlook him because of his demeanor. They’ll find it “boring”. But boy, will his wife be a lucky woman 💯 even the men in the comments are talking crazy about him because he’s not a hood dude 🤦🏽♀️ this world is so damn backwards
What's good is bad and what's bad is good. That's how it is these days. Rather have a dude that runs around on you and gotta be out at venues every other weekend rather than a man/woman who goes home after work and actually be a spouse.
Black women dont like structure or accountability. They know he will require them to be a lady and submissive. Black women see a man as competition. When this man marries a Latina or White woman all hell breaks loose
80% of the time, if a woman feels the need to get some tattoo with the word" Unbreakable" or anything of that nature... she's broken! Run gentlemen! Those women tend to be hell of damaged!
@@Mr._Ramos That's what I had to do after too many resets while trying to build with some of the women in this country. It's just not worth the investment.
@@A.D.8897 yeah I met my wife in DR, now we getting married with a baby on the way. Women outside America need to be feminine women, they not tainted by feminists beliefs.
She knew after she told him she had 3 kids with 2 different men, she had to follow up with "I have my own everything a man is just a bonus" crap. She knew it was a wrap by his facial expression 😂😂
Notice how that disgusting creature waited so long to tell this man that she had all of those children with multiple men. The first thing out of her raggedy mouth should’ve been she is a multiple baby mama factory with nothing to offer.
He handled it very well and in a very graceful & gentlemanly manner. He knew in the back of his mind it was like, "Was nice to meet you. It's on to the next." Besides she looks much closer to 40 than 30 and can just tell that Pookie, Chad, Ray Ray, and Tyrone had their "fun" with her.
I'm not saying you're selling yourself but you are selling yourself on the first interaction/ date. That just wasn't attractive at all plus she waits to the very end to tell him she has 3 kids and 2 baby daddies. ☠😂😂😂
@@Shakemoose she should of mentioned that from the jump instead of throwing leading questions earlier in the convo and at the end saying.. oh yeah I got hella kids and hella baby daddies..she for play play in his eyes or just ditch her all together
I ain't SHIT for how hard I laughed at his pain when she said she had 3 kids by 2 baby daddies. That man closed his eyes like he just got off the phone with someone who told him that his wife was smashing his brother, his dog just got ran over, AND somebody stole his lunch out the break room at work 😂😂😂
I noticed that right off the bat . A woman this good looking usually smiles a lot more and is a bit more inviting but it makes sense when you find out she's a baby mama.
She knows she can't really hold a dude like this. Women like her rebel against discipline and structure and don't like being held accountable-they're chaotic.
Nnandi Okafor is dating Rosario Dawson now. It was a wrap as soon as she said she has 3 kids and 2 BD's. Homie closed his eyes for a good 5 seconds, grabbed himself a glass of Orange Juice.. I'm good.
Woman who would reject him are fools and apparently have low standards. This man seemed interesting, has a job, and goals. He has no children or obligations. Great conversationalist and he has a brain and is handsome. It is her that I feel for him on. 3 kids with different men. Well we know she does not like to use protection. (obviously) Of low value and at the age of 30 she mentions that she is trying to find herself. He can do better. A pretty face does not stand for much nowadays when you have 3 kids trailing behind them.
@@rocknkese9075 Yeah I mean 3 kids two baby daddies then @12:12 saying she has it all and a man is just a bonus 🚩🚩which really is just her way of deflecting from the reality that she has pretty much disqualified herself from the man that she really would want such as guys like this right here.
I got second hand embarrassment when she was stumbling all over her words about what she brings to the table and having 3 kids by 2 different men. Lol he was disappointed. But whomever he finds they will be a lucky woman.
I'm not trying to be funny; but, once Marquisha mentioned she has 3 kids by 2 different fathers at about 11:55, homeboy went from interested to shockingly disinterested 😆. This is proof, that having children out-of-wedlock is not a badge of honor to everyone, but more of a liability, especially, to a single man with no kids that dignifies himself 🤷.
Once she mentioned her name was Marquesha, I was about done. Has hardly anyone in the history of life with quesha as a part of her name, been about anything? The people who want to name their daughter a quesha usually ain't worth rubbing two nickels together, so the quesha's are usually doomed from the start on the strength of how they're raised.
They're on two different levels. You can tell she's not whole. He needs to find a woman who does not have that much obvious baggage. He says yes to her, she's going to ruin him.
🤣🤣My dude started checking out soon as she mentioned those kids. His face said it all and the way she started stumbling, she knew it was going downhill from there.
Hahahahahaha. The funny thing about it I don't even think she was going to say anything about the kid until Mel put her on the spot. After that she was like this bitch just fucked me up. Lol
The man is 38 and he looks 27. The woman is 29 and she looks 47. Why in the world would this guy want a woman with 2 kids by 2 different men and he looks good and makes good money?! Her pretty privilege has definitely faded!!!
@@lolathelonewolf yes! We must not have been watching the same video. Because 6 or so of my male friends think she looks old as fuck!!!!! So I'm not the only one that thinks so!
Once the woman told him she had multiple kids with multiple fathers, he looked like he was waiting for the conversation to be over with. Women, don’t be so quick to conceive with men you’re unsure of
As a woman with no kids who dated a man with 3 kids and 2 baby mommas.. he made an excellent choice here! Do not waste your time and lower your standards like I did and do not feel bad about it!!
@@piplyf that's cause most women don't know how to act around men, other than to find something wrong with them even if it's a perceived flaw. 80% of women today are like this!
@@maxlogan7388 Exactly. Just an excuse to disqualify a man, before he has a chance to realize her true value and choose not to deal with her. I really think it's a "defensive mechanism".
The way she addressed whoever came in was a big flag. From first impressions this guy seems to be family oriented, masculine, ambitious, respectful with good mannerisms. Able to hold a good conversation....thought this was a mismatch from the go
Those tattoos and lashes alone speaks volumes but because she is light skin with “good” hair she think that can get her what she wants Evidently not she is single with 3 children and never married Nope sis you are a 🚩🚩🚩 light skin hood hair or not Run man run fast
I mean how she address the person who came in a person with common sense would have instantly picked up that was a child who entered the room. Give the benefit of doubt could have been a niece or nephew but more likely her kid. No grown person gone speak to another grown person like that as well as you would think she would have told the other person not to disturb her unless it was an emergency. Asking g where the juicy juice is not an emergency 😂
"Plan Jane type of boy" 😂 he meant average Joe type of guy... Hey but anyone else noticed that as soon as she said she doesn't know what she is bringing to the table & that she has 3 kids with 2 different baby daddy's... he end the conversation with a drink and said "I'm good, this has been awesome..." LoL 🤣
Lol dude is a smooth talker...defiantly wont have anything serious with this woman...a successful man will not let a woman's previous bad decisions infect his previous hard work and future. We would rather play and die alone
A successful man does not necessarily want to be the father of other people's children, bring all that drama into his life, and not have someone continued to contribute to the success. A successful man does not need a woman who says a man is a bonus, an afterthought. He would always be last after the kids and dog.
@@martinecooper6669 that shit isn't common...but stupid comes in all flavors...there's also the fact that some women with no kids act like they don't have to contribute to the relationship....while some single mothers go all out because they know the package deal is a hard sell to begin with.
The man straight up passed out when he heard she had 3 kids with 2 dads... he composed himself well at the end... I think he was feeling her initially but checked out with that info at the backend... man closed his eyes for a good minute 😄
3 kids was a big let down but I do appreciate her honesty and that she admitted her flaws. Ya'll gotta give her credit for that but going forward she needs to spread that message to other women to break the cycle.
Artisan Muzik Credit for what? She gets no credit for that. She should have told the man that she had 3 kids in the beginning instead of wasting his time doing all that talking.
The hell with that credit ish. You think she's being honest? There's a lot in her wardrobe that will scare the daylight of of any self respecting man. She doesn't have to tell us her secrets but its clear in the subliminal cues she gives in her words and body language. Plus men who bring more to the table than she does you think she'll give them credit or a chance?
She really tried to dance around the question after being asked "what do she bring to the table" all she had to say is 3 kids and 2 baby daddies lol 🏃🏾♂️💨
😂 c'mon you know she can't say she brings that to the table but you are right she should have got that out in the open before asking him all those questions could have saved 9 minutes of his time and ours 😂
Lol check his body language when she dropped the bomb shell. He literally closed his eyes and its like his soul left his body. His energy deflated and he checked out. Lol
@@eon001 When I tell you I was on the floor. That man camera started moving, shaking then revealed that plain stare after the resting eyes phase and the disappointed head nod. Them eyes said everything boy 😭😭😭😂. He ain’t need to close his eyes THAT long lmao
The nerve of this woman,asking all theses questions and she got three kids with two different men, by pookie and ray-ray,years ago she would of put this guy in the friend zone.....the nerve of this heffer.
He looks like a reformed Tristan Thompson. Cool dude. You can tell he's self controlled and established. Marquisha is...a hood booger. God bless her relationship with her kids. Amen
He's literally standing beside the refrigerator and she's telling him he looks short wow that's what you get when you're talking to somebody on a camera phone
@@Shakemoose Yes men do care. Why you think it's so many single mothers that are dating? lol. Because nobody wants them. Most single me are not looking for single mothers to date. Especially high quality men that have options like this dude.
@@ManCodeTV are you serious or joshin’ right now? regardless to what you are saying, the fact remain, women are the ones who are leaving relationships whether they are single or single mothers both are leaving majority of the time.
@@Shakemoose Bruh ya'll just be repeating stuff ya'll heard on youtube lol. Go ask a single mother how hard it is to date. And see the answers you get. I won't date a single mother, never have and never will. And I was actually married my guy, and I am the one who broke it off. Ya'll try to paint this picture like men are desperate to have any woman, which is FALSE! Yeah the women probably are leaving, because most dudes be cheating on these women. My homie married right now, and he cheats on his wife daily. I was married too, and guess what? I was smashing mad chicks right before I get married and while I was married. Then I just wanted out, wasn't feeling the married life, so I got a divorce. Dudes is getting it in out in these streets. Keep thinking men don't have options, and taking whatever they can get hahaha. Get off the internet my guy, and get into the real world.
This man is very handsome and put together. I think most females will reject him due to his good guy presence and it's a bit boring for many females. Life has taught me that this man is the gold.prize. I'd rather have boring and righteous than a dramatic cheating narcissist.
She even said "a man is a bonus for me". That means any man who is with her is in last place. Her kids and herself come first. Her life is very complicated. I would look for the No Kids version of herself.
She is aggressive. " What are coming in here for?" I will end the convo. That is a very very smart man, he put emergency breaks ON when he realized she had been ran on and has 3 kids. His hopes were surely high with her demands I thought she was single without a child. " I learned..." Then he was like... PEACE, I am out
Yeap! That first few seconds was a wrap. I commented immediately to say bro run. Who talks like that? Mothers with attitude. They will make your life hell. I only went to the comments to confirm. I don't need to finish watching this - if the man goes even on a date, he would probably get sued by her like that q sha type woman that just went viral - in fact anyone with that type of name and attitude is a no. To think she is so young with two kids with different fathers already. She will be hell to live with - she has too much red flag in that first few seconds - gosh! She looks older too over 40.
Yeap! That first few seconds was a wrap. I commented immediately to say bro run. Who talks like that? Mothers with attitude. They will make your life hell. I only went to the comments to confirm. I don't need to finish watching this - if the man goes even on a date, he would probably get sued by her like that q sha type woman that just went viral - in fact anyone with that type of name and attitude is a no. To think she is so young with two kids with different fathers already. She will be hell to live with - she has too much red flag in that first few seconds - gosh! She looks older too over 40.
Lol.."I'm good" right after the long shut eye when she said she had 3 kids and 2 baby daddies was my best part. ..Brother wasn't about to add to his struggles in life. She also doesn't have a pleasant personality even if she's beautiful. She started off by telling him he looks short after he said he was 6.2ft. Why say that? She then followed up with a compliment that he is handsome. She is manipulative and it partly explains why she is a single mother of 3. No sane and successful man will want to have her.
Women in her line of work don’t believe they deserve a man of his caliber. She had to try and downplay him a little because he seemed too high above her level.
@@jerometruitt2731 I think you are right about this. She quickly realized the dynamic shift 38, no kids, educated, over 6 ft, good looking and a man like that has options and doesn’t have to settle. Pretty privilege doesn’t work on those types. She may have been a go with one child and previously married but 3 kids with 2 baby daddies means this man is inviting 6 people including her into his personal life.
Young lady: "A man is a bonus for me." Womanese translation: You will step into my world and get on my program. My three children, my career, and myself come first. You sir will be number five on the priority list. I don't think she understands that was not a desirable statement for a man who has put in the work and made something of himself. That is a statement that gets kudos from her girlfriends and the echo chamber not to the type of man that she would probably want to take her seriously.
Definitely she named all stripper city’s she stayed in . She Juss not the one. Especially for my man he innocent af. She gon put that man through hell.
Got to the table part and she tells a story 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she has nothing to offer but a clean house 3 kids and 2 baby daddies and still haven’t said what she does for a living. Can’t even say what she offers this is sad.
Yep she knows she has nothing to bring to the table but a pretty face and maybe a clean house. she said in another clip that her second baby daddy left her because he said she was lazy. Clean and lazy don't go together. She out here trying to trap a man with means. She is still very pretty but she know that time is running out and those three kids are a liability. She's lived in Atlanta Houston and just got back from Vegas 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🛑☢️
Women need to stop wasting time and just mention they have kids from the jump. I had this happen to me when I was 18 in college and the girl was 17. We talked for days and when I finally asked her out she casually mentions she can't go because of her kid. A kid at 17? Jesus christ...
Be very careful when dealing with broke chicks, they are just hoping to find a sucker to finesse. They know that alimony/child support is the quickest path towards financial independence.
Of course, he's Nigerian. He'll hardly go for a lady that already has kids with 2 different daddies. He's well-off and knows what he wants. She sounds like riffraff trying to pass off as something important but just here for another bag.
