Certain things as a parent are not questions or options - take that off, means take that off. One time. Then calmly remove it from her and let her know that you are going to let her have a meltdown in her timeout space, because that behavior is not appropriate, let her know she can use her words to express her feelings, but she will still have to take it off. When she’s done hug her remind her you love her and let her know that it is important that she listens to you. You are here to keep her safe. Explain the feelings she may be having when she doesn’t want to listen and that she can breathe when she feels frustrated. She may not practice this initially however over time the lesson will sink in. The key is, you have to follow through. She has to do what you ask. It may be uncomfortable, however, it’s necessary. You are a safe parent - so this is a healthy dynamic for you and your daughter. You can still be friendly- however, she has to know, I can speak my mind, but I also have to listen to and respect my Mom (parents). You are a great Mom - just feedback. Follow through and stick with it.
This is what happens when you try to be a child's FRIEND and not their PARENT. There's no way SHE should be telling you no and crying and screaming when you tell her to do something. Monique pop her little hand! It's only gonna get worse when she's older and tryna fight you. But what do I know? 🤣
Be quiet that’s just her heart is pure & loving she’s not mean or strict with her kids. Doesn’t mean she’s raising them to be her friends ! She just have a loving & caring spirit & aura just like when you grow up like that ppl tend to take advantage of your kind loving heart. Nothing is wrong the way she raises & raised her kids !!! They’re all beautiful & successful & making money with eachother that’s what it’s all about.
@@StillAlive-t8e Girl gone, I said what I said. She needs to fix it before she grows up or she's going to walk all over her. Idc nothing about what you talking about frfr.
Everyone's household is run different , that doesn't mean someone elses is right and your's is wrong. What works for you is obviously what makes us viewers keep watching💕
They spolied her. thats the result. And deshae spoils her the worst ..but as u can see she always scream and cry when she around dark skinned people. 😮😮
Yall want this family to be “perfect” for yall and that’s not reality! They keep it too real! One of my socks off right now and my garbage full too! 😂 just enjoy the content
This lady has 3 successful kids that yall are watching faithfully,, why are yall acting like she don’t know how to raise her kids. Yall kids probably outside right now being a menace to society 😂😂😂
Girl don’t feel bad. My boys don’t listen to me but listen to dad. I think it’s a guys energy that comes off different. Kids know who they can get away with certain things and they are very smart! lol. You’re doing good.
I use open pit original, add grape jelly and let it slow simmer. Not cook! Add crushed red peppers, a lil hot sauce vinegar and splash of lemon juice or lemons. Best sauce eva!!❤
Your significant other was supposed to be up at 5:00 am doing the meat, & you do the side dishes, you always cooking ps he could have took the trash out when he left to go get his haircut grown, man uh"""
@@Tynicolee soil babies from La that's our obligation and the woman have her sides done by 1pm or 2pm for family & friends to feast Memorial Day, Labor Day & thanks giving along with new years the main always prepare the meat. blessings to there family they are anointed.
My son was the same way never listened to me he was diagnosed as bad behavior. But later on at 11 he was diagnosed with Adhd his dad put him on meds. He's grown now takes anxiety depression pills. But handle that before get older. U speak soft forget that gentle parenting yell be stern. This last time seen Mike
Lol @ the Friend. She said, I already cooked. That’s how it should be, before the guest arrive. And her kitchen was nice and clean. Ready to entertain her guest.
You ain't a bad mom but its a damn shame you have to pretend to be her father for her to listen if you think thats healthy well never discipline her and keep playing!
She knows to do that with her mother cuz she's used to getting away with it with you cuz she's always around you she listens to her dad because he's like the dominant one but that's how it is with daughters and their mothers you just should be a little bit more lenient with her cuz she know what to get away with and what not to get away with
It’s entirely too late to play games with your soul, your purpose, and your calling! Ephesians 5:15-17 (KJV) 15 See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, 16 Redeeming the time, because the days are evil. 17 Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord [is]. Praying for people to develop a sensitivity to KNOW what the will of the Lord is!
Don’t ever comb her hair dry. Spray it with some moisturizer or some water. Don’t break her hair off. That’s why she don’t let you do it. It hurts when it’s dry and more hair break off. You had other kids. Don’t you know how to properly do hair?
Worry about your kids hair no one asked for your parenting advice. Everyone is different and her kids hair is better than your kids hair. You’re just a hater. Y’all always worrying about how someone parent their kids.
I have to honestly say your Sunday dinners or your bread and butter you should stick to doing that in different meals cuz you seem like you know how to cook
