I definitely don’t think she was being too sensitive in that story! Can’t drink and everyone else gets loaded at a celebration centred around an amazing thing *her* body is doing, had to pay the tab, seemingly had to drive home?? And was embarrassed by everyone in a public place…… I’d throw another baby shower myself 😂
@kj8767 While i agree, you can tell that a lot of these people dont know that their relationship is abusive, especially if everyone close to them is telling them they're too sensitive
Was literally going to write them on twitter and say this. The CRI genetics test is cool. My husband and I did it and it was a lot of cool break downs. I dgaf about what celebrities im related to, I want to know what my dna predicts for my health.
The fact that these people are in such toxic relationships and can’t see it is crazy. On another note, these videos just show how decent and normal Joe is, which is nice to see lmao
Here’s my response to the last story: DON’T MARRY HIM! Call off the wedding! Any man who treats you like that is not worth it. That’s incredibly sadistic behavior coming from him and you need to run! FAR!!
Wonder If it's him getting cold feet and not wanting to marry her anymore but he doesn't have the balls to break it up so he's being a POS so she leaves him
The "I'm just being honest, get over it" part made me pause the video and say "oh fuck right off dude, fucking prick". I hope she called off the wedding after that.
Many of you are though. Most of these stories are probably fabricated and or embellished to make themselves feel better I've seen a basic story turn to a tale of woe to get victim sympathy card too many times. 🤷♂️🖕🤣
It's really sad that (if these stories are true obviously, it's the Internet after all) these people have all been gaslit so much they feel like they have to question if their concerns are not legitimate and completely warranted with some absolutely psychotic behaviour
“I don’t know how you are typing this. I would be incarcerated for decapitating this person and getting rid of his teeth so his family couldn’t identity him.” A real goat tbh
@@lance9249I agree most women think men having standards and boundaries means we’re controlling. We’re supposed to accept them for being hoes and partying making her man look bad but us men can’t have rules and boundaries it’s crazy
The first girl was NOT being sensitive! In my opinion Joe looked at this from a dudes perspective.. but as a woman a baby shower isn’t a party.. it’s a a celebration/gift exchange for a baby otw.. not a frat party💀 plus pregnant women can’t drink or smoke.. so I bet she felt extremely left out! And everyone knows being sober around a bunch of intoxicated people is not fun in the slightest🤷🏼♀️ esp when they’re all completely shit faced at an inappropriate time and place
Not only that but she also basically had to babysit her husband since he was fall down drunk and thats extra annoying when you’re pregnant… its one thing to have a some drinks and a lil fun but its another to get absolutely sloshed at a baby shower where your wife cant even join in
this is why i told my husband i don’t want to be pregnant over the holidays ever again 😂 i mean it’s definitely an appropriate time for “festivities” and i tried not to be a party poop but it was exhausting
Completely disagree. First off, as someone who's never drank enough to be drunk and is always the "sober guy" at parties/celebrations, I can tell you that watching drunk people make complete asses of themselves is HIGHLY entertaining. Secondly, she clearly said, "a small group decided to continue the celebration AFTER THE PARTY ENDED." Which means, the baby shower was over. She also says that her family, not her, rented out the spot in the nice resturaunt for the baby shower. The majority of the "after party" consisted of "her family". So, they, again, NOT HER, prepped, planned, and paid for the location and can do WETF they want with it once the shower is over. Furthermore, people REALLY need to stop acting like baby showers, and weddings for that matter, are some hallowed day centered around the desires of one person, when it is meant to be a celebration of families coming together and growing. So, if you want people there to join in the celebration then, IDK, maybe let them celebrate how they want. If you want everything to be "perfect", me-me-me, and all about you, then celebrate alone. That way you can 100% ensure you will be the center of attention. Just a thought.
Right!? I was like he’s depressed or he has a health problem!! I was sleeping like crazy before being diagnosed with an autoimmune condition. That’s not normal but it’s not him being lazy, there’s something going on there
Whoever needs to hear this: If ANYONE EVER gives you "rules" in any relationship, or makes negative comments about your physical appearance, LEAVE. IMMEDIATELY. That is toxic, and not love.
Same for anyone who "teaches lessons.". Honey, I went to school. I got all the schooling that I need. I dont need your dumbass teaching me anything. Either we are equal partners or you are gone.
As a Christian, I gotta say you can’t have like a limitation on doing a good deed 😂 like the ham sandwich story. If I feel the need to pay for someone’s meal out of the kindness of my heart, I’m not going to be putting terms and conditions on it lol.
@@craigape ^This guy gets it. The long history of monotonous rules from the Jews were specific to specific people at specific times, for specific reasons. And Jesus came and cleared up the confusion. It's not about blindly following laws, it's about loving God and loving one another. And because we cannot be saved by our own works, that's why we need Christ as our sacrifice.
What bothers me most is they KNEW it was ham before offering. They could've ignored on religious objection but they felt powerful to pressure someone into their faith. Smarmy asshole.
At that point, just don’t even offer to pay for it in the first place. Because you’re just gonna hold up the line longer, which was half the reason in doing it.
@@Eyceboxx I don't believe everything I read. But I know people are capable of disgusting things, and I enjoy when it gets called out. Hence why I commented.
As somebody who has clinical depression, sleeping at 3 pm or oversleep in general is just something that happens. Maybe talk to the boyfriend and see if he needs to get some things figured out
Can't count the amount of times I've wanted to hang out with someone or go somewhere, but ended up flaking because I couldn't get out of bed, was too depressed to leave the house, or was sleeping. He likely does care about her quite a bit. It can be difficult to open up to people about stuff, but he needs to if he wants to keep a relationship with her.
That is a good idea to have a conversation with him. Both need to talk about how each of them feel in this situation. Sometimes even good people though don't make good partners for one another. So if her pace is very different from his (and likewise) that could be a deal breaker. It just all depends on the situation.
Thoughts on the last story: My ex used to judge my body constantly, but in such a passive aggressive way where i questioned if I was being sensitive or if he was just an asshole. Plot twist: he was just an asshole. Once told me i looked like I was gaining weight and he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. His solution? Cheating. He was also excited for me to go on anti-depressants because studies show they help with weight loss. I finally left and never looked back. Do not marry a man who feels the need to put you down to make himself feel better! That’s a prime example of a big ego and internalized self hatred
That's awful, I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Also, wtf is with the comment about antidepressants? Not only is he a dick, he's also an idiot. The vast majority of antidepressants cause weight gain as a side effect. Speaking from experience as someone who has walked the minefield of medications and is just now getting back to a normal weight after gaining 60+ lbs on a med I used to take.
First story: it was a baby shower though , it was HER baby shower. She can't drink. I think it was a*hole behavior to get drunk at a party where the person whose party it is can't join in the fun.
I also feel like she was embarrassed right? Like she said they were out at a nice restaurant and they were getting like sloppy drunk and rowdy and she kinda just had to sit there as they were drinking and smoking around her. I can understand the family wanting to have a bit of fun but it seems like it went too far
Exactly!! And I think my biggest issue is the fact it was at a restaurant. Like a backyard party with just family is different but being the only sober person left taking care of a mess of people in a public space on your special day just doesn’t sound very fun
What if she's not even a drinker?! I would just be happy being around loved ones showing up and them bringing me gifts! It's a celebration. It wouldn't be completely ideal for me of them being hammerd! But I'd be grateful they were being supportive and showed up to celebrate my new joy. Heck, I'd tell them to take a shot for me!!! Lol. But that's just me. 🤷♀️
Any guy who gave me rules, period? Id run. As for the music in the car? Hence why I adopted Dean Winchester’s rule - “Driver picks the music. Shotgun shuts his cake hole” 😂
For the 23 and Me thing: it also tells you some other info besides your potential genetic heritage. The mom could be defensive because she “thinks” that her adoptive daughter doesn’t like being in their family, is questioning her genetics, and could leave to meet her birth parents. It may be a stretch, but the defensive response from the mother leads me to think that it’s deeper than just a test. The daughter is being curious, has a right to be curious, but is being given a wildly inappropriate response to an innocent inquiry. They need to TALK. Haha
I think the 23andMe thing was probably more of the mother fearing that 23andMe may lead to her daughter connecting with her birth family and the fear of feeling like she may lose her in some way. Which is not true or fair, but also just an assumption on my part, knowing quite a few people who were adopted. 23andMe does show "DNA relatives" of people who have also used their service.
I totally agree. I was adopted and I got a test more so to see where I was from and other fun things since I had already met my birth mother. For context my birth father died before I was born. I randomly found my first cousin on my birth father’s side that I was aware I had but dint know where he was. Turns out he was like an hour or so from me this whole time.
I was just going to say that. I feel like the mom is afraid the daughter wants to go looking for her biological family and doesn't feel truly accepted by her adoptive parents.
I feel like that's one of those natural human emotions that people should let themselves feel and then try to balance and counteract any unhealthy behaviors. Insecurity, feeling like your familial relationship is being devalued as "less real", a sense of abandonment - these are understandable gut feelings in adoptive parents. But acting on them doesn't match the objective facts of reality and often makes things worse.
First off, the boyfriend’s list from the long-distance relationship is a giant red flag. Don’t get me wrong, there should always be ground rules in a relationship but if you read between the lines, those are all signs of a psychopath! I would never do a long-distance relationship because you don’t really know your partner until you spend time in person.
I believe that if a person dies then you probably shouldn’t completely ignore who they are and only focus on some eye-catching thing they did. The important thing was that a murder happened, not that it was a stripper. So they should say a name like “Beatrice Johnson Murdered” or “Woman Murdered _______” and then sometime later mention that she happened to be stripping at the time.
Right but that doesn't matter to newspapers because htey're not the ones doing the investigation. Police work like this, or at least they're supposed to, media works liek the following; making the most outrageous headlines possible without being cancelled and only telling the truth enough that no one can prove in court that they're lying
“Anyone who talked to me like that I would just, murder.” 😭 I feel like we always knew but I’m so proud of his takes on all of this what a respectable lad 👏🏻👏🏻 so slay Joe
4:22 I audibly laughed at this one 😂 There's something about these posts with an unexpectedly dismissive remark from a boyfriend/husband that really get me for some reason
Something the mom of the Korean is trying to avoid is the girl finding out who here real parents are and trying to get in touch with them. Many adoptive parents try to prevent this because they do not want their kids getting hurt or because it can make the adoptive parents feel they were not enough for their kid. So that one I actually get some, however I do not get the boyfriend ones. Like get out now for most of them. Seems they have crap picks in partners and rather complain about them then getting out and finding a happy relationship. That makes no sense to me!
The headline one is so real. Saw an article about a woman getting trampled by a moose and the headline said: “Colorado Moose attacks woman” 💀. Like damn we don’t even get to know where the lady is from but the moose huh 😂😂😂
Okayyyyy but what you said at the end about needing to keep asking even after talking to multiple people about the issue, really struck something in my soul. I do that far too often when something bothers me and I think it's because people like me have been conditioned (usually in early childhood) to think others feelings are more important than our own. We feel crazy for having any feelings that conflict with anyone else's, so we require a massive amount of validation from other sources 🙃
It's not uncommon as a victim of gaslighting especially to question our reality and doubt ourselves all the time. That's part of the manipulator's technique. You are not alone, this is way too common.
the song one made me think of the supernatural bit "driver picks the music, shotgun shuts his cakehole". i haven't watched supernatural since like 2013 but I still live by that in my car. people can request music but my phone has the aux, end of story
Oh I'm sorry if it made you feel that way❤ I don't think he meant people with disorders or illnesses or anything like that, just lazy and unmotivated people like the one in the text. It's Joe! I'm sure he didn't mean it like that. I am confident he's one of the actual nice ones
That last story is scary, I definitely thinking it's real, my ex used to say things like that to me and I have the text receipts to prove it. Covert narcissists hide stuff like that really well until they have you locked up. Mine convinced me to have a kid with her and then was diagnosed bipolar. She attempted to OD on sleep medication, it was the worst year and a half of my life. In the end she started cheating ( that's what narcissists do) and blamed everything on me. I had to leave because I have too much respect for myself to continue dealing with that. I really miss the idea of my family but I don't miss her.
16:29 omg, that is the "casually cruel in the name of being honest" that Taylor Swift was talking about. My ex used the "just being honest" line too but she was never this bad geeze.
The last one was heartbreaking. I want to put out that I’m someone who used to have body dysphoria and if someone had said something like that to me I would have been broken and I truly feel for her. And to anyone struggling with body dysphoria, you are so gorgeous. Please don’t believe the lies your brain tells you. ❤
I told my bf about the dog comment one and said now if you were to say that to me I would be pissed but when I heard you read the comment out loud about him saying he don't give a fuck I busted out laughing
Just a couple of things. The unemployed guy could have a mental health issue which could be why he’s sleeping all the time. I don’t know his history of course so I’m not sure if that is the case but I have mental illnesses and I sleep all the time when I’m not working. OK maybe not ALLLL the time but I do sleep a lot. So I do understand if that is the case. He could be depressed because he doesn’t have a job. He could also just be lazy I mean I literally have no idea who this guy is, so I have nothing to really go by but speaking as someone with mental illnesses that could be part of the issue if not the whole issue. But again he could just be lazy lol. As far as that last chick with the guy calling her, basically fat, she needs to ditch his ass! She needs to call off that wedding and get as far away from him as possible! He is going to be nothing but abusive, and probably cheat on her because he just sounds like that type of guy. Oh, and the girl with the long distance relationship with all the rules. She needs to ditch that guy immediately. He is controlling & that is not good. I mean there are so many red flags & they are on fire right now. Girl, get away from him & find someone who respects you! Joe, as always, I laughed my ass off!! Keep ‘em coming!! 😂😂😂
The dude giving his gf “rules” is hilarious I would be like “ cool my bedtime is 1030? Bet.” And then I’d stay up whatever time I feel like going to sleep but not text him after 1030 and say goodnight at 1030 🤣🤣🤣
The last story should have had the “Cell Block Tango” playing in the background as he read it. 🎶 He had it comin’, he only had himself to blame. If you’d have been there, if you’d have seen it, I bet you you would have done the same! 🎶
I moved away for college and lived in an apartment right off of campus. My boyfriend at the time made so many rules for me, like I wasn’t allowed to go downstairs to the gym or game room or swim in the pool. I made a total of zero friends in college and have so many regrets. One being staying with that guy and marrying him, because I thought that was love. 😅 all those girls need to run while they can!
Love how the shelf is decorated nicely and then there’s just a bottle of the everything sauce on the top shelf, get that coin 😂❤ also ur pilea is doing awesome !
I had a "friend" tell me not to sing along to the radio in my own car while driving them around. I now that I am not the best singer. I may not even be good at all. But it was the 1st time she said that. But nope, it's my car I can do what I want
The Girl who wanted to hear 1 song in her own Car , but her BF wouldn't let her , should take a very close look at that one little situation . If he's being that domineering and that controlling with her this soon in their relationship , if they end up Married she's going to be his Slave for life . Seriously , that guy obviously already has serious Mental Issues that need to be checked out before that poor Girl gets in any deeper . Just my opinion based on what she wrote in her letter . Hi Joe !! Hope you're doing well . And I hope everyone else is doing well and staying safe . 🎸 🎤 🎸
Korean person's 23 and me almost certainly has some Japanese, so that would be something. However, the fact they mentioned they already did it but didn't say for sure whether they were or weren't 100% Korean makes me think they were.
@@michaelortiz1561unfortunately I have dated a guy who gave me rules similar to this :/ they exist, and yes, he was also abusive in every way possible lmfao. Being 19 with low self esteem will have ya doin some crazy shit
Great video! Got me in a feels a bit randomly when Joe said Enzo, my neighbors cat enzo went missing the other day and still no sight of him. Hope hes ok.
