One comment I will make about the “getting physical” with Jade situation, as a black woman, is that if you play tap us we will tap back. And I can see amber not being used to that and coming back harder. Which means it will escalate into a fight. Black women generally don’t just let you hit them. We’re notorious for fighting back.
It's almost instinctive. I, and many like me, not only knew women who allowed others to treat them like dirt and beat them but were actively taught not fighting is to allow _everyone_ to treat you like dirt. Yeah, I can see Amber, used to being more dominate and steamrolling her pervious partners, being flustered when Jade is verbally and physically clapping back. Her usual defense of her 'feelings' probably didn't get too far either since there were lots of instances of her 'love bombing' Jade.
Yes it annoys me ppl only see Cassidy Becky an Krystal as victims because they just took the abuse. Amber also abuse density an jade. But they fought back. U start a fight they finish it