Тёмный

An Adoption Story: Ian’s Long Kept Family Secret and Surprise Heritage 

Alex Gilbert
Подписаться 33 тыс.
Просмотров 25 тыс.
50% 1

S2 EP2 (2024 Series) An Adoption Story:
Ian was born in Waihi, New Zealand, and adopted as an infant. He didn’t discover his adoption until he was 48 years old, at which point he slowly started to find those connections with his birth mother. With the help of his daughter Yolande, Ian then uncovered his previously unknown Māori heritage.
This is his story.
If you have a story you wish to share for the series, please visit www.imadopted....
Māori words and their meanings in Ian's story:
Whakapapa = Genealogy
Marae = Ancestral meeting grounds
Iwi = Tribe
Te Arawa waka = Double hulled canoe which came here from Hawaiki
Hawaiki = Our ancestral homeland in Polynesia
Te Arawa = The name of our tribe
At the end Matua Anaru says "Tēnā koe", which is a formal greeting loosely translated as "Hello"
Ian's family has also asked if any relatives who may be connected with them could please reach out to us at contact@imadopted.org.
You can also support my series by visiting our Givealittle page for I'm Adopted at givealittle.co...
About Myself:
Welcome! Here on my channel I share my journey, topics for adoptees, my vlogs, and support for others adopted, including their stories and journeys with my An Adoption Story series.
As a Russian-New Zealand adoptee, adopted at the age of two from an orphanage in Arkhangelsk, Russia, I share what I've been learning on my journey with my upbringing here in New Zealand, my current life, and how I connected with my birth family. I also share what my bloodline means for me with those connections from Russia, Ukraine and Kazakhstan.
Be sure to Subscribe if you haven't yet!
Find Me on Social Media:
Instagram: / alexgilbert
Facebook: / nzalexgilbert
Visit I'm Adopted
I’m Adopted imadopted.org/
Facebook: / imadoptedorg
Donate to I'm Adopted: givealittle.co...

Опубликовано:

 

29 сен 2024

Поделиться:

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист
Посмотреть позже
Комментарии : 65   
@Evan-e-cent
@Evan-e-cent 2 дня назад
Congratulations to Ian and his new-found family. It is a nice heartwarming story of discovery. Leigh is my sister and she played a big role in the story. The discovery of a Maori connection has been really special for Yolande who has always had an interest in traditional medical knowledge.
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you so much for watching! It was such a nice story to put together. I am really proud of it and really proud of the family who told it so well.
@pffp6246
@pffp6246 2 дня назад
Wow Ian you related to my children on their dad’s Side…. Amazing and that photo of your real Mum I have seen that face for the last 25 years in my In law’s home of my kids Great grandmother yes Nanny is from Awahou , so happy for you and your whanau to find your roots
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you so much for watching! Such a beautiful and powerful family all round. You can reach out to Ian's family through the info below in the description! :) Thank you so much for watching Ian's story!
@chrystalcook3239
@chrystalcook3239 2 дня назад
Well thank you for sharing this beautiful story, I really love and appreciate that the journey to finding out who this family have descended from is so tough but so rewarding, All parts of the journey are necessary and blessed, What a lovely family!
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you so much for watching. I really appreciate it! :)
@EthanManson-z6x
@EthanManson-z6x День назад
I am one of his grandsons, I am so proud of him for finding his birth parents ❤️ 🎉
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
So awesome Ethan! Thank you for watching. Ian is a top man. Was so nice to be able to share his story!
@Bettynz
@Bettynz День назад
Such an incredible story & whakapapa you & E & R share Ethan. (Aunty L)
@angharadswansea9343
@angharadswansea9343 5 часов назад
Aww how lovely of you! ❤️
@dfoxtrot724
@dfoxtrot724 День назад
To me Leigh is the light of this story. Her easy, constant smile and warmth, support and love for Ian is steadfast. I'm so happy they met. The bio mother is cold; shame on her for not embracing such a kind man.
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching! It was a great story to sit down and do for their family!
@Toninz
@Toninz 2 дня назад
Beautiful story thank you so much for sharing 🙏🙏🙏
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching. It was a beautiful story to put together!
@carolfisher1645
@carolfisher1645 2 дня назад
Wow - Ian This is just so beautiful. What an amazing story. I am so happy for you and your family. XXXX
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
It's a beautiful story. Ian did an awesome job sharing his journey with me. Thank you for watching!
@celiaberdes
@celiaberdes 2 дня назад
Alex: an excellent film! I wish every adopted person could have such a film. Also a lot of older people would love to have such a film. I made such a film about my dad for his eightieth birthday, and it was a big hit in the family. I used a woman here locally in Chicago that knew how to edit film, and between my research and her editing, the final product was excellent. Congratulations!!
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching. I really appreciate it :) Thank you!
@Thrasha79
@Thrasha79 2 дня назад
What an awesome story now you can feel free and know where you come from you have a sense of belonging ka pai ian
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Tēnā koe! Thank you so much for watching. I really appreciate it!
@IrisKristina
@IrisKristina 2 дня назад
Stunning story! And I liked very much the open way how to talk about it all. How nice you have found your cultural roots!
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you so much for watching. Always important to know and learn about your roots. Of course, if you want to!
@privatename8228
@privatename8228 2 дня назад
What a beautiful and powerful life story.
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you so much for watching. Means a lot!
@raquelgraham
@raquelgraham 2 дня назад
What a great documentary. Such a beautiful family. ❤
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching. I really appreciate it! It was a great documentary to put together!
@hamishmorleydoddandthethin2051
Amazing story Alex. Well done. Can’t wait to see what else you have install for everybody.
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you Hamish! Thank you for watching and most importantly for helping with this story. Let's bring on nothing but more great stories to share!
@stretchedandy
@stretchedandy 2 дня назад
My dad has a similar story with adoption. He was about 55 when he found out.
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
That sure is a later time to find out that information. I hope he was able to pick up pieces of his family after that. Thank you so much for watching Ian's story!
@Adamfobeth
@Adamfobeth 2 дня назад
Beautifully documented and shot.
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you so much. I really appreciate that. I did the filming myself with a bit of help for the 'Family Tree' piece near the end of the story which helped me a lot. It was great to put this together :)
@karynconner7478
@karynconner7478 День назад
A beautiful story. Thank you to you and Ian’s family ❤
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching. Really appreciate it :)
@PriscillaPoese-w5l
@PriscillaPoese-w5l День назад
❤loved this for you Ian your whānau and your tīpuna💚 Identity always plays a huge role in our culture and I am soo happy that you found your whānau and whakapapa!!! Welcome home❤
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
So important! :) Thank you so much for watching!
@PriscillaPoese-w5l
@PriscillaPoese-w5l День назад
@@alexgilbert and thank you for sharing covering Ian's story!!
@ammzh1976
@ammzh1976 2 дня назад
Beautiful whaanau
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
A beautiful whanau. 100%. They are such a nice family to follow for this journey of their Dad.
@Liz-sn1mm
@Liz-sn1mm 3 часа назад
Her children "didn't fit in" with her plans????? Guess he's lucky he was even born.
@friendlhi
@friendlhi 41 минуту назад
how beautiful to discover such an interesting story - makes up for the cold welcome from his mother, but maybe she had bad experience with being part native in old times ❤👍
@francer1793
@francer1793 2 часа назад
That was a beautiful story his daughter did a beautiful job with the whakapapa Ki ora whanau❤❤❤
@jerrilynhenson9024
@jerrilynhenson9024 2 часа назад
That’s amazing. Wonder if his adoptive parents knew how he was given up so they never wanted him to know? But he sure has an impressive native family tree. Too bad he couldn’t have met his biological dad.
@jenni48.32
@jenni48.32 2 часа назад
This is a wonderful life story and what a great family spirit and with strong New Zealand roots.
@emilywiebel3238
@emilywiebel3238 3 часа назад
Ian is a lovely man and he has the most wonderful wife and family of his own. I’m so glad he got to find the answers about where he’s from and his ancestry. However his bio mom really rubbed me the wrong way. I don’t expect all both parents to just instantly want a relationship and be excited, but she just seems like she’s not a very friendly person. It sounds like Ian was very lucky to have two parents who loved him and cared for him and not once made him think anything was different. Yes, I am a firm believer in telling your adopted child(ren) early on about their adoption so it’s not something that is hidden and they don’t feel betrayed later in life when finding out. But other than that, his adoptive parents seemed like great people as well. I hope Ian continues to live a beautiful life with his beautiful wife and kids.
@anneshnaidoo2218
@anneshnaidoo2218 День назад
such a beautiful story🙏
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching. It is! :)
@Monkey_Paws
@Monkey_Paws 2 дня назад
❤❤❤
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching! Really appreciate it!
@aleksandrakazijas4217
@aleksandrakazijas4217 4 часа назад
Great job Alex! Congratulations!
@sasharemez7373
@sasharemez7373 13 часов назад
I always thought I was adopted, because I was treated as a scapegoat. Turns out I wasn’t adopted, I just didn’t fit into my parents plans either, they kept me, but I had a long path to healing from rejection. I am well and happy now, and I am not bitter towards my parents or anyone else who has hurt me. I been able to forgive, and let go and enjoy my life and to practice loving others because love overcomes all wrongs.
@lil-mumma-adventures
@lil-mumma-adventures День назад
What a gorgeous story! As hard as parts of it would have been ❤ we currently live in the small town of Te Puke ❤ what a huge journey for you
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
What a small world. Thank you for watching! :)
@gigidee7928
@gigidee7928 День назад
Something about the stories of older adoptees is so touching. Of course all ages are touching, but I think it’s to do with how many of the older adoptees didn’t even know they were adopted and had to come to terms with so much secrecy as well as go through an identity crisis as adults. It’s so healing seeing them get their answers
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
For sure! Good to hear from all ages, 100%. Thank you so much for watching!
@marylott9294
@marylott9294 18 часов назад
Great Story!! Well done Alex!
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert 13 часов назад
Thank you so much for watching! Much appreciated! :)
@jeanhawken4482
@jeanhawken4482 День назад
Great history. Devoted parents
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching! It was so great to follow Ian on his journey!
@vforward9593
@vforward9593 11 часов назад
Well done. ❤
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert 9 часов назад
Thank you for watching! Much appreciated! :)
@Dandelionfleur
@Dandelionfleur День назад
Love this!
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you so much for watching! :)
@lizarmstrong9705
@lizarmstrong9705 День назад
Cool story
@alexgilbert
@alexgilbert День назад
Thank you for watching!