An honest conversation about where we are mentally | Why haven't we been doing well?

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We felt like finally being honest with you guys. How are you really doing? We would love to hear below. Listen to the end to hear how were helping ourselves through this!
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@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

How are you really doing? We would love to be there for you guys and all be praying for one another!

@savelu-4169 2 года назад

Just wishing you guys happiness

@fatimaliliana6820 2 года назад

I’m not going the best but I’m praying! Thank you! Prayers to your family

@liyahsunshine 2 года назад

I’m doing great but hoping y’all get thru it ❤️

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

@@savelu-4169 so sweet thank you!

@nikole2896 2 года назад

I'm 40 weeks prego today, I am honestly worried for my marriage because the husband works like 50 hours a week and we hardly spend any quality time. We love each other and do what we can, and are so grateful for how the Lord provides and for any time we do get, but I am very lonely most of the time and we have been spiritually dry and dont want it to get worse. we hardly pray with each other or can read the bible without falling asleep, and communing with God together is so vital in marriage

@michellereedg 2 года назад

when Chelsea started choking up thinking about what it ACTUALLY means to be a child of God... ❤️ I felt that. I know you both mentioned how we don’t need to have all the right words, but you both have such a way with words. thank you for sharing!

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

🥺🥺🥺

@alexandracruz2308 2 года назад

You guys make me feel so much better about not only my relationship with my husband, but also my relationship with God. I have been feeling that same dryness and I felt like maybe I was the only one, but now watching this video I know that I am not alone whatsoever. I thank God for the both of you!!

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Год назад

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@sathersocial2190 2 года назад

Hearing Nick speak so openly about his struggles as a man brought me to tears. Chelsea you are so lucky to have found someone so connected and comfortable sharing his emotions. This video was so important and thank you so much for sharing your hearts!

@asifulhaque916 2 года назад

Brought you to tears? You’re not a man then . Men don’t cry

@nickhurst2508 2 года назад

@@asifulhaque916 I guess I’m not a man either then. This is absolutely horrible advice. Some of the strongest men I’ve ever met aren’t too prideful to share their emotions.

@nikole2896 2 года назад

the whole point of our faith is acknowledging that we arent enough, we arent adequate, but our worth is not in our productivity or ambition; we find these things in Jesus. He is perfect. we are to cast our cares upon God, for He cares for us. He is the rest, the sabbath, for those who are heavy laden with burdens. He is there even when we feel distant and are just trying to be a mom or a dad, and you are still glorifying Him by doing so.

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

Yes! It’s easy to know all those things but to live it whenever everything is shaken up is different. We are learning what that looks like in this season! ❤️ thank you☺️

@nikole2896 2 года назад

@@ChelseaandNickim preaching to myself as well. sanctification is rough and messy sometimes !!!!

@nikole2896 2 года назад

@@ChelseaandNick I've also learned that self sufficiency is an idol and it's easy to remain closed off and not open up to people, when we need to lean on the body of Christ!!! how can there be harmony within the body if one part is dysfunctional/wounded or cut off from the rest. the rest of the body sends help and healing!!!

@kaelaward6588 2 года назад

Wow! I needed this. I have always felt that “guilty” feeling for trying to share my honest feelings. I have 3 kids and feel so isolated sometimes. They are truly my biggest blessings. God has been so good to our family, but I was NOT prepared for the season of sacrifice and hard times. I will say it gets easier in some ways, then other ways become harder. Always have GRACE for yourself, your marriage, and your relationship with God. The enemy is working hard to cloud our minds to keep our focus off of the Lord. Keep your head up! Love and prayers❤️🙏

@joshandsav 2 года назад

We love you guys! Grateful to have such incredible friends like you. ❤️

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Год назад

🎄Thank you for being a subscriber🎅🎄🤶 ‪‬ We appreciate your comment and support. you have been selected among our shortlisted winners.❄️‪☃️❤⛄️ ‪‬ Send us a message on the Nicegram app to claim your prizes🎁🏆

@hannahj7319 2 года назад

My mother is battling stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. I am not okay. This video helped me and I feel like I am your friend. Thank you for this. I wish I knew y'all in real life... I have no friends. I have nobody, and I am trying to find god. But why would he give this hardship to my mother who does not deserve it? She is the kindest person and she does anything for anyone. I am having a very hard time while working and taking college classes full time.... Love y'all!

@hannahj7319 2 года назад

Please pray for my mother, Nancy. Thanks everyone.

@kyaramarroquin 2 года назад

@@hannahj7319 I will pray 🙏❤️

@erinloi 2 года назад

🙏🏼❤️

@hangingwiththesengers6122 2 года назад

We love how you all are so transparent in this video! Your ministry will grow even bigger because of this! We all are human and just because you are a believer doesn’t mean that you don’t have hard days, weeks or months! God truly honors you all for doing this! Expect blessings to shower down over you! Love you all! Btw this my first time watching and I know you have a huge following but we think you are AWESOME!!!!

@redforjesus1 2 года назад

One of my favorite sayings is, “Tears are a prayer that God understands”.

@lexxs8346 2 года назад

This is exactly what I needed to hear 😭 Sometimes life feels so stagnant and I feel guilty for not having this picture perfect life and having a constant direction to follow. Thank you so much for reminding me that God doesn’t expect that from us. ❤️❤️❤️

@cricketfaith 2 года назад

Coming from someone who struggles with anxiety and stuff who doesn’t have church or friends to ever talk to I agree how important it is to have other believers to talk to. Sometimes I get angry because I don’t have anyone, especially when my anxiety is raging. Feeling dry spiritually is hard.

@ladybethia5457 2 года назад

I just prayed the Lord will bring you some good Christian friends.💛 And that the Lord will lead you to the right church or if for some reason you are unable to get there that He will provide a way. His Word says in Matthew to ask and it will be given. Seek and you will find.Knock and the door will be opened. Easier said than done, but The Lord is faithful!🙏🏻

@Moni-qw7yi 2 года назад

Wow!! I have never related so much to someone 😔 Just know you are not alone. I 1000% understand! Sending you love 🤍

@cricketfaith 2 года назад

@@ladybethia5457 thank you 🙏🏻

@cricketfaith 2 года назад

@@ladybethia5457 much love in return!

@Cinthiaa3211 2 года назад

“Everything will be okay” is always harder said than done. The reality is EVERYTHING will be OKAY! Having that faith even on dark days is a huge progress. Sometimes we let our minds take over and we feed into it. Having that spiritually connections is amazing and helps out a lot. Not having friends or anyone to talk to sucks and it sucks awful but I have learned that if you even just take a second and rant it out to yourself, can help. You are not alone! Remember that misery loves company. Your higher power is always there and will always hear you. It’s also okay to not be okay, if life was perfect we wouldn’t be happy. We build our own happiness. God made us on purpose, with a purpose, for a purpose.

@tonyagaines3511 2 года назад

I appreciate this video so much, I'm sitting here bawling😭 cause you have ministered to me , seems like you were talking directly to me, you all just don't know how much I've needed to hear this video, , I've been feeling the exact same way for months, feeling alone, burned out, and so tired from mental, emotional and spiritual exhaustion, I've been at my breaking point for months and been needing a friend, a shoulder to cry on, I'd appreciate prayer, I will pray for you all as well, Thank you for this video, God bless you both.

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

So glad you were comforted friend 🥲❤️

@JammieStarzyk 2 года назад

Being a parent makes you realize it really isn't about you anymore. The first few years are eye opening. The later years make you appreciate what you have worked on together. But you always feel like you could have done more. Thank you for being transparent and know that you are not alone. Key tip. Cut corners and save up. And know that God sees you both and is proud.

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Год назад

@pamelastadel7818 2 года назад

My husband and I just had our first baby and we’ve been feeling the exact same way! Thanks for this video and your transparency! I feel God directed me to this, prayers for you and your fam 💛

@alissa1ann211 2 года назад

I love how open you guys are and really appreciate your honesty and sharing Jesus always! Love you guys so much! I've been in another season of waiting and just leaning into Jesus. But I love when I just sit and be with Him, like y'all said we don't have to have this scheduled connection with Him and have all the fancy words. He loves to just commune with us. ❤️

@kendra00 2 года назад

I’ve watched you Chelsea since you were in middle school. You’ve been someone I’ve looked up to since then. I appreciate this video so much. It’s nice to hear that you are just human and you have bad days too and you don’t just show the good ones. Personally for me, It’s not that anything is going on in particular that is causing me to feel the way I have been. But, I do feel burnt out, dry, and distant. My fiancé & I both have been feeling so dry spiritually and feeling the same way. I try to pray about it and honestly feel like I don’t even know what to say. I know there are things in our walk with God that we could do to feel closer to Him. I know if we seek Him then He will drawl near to us. But we just feel dried out and it feels like we don’t even know what to do sometimes. We just need that heart burdening desire again. The spiritual fire. I also wanted to add, I think it’s also hard for us because we don’t have any young Christian couples as friends around our age that we can relate to. We are the youngest adult members that attend our church so we don’t even know who to turn to, to even be able to talk about how we feel sometimes.

@claireanderson6570 2 года назад

Thank you both for being so honest and vulnerable with us. Please know that I am praying for you in this season, and Jesus sees you. I am so very sorry for all you’re going through. It feels like so many people have really hard things going on, and the rest thing we can do for each other is pray, and be there for one another. Sending prayers and a hug through the screen.

@monica-jardim 2 года назад

your little family is literally an inspiration to me , such goals on to what I continue praying for my future family in terms of faith 🥺💖

@alondrapacheco3785 2 года назад

From the bottom of my heart.. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO❤️

@edenjohnson9533 2 года назад

I just wanted to say thank you guys so much for making this video!! It really touched my heart! Just be praying for me (and all of us too) that God would just make my heart vulnerable and more open to him. That I would just be willing to accept what God is doing in my life. You guys will be in my thoughts and prayers!! ❤️❤️🙏🙏

@kristiankiser7190 2 года назад

I really appreciated Nick’s “challenge” for himself to be honest when asked about how he is doing . It’s true .. we never want to burden anyone else with our problems . But God calls us to share our struggles with one another . I think I’m going to try this soon .

@angelinaralph7249 2 года назад

watching this was like a breath of fresh air. I love you guys so much

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

So happy to hear that 😭 We have another new video up today that might make you laugh if you wanna watch!

@yashiraonque3932 2 года назад

This is literally what God has been telling me. To be honest with my husband about everything I was feeling and speaking the truth in my heart. Check out Psalm 15!

@taygray6424 2 года назад

This video is such a blessing because I’ve been feeling the same way. So tired and exhausted spiritually. It feels like nothing is going right and everything that could go wrong is going wrong, but a few days ago I just broke down before God. I’m trying to hold everything together with the little strength I have, but God is a lot stronger than me. It’s been rough but my hope is in Jesus & that we will all see better days

@yashiraonque3932 2 года назад

The Lord is working to produce the fruits of righteousness in you! Faint not, fellow child of God!

@marias6626 2 года назад

Everything you said about when people ask "how are you" is so true imo. So many times I wanted to say a response other than the quick answer of "good" but it makes me feel like a burden. How did we come to this as humans? We don't have time to listen to others? It's so sad.

@babytriin 2 года назад

Thank you guys for this video. Even tho I’m not religious, what both of you said throughout the video. I’m so tired mentally and it’s at the point that I sleep till 6pm . I’ve done what I think I can to help myself and I feel nothing changing.

@lbocc809 2 года назад

This is exactly where my husband and I are. We had our first son in September. My husbands been on a break from ministry since July. I haven’t been to church in months. And it’s just been a low. I’m glad to know it’s not just us.

@kaylaclose7544 2 года назад

Amen!!! Yes the Bible tells us to bear one another’s burdens and God was so good to design the church like that!

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

Exactly!! So thankful

@tayahyman7740 2 года назад

I wasn’t expecting to tear up but when Nick said started saying it’s ok if you’re spent…the tears started coming 😂. God bless you both for your honesty and vulnerability♥️

@aubrey326 2 года назад

I love you two 🥰 Chelsea, you got me through some of my worst times growing up! 23 now.

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Год назад

@nirimoka 2 года назад

I'm not religious at all but nevertheless I really enjoy your videos and can relate to many things. To Nick and Chelsea and all the people here watching: don't be harsh on yourselves, you are worthy no matter what. Life isn't linear and that's what makes it unique for each of us and teaches valuable lessons

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Год назад

@nirimoka Год назад

@@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram you pathetic scammers are all over youtube, now here as well? I'd curse you so much here but I won't trash this channel's comment section. Gtfo.

@roshanrose6805 2 года назад

Everything will get better soon

@abiy9675 2 года назад

Soooo good! Yes yes yes! Thank you for sharing this and being vulnerable. This is so key.

@HomemakingCorner 2 года назад

I needed to watch this! I was going to keep scrolling but felt like I should click and watch.. and I’m so glad I did! Thank you for posting & thank you God for having me click this video.

@magstso 2 года назад

I needed this conversation. This was great. Thank you.

@claire8012 2 года назад

I've been watching your videos from the very beginning. I'm 23 years old and from the St. Louis area. I've felt very connected to you in all seasons of your life. I'm a new mom to my baby boy, who is just over a week old. I really enjoy watching your videos Chelsea. You inspire me with your transparency and faith. I am thinking about your family and pray God gives you strength and endurance to continue the path in which He has called. I definitely feel like I am in a dry season in my faith. It is hard to not feel discouraged or feel motivated to draw closer to the Lord... even though I know that is exactly what I need. As for being a new mom, the first 3 nights were challenging and I questioned whether I could be a good mom. Baby boy didn't like sleeping in his crib, but with much effort to get him comfortable sleeping on his back during his day naps, he sleeps through the night and wakes me up to change and feed him every 1-3 hrs. I'm scared for things to get harder, but I also know this season is going to go by fast and every moment will be worth it. Thank you for opening up, Chelsea. It means a lot to connect to you as a wife, mom, and believer. Keep your head up high. We are in this together! Sending much love from my family to yours!

2 года назад

Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable! I can relate, I'll be praying for you guys! 🙏🏾🤍

@alejandracamacho2110 2 года назад

OMG! thank u for said that cuz my baby has almost 2 months and im really feeling like i can't anymore! And ur right sometimes u just need to cry and to move on! im saying again, thank so much for the real talk💛

@hopeolivia590 2 года назад

Praise God for you guys… Yeah it’s really hard to be honest with friends sometimes especially when you’re always the positive one! God is good 💗💗

@knowledgeseeker2776 2 года назад

Any time there is a life changing event our faith walk gets challenged (in a good way). But the fact that you all are so young and recognize that fact is so wonderful. God bless you both.

@aleximadison7849 2 года назад

God really spoke to me through this video. I just love how real you guys are and I am so so exhausted and just burnt out! You guys are so so so incredible for staying so strong in your faith and really helping others! You guys are truly amazing!! This video gave me goosebumps

@ifraaa 2 года назад

Everything will get better soon , lots of love from India💗

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

Thank you friend ☺️

@claubit32 2 года назад

Motherhood looks great on you, Chelsea!!!😊❤️

@lizd6886 2 года назад

So grateful for your transparency, it was really helpful to feel not alone in this rut - this video was such a God sent, felt like you were speaking directly to my soul. God bless you💛

@thedementlife6846 2 года назад

I was feeling like I wasn’t good enough for God, and I thought I was loosing him, well I started praying at work, and then my hip starting hurting, and something in my spirit told me to go to a gas station and me and my husband went there and I had the opportunity to pray for someone and another person stopped and prayed with us, I’m just truly thankful that Jesus would give me that opportunity to pray for someone and to show me that he still wants me to be used by him, and that he is always there and just a prayer away, and he also showed me that there is power in prayer 🙌🙌

@ginadossantos1297 2 года назад

Really needed to hear this. I'm just coming out of a season of being completely burnt out and lonely. It's comforting to hear I'm not the only one. Praying for you both and little Hudson and Waldo

@madspadilla2353 2 года назад

16:26 I literally burst into tears aaaaagh. I haven’t been able to admit to myself that I’m so exhausted and overwhelmed because I’m so focused on just trying to keep going. But sometimes we just have to sit in the pain and the weary for a moment because these are often the moments that we feel Jesus sitting with us in our sorrow, and then we lean into Him.

@suzannesuzanne 2 года назад

God bless you sendiing u heaps of blessings i live in australia i having prombles my dad not well Im to scared to say im not ok Hope to hear from you

@xocharlottesuexo 2 года назад

Nick has been blessed with a beautiful wife and son✨✨✨

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Год назад

@mckaylamorris5327 2 года назад

Needed this video more than y'all will know. Have been battling feeling emotionally & spiritually spent off and on this year & your guys' story felt so similar to my current one. Thanks for your vulnerability & obedience to Him for using your journey to help the rest of the Kingdom as well

@knanserrano 2 года назад

wow I’ve been watching you for years and this was so honest and genuine & really am sending so much love & strength your way. you guys are amazing& your baby is just precious. xo

@emmaleepearson1120 2 года назад

That's so true... we think we need so many words when we pray and we don't... There are some days the only thing I can pray is "help Lord"

@sophiasanders2697 2 года назад

OMG your baby is so cute and precious!! a little angle. 💙💛

@ninaw8186 2 года назад

I’m really glad you shared this. I’m a young mom too and balancing parenthood, marriage and spiritual growth can be a lot, Jesus has us but still can be hard. We go to growth. Community and that helps a lot, but like yesterday I cried Bc my expectations of getting a job from home so I can be there with my 8 month old daughter wasn’t what I thought would be, with hours and wage not the greatest even tho I have my Bachelor’s in psychology, but have to remember Jesus has a divine plan, anyways this was super relatable 🤎

@DanielBoa7 2 года назад

The body is so important - appreciate the vulnerability

@nevaehabutler844 2 года назад

I am reading this book, and the author talks about how she used to view herself as needy. She asked God to help remove that name from her because she viewed it as negative. Instead of removing the name, God redeemed the name in her mind. The following sentences are directly from the book: "In fact, we are most human in our need for God. To deny that is to deny our authentic humanity."

@daniellefaucher3347 2 года назад

This video is so beautiful, love you guys ❤️

@melaniedavis8010 2 года назад

Thank you

@daniellemoysderamirez1302 2 года назад

Thanks, I just needed to hear this... 🤍

@KAyLA_K 2 года назад

I’m doing ok. It’s tough because I love hanging out with people, especially my Godly friends😊 But all of my friends live so far away and I rarely get to see them. We have some people who live close to us and I do enjoy being with them from time to time, but they are not Christians (which is awesome because it gives me a chance to share the gospel), but it can be very draining as well. I’m trying to find the balance of sharing God’s love with them while also making sure that I am staying strong in God’s word❤️ Also I struggle with sharing the gospel, because I don’t want to never talk to them about it, but I also don’t want to shove it down their face. Something that was encouraging was someone who lived close to us asked about God a few days ago which was really awesome!! Overall I’m very grateful I’m in a decent mindset right now. Somethings I can work on is not comparing my life to others. I like to think I do pretty good at that, but sometimes if I’m being honest I compare myself more then I would like to admit. So something I can work on is just being content with where I am and making the most of where God has placed me. 😊❤️ Also I can work on just realizing it’s ok to not have everything together. Like it’s ok to strive to have everything perfect, but ultimately Jesus died for us because we are sinners, we mess up. So just remembering that it’s ok to not have everything perfect is really helpful and something I can work on❤️

@acadiareece8425 2 года назад

Wow. I needed this video.

@carlyoliver6651 2 года назад

Personally, I have so much anxiety about how God views me. I feel so undeserving of his forgiveness it makes me feel guilty when I ask for it. I wish I could feel peace with his judgement and know that no matter what I am loved.

@aurorap.7578 2 года назад

I am going to let you know something I've learned recently, the devil gives you thoughts and if you accept these thoughts as true you will feel whatever he wants you to feel. The way I've battled this is to say 'In the name of Jesus by the power of the Holy spirit I choose...' in your case I'd say I choose to believe God when he says I am loved and to receive His love, grace and forgiveness

@aurorap.7578 2 года назад

I also recommend the book Telling yourself the truth by William Backus

@user-fv5ol4or1b 2 года назад

this is so wholesome you guys, to be honest I started to feel worried in a slightest bit for you two since you are so young and learn everything from scratch but today I once again saw how responsible and wise you are wishing you best of luck

@velvetbrajkovich2854 2 года назад

I love you guys 😭😭

@brittanyann3477 2 года назад

I can really relate to this. Thank you so much for making this video.💛🙏I'm struggling with alot of what you mentioned. And this helped a lot.

@cmh7nkf 2 года назад

We are all broken if we can humble ourselves to GOD and let HIM work we will understand the love GOD has for us and we can not only love HIM but ourselves in this thing called life

@ALina-jp2lw 2 года назад

Wow you have given the Lord so much honor. I am really touched 💕💕

@nikkibunnyluv 2 года назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️😭 love u guys

@angelicaarosee 2 года назад

i love you guys so much!!! this helped me a lot. keep God first always!! ❤️

@deb5787 2 года назад

I'm in love with Hudson🥰😭 I can't. I mean look at him looking at Nick😭 at 5:49-6:00 Also that's creepy that someone just knocked on your door late at night

@brittanyluvsyouso 2 года назад

I commented on one of your previous videos that I could tell you guys were having a hard time, I knew because I was in that same place postpartum. It's such a big adjustment and it's hard when you feel like everyone else is having an amazing time and you are struggling 🙁 I wish more people would come forward about the difficulties so we can normalize this experience that so many new parents have

@KAyLA_K 2 года назад

I love this video so much ❤️ Thank you so much for being honest and I’ve come to realize recently that oddly enough it actually really helps to know that everyone has their struggles. Like I’ve realized I can sometimes get rapped up in social media and start to think I’m the only one that has things to work on, but then just talking to friends who are honest and open about their struggles actually really help me!! Like I’ve realized often my mindset becomes a problem not when I have a problem, but when I feel like the only one who is struggling ❤️ Thanks for being so honest with us and I’ve been praying for y’all ❤️

@sis51613 2 года назад

Covid has divided me and my husbands fellowship. I don’t talk often about how badly it’s hurting me. But a few big sighs and a good cry this video shows my husband and i weren’t the only ones going through this season in the last couple of months. Thankyou for being Raw. ❤️

@rachelmontefiori7575 2 года назад

I really needed this…. I’ve been very exhausted as well. Feeling very Burt out and dry in life lately. Recently I found a new church and it’s beyond refreshing to have a community of Christian’s again to help carry each other’s burdens.

@mansibassi7546 2 года назад

It is so relatable. Being new parents is tiring and emotional time. You are happy and exhausted at the same time. Initially it happens but it gets better after 3-4 years. Everything starts making sense.

@jcav7 2 года назад

This is by far the best video you guys have put out. Thank you for just BEING.

@sharonminor7310 2 года назад

It is also called pandemic. Thank you for being transparent.

@barbaramonroy667 2 года назад

I got about three hours of sleep last night because my newborn likes to be held during the day. The only time I can clean without interruptions is at night. I feel like I can’t study or give my all in school because my baby is my priority and I know it won’t last forever but I feel overwhelmed and so exhausted. My husband works so I’m alone most of the day and it’s lonely I’m trying to open up with my other family but it’s hard because I feel like I need to do EVERYTHING

@ChelseaandNick 2 года назад

You are so not alone in this girl! Do you have Instagram? I just made a post connecting other moms together. You may be able to dm a few and see how you can be there for one another ❤️

@EmilyCyr 2 года назад

thanks for sharing. this is me too. have been at the lowest point of my life physically/emotionally/spiritually and this was an encouragement to hear im not alone

@t.d.d1570 2 года назад

This video was really an encouragement! I’ve been trying to make this school semester one where I do everything well and make excellent grades, but sometimes, I fall short, and I have to remember that that doesn’t make me a failure, and I know it doesn’t. Sometimes things just seem so close and important, but I have to remember to trust in God and ask Him for a new perspective. It’s hard when you have goals for yourself and you either don’t meet them or get caught up in things that you need to do at that moment. Yesterday, I had two exams and I’m trying not to make my scores be the end all be all, even though I poured my heart into studying. I still have an opportunity to do better even though how I’m feeling right now is not great. I’ve never shared like this before, but I just felt the need to be honest somewhere, to tell someone, other than my mom and my family.

@kaylastyll9251 2 года назад

Not the point of the video, but watching little Hudson the whole time made me so happy

@97Peacesign 2 года назад

I'm so glad you guys are able to open up and be honest about what is truly going on. I've been dealing with some family issues and just doubting myself, it is really important to talk about it and surround yourself with good people and people who care about you

@janiceleong2004 2 года назад

I relate to you guys a lot, and I honestly am spent too. I am tired of how accustomed we are to answering "I'm good" when we are not. Thank you for sharing this struggle with us. Sending lots of love from Malaysia

@Moon_lulu 2 года назад

Thank you for this ❤️ I am encouraged to talk to God even if I don't have words to say, but just be in His presence.

@shannoncampbell2603 2 года назад

I am so proud of you guys, parenting isn't an easy thing, but you guys are doing so so well. Love you guys, God's got this under control

@2hot4not 2 года назад

So. I haven’t been to church in a year. We moved right before lockdown. And then I was pregnant and too worried to go. And then I had a newborn. And again didn’t want to go. I’ve felt so lost and gone from Christ…. I feel worn. I don’t feel enough. I’m a mom and I don’t feel like there’s enough of me to do well. I feel like adding faith and adding religion is just another area for me to fall short in. But again… that’s a voice from the enemy. God doesn’t need me at 100%. The devil says you can’t do enough don’t bother trying. The Lord would meet me where I’m at… My husband and I are bother excited to try church tomorrow.

@aichalarache4684 2 года назад

Peace, I am Aisha from Morocco. I follow your country. I love you. I love you. Diyala’s dream is coming to America.

@tboss3276 2 года назад

Wow! Chelsea you look Amazingly Beautiful in this video!❤❤❤

@mazvitamapengo1599 2 года назад

This made me feel really encouraged. I've been feeling quite crappy recently and its nice to know there is other people in the same boat as me

@xocharlottesuexo 2 года назад

Chelsea is glowing ✨✨✨

@Thelifeofmegan9621 2 года назад

Love this!

@sis51613 2 года назад

This season for my little family has shown me it’s not about being picture perfect with my faith. He accepts me completely. He’ll meet me wherever i am. ❤️

@15aliciagirl 2 года назад

I am definitely burnt out too. It’s very hard for me to go through the work week and fully enjoy the weekend because thinking of his tired work makes me and life

@momentswithamanda 2 года назад

Wow I totally relate to a lot of things y’all mentioned in this video. Praying for you friends 🤍

@oliviastauffer6676 2 года назад

Hi Nick and Chelsea this is Olivia reaching out to u and nick I just need to talk with u and nick about older siblings

@KJ-jl2zr 2 года назад

Honestly, I haven’t been “good” for years. I don’t even know where to start. I’m so tired.

@siljeelisabethkaspersen4344 2 года назад

honestly I'm tired, I don’t know what to do anymore...

@mariasuncar4633 2 года назад

When people ask "how are you?" And you say "fine or ok" when in reality you're not, it's ok not to share the minutia of your life. Privacy is preferred by many. If we look for the recognition in others that we are not ok or are burn out... We are the ones that need to give that recognition. Seeking validation from the outside is an endless cycle that ends in anxiety.