I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. The priest will then say aloud "You have declared your consent before the Church.
Terrible words of a man who marries! For God ordains marriage, not man!! What worldly words for this marriage! Where is the gospel of Christ in this marriage?