Andrew Tate vs xQc | "Men Dont Have To Protect Their Family... THEY HAVE TO SURVIVE" 

You stepped wrong this time, women life don't value more than ours, if I have to choose to get shot or my girl getting shot I'm 100% going for the second one, my children is different but I would still most likely put my life first, and in reality most people would, is basic survival instinct. Destroy gender roles, this one to.

My husband and I were living in Nashville and experienced a drive-by. The gang was looking for the kid next door and confused our addresses. My husband was FRESH out of the military and just back from Iraq. We BOTH went into our gender roles and we did it without any thought. He immediately started to protect me and the children and began directing us to safety while he confronted the threat. I laid on top of our children and prepared for the bullets to hit me. I situated myself so they would hit me and not them. There wasn't time to think or care about anything. We just did our roles and yes, he was and is my hero. He would keep us alive. I followed his leadership and would STILL follow his leadership today. That was 16 years ago. I know I can trust him with my life.

As a husband and father of two young girls, we had a similar situation happen when we lived in Baltimore city. Two armed men broke into our home one Tuesday night. We had just had our second child so of course we were awake in the middle of the night, feeding her. I saw them on my camera system and heard the glass door frame shatter. I am a firm believer in my second amendment so I grabbed my rifle and left my side arm with my wife. She called 911 and took the kids and hid while I went and confronted these men. I was fully prepared to give my life before I let anything happen to any of my girls. I shot and killed both of those young men that night. It changed me forever. Both of the men broke in my house were wanted for multiple breaks in and a possible murder so there’s no telling what would have happened if I didn’t do what I did. As a man, it your responsibility to protect your family. Anything less then that is cowardice.

There is no greater betrayal in my opinion than a father abandoning his family in their time of need.

My wife is pregnant, she's carrying our child. My daughter. I'd happily lay down my life for either of them. There's no way I'd be able to live with myself if either of them died because of my actions or inaction.

Is protecting your family a “red pill” ideology? That’s just seems like a normal thing to say and do.

He’s the perfect example of what a feminist wants until she actually gets it.

A friend told me this story. He and some family members were coming from a small shop that they owned. His dad had the day’s earnings and was on a bicycle. Some robbers jumped out at them with weapons and he before he could fully process what was happening, he saw his dad vigorously pedaling away in the distance. The robbers took phones and whatever cash they had on them. He saw his dad later at his house but now he was acting aggressive and threatening to go back to the spot to look for the robbers (they had long gone). He was obviously trying to reclaim his masculinity after abandoning his family (including his own teenaged child) to criminals.

My husband and I had an attempted home intruder. I shot up awoken by someone trying to open the back door. First thought to wake my husband. He knew by my voice something was wrong. He got up instantly. His a very heavy sleeper. He grabbed his bat, made a lot of noise. I was following him with golf club. He yelled at me to stay with kids. I did as was told. Once he did a once over, called me to double check. If my partner wasn't willing protect our kids minimum I'd leave and move in with my brother. He would not for one second no give his life. His proven it multiple in past. I felt so proud my husband was willing to protect us. Very proud.

Man… I remember as a teenager hearing the front door slam open one night and instinctively grabbing an object in my room and tiptoeing down the hall to defend my family. Fortunately it way just the wind from the storm, but still. I instinctively was ready to defend the people I love, and I grew up spoiled and protected. It’s wild how some people operate today.

I'd never go downstairs to protect my family because other people want or expect me too. I'd do it because I'd feel the responsibility to protect my kids who I put here on earth. Protecting my girl is important, protecting my own kids is mandatory. I'm responsible for them.

27 years of marriage, my husband has never lost his temper with me. The only time I've ever seen him get seriously angry was when he thought someone was putting me and the kids in danger. I think Preach nailed it. No adult should hesitate to protect a child. No adult man should hesitate to protect their wife. I would be shamed to live if a child in my care was killed. And, now that my oldest is an adult, he has explained to me that it's his job to protect me. I appreciate this guy's honesty, but I'd tell any woman to steer clear of him.

Xqc is the type of man who would throw his own family under the bus to save his own skin and feels no obligation to protect them in any way.

Married 13 years, have multiple children, and I have a childhood background of domestic violence. Hubby HAS placed himself between me and danger before, and I've placed myself between him and danger. He wouldn't think twice about running into a raging inferno to get one of our kids. If someone attacked us while he was gone I would fight to the death to protect our children. This man sounds like he's got massive attachment issues.

A man protecting his family is almost equivalent to a woman nurturing her family (the former is riskier). She would rather everyone else is well taken cared of before her own needs and he would rather risk his life to save his loved ones.. so when a man says he doesn’t have to protect his family, its quite questionable same as a woman who is selfish has a questionable character.

It’s not even so much him being a b!tch, just a person whose never cared more about someone else than themselves. He is the most valuable person to him

I saw a story of a woman going into a fire and had 95% of her body covered in burns to get her two kids. That kind of determination is not found in the "oh yeah I'd die got my kids" that's found in the moment. That's a deeply rooted will not made through just a decision. Its found in animals all the time, so that hypothetical situation is already determined, you just have to get your brain out the way and do what needs to be done to protect what matters

My wife is the woman I live for and our daughter is the woman I’d die for. I couldn’t imagine someone bringing a threat to my family and doing nothing.

Regular Guys: "I gotta protect the ones I love." Xqc: "I gotta protect my Kd ratio".

Even if he wouldn't in the moment he should WANT to protect his family as the man in the relationship. The fact that he hesitated to say he'd protect his own child is crazy

I was a tiny sleeping 8 year old ,when a thief broke into our house , my mother got up to go to the bathroom and she literally bumped right into the guy and started screaming for dear life. I instantly sprang up and grabbed a big block of glued Legos , ran out of my room and bust that dudes face with my toy and he ran jumped through the same window he broke in from. Instinct takes over but if u dont have instinct, ur a dead man ,u just don't know it yet.

This is a prime example of what's really wrong with society. Everyone--men and women--have gone wild. They only care about themselves. Maturity comes out of something else being more important than your own life.

My family and I were in a 7/11 when a guy came in to rob the place. He had a gun, had it out and was yelling. I put my child behind me. My husband stood in front of us both. Our job was to protect our child.

When I was 17 I was walkin around the park with my nephew(4) and niece(9). Then outa nowhere this Rotwiler made a beeline for us and my nephew was the closest too it. I literally threw myself at the dog and he mauled my arm I was shouting at the top of my voice. People gathered around and the owner was this white lady and she called of the dog. Man the amount of adreneline coursing through my body was hella nerve wrecking, I forgot how to speak english and kept swearing at the dog owner in Zulu. To this day I have no idea how held my own against that dog but man am I glad I did cuz I wouldve never been able to live with myseld if my niece and nephew got hurt. They not even my kids but they still children. If as a man you would hesitate saving your flesh are you really a man?

I would get in front of ANY child in that situation, much less one of my own. I refuse to believe this dude is that much of a coward, he’s probably just disagreeing with Andrew for the sake of being righteous in the eyes of the people who don’t like him. If he is telling the truth… honestly bro he doesn’t deserve a Family of his own.

I think that no matter the sex, if you love someone your instinct is to protect them. It sounds corny af but love does make people brave.

bruv my 9 years old cousin litterally jumped in front of a bull dog that was trying to bite his mom and got bitten as a result of it. Its in our instinct to want to protect people that are dear to us. If you don't have that instinct then you might have some psychopathic tendencies

I have a 6yo. The idea of using her as a shield is mind-blogging and alien. I am her meat shield. Period. I would die for her a million times and more. She is my world. Anyone who wouldn't sacrifice themself to save their offsprings' lives are cowards and don't deserve love in their life. I would do the same for my wife, but if I have to choose between the two, then I'm still saving my daughter.

I am 100 percent prepared to die protecting people I love. To live a cowardly existence with a dead child or wife's, even both, blood on your hands is worse than death. You will never forgive yourself.

the goal is not to die protecting your family, the goal is being prepared to kill to defend your family.

when i was a kid some robbers broke into our house , our parents heard them , dad went downstairs with a gun and mom hid me and my two sisters in a locked room and called the cops. While dad was looking for the robbers , one of them sneak behind dad and pinned him to the ground , took his gun and pulled a knife , all while the other robber was stealing stuff. Luckily for all of us , and especialy dad as he was about to be stabbed , our dog bit the robber that pulled a knife and both robbers ran off scared. The cops found them 2 weeks later. The robbers were two brothers who just got out of prison for murder and theft. If it wasn't for our dog , the robbers would have killed us all most likely.

When push comes to shove, people revert to their gender roles. And trying to protect your family IS surviving.

I was around fifteen years old on a family vacation in Sri Lanka (I'm Pakistani btw). My dad went inside to use an ATM which was for some reason made of glass and completely see-through. My mother and sister were in the car waiting, and so was I. As soon as my dad came out of the ATM with around $500 in his wallet, this dude standing outside snatched my dad's wallet, pushed him, and ran for some back streets. My dad yelled and ran after him and I knew something was wrong. Without thinking, or asking questions, I flung the door open and ran behind my father, who was a smoker, and got out of breath almost as soon as he started running, and I chased the guy and caught up to him without thinking about him having a weapon or anything. All I knew was that even if he did have a weapon, I didn't want my dad to face the dude alone, and I'd do whatever I could to stop the guy from hurting my dad if anything happened, and I wanted to get my revenge on him for him violating us like that. Eventually, the dude turned into an abandoned building, and I was going to run inside to find him, but my dad somehow caught up and stopped me, saying my life was more valuable than any money. I am happy that I'm not a coward, and that if my dad did catch up to the guy and if something happened, I'd at least be there to have this back. I'm happy I'm not a coward when it comes to protecting my loved ones, doesn't matter what my gender is, I'd put my life before the people I truly love. I was 5'7 and only weighed like 65kgs, and had no training in martial arts or any fight experience, it was just pure instinct. I'm 18 now and I'll still put my life on the line for my loved ones, I know this isn't a very good story, but it's just how I'm wired.

It’s natural to want to protect those whom you love. A man protecting his family is as natural as breathing air.

Intense situations will reveal how you actually are. People say all day “I’d do this,” and when shit goes down that doesn’t happen 😂 I’ve learned I am calm and I immediately tend to my children while my husband leads the way. I help as needed. It really just depends on what is going on.

When I was about 16, my best guy friend and I were doing door to door outreach to invite people in the surrounding neighborhood to church. Most people were polite, but when we got to the door of this one old guy, things went left. He was cursing at us and yelling, just being really nasty. We were shocked but thanked him for his time and I told him to have a blessed day. The guy called me a witch with a B and started towards me. My amazing friend jumped in front of me and was shouting "you don't call her that! Apologize! You don't call her that!" The man backed down immediately and I grabbed my friends hand to leave. That tall, lanky, normally mild mannered boy was and will forever be an example to me of what a man should be.

My son (2 year old at the time) was sleeping, me and my husband were in the kitchen, we heard movements and our main door open and it was a man peaking into our apartment, I thankfully came on time or he wouldve snatched my child and ran, my husband came through, chased the man down and threatened the man while telling me to stay by my son….thankful for my husband

The whole interview was funny because xQC acted as if he was some defender of women and women’s rights but failed to answer affirmatively to defending his girlfriend in a case of a break in. It was the perfect demonstration of why women hate Nice guys. They’re flexible when it comes to their values and unreliable as soon as things get tough. Even though Tate has some insane views on women just the fact that he’s consistent on what he believes in makes him more attractive to women than a soy addicted xQC.

If you love someone, your primary instinct is to protect them. It’s that simple. I’ve seem wives and girlfriends jump on the backs of assailants, pulling hair, kicking, biting and more to protect their men. So for a man, who’s probably more robust (not including all the Norbits and their Rasputias) than his woman to hesitate to defend - even his own child!!!! - is wild to me.

This man is my Hero Aaron Gibbons, 31, was on Sentry Island, a popular fishing and hunting spot on the west coast of Hudson Bay, when he encountered the bear on 3 July. A relative said he "died a hero", telling his daughters to run while he put himself between them and the bear. The children were unharmed, but Mr Gibbons died in the attack. Another adult later shot and killed the bear.

My single mom and I were home invaded when I was 11 and even then I was thinking I had to protect us. Having that feeling as a young boy and hearing a grown man hesitate to say they would protect their partner or child is absolutely wild to me.

Call him what you will but dude really understands what "equality" means. Him, his girl, his child... all equal. 😂😂 She said she don't need a man for nothing, he said "aight, bet".

I don't know man, everybody in their head want to be this 'hero'. I was once in a bus on a journey three women had their kids on the bus sitting close to them. Some hours in, the bus engine starts fuming. Everybody rushed as fast as they can away from the bus. The three women left their kids in the bus. One even going as far as stepping on her kid just to escape through the window. I think we all think we will do better in these situations, but we won't know for sure till we are faced with these hard choices.

when I was a kid, my brothers and I tried to defend our house while my dad is working night shift every single night while my step-mom and sister are sleeping. No one tried to break in but that is one of our exciting moments of our lives.

Every woman of character seeks for a man of character.There is no way around it. This is the real deal of equality: if I have certain values like: honesty, courage, kindness , wisdom,seeking of knowledge etc....my man has to at the very least strive towards those virtues too. Otherwise we are not compatible.

X streams for 14hrs a day, makes millions, and essentially has his life catered. Even before he became the biggest streamer, he was a professional gamer. So with all that said, he cannot be held up as an example of what "normal" men in their 20s think like. That's still a crazy take from him though. I can appreciate the honesty, but dude should have lied in that situation to save face lol.

That little smile and laugh after commenting on how high his girlfriend can lift her foot absolutely killed me!!! Hilarious!

Live in Ukraine my whole life. Even in a corrupt country like mine, where human lives have no value, seen many times men jumping into the fight(and have been one of them) to protect a kid that is not even yours. You have to be fundamentally broken at the core, to not want to protect your own child.

I remember my 8th grade teacher telling us after a shooting that if one were to happen in here SHE would do anything in her power to protect us unless they had a machine gun then that’s too much damage to conquer. I respect her. Shoutout. Mrs. Karen Worland. To this day if anything happens around me I’m frontline. She was a single mother serving the community as a teacher. And she also told me after I graduated she said I know you’re going to get into trouble one day be on America’s most wanted not America’s dumbest criminals.

I personally believe that whether you are a woman or a man, when you love someone, you should want to do what it takes to protect them and put them above your own survival.

I was walking with a female friend once and we had a big dog come up on us fast, barking and snarling and the first thing I did was step between her and the dog, never even thought about it until afterwards, it was just a reaction. Doesn't even surprise me how far "men" have fallen, but its sad to see what a culture of only caring about yourself above all others has done to us.

When my husband and I first got together he was not about guns. After we had our first baby girl he immediately got several. You have no idea how strong your protection instincts become until you are responsible for tiny humans.

It’s not that it’s crazy, but that it’s shocking because people generally want to protect people and things they care deeply about. To say you wouldn’t try to protect someone you should care deeply about puts your love, affection, etc into question.

why are we expecting XQC, king of the 16 year olds on twitch, to hold admirable qualities? Man doesn't even have kids, surprised Aba was so emotional over this. The dude is inside on his computer for 16 hrs a day.

A sign of someone who has never loved anything more than himself.

When getting my conceal carry license, I had a 4 hour lecture from a lawyer, and this exact scenario was discussed. You can't, in my state, go downstairs to shoot the intruder to protect your property. You can shoot to protect life. It's up to a jury to decide if going down to investigate the noise with a gun, fearing for your life then, and shooting was justifiable. He offered the best legal solution was to barricade in the bedroom with your family, call the police and tell the intruder to not come into the bedroom because you will shoot them.

You could literally have been standing still for the last 20 years and you’re on the Red Pill side at this point. Without changing a single opinion as an everyday civilian that exist outside the culture war.

P.S. This man seems to not know the feeling of losing a loved one, partner or immediate family etc because grief sometimes feels like walking around dead. I’d rather be dead than go through it. I’d choose them. Woman or man in the relationship, you should want to protect your family at all costs.

Imagine the feeling your child would have when they look at you for protection and you just stand there and let whatever happen to them. Imagine that. What a worthless coward. The truest form of cowardice. Good times create weak men, weak men create tough times etc.

The only reason I would put my life in danger in defense or protection of a female is if she is my daughter, mother, sister or loyal wife. Any other woman that I have come across in my life aside from those I mentioned should defend themselves. I’m not dying for y’all. I have people that depend on me as a husband, dad, son and brother . If I’m not any of those to you, then your safety is not worth my life, not my concern. Call 911

I see protecting my loved ones as a great honor, like fulfilling one of the very few life purposes I'm sure I have.

"Depends on what gun it is." I can just imagine XQC asking the gunman "what model pistol is that?", then asking for a moment to google the gun and measure the distance and do some advanced ballistics calculations to make his decision on whether he's gonna bother to try and defend her. He knows he was just clutching at straws to disagree with whatever angle they're coming at him from. XQC is disingenuous with his arguments, he ends up disagreeing just to not have to agree on any point whatsoever. XD

I think people underestimate how baked in their reactions are to these situations. When we were out my roommate’s girlfriend got drunk and walked into traffic in front of a car. Before I could think about it I had already jumped to grab her and fall out of the way. If I’d thought about it for a second I might not have risked my life since I barely knew her but my body moved before I had time. xQc might say he’d have to think about it but most likely if I’m being generous his body would probably jump in the way of the bullet while his brain was still thinking about it

I married my husband partly *because* he is quick to act and level headed under stress, and I don’t even have to ask if he would fight for me. I mean, I was taking a bus across the country and when I stopped at a bus stop in an area known for human trafficking, he started packing bags and contacting people and essentially getting on the road, even though the stop was only for a couple hours.

I can defend myself and my children and my man.. BUT… if he doesn’t even try to control the situation or hides behind some fueniture.. then .. well.. I’ll help you pack your bags..

I think XQC took "Going downstairs" literally. Because if you think of it literally, then yeah going downstairs is dumb. Both partners should have a gun and gun training and should remain upstairs to prevent the robbers from getting to the family while calling the police. If all family members and pets are upstairs then there is no reason to go down there, period. While I wouldn't want my partner to run away and ditch me, or leave me to fight alone, I also wouldn't want a brain dead macho man who does something stupid to prove his manhood and end up dead.

Imagine having so little love for your family that you are not ready to defend them. If anything, this SCREAMS selfishness. This is not insane, this is cold blooded and calculated selfish ego talking. If I build a life with my partner and kids, why the hell would I back down from defending them if I love them? Only someone who doesn't love for real can abandon them and say such things.

As a husband and father, my primary role is the protection of my family. There is no "but....".

I used to say that I would never fight for a girl, but once my shortie was disrespected by some dude I went mad and lashed out without any control or logic in order to protect her. When the real world hits ya, you don't have time for theories

Women will definetly jump in without hesitation in any situation involving a child. My gf's niece (like 5yrs) fell out of a lil wagon into a puddle at a pumpkin patch. No joke my gf grabbed her niece up in 2 seconds from pulling the wagon while i stood there next to her niece laughing my ass off because of how it happened. But her niece saw me laughing and her frown turned upside down. And don't get mad at me. I'm taking care of someone else's kid several times a week so her mom can work and get back on her feet. I love this kid. She just wasn't in any real danger. We had extra cloths and were headed out.

He is what happens when you spend decades calling masculinity “toxic”.

I remember a while back somewhere in Canada there was a shooting at a movie theater. I specifically remember the news outlets saying that there was 3-4 girls who had survived the shooting because their men used themselves as sheilds

As opposed to never experiencing danger, xQc sounds like someone who's been in tense situations and successfully weaseled his way out of them, and now he's overconfident in his ability to do that in any situation.

Bro said “you think I’m going to spend time talking to all these young men that are lost” bro you guys are helping a lot of young ppl. I feel like you guys are a good balance and people should strive to have a neutral mentality. You guys don’t jump to conclusions like in this video, you guys don’t judge and stick to one side, you guys start in a middle ground and use reason to see both sides and that’s a good trait that you guys gave me.

There’s one aspect of this that is being overlooked. Which is the fact that his answer speaks to the fact that men are no longer ok with accepting or taking pride in our perceived/expected/inevitable disposability. At least part of which can be attributed to a whole generation of men being constantly reminded from youth that we’re toxic and not needed/desired by feminism and the women who have been indoctrinated into it. Until we’re needed for their convenience. The sad truth is a sad percentage of women aren’t worth our willful disposability. Now our disposability needs to be EARNED! You’ll be hard pressed to find a man who wouldn’t throw his life down for a woman who he felt DESERVED that HONOR!

At least he’s being honest. A lot of people say they would react a certain way in a dangerous situation but do the complete opposite in the moment of truth.

My partner and I recently went through a traumatic event where a gun was pulled on us. I completely froze. My fiance on the other hand rose to the occasion and fought off our attacker. He put himself between me and a gun with zero hesitation. He is now my hero. As terrifying as that experience was the silver lining is I now know with certainty that I can depend on my partner to protect me. In my opinion that is how a man ought to react. When I watch that guy hesitate when asked if he would protect his own child it blows my mind. I think its shameful. I pity those who may depend on him in the future. Hopefully he has a change of heart.

I was surprised to hear X talk like that. From what I've heard from comments from his regular fans, he's been in a lot of scary situations lately with home invaders/break-ins from crazy stalkers, bums, and been SWATed several times. Dude's even been caught on camera having night terrors due to those incidents and jumping out of bed randomly thinking he's getting attacked. I actually saw him do it twice in less than an hour while he was sleeping in the background of his girlfriend's stream. That being said, you guys are probably right that he didn't grow-up in a dangerous environment with actual life threatening confrontation. His personality might also make him not suited for that type of situation. There's people in the world whom know for a fact that no matter what's done to them or their loved ones, they could never harm another human being. First time I discovered that, I was completely dumbfounded because I just couldn't relate. On one hand it's kind of admirable because they're similar to like Shaolin/Buddhist Monks in valuing life. On the other hand, it feels like they're just easy prey for the most vile of predators in the world. I guess it's just the nature of living in easier times.

what makes Andrew scary is that he is the most self aware specimen in the manosphere and he adapts too the specific conversation and person he is conversing with, he knows what’s he’s saying is absurdly ridiculous but he is actually super self aware and very good at knowing what too say and when

I realize protective instinct comes naturally for some and is learned for others. I have seen irl where a mother would just scream and the father jump into the water to save their kid, and also the father hides under the table whereby the mother runs up the stairs to go save their kid during an earthquake. To put yourself in danger in order to save someone else is a huge thing, it is in the person not in the gender. Some would if they could, some wouldn’t even if they could. Many have no idea until they reach that bridge.

When I was in college I met a guy and we walked to college daily. I knew he was into me but I wasn't sure so I agreed to hang out to get to know each other. One day I clearly made up my mind. On our way to college, this dude stopped us and tried to rob us and he turned to me and threatened me with a knife, I glanced at my companion to see if he'd do anything and I saw nothing, so I stepped in and pepper sprayed the shit outta the dude and yelled: "run". I didn't realize it but I looked at this "friend" differently after that.

As a single mother I literally go through scenarios in my head on how I'd protect my son if someone were to break in or something. I have a stun gun I can easily grab. I think about what would happen if they had a weapon, etc. bitch, I'm ready to fight. I will go full Kimiko to protect my baby. If I was dating a guy that was like, "hmm, I'm not sure if I'd jump in front of a bullet for my kid...", nah, I'm good, I'd rather be single. Edit: okay, people seem to have read my comment as me expecting a man to jump in front of MY child. I did not say that, I said HIS child. In this scenario he has a kid of his own. I dated a guy for over a year and wouldn't even let him babysit my kid but yes, he should definitely jump in front of a bullet for my kid. 🙄😒 I'm sharing what I would do for my child and to think there are people out there who would actually have to think about jumping in front of a bullet for their kid is baffling. Again, THEIR kid. 😊

As a women, I would want my husband to want to step in front of a bullet for me, but I also feel like I would step in front of one for him too. That's what love truly is, the purest form of it. The Greek's call it Agape Love, It's sacrificing your life for another. If you don't feel that way for the ones you love, then you don't truly love them.

It's actually wiser to hold up in a safe area with the family with your gun and calling cops. Oppose to going down sweeping rooms risking yourself and leaving your family unguarded.

I think this is a much deeper question. My responsibility is to protect my FAMILY and people I'm in DEEP relationship, while still protecting my life. I wouldn't risk my life to protect a "date", because I have a mom waiting for me to come back alive and I'm no hero. Also, I've been kidnaped and come from South America (got robbed MANY times) => sometimes, NOT doing anything and locking the doors, calling the police is the right decision to make (whether you're male or female).

It’s not even just about being a man, being a desirable prospect to a woman, or any other reason: If you do not immediately protect your child on instinct, you’re not human.

I can’t think of a single mammal that doesn’t protect its offspring, at a very high physical cost to itself. It’s an instinct, and if a man or woman says they wouldn’t do that, I would say they’re probably not a parent yet. Something primal takes over and as Preach said, you just do it. No thought whatsoever. I was that way even when I was just pregnant- any weirdo or stranger got too close and I could feel my fight/flight clicking on. I had no control over that. So I call BS on his response- either that or he’s so damaged from his family that he doesn’t feel that connection to anyone. Or he’s not a parent yet and is speaking about something he’s never even experienced.

Don't go out with the home invader, unless you have children or loved ones in harm's way. Instead lock the door, call the police, get your gun, and wait. Keep the police on the line. You tell your wife to get in the bathroom or on the floor in the room as far away from the door as possible. Take up a defensive position, and wait. They come in the room, they get shot. If they don't, you have insurance and the police will be looking for them. Not protecting and providing for your family is cowardice and completely negates the man's purpose. Anything otherwise is abject failure, plain and simple

We are literally biologically inclined to protect our children. The hesitation is crazy I can’t even comprehend not defending one of my daughters. I think if any real harm came to my kids in front of me that may be the most violent I’ve ever been.

I'd rather go down fighting to protect my property and loved ones than just have some random person intrude my home, take my stuff, and harm my loved ones. This passive, woke stuff is nonsense.

This is crazy. I remember once someone tried to break in my house. I was there with my daughter who had a baby and my son. I drew my machete and headed to where the sound was coming from. If that person came in would have chop it. My instinct said protect my kids. If a man failed to protect me I would have no respect for him. None

When i broke up with my gf, the red pill community gave me so much good advice but at the same time thankfully I had my Christian roots to keep me from just eating up everything they said and be balanced. Make fun of Christianity all you like, but it kept me from listening to the dogging on women aspect or bad teachings of red pill, while still appreciating the good aspects.

****THIS IS A MESSAGE TO ALL MEN**** Haha 😂 Ive seen so many comments talking about how Brave men should be and very heroic stories. What these comments fail to acknowledge is, not every man is lucky while "Trying to play the hero" or be the hero. People die in terrible ways for these things. They and the people they try to defend. I know of a young man (teenager) that lost his life for his GIRLFRIEND. Read that again. I said girlfriend. She felt sad for a month, then went on to date a new man. And another man. And another. She completely forgot abput this guy and is currently in an open relationship. While the young mans mother and family has barely healed from this. If you're a guy, dont make your loved ones have a lost one. Protect those that would do the same for you. Protect your children because they are helpless and they are for you. Do not sacrifice your life for your wife or girlfriend unles you really value their lives over yours. Also, avoid escalating attacks in cases where it can be easily resolved without people getting hurt. A mans house got attacked by robbers. They had weapons, he didnt. He had a wife, a little son, and 2 daughters. The robbers brought them all out and told the man that no one would get hurt if he gave them his money and other jewelry. The man pretended to co-operate with them, but tried playing the hero and attacked one of them who had a gun. He got shot, his children too (one survived), and his wife got taken (abducted). So the robbers got the money, his wife, and eliminated the threat, just because he refused to be reasonable in that situation. DONT PLAY THE HERO. Think of the consequences of your actions. Also dont make your loved ones have a lost one. Contrary to what the world wants you to think, your life is valuable. Acknowledging that and acting accordingly doesnt make you a coward. It makes you smart. Thousands, if not Millions of men have gone to wars and they have been forgotten because they were shamed into thinking they were cowards if they did not go to waste their lives.

"Good times create weak men, weak men create hard times." You don't get to pick & choose the dangers you come across no matter how many good choices you make. When 💩 happens a man needs to always be prepared for the worse, whether it's physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually because men will always be the ones blamed when things go wrong. Look at Uvalde shooting, all those kids died, because weak men were more concerned about protecting themselves and covering it up than doing what they promised under oath to protecting innocent lives. The fact this is even a debate is just crazy and sad. If I will fight to the death to protect my children, the man I'm with better be ready to jump in the ring with me.

I take it a step further. Not only is it an imperative for men to protect their family, it's imperative for men to be as prepared as reasonably possible to defend their family. This includes being in good shape and having an effective weapon at hand. You are welcome to disagree, but I and most people would not be able to respect you.

"A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control." - JP

Here's the problem with the question about standing in front of someone when a gun is pulled. The sentiment and gesture are good and I'm with that. In actuality though, you standing in front of the person will do absolutely nothing. Bullets go through people. Human shields are not as effective as movies make them seem.

We now know why Preach got married, "she can lift her leg to here"

I’m confused. On the one hand we are told that men and women at equal, we should split the bill, both contribute to raising kids and doing household chores etc, but on the other hand we are also expected to sacrifice our lives for them in some kind of chivalrous act? It seems like everything on RU-vid, and in society nowadays, is a complete contradiction. If we are both equal, then why would you sacrifice your life for them? Would they do the same for you? Look we aren’t in the 1900s any longer. If the Titanic went down then, after the children have gotten on the boats, both men and women should have equal rights to get in the life boats. It’s just so confusing that one minute we are told that we should treat women like equals and the next we should die for them. Pick one fucking side and stop being so contradictory. And let’s say you did take a bullet for her, she might have even been cheating on you beforehand 😂😂

I'm not a tough woman I'm soft as cotton but I would definitely protect my husband and my children under ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. if I saw a child in danger I would put my life on the line..