They now have a clearer understanding of one another and simply need time alone to get to know one another even better and to build the bond. They are both willing, which is why they are married and now outsiders need to stay out of their business. Good work husband and wife. If you can fight the adversity of the wicked and the disgusting whispers and lying tongues of the naysayers and endure it and still be together as you are, then you're better than the majority of the couples on planet earth. Great job! ❤❤❤
@@SprinkleLewis It seems you need urgent therapy as well. Your vitriol against a young girl you have never met is starting to take a toll. I will make a double appointment.
As if you are a saint. I am sure you have some dirty stuff that you would like to keep to yourself. I wonder if you told the man you are with how many guys you were with and all the stuff you did with them. No one in their right mind can tell her future husband about the past relations. Whatever she did before she married Jintao is fine. We all have lives to live. (Past, Present & Future) She made memories and he ex decided to use it against her because he failed to put a ring on her finger when he had the chance.
For those who were complaining about the lack of hospitality Anita’s mum gave, now listen Hai even said they had a meal there. (Edit: my bad he was talking about a meal she made where they stay, not at her mum’s house). We should all reflect on ourselves and how quick we are to judge others. We now have all the information, and can see the couple was wronged. The first year of marriage tends to be a learning curve, and I’m glad to see that the couple have come out on the other side of this. I wish them all the best in their new life. Since Anita is an educated lady, I hope she can find a career path for herself in China and carve out a new road for herself. Not all African women married to Chinese in China end up in villages - with a university degree she can always find further study opportunities and later work there, the only caveat is you can’t be on a spousal visa but it is worth it.
You are speaking with wisdom. Even the mother was accused of faking illness! Marriages that are tested early on can actually benefit in the long run than untested fairy tales. She is beautiful and smart. Don't under estimate how much a confident African woman can breed resentment. People want them to be basket cases that are being rescued, but Anita knows her value.
Even the owner of this Channel, he does not upload the videos in the right sequence, and at times it makes people start judging Anita when we do not have enough information. Mr matchmaker and his family all share parts of the videos, if you want to see everything they do, you need to follow all of them and then you will be able to see 90% of the video.
Good job Anita, I said it yesterday, you only need marriage counselling and you will make it. You are very young and naive. Don't ;et anyone bring you down. The parents knew it when they said they wanted to train her on how to take care of her husband and marriage life. Now you are getting closer with your husband just like any arranged marriages.
@@LangLangLee-f5h In my country Zimbabwe, we also go through the same thing. Your aunts have to train you on how to take care of your husband and his family. (kurairwa kwa Tete). When you get married and the husband is not happy with you, he will say that your aunts did not teach you anything.
To all those folks that have been throwing accusations at Anita, she has this to say: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-m0_G3EnGv3g.htmlsi=qvDsZ5fzpR26LzwS
