Anna Faris Says She "Turned Into Somebody That I Didn't Recognize" After Her First Divorce | PEOPLE 

She runs so deep that she dumped her dog on the street. Wicked witch 😂

This is a really beautiful comment with an almost lyrical quality to it. Thank you for sharing. Love and light

Do you think you could've done anything different to build a better foundation before you got married? Or was it something you think was inevitable?

@@ct6852 ..well.. my parents wanted me to marry him.. technically any guy I dated they were chomping at the bit to "marry me off" lol.. that's the way they were raised.. I was too young and naive and didn't know "basic human anatomy" let alone running a household while working.. it was a "throw em in the pool they'll learn how to swim" which I don't recommend for swimming or marriage ...I was more lonely with a spouse than I ever was single.. my advice to anyone considering marriage is ...if that person doesn't make your heart and tummy flutter with excitement or anticipation at the sight of their face.. it's not worth it.. hold out for someone who makes your heart sing

Beautifully Well said

I relate to this hard and kinda wish we were friends honestly lol I just relate to so much of what you said.

It really does get better. Hang in there friend. ❤️🤗hugs.

I've been there. It's terrible. You will be in my prayers! Things will get better. Don't listen to the sad music put on some dancing music

Divorced is brutal. My divorced was my idea, I'm finally FREE and dating again. Dating is a nightmare (at least for me) I sabotage my "relationship" before it even begins... I think, I need to process my divorced first and get to know myself again before I can even begin dating.....

@@donnataylor980 I gree. But for some reason I find myself listening to sad music...

Praying 🙏

Why has she become afraid of you?

@@alicemiriah he got custody when she was 7. He has lied to her a lot, played a lot of games. I was paying 840 a month for child support, no tax deductible. Then in 2020 I got COVID bad. My landlord kicked me out and I had to leave Washington state fory home state of Minnesota. Well I'm estranged from my family. No one likes a Roman Catholic gone bad. Sorry. Anyways. Life sucked for a bit. My back pain only got worse but coming to MN and needing surgery. Things delayed due to covid. I had to get my child support lowered. He even had his lawyer try to ask for more and I am trying to get SSDI. Well new judge and she lowered it down to 50 dollars. My ex husband retaliated and holds her hostage. He even refuses supervised parenting a year ago. He tells her bad things about me I've been a nurse for a long time now. I'm not dangerous. I'm angry and I know as a woman just how WRONG things have transpired. I don't know who ordered the code red but I'm not dead mother FS! She is my daughter and I love her forever. No matter what and I'll tell the world now before you sling mud and get flying monkeys.

Sorry that's rough. Maybe time to have some really uncomfortable conversations with all involved, to see what you, or the other parties. might do better. Then keep trying to do better. Good news is a relationship with your daughter will always be on the table. And a better relationship with your self.

@@ct6852 such is life. I was hoping to teach her how to drive a car someday, like my dad. So many memories I don't get to make that all of you right now, teens included take for granted. I've missed so many christmases, her birthdays, growing up. Just......hug your family members because one day they may be gone.

Hey, I’m sorry. I’ve just taken a giant deep breath for you. When you feel like you can’t breathe- it’s right here for you to take, and to know someone cares and is in your corner believing in your ability to heal and grow. Firstly, I’m sorry for all the pain you’re in. It’s evident you’re deeply, deeply hurting, understandably. When things have been like this a long time, it’s easy to lose sight of our ability to affect control over our own lives. None of this happens overnight. It’s generations of people, their genetics, personalities, circumstances, lives, parenting choices, pure dumb luck, habits- which all mould together to create the enormous snowball you currently find yourself in. You’re squashed in the very centre of the snowball, beneath layers of snow, unable to imagine a way out. You weren’t always this way, but rather after years/decades, you probably feel like “What’s the point?”. “Nothing works anyway”. it’s helpful to begin by finding the one thing everyone can agree on, then working out from there. And I would venture that yourself, family, and daughter would agree- right now, things aren’t working- including your individual efforts. It’s human nature for our egos and psychic defences to immediately look for what _they_ are/n’t doing. But it’s a waste of time; we can’t control other peoples in/actions. Even best intentions (e.g a loved one to stop drinking)- no wanting them to change make them. The one thing we can control is the last thing we look to. Ourselves. If we admit we _can_change, the ego feels we’re admitting we _should_ change; & therefore feels we’re admitting they _shouldn’t_ ; and so the ego feels it makes _us_ the problem, & to blame for all the deeply painful issues within the circumstances. The ego cannot bear the guilt, shame and perceived full responsibility, turning it’s focus outward. We diffuse blame amongst everyone else- focusing on their role & in/action; denigrate then with ad hominem attack; transfer our guilt/shame/humiliation/worthlessness upon them; or shift scrutiny from us with emotional scenes or dram; accuse them of collusion/brainwashing/manipulation if they don’t support us; or accuse them of being _brainwashed_ /manipulated etc. The minds attempt to protect itself eventually becomes harmful to itself, everyone around us, & our relationships A favourite quote of mine is “if nothing changes, nothing changes”. We need to ask ourselves honestly, yes or no- 1. Do you truly, deep down want your life to change? Don’t go beyond yes or no. If no, that’s okay- just be honest with yoursel. If yes 2. Being honest but also compassionate with yourself, yes or no- is what you’re doing working? How well is it working? Keep the focus upon you, where the only control lays. From your comment, I would venture that you don’t feel what you’re doing is working well at all. Note. There’s a major difference between _effort_ and _approach_ . I hear often “But I’ve been trying _so_ hard”. 50% of the time, they have and it’s primarily an approach related issue. 3. We need to ask ourselves how much effort do I perceive I’ve invested in this, specifically last 12 months? Do I feel I could be doing more? 4. Then ask yourself about approach. If I feel I’ve been giving significant effort- how much do I think my approach is misguided or off-base? Our own effort & approach are the 2 things we can control, but the last thing we look at. It’s tragic as we ultimately miss out- as do those around us. It seems you would benefit from a qualified clinical psychologist experienced in treating people in divorce & family breakdown, with surrounding depression/grief/loss. Later on, you could engage a qualified family clinical psych to begin early stages of trying to re-establish a connection with your daughter, one baby step at a time. They could guide you both through the process if she’s open to it. Prior, your private therapist can guide you in learning healthy/ appropriate communication with your daughter/ family, and how to connect with your daughter things _she_ values. I t would take a lot of preparatory work before she would feel safe and open to the family therapy. connect on common ground- ways to get to know her/one another through her interests and passions, give her cool experiences that _she_ values. Ask her what _she_ wants to do together/what _she_ wants from the relationship right now, and how she wants it. Be prepared to hear the answers, ask her in a calm, safe, mature manner- show you have heard her and respect what she has to say by repeating it. “So, from what you’re saying, I hear that you’re feeling…and would like if I could…”. “Thank you for trusting me with this and sharing this with me. I’m going to endeavour to put this into work as of now. You can always talk to me and tell me- I’m an adult and a big person, I can handle these things, it’s our job to worry about you”. And start investing in yourself! Find some joy in this world. However small. Okay that’s a lot you can’t control. What can you control? What do you enjoy? Get off the couch/out of bed, at least start doing things in the yard. In two weeks, start going around the block. In a month, go to the library or a quiet cafe for a hot chocolate. Sorry for the long comment- I just really feel sad to see you feeling such sadness and want you to know you aren’t alone and there is hope. Many of us are living dating proof of that.!invest in yourself. Choose just one thing. start there. We believe in you.

I wish you well and all the healing I've felt with narcs and know how it is.

I guess she eloped in 2021

Yes to the man she was seen with just weeks after her break up with Chris

@@bsimms9632 She'll get divorced again.

@@bsimms9632 her and Chris were actually broken up 9 months before they revealed it and he was already in a relationship with his now wife too

@@raquelortega2383 why do u say that her and Chris separated months before they announced it and he got into a relationship before she did

No she left Chris Pratt cause he was the problem she met her now husband way after

​@@aneeshaarshad4956 lol you're so obsessed it's ridiculous

@@bsimms9632 obsessed your the one in the comments making up lies for people you don’t even know it’s weird 😂

​@@aneeshaarshad4956 lmaoooo says you, you're basically in every video posting your nonsense, hating on Chris, you're the weird one who can't get over a relationship that is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS, what's it to you what they did in their personal life??? would you like it if some weird stranger starts making all these comments about your personal relationship and life? i doubt it. Anna has moved on, maybe you should too! get over yourself and get a life perhaps!

@@aneeshaarshad4956 She legit admitted to dumping her husband over the phone so she could go “bone” Chris pratt. You can easily Google this fanboy

You think she’s prettier? I think Anna is just my opinion…and yes hopefully Karma comes for him.

Lol she might be younger but them horse teeth take her out of the running for prettier.

@S Richards christian?lol thanks for that laugh I needed that. 😂 😂 😂

He indirectly took a dig at Anna when he said "I am so greatful to my wife for giving me a healthy baby". Even if he didn't mean it that way as a dig at Anna and their son, it was definitely a big foot in the mouth moment. Of course every parent wishes to have a healthy pregnancy and child but the way he phrased it was problematic cuz it automatically made some people think "is he taking a dig at Anna that she couldn't give him a healthy child with no health issues???" If he had just said "katherine had a safe pregnancy and I'm greatful and happy both she and our daughter are healthy and doing well" it wouldn't have turned into a huge blown-up controversy.

@S Richards Is Katherine really Christian cuz Arnold doesn't seem to be and he has some pretty big scandals that would suggest otherwise?

She got married again

You have proof or are you just talking out of your ass no offense

What?

@@alexialanda27 she didnt

No she didn’t they separated months before they revealed it and he got into a relationship before she did and he was the reason for the divorce he even said something in an interview in think 2018

No she didn’t why u spreading false rumours she didn’t cheat on her first marriage nor second her and Chris split cause it was something to do with him and Chris got into a relationship before she did they broke up months before they revealed they had separated

@@aneeshaarshad4956 says the person who is spreading lies on here, the irony lmao

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