Answering Your Juicy Questions About Our Relationship... 

He doesn't look old at all

She is so cute. I get why he says that she surprises him. So adorable they are, and now they’re about to have an adorable baby! So sweet 😊

I'm in an age gap/long distance/interracial relationship too with an amazing Mexican man. I'm 21 he's 35. This is our 3rd year and It was really difficult coming out to my family and my mom still has issues with it. Out of all the drama, I've learned that life is full of lessons and I have to learn them myself just like I have to live my life. I can only be respectful and hope that if it's meant to be, people will eventually accept it. Life is too short to be unhappy so waste time not being happy. I wish you guys the best!

The level of maturity is way apart. Both are just being their age. He has experienced her age, she is on her way to experience his age. He’ll probably be more patient and enjoy being her age. Wishing you all the best.

It doesn’t matter about the age gap to me. It’s the maturity level difference between them. I sure hope she’s getting an education so she can support herself. Even if they’re together for life she needs to be able to take care of herself.

It’s beautiful to know that he prefers her to be natural. A true sign that he loves “her” just for who she is.

This couple has really changed my view about them.. I enjoy watching them and both seem super sweet!

You 2 are sweet! He is very patient with her, which shows maturity and sophistication. She needs that. She is absolutely adorable! She is a natural beauty and doesn't need anything fake. Personally, I don't like ANYTHING fake or unnatural. I have never worn a wig or extensions, no fake eyelashes, no fake nails. I am 61 yrs old and trust me people have never been able to guess my age. And, as far as his being "old", that's rubbish! He is still very young, and looks it - with his fine self! Take good care of each other, share in good health. With lots of love, and respect for one another you will be forever happy!

I instantly liked you guys when you said you didn't like the current state of affairs in America. Thank you for your honesty ❤️☺️

Your a beautiful couple with loads of personality and seem easy to be around. He seems to adore you the way he looks at you and is affectionate is adorable.

She’s adorable, but her age def shows her statements, comments, and mannerisms.. hope she blooms into a confident, cultured, n reserved young women some day

She’s so cute she probably makes this man feel young again

Let the man talk. Give him time to talk. Please ladies

You complement each other every possible way. I am very satisfied and happy seeing you as a couple. It brings a wide, genuine smile on my face seeing and hearing how fantastic couple you are.

It’s beautiful to witness love (couldn’t stop myself from smiling the hole time). God bless you guys.♥️✨

You guys are cute. I’m also in an age gap relationship. Wouldn’t trade it for anything. Wishing you both well

She's so sweet and adorable. It's nice to see she show's him gratitude. Awesome keep being a grateful wife.💞💞

You’re an adorable couple, he looks much younger, you actually compliment each other.💕

By far my favorite couple to watch on social media, no pretentious acts genuine chemistry 💜💜💜love you 🙏🙏

You guys are genuine and hillarious. Love it!!!

I am in a relationship as well with a 20 year gap, got married when I was 18 and now we have 2 boys 11and 5 and been married for 12 years. Age gap is never been an issue to us, I love the fact that I have the person I love helping me grow up and mature, it’s definitely a good balance.

I smiled and giggled all through this video ❤. I'm happy for you guys

I feel she has a lot of energy, which I'm sure he likes that.also I feel you guys benefit from each other a lot. I'm an older woman and my man is younger than me with the same energy.

There's nothing wrong with your hair it looks good. White girls wear extensions and wigs too? As long as it looks good men shouldnt worry about women's beauty upkeep

I am in the same boat as y'all and it's soooooo refreshing to see I'm not the only one with an age gap, naturally in love, and y'all can be yourselves to one another. I love, adore, and respect y'all ✨💯🖤🙌🏽

I really agree that this couple are so sweet and a good example of how opposites will always attract. As someone who is in an interracial relationship with someone, it is great to understand.

I can tell He's already not taking her opinions into consideration because she's way younger. She said it herself he will get into an argument with her for not backing her opinions with facts. It's ok to have a personal opinion girly, and as your partner he has to take it into consideration. Don't let him force you into thinking the way he does. It's ok to have different opinions.

Love his smile and intelligence.

Did he just say " my girl is growing up" I cringed. Respect her she's your girlfriend not your daughter.

Cute couple. He sounds like he always wants to be right

Girl run for ur life, that man has a long way grow, he doesn't kn how respect people opinion

I notice that he tries to shut her up a lot by kissing her or trying to charm her. Which I don’t really like only because it’s obvious she doesn’t really like confrontation, so she just accepts it and moves on but I think in a marriage you have to allow the other spouse to speak their minds without automatically ignoring or putting it to the side disregarding their points & perspectives of things. Because when it’s your turn you will make sure you’re heard. Wish yall luck though 💯

Rafal would make a good Lawyer , Iyah looking extra beautiful today

Rafael is super funny & smart. I love how you treat Iyah. . I love how you love each other. Great couple!!!!

While Poland IS part of the UN that's not what enables her to live, visit and work in the European countries he listed, once she has a polish passport/citizenship. That would be because Poland is part of the EU. I don't know about Japan specifically, but as far as Australia is concerned she would most likely still need a Visa as well as other documents. Then again I'm german so it actually might be different for polish citizens, so don't quote me on that.

Love watching you guys. "Yes when a man buys his woman gifts it makes her very happy.

You guys are so cute together, I think every yt couple should have their own secrets & privacy. I love you guys 🥺

For your wedding you should vlog dress shopping !!!!!!! Cheating pranks suck. Plus you have to watch what you put out into the atmosphere. Keep it positive and funny!!!! Doesn’t matter! You were 19 and TOTALLY LEGAL!!!! I’m team Iyah👑

Well they are very nice people but the difference between their age is very visible and I hope in the future, when kids come, this is not going to be a problem in many ways. Just wishing you guys the best.

Some people are just destined to be together 🥰

Ha-ha Rafal...I love how I met my husband to be. It was not in a club or a bar, God brought me all the way from NY to a small place in ME. I t was at a singles retreat through the church of Christ. We vowed to not have relations until the marriage bed...and I am glad we didn't "cloud" our relationship with that. I have made a lot of mistakes in the past with that, and it didn't work out for me. God is good and he helped me to trust in him, and not in myself. Peace and God bless!

you are so cute together😊 everybody can see your true love for each other, that‘s everything counts and age is only a number… those people talking bad about you are jealous or even not courageous enough to do the same in their lifes…wish you both endless love for each other

Because she's trying to be adult even for you...lol. You all seem very into each other continue to work on it, it's worth it.

I agree with him, wear your natural hair, take care of it, nurture it and it will be glorious. I can never understand women who always want what they are not, curly wants straight, skinny wants curves, light wants dark and all vise versa . He is right, the best is to learn to be comfortable in your own skin, own what you have girls! Realise whan you are constantly covering up your natural hair, nails and skin it leads to your hair nails and skin paying the price of all that fake stuff on top and then you are stuck, your natural self looks awful and it costs a fortune to keep up with all the fake. Plus how uncomfortable it must be to wear those wigs and nails all the time. Be free, be natural, especially black girls, you have no idea how much we are in awe of your beauty.

Love and happiness for both of you is all I want for you guys. You are truly my favorite couple of all!!

I just like her craziness, I know why he fall in love with her.

Omg I loved this! I love you guys chemistry 😂 Y’all look so good and you look gorgeous sweets ❤️ I’m an INTJ and my friends are ENTP so I def understand what it is to be around the debaters. I like how even though he feels like he’s always right,he’s sweet with you ❤️ The Witcher is an amazing show! Can’t wait until it comes back. I think kids can wait,especially since marriage is already a big transition. Kids are no easy feat and I think it takes a lot more planning. I’d suggest wait until you guys have fun and enjoy the honeymoon period of your marriage. Then invite the little ones. Also,idk what it is with the comments. People keep calling you childish but you’re 21 and usually age gap relationships are going to be like this. Men love a personality like that of this woman. He doesn’t mind her so called “ Childish and bubbly” mannerisms. She has plenty of time to grow into a beautiful Crone full of wisdom. Like,it’s her personality and it’s fun. ❤️❤️❤️💅🏾

I love how excited she gets about things😃😃

U guys just make me smile from the beginning to the end of the video Love you guys ❤💜💋

"I'm a debater." Then, she looks at him like "huh" and proceeds to explain that he's a Debater" 🤭

I love you both and would very much love to see you continue being this genuine. This video has opened my eyes to how lovely you both are and what a wonderful couple you are. Beautiful video with no filter. I like both your personality and your honesty about your relationship and life itself. You are both each other's keepers. He's very gentle with his wife, and she's sweet and goofy, which makes it a good combination. I have to say, I don't really see the big age gap. Besides, she's not going to stay in her 20s forever. It's a good thing you met this great guy rather than having heartbreak from cheaters, players, and a deadbeat man who wouldn't love you. I like her shyness in their morning love story. It's such a beautiful way of talking about it.

I think much as Iyah is lots younger than Rafael, she seems to be in control on many issues. In fact I feel they are very compatible, playful!. I just love love love watching you guys, Iyah and Rafael!!!

Iyah hasn't stopped smiling they both haven't its a really beautiful thing to be in love

You two are sooooo cute!!!!!! Thank you for being sooo open!!!!!! I LOVE watching your videos!!!!!! You are ALMOST at 3K.......YAY!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

I can see that they love each other. It’s normal for the woman to be very private because there’s enough insecurities we need to deal with, age gap doesn’t mean anything honestly. I need to learn just because people have opinions about my age gap relationship (12years age gap) as long as I am happy he takes care of me RESPECT me I am good.

Yikes.. I will be 20 in a month, i am 2 years into my major which is psychology. Y'all are giving very much cringe grooming behaviors. "my girl is growing up" when y'all are discussing who is more active in the bedroom and so many other red flags that she's not mentally mature enough to catch onto apparently. The only reason i have the mental capacity is because my choice of career path. Anyway............ I hope y'all do well but these signs are telling. sorry not sorry

"My little Girls Growing Up?" Am i The only one that can See Whats going on with this dude?!

Damn, idk how I missed this... this def. A great one! Anyway, yall HILARIOUS, so cute, & always funny.♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆♡♡♡♡♡ The love is so sweet amd genuine. Yall remind me of my husband and I in so many ways. !!!!! As couples, AND as Individuals, we've got so much in common! Our relationship is very close In so many ways to y'all's I love seein other people who live each other so wholly & accept a person fir who they really are. In this case of you 2 and your relationship, I think the difference in age is actually a positive thing, and works put perfectly for you. So lucky to've FOUND each other cause you're def. Soul mates ✌🏽

"My little girl's growing up?" Bruh.

I understand your point. You have different communication styles which is fine. Glad you can hold your own with Hubby 👍🏽

"Your eyelashes were like tiny door knobs"😂😂😂

Girl, I totally get it. You make a point and try to put it into detail until someone starts making you look dumb 😂😂😂🙆🏾‍♀️

I was in a relationship with the same age gap .. He was too controlling, always wants his way and it was not comfortable at all, i couldn't talk and be my self because he knows everything, i was afraid to make a mistake then he makes me feel I'm stupid. Like we still friends but that's it . I don't encourage this big age gap relationship

GIRL, does he have a brother with his personality and looks? ❤️😄✨

Wow this is a first time that I actually watched your video thru and thru. I follow you on IG but do not ever comment! But after listening to you two I really feel your heart and love felt for each other. I love that your husband is such a caring man and protector. He truly wants you to be happy and yet safe. I feel that you will come out of your shell as you age like the rest of us did. But you could not ask for a better mate, right there by your side♥️I enjoyed the video immensely ❤️

The quality looks so much better. I noticed as soon as I started the video. Good job hubby. As far as mbti I think youre isfj... ❤

I am almost the same age as him. I don't feel old. I am more girly than I have ever been. My point is 40 is not old. Great things happen after 40. I guess it's happened in this case.

My husband is 7 years older than me and we have been together for 7years now with a beautiful baby girl

I think you are the one of the cutest couples. He has good looks and age well hot couple the chemistry is something else . Enough said.

It's good you both can learn from each other!you both are clever!!keep that positive energy going.

My face is smiling so much.. I think I've taken my cheeks on gym😁 haha. You guys are adorable.

It's beyond me why people think they should know your personal life!!

It is lovely that you are encouraging natural hair wear. It takes longer to care for and gets everywhere. Be careful what you ask for. You are both beautiful xo

You guys are such a beautiful couple enjoyed the Q&A thx for sharing. Poland now that's a spot to visit

She is full of energy and he's just a grown man chilling both I love I hope she grows well and have a healthy and mature mindset as she grows

I’m 39 I will be 40 next year my first daughter she is 16 going 17 next year and I looks so young to the point my husband has been told he is walking with a 15 years old child which is not true because he is 45 and I’m 39 ....... your husband looks young too which is bonus to you. And just be happy and love your life . Sending love from all the way from Canada .

He’s one sexy man, accent and all. I’m a black American woman from NYC and I know about my Polish ppl, there’s a whole community out here, several communities. He has the typical Polish look 😍. Anyway, girl you better mature a little. You’re cute, funny and fun but you can carry yourself a little more mature and mysterious. Men do fine it attractive. When you got all giddy over him buying you a new phone, red flags went up in my head 😆. I’m not gonna say what I was thinking. I know you guys are married now and I wish you the best of luck but grow with him. You don’t want him get tired of the immaturity because I think he’s a good catch. I like a man who take a little control, it’s sexy to me and he doesn’t seem excessive but make him respect you by carrying yourself like you know better. ❤️

Its funny how people say he grooms and controls her..for a hot second I did too. But if they watch from the beginning he adores and spoils her. She is actually more outspoken than he is...and a lil spoiled, but in a cute way. Nothing major at all. The typical 20 year old. She is also mature for her age group. Not all women want to be out partying. Some women choose companionship to make them happy. Of course he is the most mature of the two so he makes most decisions. His age makes him wise and him being a husband puts him in a position to lead in a marriage and provide. Isnt that how it sposed to be anyway? I pray these two can forever embrace their relationship with nothing but love, peace, and happiness regardless of what anyone thinks.

He is a narcissist! He knows how to manipulate you! He applies all tactics! Go away as soon as possible!

You guys should check out Naka and Dom. Great low key but entertaining couple 👌

I just found your Channel and I am absolutely obsessed and binging on your content!!You’re an absolutely adorable couple, and are both super cute and inspiring!!! I love the educational aspect of your content, as well as the tenderness I can see in your relationship. I love your honesty, and even though I am American, my DNA is from central Europe and resonate with wanting to travel there more ASAP. Obviously the pandemic has halted that for me, but I have hope I will get there someday! I am very curious about your astrological signs, as well as the full Myers-Briggs compatibility. I can see the genuine love within your relationship, and it gives me hope that I can still find it for myself! Thank you for sharing your life, and I am glad that you popped up in my recommended! I wish you well on your life’s journey! You will be the most adorable married couple! Much Love from Cali USA! 💞🙏🏻🌹✨🙌🏻🥰

HER WEAVES BE LOOKING GOOD! WHOMEVER PUT THEM IN THEY DO A EXCELLENT JOB!

It's not going to last. She is young and naive.

Loved your honesty. Beautiful couple 🥰

UM WHAT IS HAPPENING? GIRL, ARE YOU OK???

Remember There is intuition! Works more powerful than logic! Trust your woman’s intuition over logic almost every time. Which means it may not always make sense❤.

This couple inspires me a lot,me and my boyfriend we have an age gap of 15year but I tell you people still do talk.

I think that they have a good relationship. And they are happy she is just young and naive and she's a lil immature for her age. I don't think he is trying to control her or do harm to her in any way, he seems to be trying to be an example to her And show her life isn't just fun and games. But I definitely think they love each other and for him to be responsible and takes care of her and treats her great and age doesn't matter she is legal age, and that's all that matters!

It takes a lot to render Iyah speechless, but that last question nearly did.

A perfect looking couple. You both are blessed. ❤️🙏🏽

You have to be real ... and share what you like or don’t like that’s what RU-vid is about !!

My day is not complete without Iyah being her weird beautiful self 🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️

Wow! He cuts you off! He minimizes your opinions. Sad he doesn’t value much that you say! Ohhhh he likes his innocent girl! Of course he has to win his arguments he’s the older authority figure! Wow! So material possessions help her open up in daddy’s opinion! 💔

I love how u both get along n discuss things but not argue to point of fighting. U end up laughing n showing each other love.

They have soooooo much chemistry. He looks so young too

Never thought I'd come across such a sweet channel like yours I'm like so happy for u both....

I have a question for Raf, How has she changed your life?

Is he a virgo because I am the same way, make it make sense, I totally agree

Keeping some things private is wise 👌 It is not everyone busy to know 🙂 every thing.

I’m an entp too. Anyways, y’all are such a cute couple. I hope you guys go viral. Such an underrated couple(hopefully y’all will still be the same when y’all go viral).