My gosh, you two remind me of me and my fiancé. For years I was in a marriage that didn’t allow me to be myself. I met my fiancé and he allows me and encourages me to be the goofball I am at heart. He’s a nerd and I embrace him for who he is. I thank God for him in my life. I wish you two the best of wishes and the Lord’s blessings on your marriage.