Are Matching Horoscopes Important For Marriage? Sumona Chakravarti Asks Sadhguru 

People are afraid to take responsibility for their own well being and mistakes...it's easier to blame the universe and the stars

He means to say regardless of astrology, just take responsibility of your own life, take responsibility of your own relationship, then you will live well. Destiny is in your hands

I just shared this with my family WhatsApp group. Hope I will alive by tomorrow.

In life if you do not do what you cannot do, it is alright. But if you do not do what you can do, then it is a big disaster -Sadhguru

This is so true. Who is the third person to predict and advise our lives. It is in our hands

Astrology is very perfect ...but now days no one has good knowledge of it .....i have seen many peoples who guess very accurately even without knowing you but most of the people also can make u fool ... But one thing have been said in Astrology :- If you are great devotee of god then u should not take care of astrology ...your god will change your future ...your calmness and sadhna can stable all Nakshatras and Grah(planets) in your body ..

When he laugh, he looks like Santa Claus

He tells it perfectly even if the stars match or not at the end people have to learn to live with their partner at any situation then nothing can do anything

Doctor Gulati ki Beti Sarala... 😀😀😀😀😀

One can chart one's own DESTINY ! What's absolutely required is - self - belief, sheer hardwork, perseverance, and unwavering commitment to one's work !

I simply love this man's laugh ! So genuine !

Loved your answer Sadhguru ji. This country deserves you at this moment

One of my fav person lossing because of this horoscope....literally am dying inside Missing badly her 😔

When its too complicated to share the complex knowledge in short time then its best to ignore a topic to avoid a misconception.Sadhguru know it very well.💙🙏

I absolutely loved the answer! This thing was bothering me for a long time and now it's cleared

😭😭😭My boyfriend rejected me after 8 years , because horoscope are not working or good,,, it's really painful😭, thank s for the video Sadhguru 🙏

Seek the best in your partner. Forgive and make sure you chose wisely. Take time to chose.

Matching horoscope is not important the matching Minds is important for life to continue...

" no one can match these two idiots"...... well said....lol

Whether you match the horoscope or not just accept the happening with all the grace. Things happen for good today may be for my good tomorrow may be for someone else.

In many cases of arrangement marriage they match horoscope first and then tells no it's not matching this is absurd to me.People loose good options because of these things

As always, Logical enough :-)

Astrology is misunderstood nowadays.....its now just a future prediction tool.

Thank you Sadguru..... Loved the last line.... No matter which fool you marry, you decide to live well.... Love you Sadguru: *

Thanks, Sumona! You asked my question 😊 Thank you, Sadhguru for answering it this way but when there is an arranged marriage happening this is the main criteria of shortlisting the prospective grooms & brides in some cultures, including mine. Even I am not sure to believe or not to in all these things.

I am going to say to my mom that I am not going to marry with someone whose horoscope matches with me. I am going to marry with someone whose horoscope is haven't touched. I want to face consequences and I will take complete responsibility of myself and my life

What a nice explanation ...

Love... Sumona is very polite and humble. And sadguruji always on the 🔝 🙏🤗

Thanku sumona for asking this question, i had the same query few days back and sadhguru how beautifully u explained this. ❤️

True , when horoscope were followed there were 10 other things taken in to consideration Random ppl from different cast & creed never tried matching horoscope. It is a science in itself but to comprehend there need to be deeper understanding & patience Which we lack as a generation So he is logical enough in saying , you just need willingness 😊

All happy people share this with your girlfriend/ boyfriend. And singles your day will come too just keep looking. Lots of love...

Thank you so much for throwing light on this topic. Thank you so much Sadhguru and Sumona 🙏🙏🙏

Key word:- Responsibility

For the first time , we got a conclusive explaination from sadhuru. Mostly we are expecting a logical ending

I like Sadguru's videos. But when it comes to Jyothish (astrology), his views seem to conflict with his own statements

What a great question!! What an outstanding answer..your life is in your hands..not in stars or rekhas...😄😊😎

This is a perfect example of Sadhguru answering the questioner and not the question.

This cleared my doubts.

Great explanations 🙏 My doubts also cleared Sumona ji. Thank you Sadhguru & Sumona👍

Really eye opener speech by Sadgurudev.. thank you so much

Makes so much of sense! Well said Sadhguru ji...

The astrology influences somewhat but its not the deciding factor. The thing about indian astrology is that its path got misunderstood and calculations have been done wrong due to misinterpretations. The astrology here changes as per yugas and the way they work and what they mean, none of these things the astrology crew foundationally tried to understand so now they are going on a clouded way

i like the way sadguru laughs and moves all the way through up and down.

It is most important that two people in a relationship work together, but that was not the question, the question was should someone consider using astrological compatibility to find a mate? Here is an acid test for everyone to try to see if you think astrology can be used in your life or not; first, find 3 happily married couples, that are NOT prearranged marriages, then write down the birth dates of each of these couples, then use any astrological compatibility chart and compare each couples star sign with each other, with each couple, make a note if the chart says compatible or not. Now, then find 3 unhappily married couples, and write down their birth dates, and compare their astrological compatibility. Now you will have a better understanding of astrology, based on FACTS that you yourself gathered. Now write down the birth dates of your best friends, and check the compatibility of those astrological signs. This should convince you. Advice given from a place of ignorance is not wisdom. It is hard for anyone to claim they know everything, doing so automatically puts them in a very challenging position. Blind faith can get you killed.

A person who discovers to distance himself from his physical nature rises above these influences of planetary energy (which is what astrology is based on) therefore these things work differently for sadguru and people having such practises than a common person.

Thanks shumona for asking this question...I too have the same query....and thanks to Sadhguru who cleared the concept that how any third person can decide you're going to live happily with someone... thanks a lot Sadhguru... you've really answered a big query

Take the lesson especially those who despite of being well educated insist on asking kundli for non manglik for marrage purpose. One who does not know his or her own destiny, how can he or she predict on others life course. Rediculous asking for kundli.

The best !! Whatever he said is absolutely logical !!

Take responsibly and do your sadhana is the key !

2: 09 to 2: 14 is enuf to understand:) thank you Sadhguru

For all those who want to know everything about the science and mathematics of horoscope. Here is the modern explanation, for those who can think and mediate upon it. Summation of Yi = Summation of f(X(r,t))i, where Yi is ith trait and X(r,t) is time and space dependant motion of planet. Anyone with sufficient intelligence can create whole astrology. It won't be a wonder if AI ( which is just collective intelligence) would use this.

Now imagine being responsible AND with a compatible partner. That’s my ideal relationship

I used to believe in horoscopes etc to a large extent, but of late I have seen a few couples that are living well for years though astrologically their marriage was not recommended and a few who divorced despite they were approved..astrologers were pretty reputed in both cases! The issue is astrology needs to be looked at as a whole, but in today's era, no one has perfect knowledge about it..they just know fragments of astrology n it doesn't work that way! Through these fragments knowledge, only characteristics etc can be predicted sometimes by experts but not your future!

Horoscope and astrology is only for people who have lack of experience in living and clarity in life. Once you develop better clarity and experience in living, you don't care about horoscope and astrology.

Brillaint answer, it raised my expectations from you for future. Dhanyavad Sadhguruji, from my soul

And we have hundreds of proof of his so wise statement here in form of a loads of troubled marriages around us which were very well matched in astrology.

Destiny of a "body" is predefined. Destiny of a "soul"/*Aatman* is undefined. Sadguru is talking in the context of soul. Horoscopes, astrology talks in the context of "body". Lets not mix these two different flows in time.

Sadhguru ji Jai siya raam! I am confused after watching your response to the question. Because Ravan in his dying moments said to Laxman that "you can outsmart the stars, they will bring you what you are destined to." Can you please help clear the air?

Sadhguru, i feel that this every existence is i am! I am every part of universe i can seeing to me in anywhere but when i leave meditation for few days then i return back to normal stage and then i feel so upset and like as crazy! Now, What happen with me! i don't get perfect way of ultimate please give me solution because now ,i don't manage with study, family ,friends and other things i feel always alone!

Wow 😮 that was a beautiful and logical reply..loved it

I listen Sadhguru to learn English language & humour of sadguru is bonas🙏

I'm amazed! Thank you Sadhguru ☺️

Kudos to the person who made that music. That really activates me..

If matching horoscope is important for marriage then earth is also flat. accept it thoroughly

That's not the question.. does astrology prediction predicts the person you're gonna marry.. I mean.. if two person loves each other.. they are in a relationship and naturally they want to marry.. if astrological predictions says he or she will marry someone. ..whose characteristics aren't matching with their current partner.. then is he or she bound to not marry whom he or she loves.. will it break through some kind of force of nature or past life's karma and won't let them be together or what? If yes.. how can someone control this... nobody will like it if they had to leave or somehow get broken up willingly or unwillingly with the person they love.. if I consider the present..they are happy..wants to stay together.. they don't know if they are gonna break up later or not.. of the moment ..they are planning for spending the whole life together... its very heartbreaking to know for them that they won't stay together and will marry someone else... how can stay together even after knowing that... its not that everything we want happens like we want or work towards them...alternate endings are more probable

Superb answer Guruji.

With all ur respect, please wear protective riding gear while riding any motorcycle.

Mere bande ne aaj mujhse esiliye breakup kara q k hamara Kundali match nhi hota.. 2 saal se relationship tha... Sb chala gaya.. wow

Hello sadhguruji : I really think that there is science behind it. Our body is made up of elements which are polarised and non polarised in nature. When we take our first breath our whole body get activated and depending on the gravitational and electrical field around us set elements in different positions. You can see that in the following example ->When we put an iron piece under a magnetic field it's also get magnetised.

We only decide our future. Based on our karma's and puniyam.

sarala nice to see you after a long time i am big fan of yours .....aapke hont bade hai

Thank you 🙏 I have this wish to meet you Guru. Love from Nepal 🇳🇵

Sumona society pluged life with horoscope stars marriage but responsibility respect and happiness is not in horoscope Sadgurujee laugh is only way to unplugged try to live pleasant life-Raj Gopal Reddy-Airoli Navimumbai

First I thought, she was going to tell a joke,but she asked good question.

Good question Sumona. And good answer as well. Namaskar Sadguru.

Thanks sadguru ,I always follow your videos but on video u told these stars will have 25%effect on us but now you are saying absolutely it is not..what we believe?

Marriages are nothing but Compromises... And taking responsibilities to each other... Namaskaram sadhguru... VJ...

ok, you say "hold other peoples well-being above your own"....what is my spouse is a narcissist?

sadguru people are very very serious about astrology.......my sisters mrg got rejected due to no match in kundli 5 times

for personal experience, compatibility in astral maps count A LOT! consider the moon and rising and all of the signs in the planets and houses and tell me if its not right!

Guruji s explanation was a meandering way to suggest that the life and the capacities within are beyond planets and stars that do sort of influence us..

That killer laughter 😂love it

Guru ji mere pass koi word nhi hai ..aapki parsnsa krne ke liy really osm se bhi upar ....bahut hi ache se explain kiya ...parnam guru jii

INCREDIBLE! Just INCREDIBLE! Got enlightened by an enlightened being. 🙏🙏🙏

How beautifully he clarified this social taboo and superstition... Lots of respect for him..

Thank you guru ji for giving such a beautiful answer 🙏

There are still thousands of Indians who are strictly orthodox and will refuse a prosperous alliance just because some third-rate pandit says so. And then a wonderful relationship between couple just blows away. If you are able to overcome the negative celestial energy with your own energy, then why can't you live happily?

Well, practically speaking its the two people who control the relationship which molds its destiny. But you cannot ignore the fact that stars do influence a person and other person's life to a great extent. For instance, when a manglik marries a non manglik, things run into rough patches. The couple may be happily contributing towards making a perfect relationship but external forces/challenges will test the relationship. Being practical is good but being ignorant towards astrological aspect is foolishness.

Exactly, true, 👍👍👍

ನಮಸ್ಕಾರ ಸದ್ಗುರು 🙏😎

Astrology gives u a path to success whom ever wants to achieve if at all the truth behind horoscope well its works up to 70 to 80% and well it shows tat much of % is well enough to get into life journey and rest we can achieve through sadhana. Rest we should live ours life’s sensible tat wat make matter in our life’s and our karma how well we will perform tats matter in rest of our life’s. Jai sadhguru

Pranaam sadgru ji🙏, me aapko tiktokse dekhti arahihu me jyada English janti to nahi lekin aap jo boltehe 80%samjhtihu guru ji mujhe aapki bate bahot achha lagtahe,me aapko bahot mantihu ji.🙏

Great Answer by Sadguruji. 🙏🙏🙏❤️

Puzzle solved प्रणाम सदगुरु

People are very curious to know everything but not their own self. Once they know themselves who they are then everything be revealed. No need of youth & truth, No need of sadhguru 🙏

Absolutely inspiring words. Thank u Sadguruji.

Thank you so much for this video..Thank you Sadguru ji❤

I have one dought, in olden days why they follow this, there might be nay hidden reason. Some one please explain me in detail.

Words of wisdom indeed.

Respectfully, disagree.