It doesn't matter if it's true or not. Winter and the Wall 🧱 is coming. That's a fact and we'll see all those who's going to get slap in the head with it..
Women have to realize most grown functioning men can cook, clean, and take care of themselves. So when they look for a woman it’s mainly sexual, building a family, and having an inner peace at home
It always surprises me when women think they have a hold on men because of cooking and cleaning, your bachelor's days is when you acquire all these skills.
My father taught me how to cook at a young age. He told me to look him in his eyes and I did and he told me this. He said boy I'm teaching you how to cook for yourself and clean so you ain't never got to depend on a woman to do it for you. Thank you pop.
I applaud you bro that’s a great trait and you got a great father I didn’t have mine so I realized I was gonna be tall as hell with good looks so I abused it a lot with women just being honest but I’m a much better man for myself and my son now but damn bro I put these girls through some shit smfh
It hit hard when Kevin said “men are choosing to get a dog and die alone”. Having taken myself out of dating for a few years now, I find a loss of hope in modern women. As a man, I’m expected to “deal” with a women and all her baggage (divorced,kids,debt) and yet they walk around with the entitlement that they deserve 6 foot, 6 figure income, 6 inch plus unit and 6 car garage all the while saying that same man should take care of her 3 kids from different baby daddies and her debt. The peace and quite I enjoy in my own home and the prospect of dying alone is more comforting then knowing I’ll be used up and thrown out by a modern women who is just a professional monkey brancher.
Sorry for hurt and loss you need to see a therapist ....this is for all of the men on here who think they know how women are .....my mom always told me you can't change anyone work yourself and your problems that cause that woman to see in a certain kind of way as a man because your not perfect or innocent so stop pointing the finger at women and fix you...start right there....or else you with dye alone like KS with a go fund me and your pit bull......Men dye alone as well I hope you know this .....at least women have the children that men leave behind......
I’m a woman, and I completely agree with that conclusion. My only standards for a man being of dating potential were: Good Hygiene A job Seems nice My standards for a life partner were a few more items, but things you might not know before a first date. Basic compatibility in things like… want or don’t want kids, and how you would parent if so, etc. Some common interests. The same kindness and patience that I would give in return. I certainly would have rather lived alone and in peace, than in an abusive relationship. (What these women bring to the table would certainly feel abusive to your mental health, at the very least.) Alone and happy is better than with someone and in the kind chaotic nightmare that these women would bring. These bizarre expectations that are common today, are obviously a product of modern society egged on by social media. If I were a man, I would absolutely choose to do without, rather than saddle myself with some selfish crazy woman who had no real appreciation of me as a person. I got lucky and found a wonderful man and I have been blessed with a peaceful and happy household. I can’t imagine ever trading that for more money or any of the other things on their lists. There are still good women out there. Ones that wise up after they grow up. Teens are very susceptible to the things that social media fills their heads with, but I wasn’t too brilliant as a teen either. (Though I will say that I still only wanted a good man, not a rich man). I hope you find a woman who will love you because you are a good man, but you are absolutely right not to make the mistake of choosing a woman who wants it all but doesn’t offer much in return. The key to not getting fooled by a greedy, lazy and selfish person, is time. They can fake being unselfish, kind and patient for a while, but not too long. As long as you never move too fast to anything permanent, you will be okay. I wish you success.
Social media did. It’s an open network that pushes men and women with unrealistic expectations and comparisons instead of a guy walking up to a woman these days
After all the women that have been on this show.. You'd think they'd learn not to bullshit the way they do cause they just make fools of themselves but noooooo.. That would be to logical🙄🤣
My father has always told me, “the only person worse than a thief is a liar”. I don’t care how little it is, even if you only take 50 cent from me. We never need to speak again. They just lie like it’s a normal thing to do.
“I’m a strong Leo woman”. I’m glad he talked about that BS. A horoscope doesn’t excuse someone’s bad personality just because they were born in July-August smh 😂
In the Bible right before Stephen was stoned he spoke about the origin of people worshipping the stars. People don’t realize that when you identify as a horoscope it actually goes against what God intended. But many “Christians” never pick up a bible
Bro it's been so many women that I've dated that tried to justify their actions according to their damn zodiac sign. Especially Leo's. I'm so sick of it!
I HATE when women say that "I'm a Leo, that's why" or some other using their Astro sign to excuse their behavior. When you were born has nothing to do with the person you are.
I’m a white woman who really relates to these black women. I wish I had come across this honest advice earlier. I’m so grateful that I found a man who loved me through my ridiculousness. I learned that I needed to respect and cherish a the good man who agreed to love a protect me. My life is SO much better since I realized how arrogant I was.
@@Ali-7676she won't. and she won't tell them to better themselves. no accountability is essential. that's the problem feminists created that she indulged in before. she can't.
God I wish my girlfriend would take it upon herself it would crush her or enrage her if I even tried to suggest any change and I feel terrible because I know how badly she wants to be married and I truly do love her.. but I can’t spend my life dealing with this nonsense.. this modern mindset has doomed us
okay now this is confusing,I'm a med student, i live alone i have a job and i take care of myself and i haven't felt my soul burning ever except for that one time in july when it was super hot outside, guess I'm officially a man..?
The problem is how women are raise. Teach your daughters choices have consequences. If women don't take accountability for the men they choose how will they teach accountability to their kids?
This!!! Folks, vet your therapists before deciding to use them. She shouldn’t be a therapist relying on astrology to guide her. That nonsense inevitably spills into her therapy sessions. Imagine trying therapy under her and hearing b.s. about planet alignment and zodiac signs?!? Unbelievable!
Shlt is sad and pathetic. Even worse that they aren't smart enough to realize that men prefer natural hair, face, and eyelashes, yet they take hours to "get it right" only to look worse than before.
Black women and black men have the same type of hair and live in the same environment, but one group needs a protective style and the other doesn't. Somebody's lying.
When I was going through therapy for PTSD and severe postpartum depression my therapist was amongst those who spread toxic info. My postpartum issues did stem a lot from my husband and every time we’d get to that topic she’d just tell me to leave him and that divorce was always an option. Now, almost 3 years later my husband and I have such an amazing relationship, about to have our second child, I’ve overcome PTSD and depression( thanks Jordan Peterson). Point is, you’re right and if I stayed seeing her and actually took her advice I would’ve been a divorced woman with a child and probably more depressed or worse.
She has a terrific attitude. She is the type of woman we would happily bring into our friend circle. My wife thinks this is one of his most productive videos. You can tell she is actually listening to him. I wish her the best!!!
The fact that she's a therapist and dishonest, lack self awareness, and ignorant of what men want is very concerning. If a therapist is like this then the normal neighborhood girl is ten times worse.
The Lady was trying to tell him she just started working out, and he didn't believe her because she isn't already slim.. She only been doing it for 3 weeks. people don't change after the 1st few workouts.
@@jaybelurkin you missed the point! He was telling her it shouldn't be nothing to fix. She is single with no kids so there is no excuse. You are on the dating market and your presentation is telling men this is all the effort you deserve. Meanwhile us fellas know what's up as far as the things we need to do to attract women but they don't seem to care what attracts us to them.
When a woman says she's Strong it usually means she makes a man miserable and always says no. The more miserable u are, the stronger she is in her mind.
"I''m a mental health therapist." "I feel like I'm strong because I'm a Leo." So after years of college, getting board certified, and professional work experience, that's her assessment? You can't make this shit up.
Imagine going to a therapist to get help with one thing or another, paying a lot of money for that help, and she asks you what sign you are. I would leave immediately.
"i'm overweight, my black female therapist is overweight, giving me advise on how to discipline myself" at this point i truly believe a lot of black women need to stop everything their doing take a time out and just press the reset button. THIS IS A MESS! (a lot of men too!)
Leave men out of it. Grouping men and women is a cope women do to take some of the responsibility off themselves. No fat man of any shade out here saying they look good, seeking the advise of other fat men on how to be disciplined.
We as men need to start shaming being overweight and stop fetishizing the whole “ thick “ thing...we need to be leaders and lead our women and children into health instead of just telling them they need to fix it( which they do of course ).... we need to teach the next generation growing up that they need to be active and in the gym because of not your will become lazy and develop a defeatist mentality! What Kevin is doing is leading these women into health and we need to do the same thing with the women in our real lives now including our mothers, sisters, cousins and aunties etc we also need to lead by example, we cannot preach “ you need to be in shape “ but have the “ dad bod “ we need to also be in the gym getting our 6 packs and eating at a caloric deficit ( or a surplus if you wanna add on muscle ) me personally I just hit 10% body fat and have the women in my family motivated to lose weight now and dieting because I lead by example and lost over 110 Lbs !
They KNOW the correct and direct answer will indict their behavior or what they have revealed within the conversation. So, they deflect and generally refuse to answer.
@@r.w.3644 is it really though man? They all buy into this western shit... that’s not the way out it used to be in 2021. Seems like pump and dumps and surrogates are the way.
The statement about immigrants at Home Depot working getting more respect at home hit hard. As the son of an immigrant I’m thankful everyday that I’m an American. The lack of gratitude is real in our country it’s not just back women it’s really Americans in general. Immigrants work harder and have more gratitude and they are loyal. That really touched home. It’s sad to hear that Mr Samuels has passed. Is there anyone similar to him that is active online?
There’s SSM (strong successful male), TrueStory, Manosphere, TaylorTheFiend (he covers manosphere a lot) and the one above my comment. They usually cover stories or other’s interviews rather than interview women themselves
My father once told me that his mother made him and his brothers get up early every weekend to teach them how to cook, clean, wash clothes, and iron them. When I asked him why, he said her response was “I’m teaching you to do these things because I don’t know what kind of woman you’re going to get”…..great lessons that has been passed on, R.I.P pops
@ 21:58 When she said “I just got it in a protective style cause I like to work out” Kevin must’ve fell the hell out. 😩😂😭 Man I hate that we lost this brotha. Rest up OG. 🙏🏽❤️🩹
As a black woman....I appreciate your straight talk Sir...It's refreshing... It's better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. Keep on keeping it Real!!!👍🏾 The real personal evolution can only begin once one is willing to look within and do the necessary work👍🏾
Just so you black women know, you are just like the other races of "modern" women. All the same attitude no matter the race. Do you see that "modern, strong and independent" but still want the man to provide/do most things causes men to see such women as "pieces of ...."?
They will spend 5 hrs in beauty shop..and 15 minutes in gym.. they go to a job they don't like, but will go every day for a check and won't go to gym for they're health..
The last woman I dated gave me the "I bring a lot to a relationship" nonsense when I told her I didn't see things working between us. I asked her point blank "If you take s3x completely out of the equation what is in it for me?" and she gave me the typical "I'm amazing" response. No matter how I phrased it she could not (or would not) give any specific examples of what she had to offer me to make things work my time and effort once s3x was not part of her offerings. She even tried to turn it around and asked me "Are you telling me that you don't want to have s3x with me?" instead of actually listening to my question and thinking about it. I told her I do not NEED a woman as I can do everything that a woman traditionally did for a man so if I can do all of that for myself and there was no s3x included what could she give me to make the relationship worth it for me. I got a blank stare and a repeat of "I'm an amazing woman and any man would be lucky to have me". Completely oblivious and she just could not understand why she had zero success in relationships.
She should have at least said she'd take care of you when you get old. She can pass on your lineage. She'll be fit and tight. Lol. She definitely needs therapy
@@JustBree716 Exactly. I suspect the "ME generation" attitude of the 1960's really spurred this mindset. People have been raised and taught to think of themselves and so they lose the ability to think that they can think of others' needs. It's all about |me me me" and not about us or we any longer.
@@Enjoymentboy I was her and she was me. But I'm learning and I ain't going back. Lol. I'm 42 and if I get blessed to find a hero, I'm going to give him everything I got.
@@JustBree716 Bree, I have to ask this. How could you have been her? How is it that females can think, believe and say half of the stuff they do, when everything including the heavens are disproving so much of what females think, believe and say?
This episode felt very personal, where the men was expressing all the black’s men frustration toward black women, and she being the embodiment of modern’s black women’s problem
You will rarely see black women in the gym and definitely not in large numbers. Ive been to SEVERAL different gyms all over and I see way more white and latina women than black. Crazy. Compared to other races, we have the largest weight issue with our women and the numbers dont lie 🤦🏽♂️
Oh I see them there in planet fitness, seeking attention. They on social media than they on the machines. Do a few squats and then leave and not one drop of sweat on their forehead.
@@obtryce7070 Exactly my point lmao. They’d much rather spend all this bread on cheat code surgery or just stay looking like a whale waiting to be harpooned 🥴
@@MrDigztheswagking Every woman I can think of in my family is overweight to some degree and that shit is sad. Im one of the few in general that’s actually active and in shape and I used to be the most UNDER WEIGHT out of everyone. Like wtf? lol
My grandmother told me that I shouldn’t be looking “Mr Right,” I should be looking for a man whose faults I can live with and he can live with mine. She said nothing about wealth or looks.
Her: "They say that i'm life changing" KS: A car accident can be life changing... that don't make it good hahahaha... this man has the greatest come backs
They truly believe this code switching bs. Pretend to be feminine till you get what you want... Ad girls are learning this bs younger and younger. Just saw a video of some thot 24 years old talking about how to get a rapper or ball player.
This is why it's important to take into account how your health providers look. How can an out of shape cardiologist tell me how to take care of my health? They might know, but they don't know how to execute. Being slovenly with your outer appearance, speaks volumes of the value you place on yourself as a whole. An individual who can't take the time to, activity, be their best, doesn't have the tools to tell me how to be my best. Theory is nothing; execution is what matters.
Most good therapists already have a therapist. It’s supposed to be part of the process of being a practicing therapist. So, her lack of one further proves how poorly trained she is.
I am partially disagreeing with him. They could easily flip the script on him as he is unable to maintain a relationship hence he is divorced. I know it is ideal that one should practice what he preaches, but using this situation as a sole condemnation tool is no good either.
@@TheLisleduplan But he points out that women are the ones quick to leave/divorce and not sticking with their husbands till death due them part. So I would guess based off what he says he didn’t file for the divorce, so it’s women who don’t want to work together to maintain the relationship/marriage.
I think who goes FULL OUT for the audience. We ALL know some of these guests are past the point of no return. Most of us wouldn't even spend 5 minutes talking to some of these ladies. You can tell in 5 minutes why most of them are alone. Looking at the greater good.....the dialogue is helpful for those that watch. The back an fourth exchange is interesting, informative and taboos in our communicates. Most dudes don't have the patience to handle all this pushback. 99% would just move on. Ladies are hearing what 99% of the gentlemen wouldn't waste their time in telling them. There are gems and golden nuggets in the exchanges....even though the guest might me too far gone. Some of the exchanges are cringe worthy I just won't watch. I appreciate that the B.S. has been promoted for so long some of the ladies want to do the right thing....but they just sound lost. There is message in each of the exchanges for men and women.
She's not lying. My mother has this level of delusion. My entire life she tried to mold me into the kind of man she would marry. When that didn't work she literally tried to insert herself into my wife's life and change her into someone more like herself. Gentlemen give up hope. That way you might end up pleasantly surprised.
This is a tough pill to swallow for a lot of people, myself included, but what you say is necessary. I had a similar experience with my mother as a single parent trying to mold me into a "better version" of my father and constantly trying to disqualify or change women I dated because they weren't "good enough" all the way up until I was 29. It messed me up for years in so many aspects of life but, once I let go of the mythologized view of women and gave up the misguided hoping, I was able to pull myself out of the abyss and regain control of my life. On top of that, thanks to the tutelage of Patrice O'Neal and many others, including Kevin, I have successfully broken a lot of my mother's delusions and she is now in a much better place and actively seeking therapy. A lot of people look at this "giving up hope" concept as a death sentence but it's actually more like removing a straight jacket. Don't hope for a damn thing, hope is for Disney movies, put the work in for yourself and make anyone who wants to share your time and success earn their place at your table. If you're reading this and you're in a similar spot, don't be afraid to take off your straight jacket and go live your life.
My ex wife did the same.She said you will never change.Then months later chatting to her(her doing all the talking) she said gee you have changed. What she didn`t get was I wasn`t really listening I was just being polite.The relationshit was over I couldn`t care anymore.
“Black women are great at talking, horrible at doing” KO 🥊 . She talks a good game, but has no explanation on why she hasn’t enacted the changes she knows she needs to make. 😢
This is why I live in San Antonio, Texas. Atlanta and Houston? Bad attitude, controlling, masculine Fat, baby momma, take me as I am women. Latinas or African women. Done ✅ dating black American women! PERIOD!
@@LetGoStressFree silly 🐰 this information is still usable towards all women, coming here is just like a workout. Get a little pump in before going out into the world to deal with the delusion. Some men will just knock you ankles loose if your the easiest option then simply go back to their normal preferences. Exotic looking, fit, feminine, cooperative, submissive, and logical stuffs really simple but feminazism has mislead you creatures. In my 30's now my options have grown no kids, trading less time for money. Only going to get better. You provide the same things a dog can 🐩 minus intimacy but feminazism has given us this as well. Get over yourselves ladies 🙃
I personally ended up marrying a South Korean woman because of this issue in American women. While I can see that Black women are the focus on KS talks, it bleeds over to most American women. I have a helpmate, a soulmate, and our marriage is 23 years strong. It’s because we both understand our roles and we work together.
Oh he knows. He realizes you cant change someones beliefs,ideologies ,traditions,likes dislikes etc. They need discover this on their own accord, or think it was.
This girl is lying... substance abuse/counselors/ therapist do not make 6 figure salaries unless she owns the business. She said she works for the agency. Kevin said she deceiving.
Just flat out lied and still didn't own up to it,just crazy why don't women want to take accountability for their actions, oh yeah I did that so what attitude. Smh
As a man I'm gonna be 100 I am literally learning so much about women by watching his Podcast. I seriously have gotten answers to questions that I have had by watching this now I have more understanding why women act,talk, and sometimes their misguided understanding of their beliefs. This Is educational.
I heard a women say that this generation of men is the most emotional, and feminine... I had to agree, then I asked, I wonder who raised these emotional, and feminine men?
Women raise these boys who become the fixture of their ire later as men. When will they take responsibility for the actions of their sons? I say never. They can't even be honest about their size and weight. ;-)
what truly get me as a man is so many requirements set on us that we really have to work hard at to achieve. for women all we are asking if for them to be fit and feminine...and they refuse to do it. just blows me away.
Most of them don't honestly know their dress size because body positivity has been on the warpath for a while and long lost are the days when bigger people wore shit that fit 🤷🏾♂️
I promise you, Brad, Lee, and Julio are not lining up to marry black women. I was putting some of my white co-workers on a mostly dating app called BLK and after a few days, one of them came back and said, "most of the women on there are on the heavier side". I died laughing and told him to just keep scrolling. They desire 6ft and 6 figures like those men grow on trees. It's crazy out here.
I'm startin to look forward to when he does that. I guess a lot of us tried to be nice to our ex's and if if wasn't for my kids I would have gone after mine like he does... maybe I should have done it anyway cause Nothing was good enough for that B. Now I'm with a woman I've known a long time, we both got rid of our tormentors... she's nice to me, we both like to cook, we can have drinks without going MMA, she's plump and I don't care at all about that.. specially in the winter!
Alot of woman espcially woman of color (So called Blacks and Latinos) will never see that. They wanna be overweight clowns. Extra long nails hair and tarantulas eyelashes
They don’t see that, all they see is that ray ray,pookie, and bubu gone smash regardless of the weight, so they go and think all men are looking at them the same
Who defines what “amazing” and “life changing” is? If your amazing and life changing are not fulfilling, anyone of integrity will walk out of anything.
The hair thing was great! When I was dating my ex, I tried to do a lot of things she wanted me to do- wear my hair the way she liked, my facial hair, my clothes... I even stopped wearing my camo shorts😂. But when I asked her to wear her hair short, and the way I thought looked the sexiest- she didn't keep it up because SHE DIDN'T THINK it looked good on her. At the end of the day, modern women are not listening to what men want or do what we find attractive.
@macman9689 Exactly. Giving up your masculine, leadership role even slightly repulses women and they lose all respect for you. Then, the rebellion starts... 😬
She cant stay in a relationship because shes a compulsive liar...and not even remotely a good liar...she's the type that will tell you the sky is red, when its clearly blue...bless her heart
Most women today: "Lacking Self Awareness, Gratitude, HUMILITY and Empathy. --- Epic!! - Thank you to the young woman who made this video so educational for all of us. She seems ready to listen and improve. My kuddos to her and wish her an abundant life with a soul mate.
Oh yea, character can hide for a long long time. Getting married is a good thing, but marrying the right person is a blessing. Take as long as you need to get to know a person and never disregard a red flag.
Let’s be generous and guess that she makes around 50k at age 28 with her job. That means she needs to make another 50k by „writing children’s books“ per year. I would bet $1000 that the has only published one children’s book (if that is even true), and the Amazon sales rank of this book is not even in the top 500.000. but she might be dreaming about writing the next Harry Potter (while working out 4 days a week).
As a black man, I’ve lost over 75 pounds in the middle of the Covid pandemic, got a promotion, & earn over $70k in my late 30s. I don’t want an overweight woman. I would want a truly submissive woman (interdependent, not independent) and without a kid (preferably). Kev’s right.
Brotha - keep up the great work - don't settle. Keep moving up financially and increasing your image. I was single for a long time making six figures and stayed in shape. No kids at the time. I lived a damn good bachelor's life. The women will come I am now married - to a woman who has a loving relationship with her parents - who understands the role of a woman and a man - who is submissive. It's rare - though they are out there. I have dated black women and had no luck in my experience finding one without the public image. My wife is asian - since being married - over the years I have and continue to get those irritated looks from black women - it sad - though Kevin is spot on.
Hey! That’s awesome! You’ll find a good one. Good women love a motivated man. My man landed a great job too and I’m very proud of him. Keep it up, gentleman. Some of us see you out there winning at my life.
what kills me is that our women will make sure their top notch as far as attitude, weight an overall femininity to other races, but to their own men refuse to bring that same energy to the table.
True.thats exactly right it just that if she cares for herself it makes her more attractive don't do it for me do it because you care about yourself yes... later on not caring about yourself will become a liability especially for long term....you can see a train wreck coming miles away
Yes and no. While it's good to have a healthy self-esteem, one of the biggest motivators is shame and disappointment. If you want to have something great, you generally have to work towards it. Great example of this is when your workplace has a policy that those up the ladder need to be more presentable. Oftentimes this motivates people to go on a fitness program or get a dietician.
It needn't have been that way, but now they have shown themselves INCAPABLE of the job he'll have to point them out. Certainly don't date a black female therapist, nurse or psyc major. They're either crazy or on a power trip. Either way, I'm not sticking around to find out.
The part that bugs me is the same that bugs him. She is lying with every other word, and either does not know it, or she is doing it on purpose. Either way, she is lying CONSTANTLY. I cannot stand it
Recall the expression by N a z I officer Goebbels: "if you repeat a big lie often enough, people will believe it." That's what's going on with many sistas believing their own propaganda
When you start out lying, where do you expect this to go, and she wonder why her relationship don’t work. She can’t even be honest on a video chat with a man she don’t know, who has no vested interest in her.
I’m 26 and my fiancé is 24. So grateful for her. Watching these videos makes me appreciate her more and more everyday and vice versa. She loves watching Kevins videos now too. Even though we’re together we still learn
@onedayyoumay That’s what’s up!!! Im married as well... been married for 21 years... both me and my hubby watch and listen... We have daughters.... the god father is definitely amazing!!!!
Yeah, I was kind of stunned and let out an actual laugh when she said she was a Leo ♌️ and then she is talking about being a “mental health therapist “. That is fundamentally two different schools of thought. How can a person be clinically trained in mental health and the disorders that can effect us and the tools needed to heal us, the public, when she actually believes that sh*t?! It doesn’t make any logical sense!! I think it’s absolutely great that she is getting started to get healthy again. I really do, but again as a mental health professional, it was also funny how long it took for her to get Kevin’s point. That men are visual beings and they want what they want. The fact that she too sees a black woman who is also overweight for her own therapy says all you need to know.
