Are Men NOT Allowed to Leave Relationships? | Part of the Show Segment

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@leafbuck215 4 месяца назад

I notice the relationship is only on the rocks when a woman is not happy but when a man isn’t happy he just has to deal with it and it will be used as a weapon against but I now tell my brothers embrace being the villain

@DJAUDIO1 4 месяца назад

Literally, what I went thru. She walked away last year, and she's still mad that I'm breathing. 😂😂😂 What weird times we are living in.

@keithchambers4072 4 месяца назад

I just told my wife that,she's unhappy with something about me which is fixable,but once its fixed she will be happy,but i still have things I need her to fix

@leafbuck215 4 месяца назад

@@DJAUDIO1 bruh I filed for divorce from my wife in 2018 she didn’t sign the papers until 2021 she was threatening my life throwing salt on my name running around making me out to be the bad guy because I left and she didn’t file for the divorce she said she wasn’t happy I granted her wish🤷🏾‍♂️

@leafbuck215 4 месяца назад

@@keithchambers4072 it’s always like that it seems like we adapt and change but their unwilling to do the same but expect results

@RaineSim 3 месяца назад

Have any of you in this thread ever wondered why YOU attract *that* type of woman??? There's a lot of the same insecurities out there, I should know I deal with them in my office. However, the women you've mentioned seem to all have that separation disorder in common. Have you ever thought to yourselves why you ended up with such toxicity and grudge?

@Zeus-po2ix 4 месяца назад

Men arent afraid or not equipped to deal with the backlash… We just dont feel like it… We also dont want to hurt the woman 🤷🏽‍♂️

@MrNigeriaboy 4 месяца назад

When it's time for women to be cold, they colder then a polar bears toenails. Don't worry about all that crying and ish, get to stepping if you need too.

@o.j.brathwaite7134 4 месяца назад

Facts, they will demonize you even if it's just a simple difference of lifestyles.

@Rio-uv1gs 4 месяца назад

"Don't try to be down with us" joe🤣

@cheickh123 4 месяца назад

😂

@jamescheaye927 3 месяца назад

They not the same as US 🤣

@CraigJones-pt1my 3 месяца назад

It should be against the law to Let Mel keep talking after 2 min 😂

@Topself24 4 месяца назад

It’s hard breaking up with someone honorably. Especially when they don’t agree.

@CraigJones-pt1my 3 месяца назад

Especially when the woman is being broken up with 😂😂

@FlavurbyK 3 месяца назад

⁠man rejection flys over they head like a metaphor lmao

@TruthDefined4life 4 месяца назад

Just tell her you don't want to be with her, and you don't see a future with her. Wish her well on her love journey, and CUT OFF COMMUNICATION. The just "friends" crap rarely works with women.

@bobbyblazini 4 месяца назад

Not if you already have kids...

@TruthDefined4life 4 месяца назад

@@bobbyblazini Depends on the kids' ages. Communication with the kids doesn't always require communication with the mom. But better yet, why would you be having kids with a woman you can't see a future with?

@bobbyblazini 4 месяца назад

@@TruthDefined4life that's not a better yet. I'm saying for those that fell in love young but then grow into different people who still have babies....just being friends doesn't always work as the convos bases

@TruthDefined4life 4 месяца назад

@@bobbyblazini Bro, you're talking about emotional divorce. They're just talking about a breakup. What you're talking about is way more involved and SHOULDN'T have an easy answer unless BOTH parties want out.

@sanyatesGRIA 4 месяца назад

Boy there’s levels to this shit here cuz don’t let them spin the narrative if she has more friends than you Lmfao 😂

@2gunzfilms425 4 месяца назад

Ngl..when i got divorced..i just left the papers on the bed and packed while she was at work. I was in my new place by time she got off work. Wasn’t nothing else to talk about. I asked if she wanted to even be married 3 days before that..she said “idk”…nuff said

@Shadows92 4 месяца назад

Did she ever reach out to after you left the papers?

@ChiTheAesthete 4 месяца назад

Because it's never a clean "ok I get it, I wish you the best.", its alot of emotional manipulation, bargaining, shame and guilt.

@MalcolmTurnerKing 4 месяца назад

If you don't talk to her, don't answer her calls, it's donezo.

@Matthew-tn7lm 4 месяца назад

@@MalcolmTurnerKinguntil she starts showing up in the parking lot of your job, your friends house, etc. that’s the shit I fear with breaking up

@fkillaanie 4 месяца назад

Nailed it

@o.j.brathwaite7134 4 месяца назад

@@Matthew-tn7lm Facts, my Ex-Fiance would pull up to my homeboys houses if I ignored her for too long. Call they wives and everything she would not let go.

@Matthew-tn7lm 4 месяца назад

@@o.j.brathwaite7134 Yupppppp. I used to park my car at a pizza place and walk home so I could be home without her harassing me

@user-kg8wr9uq9m 4 месяца назад

Flip just be saying anything just to say he contributed to the conversation 😂

@mindhunter8772 4 месяца назад

He actually made sense this time. 😄

@genefreeman9591 3 месяца назад

Breaking up is hard when you care

@shawnturner2404 4 месяца назад

The part of the conversation that’s missing is that men and women (typically) serve different roles in relationships. So when a man walks away, its like pulling away that providing/protecting/covering from someone you love but don’t want to be with anymore. That’s where the internal shame and guilt starts and you don’t even want to deal with those emotions coming from external forces

@Ty1Brown2Studioz3 4 месяца назад

Breaking up can be hard , it CAN BE but doesn’t have to be …

@NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK 4 месяца назад

breaking up thru email is hilarious

@ericmclean4291 4 месяца назад

If you're in a relationship, heavily invested, and real love is there, the split is never going to be simple and amicable. The only thing you should every worry about is making sure you do right by the person and you're not sloppy with the way you're doing things. A person that really loves will is going to have a hard time with the breakup and that's okay. You also need to cut off communication for a while, if kids aren't involved, to make sure no mixed signals are being sent.

@italrudeboykitchen7522 3 месяца назад

Real love 😂😂😂😂 y😅u sound like a simp bro! Real love sounds a Mary j song 😂😂😂

@Dante-ql4gg 4 месяца назад

Man I had a woman I was living with and was in a relationship breakup with me in a text message I moved all my stuff out with no hesitation then a week later she calls me asking why I haven’t reached out to see how she’s doing 😒

@erikjohnson6269 4 месяца назад

Whoever is unhappy has the right to leave and pursue what makes them happy

@_madtown 4 месяца назад

If Mel get into a relationship again in her life it will be with a white man most definitely

@lorenzohaynes3886 4 месяца назад

Idk......

@DJAUDIO1 4 месяца назад

And? 😂😂😂

@carbon.the.christ5626 4 месяца назад

Not on my watch😅

@DJAUDIO1 4 месяца назад

@@carbon.the.christ5626 Hootie Hooooo 🤣🤣🤣

@claualexis1737 4 месяца назад

Wouldnt blame her. How these black men treat her.

@AnthonyLaVallisUncutTruth 4 месяца назад

This a an Awesome Debate topic ! Much needed Salute !

@kjk607 4 месяца назад

They be using Mel as their persinal punching bag for all their grievances against women. 😂

@misterhappy5462 3 месяца назад

so in other words they're throwing female behaviour back in her face. kudos!

@caper087 4 месяца назад

Of course Mel gonna try n sit the fuck out 😂 .. “if he got me there” you know y’all both got each other their 😂.. man she say some stupid shit lol

@williamwatson1998 4 месяца назад

Emotion is a weapon!

@octavius9685 4 месяца назад

its hard for men to leave cuz we dont have a stable of women waiting on the bench, like women do in the friendzone

@BigbearTKO 3 месяца назад

YOU dont lmao

@Waliocoolioflo 2 месяца назад

False. That's not at all what makes it difficult. It's the guilt trips and manipulation.

@octavius9685 2 месяца назад

@@Waliocoolioflo but if you have a stable of other chicks, the guilt doesn’t exist and the manipulation won’t work.

@Waliocoolioflo 2 месяца назад

@@octavius9685 Depends on the person 2 things can be true at once.

@thomasblackcraft 4 месяца назад

If you want a woman to leave… Just say that you love her and you’ll always be there for her no matter what..Lol…… she’ll leave that evening.😂😂😂😂

@317cmrogers 2 месяца назад

Bro you ok?😅😂🤣

@olivesdra 4 месяца назад

*Making money is an action. Keeping money is a behavior, but "Growing money is wisdom" just saw this quote✨❤️*

@Donsteve233 4 месяца назад

Awesome quote; I made the wisest decision when I put this quote into practice, I inve'sted with one of the best{Mrs Tonya Evans}. Now I receive weekly returns😊. . .

@wandinugraha1321 4 месяца назад

Did someone just mention mrs tonya!? Damn! You just made my day; what a coincidence.. I've worked with her for over 2years and I can tell how good she is

@AshleyBennett507 4 месяца назад

No doubts, this Tonya Evans must be an icon; how good is she and how safe is "profit making" with her.?

@clarissajasmine8607 4 месяца назад

*with over 10 years of tra ding experience, mrs tonya has gained herself a good reputation by helping a lot of persons build their finances' through inves'tments.*

@richardden63673 4 месяца назад

That's interesting, any way to connect with her? I have to get started.

@vernonclark287 4 месяца назад

No,we are not allowed to be the one who leaves. A woman will use her tactics to convince you to stay,for the sole purpose of breaking up with you later on. She wants the bragging right of being the one who left. That is exactly why men disappear and ghost women.

@downbad2874 4 месяца назад

I'd rather you tell me than cheat on me I wouldn't weaponize it I simply want to know why so I can work on it for myself while going through the breakup process and know where I'm falling short I'm gonna be sad regardless but knowing why is the only thing I want to know I can't fix it so it won't be a problem in my future if you don't tell me

@miiiketrill4808 4 месяца назад

Most people are attached and not in love anyway!

@uriellevelupriley684 4 месяца назад

Great Topic Joe ✨👑✨💯 there isn't no easy way. You have to cultivate from the beginning though. The deeper you are in the harder it is to get out. 🎯💫🙏🏾

@GettaReason 4 месяца назад

Joe said humbly "Don't try to be down with us "😂😂

@soylabonita 3 месяца назад

Anyone and everyone can leave a relationship. Just be honest and upfront with the person . Of course it’s going to hurt but there’s a respectful way to do it.

@emperorgreene2440 4 месяца назад

Dr Umar to ISH: you left a black queen for a snow bunny 🤣🤣

@melvinbarnett1910 4 месяца назад

😂😂😂

@fuhyou3223 4 месяца назад

Breaking up with a woman can go wrong in several ways. Crying, begging, several calls/texts being sent, she could physically attack you, destruction of your property, stalking, harassment online. Making a scene in public etc. It’s probably best if the woman leaves the man but then the man would be angry if he doesn’t want to let her go or he resents the fact she had the gall to leave. Some men might even KNOW the relationship is bad but still want to put the clamps on her because he’s used to the nonsense. Breaking up is hard to do unless both people are TIRED.

@bambamyung195 4 месяца назад

Shiiiiit I’ve learned my lesson, and the shit ain’t hard at all lol you can possibly save both parties by just being a man about the situation and leave ! I didn’t bash her or anything like that and honestly we would still be cool and if I wasn’t in a relationship today, but ppl are different and handle situations different

@user-rv9hp6bo3y 4 месяца назад

Don't date sociopathic women and you can avoid most of these issues

@soylabonita 3 месяца назад

Same with men. My bosses husband attacked her and beat her brutally bc she wanted to leave .

@car34bx 4 месяца назад

you can't ghost and cheat then be surprised when she villainizes you 😂

@nostalgiaserved4665 4 месяца назад

Interesting how Mel flipped the conversation and didn't address the issue/question at hand. Female is a very unique specimen...

@camillejarrett5008 4 месяца назад

I can’t imagine trying to get a man to stay with me once he tells me he doesn’t want me.

@shawnbrown792 4 месяца назад

I understand Mel on that “I relish that shit” I literally relish in that being the complete asshole, after the breakup. Especially knowing I turned everything completely fuckside up for you…ohhhhj the splendor

@jbeataman 2 месяца назад

Yep i was in this boat…I finally left. Not very often do you see a man break it off even though we consistently be unhappy af. We’re just expected to accept her for her flaws and all, and to just work through it.

@ANTTEAMSMOKE 3 месяца назад

I leave every relationship I get called a quitter but oh well

@trevonndoakes5572 4 месяца назад

Mel: OK I have a question. Super Star Ish: Do you have a take? 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@Bus12103 4 месяца назад

Why you ain’t play I’m Not Perfect at the end? Perfect for the conversation. I always blame myself for breaking up … IT’s ME NOT YOU … so there’s no recourse.

@Mafi_Turner-Diaz 4 месяца назад

This is helping me thank you JPP hard topic for me because im the one always trying to leave

@therealspikeflee 4 месяца назад

Why do people care about not being villains during a break up?

@FinagoBaby1 3 месяца назад

The difference between mel and the men is she don’t understand men are conditioned from children to put women’s emotions as priority. So the world is with them when you make yourself her enemy. Becoming the bad guy to a woman is actually a BURDEN to take on that’s sometimes a bigger job than the bad relationship itself. If a man is angry with a woman, her and her friends and family will support her and write you off and tell you to get over it. It’s not that easy for us

@kennydyer3034 4 месяца назад

Ahh Mel you should’ve tap danced your way out this😂😂

@DJCALIFORNIACHEESE 4 месяца назад

A stepper is a killa. All y’all wierd

@mylezG 4 месяца назад

They old 🤣

@Mac_DNH 4 месяца назад

Where's the Dr Umar full interview?

@a.d.jackson6229 4 месяца назад

Mel complaining about the “he said gentlemen” line is like after a while, she’s a complete turn off. When is her contract up?

@PreciousSullivan 4 месяца назад

Flip “go out there and cheat” 😂

@enloeeagle7258 3 месяца назад

I feel like this was a really mature conversation!

@RichnRare 4 месяца назад

Man these women don’t wanna hear none of that.

@downbad2874 4 месяца назад

5:10 ish is really and has dealt with some good women you can tell while the other one has dealt with some crazy mtfs 😂

@davidclaros1763 4 месяца назад

Isn’t that what normal people want tho, like when the other partner realizes that the relationship isn’t working , and it’s time to move on cordially and go on your separate ways. Like that’s just saving time from living a facade when you realize the other partner isn’t feeling you

@BootCampBrandon 4 месяца назад

The biggest reason it's hard to separate for most men is that the financial fallout is always outrageous when marriage and children are involved. If you're single and don't have either of those 2 issues. GTFOH and live your life.

@Sparrow69963 4 месяца назад

Men has always did things to make her break up with us when we want to leave to avoid the chaos

@autisticari1925 4 месяца назад

Joe is hilarious with Mel

@deshayq 4 месяца назад

I don’t think Melissa realizes that a man not giving a fuck and I woman not giving a fuck ARE NOT THE SAME. Woman are more emotionally involved and a lot of the times we be going back especially if they do the “right” thing. It’s easier said than done.

@KB-Unc 3 месяца назад

They need to leave relationship advice alone

@tonyshlean 4 месяца назад

I wouldn’t say ppl are scared of the response you just can see certain things coming

@chrisaay5547 4 месяца назад

Men don't know how to deal with all the emotionality that comes with breaking someone's heart - I don't think it's maturity, it really is hard. There are things women will do in the moment that would only make a man look stupid (and probably give the woman more energy to leave him) if he did the same. As a man doing the breaking up, you have to be sympathetic, respectful and FIRM.

@allenkoe1 4 месяца назад

Just say I don’t wanna be with u it’s hard but it’s the best thing

@bluelighting6427 4 месяца назад

I can leave whatever I wanna leave da f*ck💯💪🏾

@MrJblazini 3 месяца назад

I can only tell you my truth. I can't control how you react to my truth.

@chosen1brand635 3 месяца назад

My ex never let me leave… she eventually had to fall out of love With me and than we was done… mind you I tried to break up with her and she went crazy flipped out followed me out in the street crying causing a scene and shit

@warmbrownie 4 месяца назад

Ice got it 🎯🎯🎯

@bembem56 3 месяца назад

6:11 yes. In less words.

@ResonatedLife 4 месяца назад

⏳1:20⌛...😁...😂🤣😭😭🤣

@strongman410 4 месяца назад

This is my advice to anybody if a person gets to the point where they tell you they want to break up let them go even if it's a marriage you might still want to be with them but if they want to be with you they'll come back if that option is still on the table but if a person gets to that point there's no point trying to change their mind because anything after will be fake anyway I'm a strong believer of free will if you want to you will if you don't you won't forget talking just off of basic is it yes or no

@ogriss412 4 месяца назад

I need them damn couches

@tevinmaccaden 3 месяца назад

They’ll tel you that you wasted their time when you break up with them as if feelings don’t change 🤣

@_Just_V_ 4 месяца назад

I can’t imagine relationship hopping in your 30’s… 😂

@lorenzohaynes3886 4 месяца назад

It doesn't stop happening until you find the one for you that also believes you're the one for them.

@_Just_V_ 4 месяца назад

@@lorenzohaynes3886 yeah, that’s why I can’t imagine it lol.

@o.j.brathwaite7134 4 месяца назад

@@_Just_V_ So did you settle or did your partner, if you cannot imagine finding someone that ALSO thinks you're special.

@_Just_V_ 4 месяца назад

@@o.j.brathwaite7134 neither lol.

@downbad2874 4 месяца назад

Men are allowed they leave all the time they even find someone before doing it idk why these are conversations as if these things aren't happening

@reneesantiago6496 4 месяца назад

Anybody know what AUE means on Ice sweatshirt??

@561BEMFILMZ 4 месяца назад

It’s Ave.

@bruceaung33 4 месяца назад

Hey, Joe, someone has invited me for an appearance on your Podcast. I'm sure they're trying to be you. lol

@rey82rey82 4 месяца назад

If she’s down you can ghost and come back at a time of your choosing

@kenlivetv 4 месяца назад

‘plays GodKingKen’s “Leave”’

@user-pu7cy2nl4j 4 месяца назад

I'm usually the one who leave the relationship. The easiest thing for me to do lol

@lovelegacy500 4 месяца назад

If a Man won't leave a woman alone He is Violating her but the other way around gets completely ignored .... They will fight you , Conjur Stories , Damage Property and Call the Police on you. It's really Sad!

@iseaflames 3 месяца назад

6:40 on this topic alot of men especially younger men aren't ready for the level of irrationality that is going to come from the woman you're breaking up with. There isn't any line of reasoning behind the words they are going to string together and the stuff they are willing to do.

@OILDHANS8841 3 месяца назад

I have realized relationships are never over until the lady wants out. Gotta say your peace , say why & move on, don't communicate .

@kevinrichardson3425 3 месяца назад

Actually a stepper is literally TTG. They with the shits

@itsromeworldd 4 месяца назад

Crazy part is it’s right If you just wanna leave shorty going cry and plead get caught cheating shorty still a stay but hold the cheating over ya head LOSE LOSE SITUATION 😂😂

@mscstapleton 4 месяца назад

Idk either Mel 🤦🏾‍♀🤣 Men and women alike don't like for a relationship to end if they don't want it to end. Try leaving a man and it not be for another man - they can't take it! Unstable ppl will always try to make you the bad guy... leave them where they at!

@chrishoyte178 4 месяца назад

It’s even worse when you want to leave her and she has nowhere else to live 🤦🏽‍♂️

@Cabrazzi 4 месяца назад

Melissa must’ve just got dumped

@joshuaroach4045 4 месяца назад

Mel so fake and they simps frfr

@TheCriticalPath06 3 месяца назад

I feel like Mel just start saying the n- word. She need to stop

@StayTreacherousWWE 3 месяца назад

Had to neglect her so she could cheat, so I could leave without being painted as a bad guy. But that’s when I cared what ppl thought.

@antoniogreen3501 3 месяца назад

Its almost impossible if you allowed her to live with you. I've told my ex I wanted to part ways. That I would do whats needed to set her up somewhere else. She wouldn't go..

@holybrail9191 3 месяца назад

a man can’t break up with a woman without him being called weak

@wesb287 3 месяца назад

5:59 Mel asked this as if we didn’t just watch JM have his life ruined

@Ceddyuncensored 4 месяца назад

My capricorn brotha ish sound like me on a break up lmao I said the exact same thing but we live together so she won't let me leave her

@BluEx22329 4 месяца назад

Hip hpp podcasts talking relationships

@d.f.thedefinitionthefyoudo992 4 месяца назад

I remember a girl let me stay close just for me to feel her rejection. 😂

@semajtaylor5014 3 месяца назад

Who tf would take relationship advice from flip? 🤣

@Cvtboy 4 месяца назад

1st here. Love getting the notifications.

@Addictiveme333 4 месяца назад

Just tell the fucking truth thats all we want. We dont give a fuck about the rest

@donnell485 4 месяца назад

I left my marriage. Best thing I did for myself. But, the woman is still bitter.

@GiantBrooklynBuffalo 3 месяца назад

Fellas..This goes to show you stay on point at all times..This Goofy said a she fell out of love😂...translation I meet someone with more😂...She a 🐦‍⬛😂.. LOL!!

@my-merethoughts5742 3 месяца назад

Pandering Flip is the last guy I would ask for advice about relationships.

@jasonoliver7029 3 месяца назад

Mel is missing the entire point. The man is saying he simply doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore. He doesn't want to hurt the woman, he doesn't want no bs. He just wants to go their separate ways. Why would he relish in the woman's reaction? That's a woman thing for sure