ARE MEN THE PRIZE? ONLY MEN WITH MONEY ARE THE PRIZE! MY REACTION + SO MUCH MORE

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@Ashley-il9wk 4 года назад

That’s why men think we should be “lucky” that they’re faithful. Like bro this is a natural requirement not a task lmao

@RealTalkWithYanie 4 года назад

SAY IT AGAIN!!! That’s why we have men walking around thinking they’re the prize for doing the RIGHT thing! 😭

@morgz_tv 4 года назад

YES

@dijauneaiymuan9834 4 года назад

Okaaaay!

@deej5608 4 года назад

GOSPEL!!!!!!!

@marilynking527 4 года назад

Facts!!

@a.d.baebee 4 года назад

Saddest part is, 10x out of 10, there’s unhealed women and young girls that don’t even understand love yet watching their video going “🗣PERIOD!!!!” to everything they’re saying. 🤦🏽‍♀️

@VintageAfro91 4 года назад

Agreed. These women ignored red flags in the beginning. The guys were using them.

@mrsevelync6900 3 года назад

Don't forget the T on the end chile 🤣

@sageromul2046 3 года назад

Riggtttttttt!!!!!

@LoveAndSnapple 3 года назад

Lmao, the way you put it in quotes with the shouting head. 🤣

@09kenedy 4 года назад

My husband stopped drinking in solidarity with me while I was pregnant.

@MsNatna 4 года назад

I love this😍

@MsElizaRae 3 года назад

That's so sweet

@TheTrulynice1412 3 года назад

So you had your baby, and now he's a drunk again 🤨???

@09kenedy 3 года назад

@@TheTrulynice1412 yes

@TheTrulynice1412 3 года назад

@@09kenedy well damn, sorry to hear that then

@lovesmilespassion2524 4 года назад

These are literally women who were hurt by dusties and now transfer all the characteristics of those dusties onto all men. They need to heal. Also I agree stop saying “All men cheat!” That’s not true. The men they’ve dealt with have cheated on them and it’s unfortunate. Their experiences are unfortunate and I’m sure painful, but heal from that before you try to offer relationship and dating advice to other women.

@lisanichole1 4 года назад

Saying “All men cheat” and “All men are dogs” seriously needs to stop 🛑 especially if you are a woman who is over the age of 25.

@velvetstorm4563 4 года назад

Hmm a lot of men do cheat though. I say if given the opportunity, 65% of them will cheat.

@Bthe1only 4 года назад

I was just gonna say. I can't blame certain women for feeling this way because I've seen the absolute worst of men, with absolutely nothing not because it's not happening but simply because they don't want it to happen by choosing to be loosers. They choose to be worthless but are still mean to the women they leach off of. So instead of going through heartache with a loser and gaining nothing, atleast with a rich man you gain something descent. But this is a toxic mindset also so yes they need alot of healing

@thankyounext365 3 года назад

Yeah these girls are dusties. They keep talking about men with money. Girl no man with money would seriously date you with this mentality

@petrusedwardjr.2598 3 года назад

Before when women would say "all men cheat" "niggas aint shit' or "men are dogs" it would make me mad at first but now its like, yes let me prove u right bbg

@sixteen.candles.4644 4 года назад

Men aren't the prize but a good faithful man thats a provider is a blessing.

@eyecandymetirua5238 3 года назад

@Black Is Powerful & Forever This might be out of pocket but I'm suprised that you think of your mom in that way..(she is a woman I presume)

@eyecandymetirua5238 3 года назад

@Clinton Thurman This may be out of pocket but it's a shame how you view your mom in that light, as she is a woman I believe and here you are basically saying she she looks like a man.

@jeffskipp3 3 года назад

🧢

@blckstrdust2703 3 года назад

That’s correct. He’s a catch. Not a prize.

@kamikaze8s 3 года назад

@Elegant Lady Men are actually the prize because in the end of the day who are you waiting on to give you the ring? Who do you want to provide and pay the bills. Men.Ugh.. It's actually sickening.

@biancapetty9624 4 года назад

Yanie with the looks!

@ssddurdan1621 4 года назад

That's her shtick and I love it!

@britd.1152 4 года назад

Yesssssss

@simplys1537 4 года назад

Ikr ? She's just everything!

@lovebugxox1493 4 года назад

IKR!! Serving looks lol 🥰😍

@bedine.j 4 года назад

You look stunning ma ❤️

@daylamore3300 4 года назад

I went from struggle love with a dusty, to a man that caters to my needs, cooks, cleans and PAYS ALL THE BILLS💅🏾 We as a society should glorify being single for a while, after being in relationships. I took over a year break from dating and men to just heal myself and I attracted the man I needed, when I was ready. Lol There is NOTHING wrong with taking time to yourself to relearn who you are as a person, so you wont just accept any damn cheap treatment.

@StopPlayingAtLife 4 года назад

Me too! But I also was in counseling for 3 years and had to literally relearn how to pick and choose a man. I had horrible examples and the wrong attitude and mindset before finding my husband.

@ItsYuliLikes23 4 года назад

U give me hope

@PrincessYonna1 4 года назад

See now your the prize 💜❣️

@PrincessYonna1 4 года назад

@@madant22 So men who offer struggle love don’t cheat? Y’all men need to stop trying to hold bw back from being with a provider and a man that’s gonna treat them right . A man will cheat regardless that don’t mean settle for less

@theblackbutterflyconnect4505 4 года назад

Why he need a cheating pass? Why it can’t be he a faithful man!!! Not all men cheat!!! There are good ones out there!!! I’m with one! And he’s my ride or die like I’m his!!!! Period!!!! 💅🏾 I prayed about mine because I watched what my mother went threw!!! You are what you eat!!!!! 🚮

@teyeranicole5369 4 года назад

This is my opinion. US women are the PRIZE! Men are natural born “hunters”. I’m sorry. I am not chasing no man. Also, I have my own money so I don’t NEED my mans money😌

@melissalitus8879 4 года назад

Thank you. Not chasing no man, only thing I'm chasing is my goals and money 💯

@rashadbatie3168 3 года назад

I always tell my female friends this. Like women are the prize I am the prize. It takes me to carry on his name. It takes me to make a house a home. It takes me to bring warmth, comfort, peace to his soul. As a women and as women we are the prize so when a man acts like that I realize he is in a delusion and I don’t date mental patients.

@jenmar9428 4 года назад

Stop saying that all men cheat. There are faithful men and there are unfaithful men. My hubz is a sweetheart. Toxic men call him a "simp" because he is respectful and respect our marriage. Look at Ciara's husband. He is so amazing to her.

@leyland2725 4 года назад

Russell is a simp

@ebonih7138 4 года назад

Simps are the only men worth entertaining for me. An emotionally unavailable man can stay right in the cracks of hell where he resides. If you not handling me at my value, BYE.

@leyland2725 4 года назад

@@ebonih7138 simps get it after the jerks are done. Thing is women want simps after they're done playing with useless men. That's why we mock simps so hard. So they learn to value their money and give it to worthy women.

@ebonih7138 4 года назад

@@leyland2725 uhh first of all, it’s weird that some men care about how another man’s love life that much. Anyways, how is Ciara not a worthy woman? What’s your standard?

@leyland2725 4 года назад

@@ebonih7138 it's not weird of a man to care about another man's lovelife. Don't be absurd. Simps are simps because they use their resources on secondhand damaged goods. It would have made sense for him to get a childless fresh young woman. But with these simps it's always the 30something single mothers for them. That's where the disgust with them comes in.

@shayhearts961 4 года назад

“All men cheat!?”, I can’t! My mom always told me that a man is gonna do whatever you allow him to do to you! Put your foot down and tell them, “If you cheat, peace I’m out this BIH!!!” A real man would understand and a Dusty won’t! And just because a man got money don’t mean they ain’t a dusty☕️ Edit: 121 likes!!! 😘❤️

@BlkMedusa 4 года назад

Everything in a nutshell. Period.

@laclintonjackson6419 4 года назад

but if he got money what's the incentive to not be a dusty make it make sense

@PrincessYonna1 4 года назад

Example , Dusty with money: Offset has money but cheats and is a dusty . Real man with money: Russell has money but is faithful and treats his wife right and is respectful. At the end of the day just make sure the men is not a dusty and has provider money

@missme9650 4 года назад

@@laclintonjackson6419 The rapper Future has money and i consider him a dusty

@shayhearts961 4 года назад

@@PrincessYonna1 👏👏👏👏 Yes Queen Yonna

@Rebecca23434 4 года назад

"A man can get hurt in kindergarten and meet you at 30 and still be hurt." I died!! Ain't that the truth. Get over it already!

@villainouspixie2923 4 года назад

I agree. Stop normalizing saying "men cheat" also I agree with you saying about attracting that type of man. I say my affirmations daily & attract the kind of life I want & the man I want to be my husband. This is OUR LIFE! you create in it what YOU want. 💚😌

@RealTalkWithYanie 4 года назад

The power of femininity darling! I love it 😭👏🏽

@cindyd4695 3 года назад

The nails and outfits are distracting

@BlkMedusa 4 года назад

They are definitely dating hood dudes. Ik because I resonated w a lot of the points they are making but only because i was dating hood dudes too. Now that I’m dating better quality men I no longer think these things. It’s the type of men you date.

@DukeSaragono 3 года назад

I agree but because thier hood chicks, they gonna get exactly what they want lol

@xeniawilson7167 3 года назад

@@DukeSaragono why you in women’s business?

@nice1cool 3 года назад

Same

@Shaeism7 3 года назад

I was also like 'why am I lowkey agreeing with them sometimes'. Never dating a hood dude again. Real men cherish their women and seek deeper connections outside of sex and financials.

@taybee4653 4 года назад

I feel like this stems from some kind of hurt and unsolved pain.

@mi3helle707 4 года назад

Hence why Yanie to heal before dati g 😅💀

@FatimaSacoh 3 года назад

I use to be one of those women that believed that all men cheated until I started changing the quality of men I dated. In high school and college I mainly dated jocks or street dudes so it made sense that those kind of guys cheated, but the minute my mindset started to grow, so did the kind of men I started to attract. I’m now engaged to a really good man, but that only happened because I took accountability and let the hurt go.

@simplymaraxo 4 года назад

Whoa..I’m only four minutes in and can already tell the majority of their logic around men stems from of a place of being hurt. Like you said Yannie, take a step back & heal or don’t date at all because this is not a good mentality to have.

@lavenderpurple6248 4 года назад

It's probably because they only date athletes and rappers

@ThePinkSage 4 года назад

Moral of the story: alter the people, places and things you bring into your personal world.

@henna1435 4 года назад

When you say all men cheat , and you get into a relationship he’ll think it’s okay to cheat . “ well she already knew I was going to cheat anyways🤷🏾‍♀️.”

@brilliancemusic6095 4 года назад

Im learning to just stop taking relationship advice from 95% of the people that offers it.

@Thatcaramelchic 4 года назад

Whew that quote about location is spot on. Women want high value men but looking in your local college bar 🥴

@TheeBratzDollxox 4 года назад

This is no shade but you know what? They sound like those older aunties that sit around at the family reunion dinner table thinking they’re “schooling the youngins” on what realities of life are, when they’re honestly just offering uneducated, unbalanced opinions based on personal experiences laced with bias, pessimism and unresolved trauma.

@Sachianna-pm1df 3 года назад

I just nod and smile. One ear and out the Other.

@morgz_tv 4 года назад

It’s so sad because they are beating men with a bat in this video. Not all men are cheaters PERIODT. Wow this is upsetting. It’s so much hurt with the lady in the white...I hope she heals and is able to give and accept love as she deserves.

@Yamalie 4 года назад

Why is this a topic of conversation in the first place in the black community this is a redundant question. We need to Stop putting this out in the universe I’m over this topic

@allieloulou85 4 года назад

💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@kiyaminxofficial 3 года назад

That part!

@normanistoenail2147 3 года назад

She right about men getting their heart broken in '89. That's why they're making those memes about girls who reject them when they were poor/nerdy and they "grow up" and make money and reject the girl 😭😭 I swear nick ghurs need to let go of that narrative, let go off the hurt

@tgirl8955 4 года назад

A man is never the prize.., he should be valued but you don’t “win” them over, like they do you . They should impress the women and win her (aka make her the prize) . This has been explained so many times! But I’m gonna listen real quick 😂 🍿

@KmZ-cd8vu 4 года назад

Didn’t Disney teach us with Jazmine that women shouldn’t be seen as prices to be won ?

@nixuniverse5240 4 года назад

@@KmZ-cd8vu Well, yeah but you’re missing the context Jasmine said that in. Jafar & Ali were treating winning over Jasmine like a literal contest; like a race of who can get her first, and she was the prize (which is this context is like a Trophy, a physical object). In this case, a prize means winning over a women the right way with charm and just being a genuine person overall, and earning her love. See the difference ?

@MarieLaureQuayson 4 года назад

To be fair you have to win each other over, you just do it in different ways. That’s all.

@tgirl8955 4 года назад

@@MarieLaureQuayson i don’t mean exclusively on his end but we all know things look different when the women pursue .. that’s all, I mean . Not literally one sided because nobody is going to keep trying to impress someone that never reciprocates but a woman can’t get away with the same persistence as a man can ...without being used badly pretty soon on

@tgirl8955 4 года назад

@@KmZ-cd8vu right ! Disney also thinks women”s waists are the same size as their necks lol.. Disney is the worst example to young girls to be honest. They are fun stories but that’s about the only place they have . I find tv shows five better lessons than movies (at least Disney )

@sudanwelch4496 4 года назад

Those nails were distracting as hell. All I'm hearing is "I'm damaged and attract damaged men"

@ommiohmy 4 года назад

Yes! Idk how ppl do anything with nails that damn long!🙄

@iswiftone814 3 года назад

Looks like every time they move their hands when they talk, I just hear a whooshing sound everytime😂😂😂😂😂

@nanadi2241 4 года назад

The man there talking about is the reason I'm 16 and single and not looking for any

@lululemongirl00987 3 года назад

@The admirable lorde ken ?

@shakanuhglorie8444 3 года назад

Girl live yo life these boys are not worth wasting the precious youth on

@meghannslays6101 3 года назад

@The admirable lorde ken are you hurt? Grammar lol

@meghannslays6101 3 года назад

@The admirable lorde ken actually lost 15 Ils in the last 3 months. Are you fit sir? The beard isn’t hiding that double chin since we throwing shots.

@Luvlola4927 4 года назад

They literally have me feeling secondhand embarrassment smh. It’s a shame how hurt transfers into so many areas in ones life. They both need help and healing. This hurts me knowing that women are out here thinking this way. Negative attracts negative.

@chronicles6065 4 года назад

I always believed that both men and women have value. A woman is a prize because you are pursuing and courting her whereas a man is considered a gift to a woman because he is supposed to come into her life and improve or elevate it. Even in terms of "all men cheat" not all men are this inconsiderate and we do have women that cheat just as much, but like I always say a woman has the power to control what she allows a man to do to her. If he cheat and you view that as an act of betrayal, leave him and make it clear that he crossed a line and you will not tolerate it. I think this same logic applies to the "Angry Black Woman Troupe" Just because a black woman can speak her mind or defend herself does not make her angry many of times their passion is conflated with anger and it's not the same learn the difference.

@qmulus1 4 года назад

"A woman is a prize because you are pursuing and courting her" Not anymore.

@kamikaze8s 3 года назад

Men are actually the prize because in the end of the day who are you waiting on to give you the ring? Who do you want to provide and pay the bills? Men.Ugh.. It's actually sickening.

@chanetiatemple2063 4 года назад

All men do not cheat and there are men out here who work to provide and accomplish their goals.. These ladies need to focus on their growth & heal. They have been bringing in the wrong men into their lives.

@a.s4587 4 года назад

They are still growing, BUT as a person who knows men in middle/upper middle/rich class of men that doesn't classify that he is a "good" man. Income only relates to stability. I've dated doctors who had the same mentality thinking their the "prize" it's the individual.

@elegantlady8312 4 года назад

This is literally only a topic in Blakistan, period. Other men are not trying to be the prize lol

@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 4 года назад

@snapple147 yea but only black men are publicly making their identity as a prize. not very masculine

@elegantlady8312 4 года назад

@snapple147 what she said 👆🏽because apparently you didn’t get the point I was making

@kamikaze8s 3 года назад

@@elegantlady8312 Men are actually the prize because in the end of the day who are you waiting on to give you the ring? Who do you want to provide and pay the bills. Men.Ugh.. It's actually sickening.

@elegantlady8312 3 года назад

@@kamikaze8s my husband says I’m the prize, fortunately for me I married outside of the black community. Also, it’s funny how BM quote bible versus when they want to “he who finds a wife, find a good thing” and then at other times go against their biblical beliefs. I’m not religious personally but it’s the double talk for me.

@BlkMedusa 4 года назад

Not all men cheat but don’t think you’re going to get a certain type of man think he won’t cheat. Ex. A man in church will cheat. A broke man will cheat just like a rich man will. It’s his character you should look at above all else then assess everything else. If he has good integrity, he has a good foundation.

@FeelingFitFabFun 4 года назад

I think they have terrible mindsets. I hope they open themselves up to love without the preconceived notions. Tip: never say what’s not out there or what doesn’t exist as if it’s fact. My partner literally contradicts everything they’re saying regarding well off men. When I met him, I was open to every good thing that God could have in store for me. Our words are powerful. Yanie you look very pretty.

@Eyana_visions 4 года назад

I watched this video and these women are toxic! The one in the white talked about stabbing her ex and helped him start an illegal business but overall I can’t take them seriously 🤷🏾‍♀️

@ommiohmy 4 года назад

Exactly! This was an unintelligent, biased, self serving mess of a conversation between the two. I was frowned up throughout the entire video!!

@sayjones9100 4 года назад

Thank you for speaking on the all men cheat statement. It also will set up women to expect men to cheat.

@saturnsorbit698 4 года назад

It’s very interesting seeing you opinion and these ladies opinions and the contrast between them. I watch these 2 ladies RU-vid videos and listen to their podcast and I find that their perspective comes from the view of being with men who provide for them materially and give them a good time. These men they mess with sometimes are men who might be married and want to be with them for the look and these women are with them for the life they can provide.

@saturnsorbit698 4 года назад

I think this is why they’re saying men are cheaters cause the men they associate with sometimes are men who will fly them out and pay for all the expenses, but have a wife at home. I can say from listening to them for a long time and personally interacting with them, lex (the one with longer hair) specifically that when she was younger like she described, she wasn’t putting herself in the right position but she grew and now is a woman who surrounds herself with good men who will provide for her

@shay-ne4kb 4 года назад

What is their YT channel?

@WinyMary 4 года назад

@@shay-ne4kb Diamond & Gotti show

@Patsdawter 4 года назад

@@shay-ne4kb pour minds podcast

@bryia.mitchell8231 3 года назад

I don’t think men are prizes but you can acknowledge when you have a good man and appreciate him.

@ebonih7138 4 года назад

I’m only 19 but a respectful and valued man is where I invest. I genuinely love men with class and sense. You liking me ain’t enough. I want your respect before your love because a lot of young women are in a relationship with a man who loves them but doesn’t not respect them at all. Love isn’t enough for me, respect me! Even when you no longer love me. “What’s love got to do with it?” is true indeed. I don’t wanna be a fool in love down the road.

@ssddurdan1621 4 года назад

Sounds like the toxic relationship these women are in is money! I haven't heard four sentences without the word money in it. So if someone put in front of you the option 2 pick up $100,000 or a faithful partner what would you choose?

@victoriaajoy 4 года назад

I love the way Yanie carrys herself ! You really have such great perspective

@CreolePearls_ 4 года назад

This is why young girls need their fathers in their lives to show and teach them how to be treated as a lady by a man who love you. But many black women were raised without fathers.

@ZawadiBirya 4 года назад

This outfit is everything. Yanie you look gorgeous.

@solemartyr 4 года назад

Idk, in my opinion this whole “prize” notion is just bs. Men and women should definitely be valued in their respective relationships. I just think once you start talking as if one side is better or isn’t as important, it causes more division.

@CrazyLadybug 3 года назад

I thought that prizes were put on objects not people if you know what i mean. I feel like when you get into a relationship it’s an agreement/commitment to one another not a prize you won.

@LukaDonesnitch 3 года назад

@@CrazyLadybug These things (can't call them humans, just want control) That's why they keep calling themselves prizes. Red flag. Anyone who calls themselves Queen, Prize, Diva in my opinion is a narcissist. If you date or marry a narcissist you deserve every bit of soul draining energy you get.

@LukaDonesnitch 3 года назад

@Morgan Taylor this isn’t about equality, these people throw around buzzwords, I pay attention to your actions, so if your actions is telling me you don’t care what your potential partner wants and everything is about what you want. And you aren’t willing to put forth any effort into growing and change as a person and instead are told you’re fine where you are and that men should just except you the way you are and you’re the prize, then you’re self centered and only care about yourself. That’s not self love that is toxic narcissism.

@PrincessYonna1 4 года назад

Women are the prize the men isn’t the prize . U need run away quickly if the men thinks he’s the prize

@WilliamsPinch 4 года назад

Neither women represent anyone I want to be like to any degree... there is a self love journey these women need to embark on and quick and FAST.

@thenicolechi5821 4 года назад

Being a misandrist gets you nowhere lol

@chassideeskyler3433 4 года назад

Yes thank you I hate when women say all men cheat 🙄

@chassideeskyler3433 4 года назад

@@Flowergoatflower exactly

@jazminetraill730 4 года назад

Girl can you do video on your makeup routine because babyyyyyy 😍😍😍face be beattt

@RealTalkWithYanie 4 года назад

Thank you 😭

@CiaobellaAmour 4 года назад

They sound exactly like K Michelle when she did that interview last year with this Atl station 🤦🏽‍♀

@allieloulou85 4 года назад

I was thinking of KMichelle too...lol

@whitley17 4 года назад

Baby giiiiirrrllll, the looks you’ve been serving lately been really breaking my neck 😫🔥❤️🙌🏾

@CrownedxKay 4 года назад

It's the the TOXICITY fah meee❗🙆🏾‍♀️😫🤮

@StopPlayingAtLife 4 года назад

All men don’t cheat. Just like all women don’t cheat. At that point, I would have just clicked off the video but because Yanie is doing a reaction to this, I guess I can keep watching.

@adelaidet4218 4 года назад

These two women exude masculine energy with a whole lot of pain and distrust. The girl in the white tank top talking about giving her man basically her all, money, businesses, love, etc. I feel like had she focused on building herself first she wouldn’t be as bitter but I still agree with some of the points they each made but overall they need to do the work and heal forreal. Another thing I’d like to add specifically in the black community, there are good men out there. I’ve definitely dated trash ass guys but I’ve also dated guys who were “good”but just extremely immature.

@Rage_RT345 4 года назад

We as men are a catch not the prize

@acesthearts7994 3 года назад

Most of the time that is the case but a man who is considered a prize is super rare.... if you know you know

@sherrybeckley4740 4 года назад

They never had black fathers in their homes. That’s why we need more black married Households

@coolrunnings1936 3 года назад

true but these females are past there use by date! i dont think anyone in there right mind should even consider marrying them... they are at home dressing sexy for what? each other or the same cheating man? or the 1% they claim dont cheat...! im confused here?

@BasicLi 4 года назад

These gurls just seem immature. Their making blanket statements based on their personal own experiences and it seems like they didn't learn anything from those encounters.

@vanessabell7154 2 года назад

So glad to hear women perspectives in the comments section it is so refreshing. I have learned a lot on what to expect, aspect, and rejected the man behavior. I went on one channel in the comments section all men of different back ground was expressing there hate towards women it's really sad. These men who says things like this have been compromised trust me. Blessing 🙏🏾

@chocolatechai8975 4 года назад

They sound hurt hurt.😩 There are good men who don’t cheat and are providing for their family. Absolutely agree that they need to put themselves in quality environments. Can’t expect to find a good man in questionable spaces.

@chabbie 4 года назад

Just look at the difference between these girls and Yanie---demeanor, class, appearance, mannerisms, how they express their opinion...... enough said✨🌟✨ not to pit women against each other, but you get treated depending on how you present yourself

@BINFP 4 года назад

My past relationships didn't form my opinion that most men cheat. It came from my up bringing. All of the men on my mother's father side were cheaters and almost all of them left their first wife for their side chick. One uncle told me that I need to understand that all men cheat and women just have to learn how to deal with it.

@NekeishaWise 4 года назад

I have never been cheated on tho! So not all men cheat. If they did cheat they hid it really, really, really well 🤷‍♀️

@jvstkiki 4 года назад

It’s the taking a step back from relationships to heal for me. 😌 Great content as always, I would love to hear this in a podcast.

@Sachianna-pm1df 3 года назад

There was another red pill you tuber who covered this video. They used this to showcase women that a “high value man” shouldn’t date, not realizing that these are the type of women that femininity channels say we shouldn’t be.

@Kira8314Lyfe 4 года назад

Babyyyyy! It’s the hair n makeup for me. Drop a get ready with me please, thnks in advance😘

@Metaphysicalmindspace777 3 года назад

Yesssssss. Hood ninja are playing Jedi mind tricks on them like crazy. Their energy is attracting riff raff!!

@AutumnApril92 3 года назад

My man is financially stable and only getting richer and one of his biggest motivation to get richer is to provide for me and the family we want to build and of course materialistic reasons as well. I wouldn’t say he wants more money I order to have more options as these girls state.

@daryankirkendoll 4 года назад

Imo, someone becoming a "prize" is something from the middle ages where men would hunt and joust to win favor with the princess of some kingdom in hopes of power or wealth or whatever. So men being a prize can have a negative connotation because they aren't man enough to chase after the woman they want. But some women do become desperate enough to sometimes "chase" or gain favor with a man. I think what men really mean is that a ring is a prize for the woman and only a man can offer that to a woman. From my perspective on women, most will always want a ring/commitment. They desire the intimacy, and partnership, attention, affection, etc and men definitely have our vulnerabilities too but we moreso desire to conquer and obtain things. But society has been going back and forth on male and female interaction. Saying they don't need each other, one is beneath the other. Just seems like a senseless circle until someone finds a relationship they can put their all into.

@angelofscorpio 4 года назад

Love this comment!

@jewelthomas9197 3 года назад

@2:35 I’m glad you spoke about us women normalizing cheating. I’m big on energy! Our thoughts & beliefs manifest within our life. You gotta have a balanced belief system when it comes to relationships. Saying ALL men cheat vs SOME men cheat are two different things. The subconscious mind is SPECIFIC!

@shalondad.3235 4 года назад

Whew Chi ... the dustacity. But continue edit: they made a FEW valid points. Emphasis on FEW 😂

@nikkiamakeup3442 4 года назад

PLEASE CAN WE GET A GRWM!!!! You be lookin so FLAWLESS 😜😍🔥🔥🔥🔥

@MargaritaNji 4 года назад

These type of women should start holding themselves accountable and ask themselves why they’re comfortable stating these generalizations. Stop playing victim and choose men with good character. I’m a firm believer that you attract what you are. Also, leading with your money is quite masculine.

@gorgeouslymade1754 4 года назад

I need a makeup tutorial 😍😍😍 beautiful!!!

@browndiamond457 4 года назад

If they do happen to switch to better environments the mindset has to switch to. Otherwise they're gonna attract duties with money 😒🤢🤢

@RealTalkWithYanie 4 года назад

FACTS!!! Their levels but we can start with environments 😭

@hannahsims5711 4 года назад

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord Proverbs 18:22

@benisturning30 3 года назад

“ I made this man two businesses. They not legal but they still businesses.” 😂

@patkimpell549 3 года назад

Ladies keep in mind that a lot of men can tell what types of men you deal or settle with by how you carry yourself it’s all in your energy a lot of good men won’t even spare you bc you been around the wrong type of men and you’ve picked up characteristics and personality traits from him which is a big red flag

@too2sexy 4 года назад

Honestly I've dated men I've met in college, clubs, grocery stores, cancer awareness walks, work, honey even online. Men older, younger and my same age.... one thing I learned is it doesn't matter where u meet them in the physical but where u meet them during their internal journey and what they are ready for in that time of their life. Most relationships is all just timing.

@JHjh88 3 года назад

Off topic, but you look so beautiful Yanie. I love your top. & Yes saying 'All men cheat' is absolutely normalising it ! 🙄🤨

@LeBronsUnicorn 4 года назад

Yanie you look gorgeous, never noticed how much you look like Jurnee Smollett. Both of them have some valid points, but then they'll say something to mess it up with nonsense lol I'm 30 now and if I had known what I do now, things would be so different. I would've put myself in better places to meet guys. When I was younger no one had the talk with me on what kinda men to look for. I just knew to not choose anyone like my dad smh

@7EmpathicBeauty 4 года назад

Heck no! I'M THE PRIZE! I Truly believe that so, one mess up, I'm done and actually leave. Have fun and hope u feel worthy with your 100 pennies lol.

@AaliyahCache 4 года назад

Yanie facial expressions gets me everytime 😂😂

@Self-helper415 3 года назад

You look beautiful Yani 🌸. I love that blouse too. My overall opinion of this video with these two ladies are HUSH UNTIL YOU HEAL.

@NurturingNatasha 4 года назад

Yeah at this point I’m only meeting men at museums, galas, and high quality places cause the difference is clear as day

@whitley17 4 года назад

Oh my gooosh but at the start of their video I was getting allllllll of the big ratchet energy 😩😩😩 As another favorite youtuber I watch would say hypergamous women (who aren’t still healing or broken) will always view men as more of a positive than a negative...ie men are providers, protectors, and have a lot to offer. And like you said Yanie we set the standard for what is and what is not acceptable. If you make cheating a deal breaker than you won’t have to settle for less.

@anissa2361 4 года назад

She said, "They so raggedy!" 😂

@smonroe78 3 года назад

Wow !!!! I don’t agree with their views period !!! You can’t box ppl up like that !!! There’s a lot of good men/women out here !!! It’s all in what you surround yourself with!!! I agree with you wholeheartedly!!! I can’t even finish... this is crazy

@GodivaNikki30 4 года назад

If you only speak about the negative..your always going to have a negative mindset. How can you be happy or bring happiness...when your still hurt and angry about a pass experience/relationship? We suppose to learn and grow from our mistakes..not speak negative and keep that negativity in our hearts. Move differently, know your wealth, and be secure about the woman you are.

@briannahenry6420 4 года назад

You look so good yanie 😊 . This is one of my favorite channels !!!

@soniablount2135 4 года назад

Well since I’m here early I would love to say I have reached the part on Girlfriends in your intro and I recited it with all the energy that Tony had. I learned it from watching you I feel accomplished 😊 Also these women are broken and need to talk to someone to help them unpack this pain instead of man bashing with each other. It’s painful to watch and a lot more women these days are taking on this mindset.

@skyw.8767 4 года назад

I need to know what product you use for your eyebrows. I love the way you do your eyebrows

@AikiraBeats 3 года назад

This is why I stopped dating for four years cause I needed to heal from the relationships that I've had I'm bisexual so women have their issues as well but getting to learn more about myself and being comfortable with being alone

@apriltaylor4568 4 года назад

Your hair is BOMB! 🔥

@kittothekat427 4 года назад

That just goes to say that they just made bad choices about the men who they let into their lives. And I plan to start attending events once I'm 21.

@prettylifeprettywife7171 4 года назад

Yanie you look so good. 💜💜💜💜💜💜Ladies am I the only one who felt like I was in the twilight zone Listening to these 2 complain about things they can control. You can control what type of men surround you you can control how people approach/treat you. Simply remove yourself from those low vibration type places. Yanie told you where to go.

@olaakande5581 4 года назад

A black man in America is either incarcerated by 16, gay, or dating outside his race exclusively. A man regardless of race with money (6 figure earner) is only as loyal as his options. If you’re a black women looking to be with a black man that earns a certain amount of money than the pickings are Very slim.

@mellanee6401 3 года назад

“I’m getting hood nigga vibes”😭😭😭

@GreenUptowner 3 года назад

But are black men really making more money!?! I hear stories that women share, where they gave them money, cars, clothes and sleeping on their couches. Black women are the number one demographic that are getting college degrees. Black women need to branch out and change their surroundings.

@quinnc.6227 3 года назад

Only sleep with a woman like that AND not drink liquor for 9 months??! Nope. I'll admit... can't do it. 😂 Thanks for the comedy.

@thenewdrugno3660 3 года назад

Good women and men are both THE prize. The relationship that can be formed between a good woman and man is the greater prize. 1) These two ladies don’t know what a “good” man is. 2) They don’t know where to find a good man 3) They don’t know how to attract and keep a good man. I’m sorry but these sistas sound like they only date, brave, bold, attractive, dope boys that got money and baby mommas. I hope they find what they’re looking for.