They’ll try and be like not delusional - optimistic Not ungrateful - wanting more Not denial - positive thoughts Not entitled - deserving Not selfish - queens Lol like the chick at 1:45:00 tryna make Kevin soften it up
Kevin, I was a 200 pound, 24 year old STEM major thinking that I could easily find a man and get married when I’m done. I was beginning to believe all the shit the women around me would say “Focus on school now! Find a husband later when you’re ready!” And “What counts is what’s in the inside and not the outside!” But when I started watching your show I realized that NO, my options of available single men get slimmer as I age. It is possible to find a husband and be in school. Also, NO, it is not ok to be 200 at 24. I realized this when I started watching your show. I’ve lost 30 pounds since and losing more. So please ignore the comments of angry women who want shit sugar coated to them. Don’t do it. Keep doing what you are doing. You changed my life. You are doing amazing work ! Edit: Did not expect this comment to be seen I thought it would disappear lmao Thank you all for the kind words !❤️
Yes!!! Keep at it! Years ago I knew it wasn’t okay that I was overweight, and was annoyed when others would tell me those “good lies” too. Kevin explained it so perfectly for those of us who grew up with families that had poor health habits and pushed us to be men that no: young childless women have no reason to be unfit! 🔥 Eric Berg, Cole Robinson, Jason Fung, and Thomas Delauer have helped me improve my overall health which of course included fat loss. I recommend them if you haven’t checked them out already! Much love! 🤗💕
He’s not lying about black men dying of thirst for positivity and affirmations from people that they care about. My wife calls me her hero and her man of honor, if you think I would ever cheat on her you are sadly mistaken once a man finds that he is done.
As a average guy, I just made 88K for the 1st time last year. Couldn't be prouder of myself. I go on a date with a just over 100k woman, and her 6th question was how much I make. I told her. And she asked how could I expect to be with her? I told her I'm a man regardless, she laughed at me. I laughed and left
Do not tell a woman how much you make bruh. If she asks, that's an automatic red flag. One because that's a disrespectful question to ask on a first date and second because shes trying to see what she can get out of you. If you're seeing a woman on a consistent basis and the topic comes up down the road, simply state "I'm holding my own and doing well for myself."
Any woman who asks you how much you make should be automatically disqualified. I told my brother this and it’s saved him a lot of headaches and wasting time.. Keep doing you!!!!
Omg the married wife made me cry 😭 I feel the same way she does. This show is not just for single, modern women….it’s for us married women who needed this enlightenment about our men. Appreciate them and become the women that they will always need. All of what Kevin covers are super crucial for married women. Understand the value of what we have and DONT WALK AWAY OR SCREW IT UP! This is our assignment. This walk of being a wife is full of purpose. Thank you Kevin for all you do.
It’s a sad state as men knowing what you have to overcome, and now you add women increasingly saying “oh yeah, our mothers didn’t do it, now we need you to teach us how to be women again.” For many as he points out the juice isn’t worth the squeeze, as there’s plenty of cultures outside the west left still where females aren’t so “behind” in knowing where their bread is buttered and realize what men do. Average modern western woman is living on the backs of literally a dozen “average joes” at least to Feel like she’s above them all cause she got a useless Phd or tricked some sucker.
Sheanna Hunt appreciate you having that mentality. I'm sure your man does too. The ironic thing is if you do for your man he's going to want to do for you.
So true. Listening to Kevin has improved my marriage in so many ways. I was falling for the Instagram fake life, keeping up with the Jones's delusional trap. I had to realize all the things my husband does for me and how he always treats me like a lady. I appreciate him so much more now and like Kevin told the married lady, I tell him he's a good man. He blushes everytime I pay him a compliment. Those small details mean so much to men.
Your testimony is very inspiring and encouraging to me. It’s makes me know that there are so graceful, worthy, and appreciative women out looking and expecting black men to find them
@@Jojo-gq3nv I STAY telling my man how much he appreciates all the good things he does for me. And I apologize when I'm wrong. He does the same thing with me - the respect and love is mutual. But I KNOW he appreciates me verbally articulating the good I see in him - it encourages him to do even more. We work on creating a positive feedback loop.
I'm Italian, married with a traditional woman. My two sons are asking to learn cooking from my wife, because they have fear of losing the privilege of a good meal marring a modern woman, my oldest is 13yo 🤷🏻♂️Even young men know how much they will struggle with modern life
Uhm. Cooking is life skill. You should know how to cook if the women your are with knows how to cook lol. Is this even something not obvious? As a men and women you need to take care of yourself . Basic skills cooking and cleaning hahah
@@cloverleaf9532 I'm not talking about basic cooking, I'm talking about a traditional Italian meal. See, Scandinavian school introduces basic cook and cleaning skills to the population and they goes through life well, happily. The difference between Mediterranean and Scandinavian is priority and the quality of our expectations. Our food culture is a priority so in our family we expect someone cook in an excellent way and modern culture is not considering quality or excellence but IKEA forniture and frozen foods. This is the reason why high quality men in America does not fit with modern women, high quality men need a bottle of old good quality wine, not coke
@@quelodequelo You’re talking about Cooking from scratch like making your own pasta, etc. cooking bolognese for hours to get that beautiful flavour. My mum always said that Heating up hard pasta and flavourless sauce from a jar is not cooking! Once, women knew how to cook from scratch, grow vege, and keep a home, the skills and secret family recipes, as well as learning what a good husband expects and how to keep him happy, were passed on by the mum to daughter, just as the dad passed on certain skills to his sons. It’s all so sad how only a small portion of men and women are still learning these things.
I'm realizing that now. I had been off social media for years and I was fine being natural. I've been back on Instagram for about 8 months and it makes me feel like I'm lacking something cuz I see the lashes and body enhancements. Its just not good, it's giving me unrealistic expectations for myself. My son told me you don't need that stuff mommy. Out of the mouth of babes!
@@unveiledallure5511 That's awesome, people need to be happy in their own skin. Cosmetics & Cosmetic surgery is Billion dollar industry because of what you mentioned. Happy 4U
Kevin actually has a million or more followers, the one's that put him over the top are the excess HATERS that won't subscribe, but are ALWAYS listening in....😄
Yo when Kevin said black men want affirmation from the women they care about...I almost got choked up. That’s probably one of the realest things he’s said.
Yes.Caring goes both ways, both sexes. Every p e r s o n , needs support now and then, especially from the ones that they invite into their personal lives.
Intro: 0:00 Start of the Show: 29:51 The Godfather addresses trolls & a "Gay Boyfriend"? Jealous Content Creators 33:25 The Godfather's Monologue Fragrance and Candle of the Evening: 44:42 The Godfather breaks down the acronym DUDES 46:13 Money World: 1:03:33 First Caller: 1:08:18 20y/o woman on the topic Second Caller: 1:09:17 27y/o woman wants a hvm. Third Caller: 1:22:12 29y/o woman says she looks young for her age. Fourth Caller: 1:24:02 26y/o woman in a relationship for 9 years with constant break ups? Sixth Caller: 1:25:25 26y/o woman asks why The Godfather thinks modern women are masculine? Seventh Caller: 1:27:29 29y/o woman calls and misinterprets the topic. Ninth Caller: 1:30:24 29y/o woman says women are DUDES because they don't have the right mindset. Tenth Caller: 1:34:22 38y/o married woman, emotional, thanks the Godfather says she used to think she was better than her husband. Eleventh Caller: 1:42:00 caller asks if she's in the danger zone? Twelfth Caller: 1:45:38 25y/o woman Says The Godfather's words are a "little too strong." Thirteenth Caller: 1:52:46 39y/o woman says she is a self proclaimed "troll" Gets the Taps and Salute played. 1:57:47 Conversation continued with the fourth caller. Taps and Salute played. Fourteenth Caller: 2:03:15 39y/o woman, says she wants to be a breadwinner for her fiancé because she's a millionaire? End of the show: 2:16:46
I don't want to put anybody down, but, when I grew up, girls called me, and others, ugly and laughed at me if I tried to talk to them. It was soooo embarrassing to actually attempt to approach a girl, or woman, already seeing that she is preparing herself to shew you away. The same girls would laugh and talk negatively about an overweight person just knifing that person's fragile self-esteem with precise regularity. If you, or your family did not have money or social-standing, you were just about considered trash to a lot of so-called pretty or popular girls or women. Today, many women and girls transform in a few years to be almost exactly who they would laugh at and ridicule, but now they don't think it's funny since it is happening to them. There was a saying, "be careful who you put down because you WILL see them again on YOUR way to the bottom".
I’m sorry that you were treated that way. I mean it sincerely when I say that you did not deserve such low, shocking treatment and are not ugly by any standard. God bless you.
Females get all their powers in the beginning, when they have no clue how to use them. Then they waste it, and expect men to use their power later in life on them.
Vulnerability for both sexes is great. A man should be 20% feminine and 80% masculine. A woman should be 80% feminine and 20% masculine. Both sexes need to get their emotions back but hookup culture ruin it.
Affirmation. If you got a good/great man just tell him. We need that. We can be the strongest of men on the planet but hearing the woman we protect and provide for letting us know we are appreciated makes us go even harder
Honestly, I need to be better about this! I didn’t see it often enough with my parents (married 50 years) & I was thinking men saw it as being corny. I will get better with this!!!
@Arthur right? On remote control too. It's fascinating to watch the delusion. As a human being with logic, I am truly question the female's ability to reason at this point. Like something is deeply broken in them.
My wife tells me I'm a good man all the time. Being a man, I tend to try to act "hard" and I tell her "it's my job babe". After hearing the caller realizing that her husband is a great man even after she looked down at him, then not telling her husband he's great, I'm very thankful for my wife in her giving me "water". I just had to stop work and call her to tell her thank you in all she does to keep my spirit high and keep going in this harsh world. Damn this was mind blowing for me
Words of affirmation is what a woman needs to give to her man EVERYDAY! And he genuine about it. I love stroking my man’s ego. When he’s happy, I’m happy. It works both ways... not “happy wife, happy life.” Thats BS. Reciprocation is key.
I am extremely grateful and thankful to having been born in an earlier era. I love being a woman, mom and grandmother, and married to my beloved husband of 40 years. Trust me, it is a good and satisfying life.
Kevin’s conversation with the crying lady was everything!!!! 🙌🏾 it’s funny when I ask some of my friends have they watched him and they say the don’t like him. I ask them what he asks some women “have you watched one of his shows in full or just the clips”. I’m 31 and he’s changed my mindset on so much! Never wanted a high value man because it’s just never been my mindset. My parents have been married over 30 years and my brother married his high school sweetheart in which he’s currently 38. I didn’t want to get married until I started watching Kevin. All that to say....I realllllly enjoy his content and if some of the women listen with the ears and minds instead of with their emotion..they could learn a lot. 🙏🏾🙌🏾✨
Ive been with my wife for 9 yrs she is 31 and i am 41.... I just learned about you 4 months ago... I swear we have been together happily all this time because of the values you speak of.
Kevin, you helped me so much. I just started dating an actual man and he kept appreciating how much of a “woman” I am. So much so that we hung out three days this first week of knowing one another, he canceled all his other dates or hangouts. Wow. Kevin, you’re not teaching everything there is to being a woman, unless people book a session with you, but you’ve allowed me to stop trying to awkwardly fit into this new societal voice of anti-men; thank you very much for saving and guiding me.
I'm subscribed... And I still support you Sir. Unfortunately you are no longer here, but your message continues. Thank you for your experience, expertise, and grace. The money that I give is for your loved ones. Rest in Paradise....
She was so genuine in admitting that even tho she has a PHD and earned more than her man, thinking she was better than him for many years. When hard times hit her, He probably was the only one who had her back and comforted & consoled her. No job or career can comfort the lost of a child. God bless her for sharing that story with us all.
I work in a hospital around a lot of women. It’s not the married women that act like this, it’s the single moms between 20-60 years old that act like men.
You got to understand single mothers have to act masculine to provide a role model for their sons. It has to be done!!! However they get stuck there and that's the problem
Correction: Jesus would not APPEAR to be a high value man in a woman’s eyes today. Based on their perception of what a high value man is and what they want. And He still isn’t considered that to those who say they follow Him. IMO, warped perceptions is the problem with most people today. You are as others perceive you.
Jesus, Issa aleyhim salam, son of Mary the best woman was a carpenter in a desertic country so... he's was more than a high value man... he was the alpha & the omega... prophet and messiah in two religions... if women nowadays don't respect his path anymore, we men have to take him for example... may almighty God bless him and praise for his return! Ameen. Peace upon you all my brothers 🙏!
Kevin is right as always. Pay compliments to the men in your life. It means so much to them and it doesn't cost a thing. They like to be acknowledged for the good things they do too. My husband blushes when I tell him he's a good man. My brother teared up when I told him that I was proud of the man he's become. They need to hear that we appreciate and admire them just as much as we need to hear it.
Wow!! That’s real. I teared up just reading your comment. As men we battle out here in the world everyday for our families and we need that love oasis in our woman and our home. Thank you.
Haters: “KS be exploiting those women and making ‘em look like fools for capital gain.” Truth is, that lady Miesha is an example of how these women do a great job at making fools of themselves
“The women that hate me and dont like me are usually obese women who aren’t in shape , have a Ph.D and don’t have a man Happily married women In relationships have nothing against me” Priceless
She said she felt better than her man til she had to sit on the bench pregnant, and then in tears she recognized just how hard cuz was working🔥🔥 Women are not saving themselves. Good men are saving them by enduring and leading them through their shitty perception of life.
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you cant get better in your time, its a metaphysical thing but your so deep into your brainwashing that its just a wash cycle generataion, thecurrent rop of millenials have to go through chronologial time to know the real ''time'' they are in, no talking will help , the new norm for women starts in 2024 when the millenial's will all be post wall aka 30-40 and with no free perch for women and with the term ''left over women'' going global. the new norm is women are stuck in a hideous middle ground, more educated then their moms , of whom their own mom told them ''they will come into their own at the wall aka 28 and men will work harder for them'' and its not true its just a single mother tale to protect their kids from making mistakes outa ego to soon in life like the mom did. Today now we have gen z seeing this, they have to work just like mill's do , they have to school but they know theirs nothing waiting for them at 30 unlike gen millenial thought and they now have to humble up, mainly due to not seeing any free ride like the moms of millenials had of which their kid the millenials dont have, i mean every man wheter rich or poor wants a girl from 18-25 anyways so they now have the run of the place from men their own age to 45, young an virile guys to older rich guys who at 40 are looking 30. The men of today are skipping millenials but its no shock they are now all post wall aka 30-40, no loner can older sisters and moms groom their dauhters with 90s phantasies about indy women and how men will try more once they hit the wall, men have it easier today as now women must go dutch and even young girls know they will have to and if they dont have older sisters clinging onto to 90s and pre smart phone dating phantasies . men have taken the pill and now women around 2024 will be taking the pink pill, the new norm for post wall women= no perch. the new norm for pre wall women- no expectation of a soft landing or free lift off in life, this is progress.
Ladies : Can we possibly stop using the word “Young” & start using -> “Immature?” Say “I was (Immature) instead. Take REAL accountability while getting your thoughts across simultaneously.
And that excuse doesn't work anymore. There's 8 year olds out here that does more for the community than they ever will. 8 year olds with their own business selling cakes and stuff.
Did anyone catch that? Notice when Kevin asked the last caller if she can get a better man the first thing she started talking about is how much money her last dude made. Gotta read between the lines when it comes to women folks, always. ALWAYS.
YUP!, INDEED!, The facts don't lie, she immediately equated A GOOD MAN to the amount of MONEY he makes. I laughed when Kevin hung up and Said, don't drop all that dribble on me LOL
Great episode. Loved hearing that one caller express how she realized the value of her husband. Ideally that should be the attitude from the onset and throughout but I’m just glad she’s come to a place of INNATE appreciation. I hope she texted him some words of affirmation right after the call. I was inspired to text my husband and did. It’s so important we don’t take our spouses for granted.
KS Videos are the BEST! Everyday I delay eating, going to the bathroom, running errands, responding to texts, phone calls, and taking showers, and sleeping...so that I DO NOT miss a micro bit of information from this resourceful brother. May your show continue to thrive and your intellectual integrity move many stubborn and delusional Souls. Long live the KS SHOW !! 👏🙏
Kevin you are the new Oprah... This needs to be a daytime talk show. No more of those Harpo fairy tales. Please save us from this world of modern delusional women.
@@jonathancoleman9266 I think he means protected from censorship. A lot of people on the internet are very sensitive and will try to prevent this kind of rhetoric to be out there . Whether you agree with Kevin or not, he has a right to speak freely on these topics as he pleases . 😊
Day time television would want him to dumb it down to a sensitive audience he'll have to stick to RU-vid and so can be in control of his content that's the only way. 🤦🤦🤣
"Remember, they're not addressing it because they care. They're addressing it because it affects them." ~ Haresh Singh, last week on another comment thread. 💯🔥
Why do so many 35+ black females seem to simply stay in relationships for years talking about they want to be married? no you don't! Otherwise you would have left and moved on to someone serious. It's madness.
Yes I had to listen first before I formed a opinion because I knew it was something behind it. Of course no female wants to be called a dude. If you are sensitive at the ears like I was when I stated to watch Kevin videos you instantlyjump into defense mode.
@@BeEnOn only females who are masculine and fit the DUDE acronym get in their feelings about it. Plus females and women are entirely different things. I don’t. Because it will never apply to me. I was raised to be a wife and I am one.
Why should the women listen when the men don't listen back? You can clearly see this man constantly interrupting these girls before they can finish ONE sentence.
@sunnysunshine8897 he runs a show, and they refuse to answer BASIC questions, so he has to cut them off or we all waste our time listening to bs unrelated to the crux of the question
Thank you Kevin for your amazing videos! Married woman right here and we love watching them. You have given us so much advice that has helped our parenting, relationship, and marriage! Thank you!
From a man, hearing happily married women positively affirm what we men have been saying for generations, means a lot. We wish more women thought the way you do.
When said that she had thought about leaving her husband because she thought she could do better I laughed out loud. Her master's degree made her feel like she was better than he. Delusional! I guess she thinks that a stepdad will love her child more than his biological father.
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@@user-yw9oi2tu4p Would you be willing to have a advice session with my wife and I ? I would love too get some advice and guidance on some matters we can’t seem to resolve.
That spinny thing is what ropes you in and hypnotizes everyone... he is an illuminati overlord, half reptilian and half Grey. He's from the traditional past and sjw polluted future and has come to our time to teach men how to be.......... well.................. men... simply by showing them point blank what a modern woman is.. watch the drama unfold. Subscribe to the godfather
30-40 years ago a good man was a man with a job and a High School diploma. Women wanted to work with a man and build together. Modern woman don't understand that grandma got her home and everything in it one piece at a time and it took years not a snap of the finger. SMDH
If my ex-wife spoke with conviction, sincerity, and remorsefulness Mrs. A. exhibited in that short call, I would go home the minute she finished talking. Affirmation is incredibly important to BM. She got emotional right after thinking about her child. In that moment she realized how she almost destroyed her home and family. POWERFUL!!!!!!
51:30 women may be emotional by nature, but they aren’t idiots. We have to stop giving them the benefit of doubt calling it “denial”. They simply don’t care.
That should have been what the other D stands for, these females simply don’t care; they live in a society that caters to their needs, and absolve their guilt and shame, like a child that shits on itself they know men will clean up their mess
I think Coco may have been the only humble woman I've seen EVER on KS show! Thank you Ms Coco, I pray for our woman that were able to see your segment!
Intro: 0:00 Start of the Show: 29:51 The Godfather addresses trolls & a "Gay Boyfriend"? Jealous Content Creators 33:25 The Godfather's Monologue Fragrance and Candle of the Evening: 44:42 The Godfather breaks down the acronym, DUDES: 46:13 Money World: 1:03:33 First Caller: 1:08:18 20y/o woman on the topic Second Caller: 1:09:17 27y/o woman wants a hvm. Third Caller: 1:22:12 29y/o woman says she looks young for her age. Fourth Caller: 1:24:02 26y/o woman in a relationship for 9 years with constant break ups? Sixth Caller: 1:25:25 26y/o woman asks why The Godfather thinks modern women are masculine? Seventh Caller: 1:27:29 29y/o woman calls and misinterprets the topic. Ninth Caller: 1:30:24 29y/o woman says women are DUDES because they don't have the right mindset. Tenth Caller: 1:34:22 38y/o married woman, emotional, thanks the Godfather says she used to think she was better than her husband. Eleventh Caller: 1:42:00 caller asks if she's in the danger zone? Twelfth Caller: 1:45:38 25y/o woman Says The Godfather's words are a "little too strong." Thirteenth Caller: 1:52:46 39y/o woman says she is a self proclaimed "troll" Gets the Taps and Salute played. 1:57:47 Conversation continued with the fourth caller. Taps and Salute played. Fourteenth Caller: 2:03:15 39y/o woman, says she wants to be a breadwinner for her fiancé because she's a millionaire? End of the show: 2:16:46
After almost million subs and reaching international stage, Kevin neither have changed his tone nor took out the focus from helping his community to pander. Actions speaks louder than words!
That background was so grown and sexy🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 After that vibe was set, nothing could go wrong with the show tonight❤ As a country girl, I never wanted to be a "modern woman" and I made the right decision.
From one country girl to another I’ve been questioning “grown independent women” from day one. I saw the difference growing up in outcomes when a man leads the family and when a woman leads. Modern women aren’t as happy as they project to the world. Glad I didn’t fall for it either!
@Privacy Act Nope I learned this lesson growing up. Seen it with my own eyes, in my home and friends’ homes. Mothers who do not fully submit to their husbands (or single moms with no husband) are far more stressed than those women who allow the man to lead.
My husband is awesome. Can't imagine being in the danger zone, I'd be terrified. Building a solid life together is so much more fulfilling and gives me immense pride in my marriage. Appreciate and respect your man for how hard he works. And women who think they'll respect their man more if he makes more money, you ladies are a joke, it doesn't work that way.
The power of "Word of mouth". EVERYONE who subbed to Kevin I'm sure has spoken of him in their circles and ppl from all walks are coming in and listening cuz it's the TRUTH we men have all been DYING to say for years.
God bless you and you marriage! I’ve seen marriages destroyed in my own family because the married woman heeded the “advice” of their single sisters/friends that were “DUDES” fluent in “SIGN Language.” They showed me older women can be either a good example or a warning of what not to be. Gratitude > Attitude will have you no longer focus on them at all and yet still achieve your goal to not be like them.
If that is your goal “to not be like them” then it’s gonna be tough. Don’t focus on the problem, start building habits and change your mindset to help towards being better. But it’s not good to focus on not being something because if you ever feel like you see yourself going down that path you’re not gonna like it. The truth is we all have tendencies to go back to our old ways. I pray that you succeed in your goal!
I really appreciate how consistent our good brother is, and unequivocally communicating core issues within the Black Communities nation wide. This brother is saving lives and marriages out here in real time. Thank you Sir and you are greatly appreciated🌊💡🚦✅
Loved what Kevin said to the woman in red who realized that she didn't appreciate her man. Ladies listen up, take care of your men and stop thinking your better than him. Great snippet!
Yes I like and love you Kevin. I've been watching you for months now and I can't describe how you helped me have a better insight and perspective on a lot of thing's to understand as a woman and as understanding a man, thank you 🙏 sending fan love from Las Vegas.
@@diegomagellan , Clearly she thinks she's lots sharper than she actually is. Her goal is trying to make a point by taking KS' words out of context. That's a tactic of kids and dumbasses.
