Time Stamps 00:00 Pre show songs Song not found 02:18 Field Coffee Pt. 6 by Fields of Coffee 04:00 Voyage by Chris Westlake 07:17 Bossa Lisboa by Sonic Moon 10:23 Cuban Cigar by Peter Godfrey 13:34 Brazilian Amy by Dominik Hauser 15:24 Keep on Talking by Lionel Quick 17:30 Stockholm Love by Mathilda June 20:18 Good Lies by Vividry 23:24 Show starts/ Shoutout to the CIA and FBI 25:09 Candle of the evening Cade 26 Le Labo, Fragrance of the day Tom ford Grey Vetiver Eau Parfum, evening Musc Eternal Mizensir 27:38 Are modern women thieves? 33:09 Last year video 39:18 Stop being the nice guy 48:01 Dining and dashing when time to put out 1:04:25 Stats 1:09:00 Important message 1:14:00 Women in this age group are not suitable for dating 1:18:55 Stop being so serious 1:25:48 Money World 1:29:40 You owe him 1:31:08 1st Caller age 30 1:34:50 You might not like this 1:43:30 2nd Caller age 26, Perfect phone call 2:04:15 3rd Caller Tarayah age 24 2:06:20 4th Caller Jackie age 38 2:10:50 5th Caller Arie 2:18:08 6th Caller Patricia No age 2:19:55 7th Caller No name no age 2:25:36 8th Caller Sade age 33 2:40:35 9th Caller Mya age 35 2:46:50 back to Jackie 2:49:35 10th Caller Alysa age 33 2:55:00 Final words 3:00:50 Closing Song 1:18:55 Stop being so serious
When you give a person power you see who they really are. Modern women have shown us exactly that. Just like Obsidian said: “Women rather rule in Hell than serve in Heaven.”
@@TheOlzee It's not even just modern women it's society in general. I remember seeing a social experiment where a woman was verbally abusing a man in public.. Not one person intervened.. Some felt bad for the guy, but most just asked the question: Well I wonder what he did to deserve it
My mother told me from young NEVER ACCEPT ANYTHING FROM A MAN IF YOU DON'T WANT HIM. Don't play games because some men will put you in an early grave. Play stupid games. Get stupid prizes.
Aba and Preach had a great analogy that aligns with the topic of tonight’s program. When women give their bodies away too soon with little to no return on investment (i.e., no commitment) they feel cheapened. And when a man gives his emotions, time, space, and sexual/non-sexual attention away too soon with little to no return, he feels cheap. If women are within their right to have such discernment of who they give themselves to, we as men should act accordingly and treat our time like they treat their box
Even in the 1950s, men wanted sex (it’s called biology), but it was contingent upon making the commitment with marriage. Women broke the dynamic at the behest of feminism. When women started giving away the milk🥛 for free, men stopped paying for the 🐮. Who turns down free 🥛?
@@mikhailabdurrachman2443 Exactly! And the guy that’s been good and loyal to them since day 1 they want to put him on the sideline until they’ve been ran through over the years and their value is low as they age.
That is exactly what I was taught by my mom and grandmother. As a woman, do not play with a mans time and money. I've always remembered this. I have never been on a date with someone that I was not attracted to or a second date if I weren't interested. I have never accepted money or gifts from men that I was not in a relationship with. I can't tell you how many gifts that I did not accept or offers of money to help pay my bills. My girlfriends that I was crazy, but I don't play with men’s time, money or hearts. Not only did I accept gifts from the men that I was involved with, I also gave them gifts. If they out me on a pedestal, I did the same with them. I believe in reciprocation.
I have been seeing a lot of ladies ask why “men don’t take them on dates anymore” we know what it is lol. Ladies have been getting free meals from multiple guys we have had enough! 😂 we can Netflix and chill …and when I know you actually LIKE ME AND ARE ATTRACTED TO ME…then we can go on dates.
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When I use to meet a woman I was interested in I would suggest coffee at at tim hortons or whatever. That way we can sit down and talk and get to know each other and it dosent cost an arm and a leg.
eccatly. Trouble is that there is a ton of blue pilled beta simps who are Selling out on dating apps and FB. When you try to educate your fellow man, You get censured away by the system.
The men who they are actually attracted to (the chads) will not be expected to take them out on dates. It's the beta providers who need to pay for dates. Sorry, but I'm not going to pay for something that other men have gotten for free.
To the 2nd caller : If you really want to be his friend and make it right .Pay that 600 dollars back and apologize for stealing and taking advantage of him
Yea, please cut that man a check and tell him you're sorry for wasting his time, reiterate you're disinterest and tell him that you wish him the best and let him go.
@@justinw2232 Not only the left. Social media, and abundance of men giving away their attention and resources for free. Unfortunately it won't get any better
I'm 62, white, married, and live in Scotland. But I still love this guy's shows. His knowledge and perceptive abilities were ahead of his years. I often think someone needs to step into his shoes in 2023 and take this forward. But honestly, no one can fill this space. KS had the whole package, quite apart from the wisdom: the visuals, the music, the humour, the whole KS vibe. You want to step into his shoes? Don't even try.
Hell Educated BM figured this out 15 to 20 years ago. That’s why we wanted to get married back then to have a partner to build with. Once you get to the top, you don’t care. A man with money, power and assets is not driven by sex which makes him dangerous.
Nah some of them dudes be perverts even with money. The money HELPs them do perverted shit to Desperate/naive women🤷🏾♂️ other than that fact. I still agree. 2 things can be true
@@misutasutanto6312 I know bro I wasn’t going to respond to that weirdo/Peasant dudes like that might aswell just jump off a cliff because we don’t need soft, emotional, un educated men in the world. 🤷🏾♂️👌🏾💯
This really goes back to the simple "Don't date/intimately interact with someone you're not sexually interested in". Why do it? Male or female? Playing people like that is foul, no way around it. I've experienced both sides of rejection, and it's better to be turned down/turn someone down than it is to use them. And if you just don't care about being moral, then you forfeit the right to ever complain about the superficial game when you lose or get screwed over.
no one really has the right to complain about anything in the dating game, unless it's illegal. there's nothing fair about it, and no accounting for any of it. complaining about ghosting for instance isn't going to stop people from ghosting. It's just venting.
Especially that last sentence is important. I sometimes have fembots arguing with me, appealing to fairness or equality, but when my replies get censored, they laugh and shame me.
The “Real World” is “Amoral” stop with this fairytale BS your morals are often not the next persons morals something you find as self destructive could be the next person’s norm just saying
The goofy 26 year old doesn’t know she’s also wasting her own time. In a few years she’ll be asking “where are all the good men at”, when she should have been spending her time wisely with a man that she’s actually attracted to and interested in. … I also think she came here looking for clout. She was looking at the live chat comments instead of listening.
Hopefully he wakes up, men like this tend to eventually wake up, but he needs to cut her off because women like this that wants to maintain a friendship will try to sabotage your future relationships just to keep you in the holding pattern
@@JDMHaze Of course. Women like this don't want you to be with other women either, cuz they know they'll lose all their free meals. It feels so great to not be in my mid 20's anymore lol.
I like how Kevin market himself by being a image consultant and not only that the cologne he wears and the watches and nice suits this Brothers on point 🙌🙌
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady i try to avoid superficial stuff that covers up men and women flaws... i rather have girl wear jeans, tshirt on date so i can focus on who she is rather than how well they are dressed..
I had a dad, but he didn't school me on all this. Kevin is like a wise and patient Uncle, therefore. Sad I found this man's words after he passed away. May he live on on Glory.
I completely felt Kev's frustration when the woman who mentioned her uncle. The very women that say they need and want us, never seem to have anything positive about us.
I did too. It was almost as if she was punishing her son for what her uncle did to her and it’s wrong. Her son is going to be a grown man when he turns 18 and she shouldn’t view all black men as bad.
First of all my uncle didn’t do anything to me and he doesn’t give us a chance to speak highly of anyone before he’s offended by something truthful going on within our community for decades so y’all really should stfu and stop making assumptions off this show that clearly is to only benefit his narrative and his way of thinking…. SIGNED The woman that mentioned Unc
@@estdae5859 so why did you mention "nasty uncles" when he asked about the black communities in the past? If nothing happened to you, it makes it worst that you started with that as a response to "are the black communities better now than in the past?
So basically " I dont want to lose out on the ATTENTION, FINANCIAL/EMOTIONAL BENEFITS that I get from the guy that's sweet for me that I have no interest in. Cause Lord knows I wouldn't get the same from the type of man I'm sexually attracted to that I tend to break my rules and 'list of standards' for. But I'll argue with Kevin to defend it cause i just embarrassed myself in front of thousands by destroying my own logic." You can make this shit up 🤦🏿♂️
Damn Patrick. Double salute for reading my mind on this one…. I got 3 daughters and I hope they don’t turn out like this. Damn man. Sad shit is her father reinforces her dumb ass logic
@@daughterofYAHWEH Well she isn't a sociopath anymore after being broken apart and embarrassed. Now she's cautious about her decisions and way of living
It's almost unbelievable hearing these calls sometimes. So disrespectful and distasteful that women are really out here blatantly using men to be fed, have their egos stroked, and leading men on without reciprocating ANY RESPECT in return then, go on a live platform with thousands of viewers sharing their stories without remorse. You can literally hear the carelessness in these women's voices. I just -- CANNOT.
The norm...This is what men have to navigate through. Y it's important for women to be assertive, step up to call out, and make themselves known in person
Iam glad to say that I'm single and damned proud of it. No more arguing back and forth over nothing. Since then , my bank account is noteworthy I drive a luxury car that is bought and paid for. And my credit score is outstanding. My health is great and my blood pressure is that of an 18 year old. I'm happy.
@kristy mathena I don’t need the advice. I have integrity. I have never been one to go out with men that I wasn’t interested in. I don’t need a free meal or free ride like that.
"I mean ......................". God, help us. On another note, this has to be one of Kevin's best offerings. He NAILED it when he talked about men and dates and the prize after X number or them, but always progressing towards that end result. Nailed it. We talk and go along with the talking part but only with that end game in mind. It's how we're wired.
It amazes me how all the women agreed to playing men for food dates etc but when u flipped it on em and said there son would experience the same Karma from a woman they weren't with it lol. The dating market is screwed for the upcoming generation
Now a days, I tell a woman to meet me at a restaurant. Mean while I have already ordered my food and paid for it. So when she gets there if she wants something to eat or drink she will be paying for her own, until I found out she isn’t a user, indubitably.
However they don’t realize that they pay it back in karma that’s why when they hit the wall and there are no more suitors courting them they end up alone
@@alexbenjamin9266 foreal all this been going on. Shout out to KS for bringing this mainstream but I'm uterly surprised alot of guys didn't know female nature
@@beecool2603 The thing is bro every dude doesn't grow up with a strong male figure either a dad or an unk that can put them on game about how it really is. So, it really is trial and error for a lot of guys and even then they still don't learn right away.🤣🤣
@@lawrencemoore2484 the thing is I grew up in a family dominanted by strong women so i had to learn manhood on my own. U got to put them n check like u do a dude. Family members in all. Im not saying with by putting yo hands on them but by all MEANS dont by no dooormat. They don't respect that at all!!!! If u make a mistake tell her fu*k it ain't nobody perfect so get out my ear with all that dumb sh*t.dont let them make u second guess yourself at all is the KEY
As a young man I used to sit around and talk about men who I thought were doing their women wrong. Now I see why we do what we do. We have to. To the heartless young woman with the friend, leave that man alone and pay his money back with interest.
Parasite: "I value our friendship" so I will take all of his money until he has no more money and then we will no longer be friends. At that time I will find a new friend or host.
If you see a guy walking around with a big juicy dog tick on his eyelid like he doesnt notice it...Would you say its something wrong with the tick or is it something wrong with the guy...?
@@mgtow-balance3409 yes but men are rational creatures if women voiced it than they will stop. Societies also have to stop driving mens self esteem to the ground as they do; this is what drives men to pedestalize women to the point of self sacrifice men and boys need to be shown their worth from a young age
Sir, my brother I have been watching u for a while. U are teaching me alot as a black king. U r a father that I never had. U make me walk with my head held high. I am not a perfect man. But, i work hard, n i respect myself. In addition, I have love for my ppl. I am a student in this game we call life.
I was a victim of dating scams many times! I paid for expensive dinners and I got nothing in return! Women robbed me with smiles on their faces! Never again! Two checks please!
Happened to me once. Since then I pick places that I like. Then I arrive early and order my drink/food. The expressions when some realize that I'm not paying their way are hilarious. Had a couple women leave after the realization they had to pay for themselves. Didn't bother me at all. I wanted be at that spot anyway. It also showed me they weren't interested in me, but the opportunity for free shit. Also had a couple women leave when I checked them for being late. I simply said, "I don't like waiting on people." One of them replied, "I do things on my time." I said, "Then this isn't going to work out. I value my time and you clearly do not. You're also a liar. You can't be 10 minutes late for work everyday and keep your job." The other girl replied, "Get used to it, I'm late for everything." I said, "No. I don't tolerate disrespect. Especially disrespect of my time." She said, "I knew this was a mistake." I said, "The only mistake made here was made by you. Thinking that I wouldn't have a backbone. You should leave my table now." So many women are used to walking on men, that they don't know how to react to a man that holds them accountable.
@@0rokuSaki i think it's disrespectful to invite someone for date a date and make her pay . Unlike men women stress a lot on their appearance during the outing ..we go have a whole new shopping just to have a good allure and make us eye candy . At least respect that and pay !
1:43:45 This woman is soulless. She knows she is wrong taking advantage of the guy. She just does it. And then to finally, grudgingly suggest that she might not take advantage of him anymore, and she then talks about having to love him a different way? Didn't we already determine that she doesn't even LIKE him as a friend if she's willing to take advantage of him just 3 minutes earlier? She literally just took all that knowledge Kevin carefully, thoughtfully laid out for her, and she didn't actually process a damn thing. Just disgusting.
that is what I am screaming...her eyes told me everything I needed to know. There was ZERO empathy. In fact I doubt she actually feels it. She is like Dexter or Amos from the Expanse except she isn't trying to be good.
I have a hard time making excuses for these simps. I get the point he is trying to make with the women but this particular issue is mostly in the guys. If I want to spend money socially on women or homies, it’s not a big deal. I don’t put myself out there to be played. But i guess I’m married so my motivation is different than a single man.
I agree. My mom did warn me not to accept anything from men without consequences. The bigger gift, the more that's expected from me. So we have the choice to accept or refuse.
So many women do this with men. And the sad thing is you’ll be labeled a “good guy” if you go along with it. And they actually see you as a good person because you cater to them. And that’s not me capping for women it’s just a reality of their nature. But we as men play ourselves by accepting the terms they lay out. Start being upfront with them and saying point blank “I’m asking you out because I find you sexually attractive.” That’s what the Chad, Tyrone’s and players do and look what happens with them. Women want it too(more so than us) offer it like a man.
Yep I been doing this for years. It helps men cut through the “fat”. You will generally end up dealing with women who really dig you. It saves time and energy from wooing women who won’t be honest and tell you she has no interest in you. What most aren’t understanding about “Chad and Tyrone” is that they strike out a lot too. However, because they lead with physicality they get right to the point with women who do like them. The best MLB sluggers strike out 60% of the time 😂
I totally agree with this, thats what my man did when we met and that’s why he got me and not the other men who lead with money. Crazy but it is what it is
Been doing it since highschool. I tell an girl, “I don’t care how we vibe, until we link physically, it’s all just dressing”. Within week 1-2 I’m testing it out.
I went back to my home town in Chicago and was very chivalrous to women. I opened a door at store for 2 women just past me like I was post to open the door for them. I got no thank you’s or any thing but i didn’t let that change me I just know what it is.
@@tnbmadness7645 I once opened the door to a Chipotle for an older woman who walked in. When I walked out with arms full of bags of food for myself and my wife, three women walked in the door when I was about to leave and not a single one stopped to hold the door open despite that I was clearly occupied.
_”The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her. _*_The history of civilization could actually be written in terms of the level of its women.”_* ~ Ven. Fulton J. Sheen 🙏
@@hasonhubbard Please share this quote and other works from this modern-day Saint. And like Kevin said, women signal what they think men deserve by their appearance and behavior … which ain’t much! 🙄
@@chiefhowlingwolfhannibal7360 your looking at it wrong chief. Put it this way. If you were dating a woman that was with you during the best of times and the worst of times. Was with you and always gave you peace. Kept herself in shape AND understood that when she puts herself out there in public that she not only represents herself but you. As a fellow man, you saying your NOT gonna keep your head straight not only for yourself but to make sure you don't let her down too as her man and leader?
Kevin is hilarious without trying. I’ve been watching since spring of this year. I’ve learned so much and am now only dating with intent! I was a guest once during the summer. Now I watch for entertainment, however there is still much to learn with great morals.
That's what your grandmother, mother, aunts, and older female cousins was supposed to do smh not Kevin so it's sad that with all that influence nothing like this came about. But I guess better late than never and better a man than a woman it seems. Keep tuning in and thank you for finally listening.
The funniest thing about Kevin's monologues is that the people who often disagree are EXACTLY the people most afflicted with the problems/sickness being diagnosed😂 You see it, we see it, they alone don't see it.
First date I had with my husband was him picking me up from work and we had a walk around the neighborhood and then he walked me to my house. $0 spent that day. We talked, enjoyed the crisp night air, he held my keys and I let him put his arm around my waist…and 13 years later, still doing that. 😉
The Color Purple was written by a black women that was married to a white man and the movie was directed by a white man. What is wrong with this picture?
The caller who still goes out with men even though she knows she ain't attracted to him is what make men sick . You don't want him but still want the attention and validation from him. Guys please stop entertaining these kinds women because they are crazy. You see majority of men don't deal with a woman he ain't attracted to. It waste our time and you ladies know this but still want to play like you didn't know he liked you and stuff and waste our money and time where could be entertaining a woman who wants us.
The 90s were the last decade of accountability for black womens bodies. Big shirley, Monique,and ole girl on friday that said she looked like Janet Jackson to Chris Tucker were all funny because women still bought into the concept of staying fit. That shit went out the door in the early 2000s with the bbw propaganda.
Being ‘fat’ and out of shape was used as a marketing ploy by businesses and the population fell for it. Back in the 80’s you couldn’t watch 5 minutes of tv without some exercise machine, some aerobics video, some diet book. Then the advertising industry and other wobblers thought ‘we can make people do anything! What if we made being large ‘sexy’ and ‘empowering’?’ They could then open up and maintain a much, much bigger market. You never want to sell a product that eventually won’t be needed anymore. You need to find a product that people will always need more of. Food. Soda. Bigger clothes. Bigger everything. Just getting bigger every year. All sold to the populace as ‘ the authentic you!!’ Suddenly in the 90’s the populace was bombarded with ‘big is beautiful’ messages. And the populace metaphorically and literally ate that shit up. Why have to exercise , eat less, work on yourself? That takes effort. Now you can have the exact same equivalent psychological benefit by getting big. And it’s enjoyable right?? Women could literally have the deserts and the cookies because they’d been given permission, they were just ‘getting big and beautiful’. It’s fucking insane what happened. Suddenly the bad faith feminist ‘fat-fativists’ no longer had to feel bad. They now looked like everyone else. Why personally change and look afte yourself when you can change everyone else to look like you and make a dime or two in the process?
@@noemi2007 I was just starting 9th grade when it became national news that Candace Bergen announced she was going to have a child with no man in her life. The discussion was back & forth about whether both parents were 'needed' to raise a child; she was one of the most prominent and profitable actresses at the time, so the defense was that she could afford it, so why shouldn't she have the right to do so. Just because you can do something doesn't make it right. What I noticed in the years following was a shift in pop culture that embraced the single mother. In my estimation, she was the catalyst needed for other communities to justify the same moves. Prior to Candace Bergen it was just a stereotype of the black community. She made it palatable first and I haven't heard her name brought up *once* since.
I hope that 26 year old caller’s friend sees this and breaks off all contact expeditiously… the crazy part is if he starts dating another woman, this chick would be jealous and would possibly attempt to wreck the relationship.
He actually gets these sound bites from these dingbat heifers that call in to sell-out us traditional Christian Ladies out with their delusional buffoonery!! 🙄
I was just thinking that. But the difference is men might spend a few dollars tricking but its just money women on the other hand wind up with kids by men who don't want them and ghost them.
They actually believe that they are interesting and that guys actually want to listen to the garbage that comes out of their mouth. No, you really aren't that much fun to be around, ladies.
Michael, I agree with you but if that has happened to you thank your lucky stars you didn't marry and get stuck with a souless woman - the type that would take you to the cleaners if it came to a divorce.
"Dating is not worth it in the USA." KS: "Where do you plan on going?" Me: Nowhere. I've become ok with remaining uncoupled. I'd rather be single than to deal with the modern American female.
earn, create and save more money, so you can use it, whenever you desire 'an Experience'. never forget, you're on the hook for the entertainment, food and drink, transportation, communication AND the hotel. the Wise Man even breaks her off a little bit, in the morning, before he sends her on her way. the WISEST Man has already established his 'prophylactic identity', before he even ventures forth. the need for this seems apparent. use a dedicated phone. use a car service. use prepaid debit cards. use a hotel, at which YOU are the V.I.P. and she is ONLY a guest. give her a fist full of 20s, after breakfast. (ask Mike Tyson why this matters) don't commit ANY crimes. NONE! enjoy yourselves, Men. Carefully. make sure you make it back, for formation, in the morning. DISMISSED!
If men where not so visual then they would be having the women issues they have. You guys want a so called 10 then you gotta pay to play. Humble yourself and look into the character of a woman. Or stop with the wining.
@@faylenebyrd That's like saying if woman weren't so emotional they wouldn't have the problems they have looking for or keeping a relationship. The point is both have unrealistic expectations about how the modern dating world works. But most of the woman are constantly wining about why their not getting what they want. Guys have just learned to accept it and step away
@@lordjuno7372 and I wouldn't even say most guys have unrealistic expectations, unless expecting a woman to be close to biological normal as well as friendly, cooperative and feminine (which are NOT visual) are unrealistic. Further, most men are just fine with average women. In fact, above average men will marry average women just to get one that is cooperative, friendly and feminine. The difference between most men and most women is that men will assess a situation, determine the prognosis, and will cope with it. Women, however, demand the situation CHANGE to fit her demands, if they even correctly assess the situation in the first place.
When I tell y'all brother Kevin absolutely helped me in the struggle of confirming the things I have always thought and ended interactions/relationships with women for (I apologize for the long run on my day starts at 3 am) . I truly have started expressing what I knew was correct and shook off the single mother programming and my interactions have been EXTREMELY improved in my favor
She loves the attention she's getting and doesn't want to let go. That's why she's troubled to come to a conclusion and she knows that conclusion is to cut everything off.
@@bpexodus of course they do. They're selfish but they want us to put them first. You can't make this up bro. Why should we feel sorry for them if they're this selfish and narcissistic?
The black community is too broken to be fixed. The good thing about being a man is, we build the communities. We can start over, and whatever we build is our new community.
Not just the black community. Its the whole of the west that will fall. Feminism is a bubble. Its unsustainable. When times get hard for women, the bubble will burst.
Who do you think dam,aged the B- Iack women in the first place? .. I lost my v!rg!n!ty to "(G) ang (R) ape!" by B -Iack men and it destroyed my WHOLE Life!
Given all the HATE and resentment Black men receive immediately after being born in a hospital, I am so happy that we have a voice via Kevin. The very Black woman despises him simply because he uses Colgate as opposed to Crest! It's absolute madness. My last girlfriend strong armed me against a bathroom wall, holding a knife and forced me to goggle with Listerine. My preference was Scope.😳😳😳
1:35:00 And this is EXACTLY Why I learn to say no just like they do, because once women leave you hanging they'll say "Well you didn't have to do it, I didn't make you do it"
This is symptomatic of the concept we thought was cute back in the day, "what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine." Girls would say that in high school but it has mutated into a savage dog eat dog mindset. Dating thuggery as it were...
This show is a PRIME example of what Alpha Male Strategies used to talk about. Women will string you along, use you for dinner dates, your attention, resources and not lose a wink of sleep over it.
@@Just_Hu not the same! Unless that jobless man is in a relationship! Which doesn’t happen very often for jobless men! Go look on the nearest corner near you! You’ll find jobless men and maybe even women but not together for the most part lol jobless women can still get ahead based on gender hierarchy✍️
How many options have you been with before deciding on the one? Or have you decided and you both are committed forever? No offence but what does it make you?
@@charmainebrown1611 read this slowly. You are NOT a man…. You’ll never stand up to the scrutiny a man had to face on a daily basis. Any conversation in good faith dies with whataboutism.
2nd Caller impressions. After it being revealed that she did lead him on, she attempted to blame the thievery on the man because he is a "people pleaser". As though his dysfunction justifies her behavior. No accountability. I mean, if he is a "people pleaser" does that make him emotionally debilitated? And if he is debilitated in that way, isn't it a violation to then take from that man when he can't truly, in his right mind, say yes enthusiastically? How is that different than her being inebriated or intoxicated and him having sex with her in that debilitated state? It's interesting how in the fight for equality, what some folks are actually demanding, is an advantage. So how is that fair, just and right? Should all men pay for the sins of some men? Should all women suffer the consequences caused by *some* women? We will never come to balance as humans as long as people jockey for dominance rather than agree to negotiate for a fair exchange.
unfortunately, they come in bad faith to exploit those who come in good faith and thus the chalice is poisoned and no compromise or negotiation is worth the paper its written on
Way more fault is in this guy than this girl. He told her she never needs to pay or bring her wallet etc. She followed him with that and she’s done wrong? He sounds like a beta. The only way this girl is in the wrong is if she is dangling the box and he thinks it’s more than friendship.
The second call the 26 yr old is the perfect example of a narcissist sociapath,She calm cool collected as she uses people and calls it friendship,that man needs to end whatever "friendship" that is it's a b.s friendship.
@@tomMXBN “he left his wallet on the table so it’s his fault it got stolen” while yes, we can make this observation, it doesn’t really matter. She was wrong, he was stupid. We don’t condemn stupid ppl over bad ppl
@@Davemonlee that’s how the world is now though. Praise the bad person for getting over because the other was “stupid”. I am always blamed for over giving to someone who says “I don’t want a relationship” but they do just as that caller did. Wanna Hangout call , etc , obviously pad the truth with lies. So now the truth is distorted. 😩 I really don’t like that people are thieves and will take someone’s last even if they wanted to give it to them. But give them nothing in return. It’s so sad 😞
@@Davemonlee You’ve somewhat changed my mind with that analogy, I must admit. The dude should have been more responsible but the ultimate blame lies with the lady.
Excellent conversations. My mother always taught me to not take things from men. Today it seems that there is not enough ethical dialog. Morals have gone out the door and greed and selfishness is the replacement.
Very interesting take. The second caller revealed something important. She has no interest in her male friend and doesn't want him romantically/sexually. Shes keeping him on the hook to prevent him from getting another woman and keeps him in her back pocket. Sexually isolating him on purpose. Very devious she three moves ahead.
The I Don’t need a Cookbook bit starting at 1:22.45 is ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT!! Lord Kevin of House Samuels has taken the sound drop game to another level.. His interacting with the sound drop as if he was talking to the woman about her not having a cookbook.Priceless!We are truly not worthy 😂🤣.. BRAVO Sir 👏🏽
As a human being, but especially when you're dealing with the opposite sex involving relationship matters, you should never ever take advantage of someone's weakness. People in their weakness will make themselves vulnerable to be taken advantage of, and if you are a person of integrity you will not only take advantage of that, but you would try to help that person so that they won't keep doing that kind of thing...
I disagree with your last point. It is NO ONE person responsibility to help heal someone else. We all got jobs and bills to pay therefore we can’t “take care” of someone else.
2nd caller. she said „hes attracted to me he likes me“ and then she said „were friends“ so what is it? friends pay for each other and youre know youre wrong not paying for anything.
@@FireAngelChris Exactly which is hella sad its not one sided whenever me and my friends are out we pay half or sometimes i take my friends out and pay for one night and sometimes they pay. you know?
@@onikapinkk I understand completely,I go out with friends all the time. Sometimes it’s half and sometimes I cover it all or other times it’s one of them covering the entire thing. Friends don’t use or waste each other time. They also do right by each other. Holding each other accountable and telling them the truth is always key in great friendships.
The first caller was like, "I talked to my father about it." Really? Did you also seek his counsel about the tattoo on your breast? She's for the streets!
@@elijahgavin6706 literally no body . Is a bloody false statement . Don’t you think? Because and lot of men and women don’t give a crap about tattoos or where they are or even prefer it! Get real. And stop assuming every one thinks like you.
The other part for the 26 year old is that she’s using him and wasting his time but she’s also not making herself available for the msn she likes. Playing games and wasting time.
Serious question though do you think at 26th that she is only hanging with her friend and not actively dating. She’s just not telling her “friend” about it.
@@untilipeak exactly. She enjoys getting the attention and benefits as it’s an ego boost. She cannot admit that because she doesn’t wanted to be judged as taking advantage. It’s cognitive dissonance
@@untilipeak now the young man needs to stop catering to her in this manner or any woman he is interested in that does not reciprocate his feelings. Time is something we never get back so it’s important not to waste it. However some of my fellow men need to understand that there are women out there who will piece together their own “dream man” until they find one that ticks the majority of the boxes. Certain women will lots certainly keep a man who is emotionally supportive to them (but they are not romantically interested i), a financially supportive man (who they are not romantically interested in), and naturally a “maintenance man” (who they are most certainly romantically interested in but lacks the “relationship qualities that they need). Not all women move this way but trust and believe there are quite a few that move this way. In end men need to judge by reciprocal effort. Women will apply significant effort to things they are emotionally invested in and be on autopilot for things they are not. Young men must learn how to discern the difference
This is why I don’t have 1 single female friend and never had one since high school. I don’t believe in “friendship” with women. If we talking, we are exchanging attraction. I do have business associates who are women and family members. That is all My masculine energy ain’t free.
I used to feel like this but you can be friends without giving away all that energy bro. I'd never pursue a friendship with a girl but it tends to happen at work or the neighbourhood and such
Facts my brother I’m the same way I told my sister this shit point blank after she asked me about it randomly Not so randomly ask me about friendship an women cuz she was playing mind games with this one guy stringing him along on some friend zoned shit an after a while he just stop playing along cuz dude was tired of her stuff. been there done that never again..them the types to sabotage your relationships low-key.
2nd Caller: "I value our friendship" WOW. What an amazing deflection and revelation of lack of character. He's not your friend. You're not attracted to him. Move on. That's just foul.
Guys need to learn to be more proactive and assertive with women. No woman will bite you for being direct or making your intentions clear from the get-go. All she'll say is No. No never killed anybody. Better No than being a subject of laughter with her friends. If you meet a swordsman, draw your sword
Just be that dude and you don’t have to take her anywhere, just slide thru her crib with y’all fav party favors clap and head back to the crib. They all got one like that…I know😉
Well said. Men need to be more RUTHLESS when dealing with wimmin. Today's wimmin are not feminine, so the old rules no longer apply. Unfortunately, too many weak s.i.mps have yet to wake up, and they've ruined the game for everybody.
I’m direct off jump and that saved me so much time. When they say no, idc I keep it pushing. Funny how my careless attitude in that situation actually puts me on some of the deniers radar!
This was awesome. I love seeing you stick up for guys like this. I love the provocative topics that get women angry so you can see the desperate attempts to justify what they've done, I love seeing them try to justify what they do, only because of how eye opening it is for me. This is helping me to understand how I have to navigate in this modern world.
Thank you Kevin, for accurately articulating the state of today's dating scene. I've seen this kinda thing happening for over a decade, and it's why I'm very leery of conventional "dating". It truly is little more than thievery if men aren't careful.
That caller with the “male” best friend knows what she’s doing is wrong. You can see it on her face. If she doesn’t want to cut him a check with interest like Kevin suggested, she could let him hit with no string attached about 20 times to make up for those 10 dates plus interest.
@@manup6131 agreed. I’ve gotten into many heated debates with women when I inform them I don’t have female friends. I have people I associate with (coworkers), etc. I don’t have female friends I’m kicking it with.
@@manup6131 true but she should’ve let him know upfront and shouldn’t have accepted any of his dawg spent on her. They can hang out and that’s fine but she should’ve have been paying for her own stuff.
It's not her fault he has no game. Tricks and marks exist for a reason. If they're not being taken advantage of, how will they learn their lesson? How will the hoes eat? It's symbiotic.
It's so funny man. Women truly only have a problem with "the game" when it's a man they want playing them. "He's trash" "he's a dog" "he ain't shit." But when women play "the game", it's "if he's offering, why wouldn't I take it?". Men are just supposed to get the short-end of the stick and just deal with it.
They wonder why Kevin has so many subscribers, he's only saying what we all been saying for years about this double standard & other bs. Kevin admits this and says he isn't even he first to say it. He gives shout-out to guys that were here before him.
@@Bayo106 I agree. I think a child needs a mother and a father. No matter the age. Because a wife is supposed to show a maturing boy/man what a good wife/woman is supposed to be. It’s one thing for a man to talk about it but it’s another for a woman to show it. If they have a girl she’s supposed to show her how to be those things for a man. I really think it’s a balance for the home to work.
This is so true. They speak on black men as predators and treacherous, and hold the actions of the few against us all. But then, when we express any displeasure about women, they ask "who hurt you?" Women hurt men, so why can't we handle them the same?
Are modern women thieves? Yes. I went to a Walmart with a woman once that had been an associate for a hot minute. When we got to the checkout she insisted we use the self-checkout. Once there she began to put merchandise into her bags without scanning it. I told her, if you need help paying all you need to do is ask. She replied, “they ain’t gon’ miss this stuff”. I haven’t spoken to her since and cut all ties.
@@clasijasi it’s sad how y’all that grew up without your p0ps think this dude is the holy grail lmao. Bunch of broken people, the blind leading the blind I’m just here for laughs.
@@AskAW I know that the women that past me over and friend zoned me weren't the right women for me. It wasn't meant for me to be with those who only saw me as a friend.
Winter is here...there is no value for Men to date, or marry, especially high value Men. We don't need the headache, it's so much easier in life to be single and free flowin.
@SAINT MAURICE my man I turned more girls down than I dated! I said no to girls throwing the box at me plenty of times! Getting girls ain’t never been hard for me! Like I ain’t gotta front on RU-vid for nobody my guy
He’s a better man than me idk how he does it. The lack of self awareness and ignorance alone is enough to send most of us into pulmonary heart failure 😂😂😂
