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Are Narcissists Capable of Love | Dr. David Hawkins 

Dr. David Hawkins
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Dr. David Hawkins tackles the thorny question of whether narcissists are capable of love. They certainly think they are, but what is their idea of love? Like almost everything else in life, to a narcissist, any relationship is all about them, their needs, their feelings. Narcissism is self-ism + emotional immaturity, and that is not a formula for love. It’s a formula for the opposite of love. In this video, Dr. Hawkins talks about 3 Traits of Healthy Love and what to do if your relationship is lacking these traits. Contrary to what people believe, it’s not either you love me or you don’t. We can all learn to love well, yes, you can LEARN to love well! That is what we are in the business of doing here at the Marriage Recovery Center. If you need help, please reach out!
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The internet is inundated with hyperbole and misinformation about narcissism, leaving many people confused and hopeless. Get the facts about narcissism and emotional abuse from someone who has been researching, writing about and treating narcissism and emotional abuse for over a decade.
Dr. Hawkins is a best-selling author and clinical psychologist with over three decades of experience helping people break unhealthy patterns and build healthier relationships. He is the founder and director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute which offers education, training and counseling for people who want to break free of, and heal from, emotional abuse.
Whether the perpetrator of the abuse is your spouse, partner, parent, boss, friend or family member, we offer practical advice for anyone trapped in a toxic, destructive relationship. In addition to narcissism & emotional abuse, topics include covert, reactive, spiritual, secondary, relationship trauma and more.
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Комментарии : 36   
@yarahsiever1482
@yarahsiever1482 7 месяцев назад
Sometimes you think a narcissist is really trying to know you. But he is actually looking for weaknesses to use against you later and to know how to best manipulate you
@ronaldculley
@ronaldculley 3 месяца назад
Excellent Riff. I have reposted it on my fb page. THX! (Ron Tello Culley)
@tearthangel373
@tearthangel373 Год назад
Mutuality, Reciprocity and Freedom is necessary for a healthy relationship
@drdavidbhawkins
@drdavidbhawkins Год назад
Yes!
@uanip1341
@uanip1341 Год назад
I just realized I have never experienced love from anyone including my parents 😂😂😂😂
@itsme-ih2cx
@itsme-ih2cx 5 месяцев назад
Im on the same boat as u
@uanip1341
@uanip1341 5 месяцев назад
@@itsme-ih2cx 😔😔😔😔💕
@ChildoftheLIGHT
@ChildoftheLIGHT 9 месяцев назад
No way a narcissistic person would admit this lack of love. I would be met with high defensiveness and blame-shifting if I presented this video to him, and even anger.
@tearthangel373
@tearthangel373 Год назад
Profound Entitlement mindset
@shelleyd9910
@shelleyd9910 Год назад
That is the best simplest definition of love I have ever heard. Thank you. ❤️
@drdavidbhawkins
@drdavidbhawkins Год назад
Glad you found it helpful, thanks for your feedback.
@ImpulsoCreativo9322
@ImpulsoCreativo9322 Год назад
Love, love, 💕. thanks for making it so clear.
@drdavidbhawkins
@drdavidbhawkins Год назад
Glad you found it helpful, thanks for your comment
@user-nb8pq5wl1o
@user-nb8pq5wl1o 10 месяцев назад
This was a very informative video.
@reneepeck9743
@reneepeck9743 9 месяцев назад
Wow! This is so truthful and the fact that no extension has ever been given and this is hard reality of the experience I litterally have had in relation to what you are sharing. This is really crushing! How do I recover from the damage and the mess?
@Spark-Hole
@Spark-Hole Год назад
They love the same way as cat, dog... lion... love their family.
@bettinabettina7155
@bettinabettina7155 Год назад
They want to pretend they do!
@lioubovgrant1935
@lioubovgrant1935 Год назад
Thank you.
@drdavidbhawkins
@drdavidbhawkins Год назад
Glad you found it helpful. For more related content, subscribe to our channel or sign up for our newsletter to get helpful tips and advice delivered directly to your Inbox: marriagerecoverycenter.com/mailing-list/
@andreadonegan4780
@andreadonegan4780 Год назад
Understand that do not have the ability to love. They destroy others lives. I grew up with narcissists and I’m 43 and it’s taken many years of therapy to heal from profound abuse, rejection, abandonment to name a few. A true narcissist is not capable of significant healing, self reflection and connection. They can head to therapy if they like but just not on your watch.
@drdavidbhawkins
@drdavidbhawkins Год назад
Thanks for sharing!
@triomom9337
@triomom9337 Год назад
Love and Empathy are Action (in my eyes). Both can not be accomplished if the Soul does not live in Truth! (again, in my eyes). Hence..having a heart filled with the understanding (accountability) and surrender to God, allows one to live in Truth and therefor Love & have Empathy! Those without God/Truth/Love/Empathy… are often Toxic and bring down others as they try and put a square peg in a round hole, called life!
@a.humphries8678
@a.humphries8678 Год назад
Then am I supposed to embrace his control, manipulation, gaslighting and insecurity? I have a feeling that's what will get thrown at me.
@SaltLake180
@SaltLake180 6 месяцев назад
no, u r not.
@sugarsnap1000
@sugarsnap1000 Год назад
The office space and greenery outside has a calming effect
@gwendolynwehage6336
@gwendolynwehage6336 Год назад
I am 70 years having spent most of my life in the Pacific Northwest, and having lived in other places in the country at times. I have never seen so many unloving attitudes and responses as I have seen in this region of the country, Washington and Oregon. When we lived in the South for a short time we saw what real love and kindness were on a cultural level. Here the base culture is based on narcissism. This is the most selfish and rude culture I have lived in, to the point that rudeness is completely accepted here. I am discouraged by it and have become more reclusive after moving back to this region. Sadly the culture here infects family members to the point that they have become like the culture they live in.
@warrenbradford2597
@warrenbradford2597 Год назад
That is toxic culture you are talking about. That culture we are forced to under needs to die one day. Society will tear itself apart, if it doesn't.
@cass7358
@cass7358 5 месяцев назад
They won’t even listen to the video, don’t even make sense asking. Even if they do listen, they’ll just not comment or respond.
@yeahsteeeve
@yeahsteeeve 2 дня назад
In my experience. Hell no.
@NoName-zb1gm
@NoName-zb1gm 9 месяцев назад
A lot of people can love but they can't keep their mouths shut with opinions no one wants to hear and everything has to be their way all the time. I guess this kind of person ranges from being a narcissist at worst to being a selfish, self centered person at best. In today's world everyone knows someone like this.
@tearthangel373
@tearthangel373 Год назад
Maybe with years of Psychotherapy
@gigicoogler
@gigicoogler Год назад
Why don’t they ever say a child. Especially an adult child. ???
@warrenbradford2597
@warrenbradford2597 Год назад
So, to answer my question, does my narcissistic mother loves me. Well, not for who I am, that's for sure. Just what I can provide and bring to her. She would try to gaslight and brainwash me back to Christianity if she does. Same with my narcissistic sister who threw me under the bus enables her bad behavior.
@nicom9298
@nicom9298 3 месяца назад
Do you live in the middle of the Amazon forest?
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