@@MrLightcatcher Jobs był jedną z najgorszych gnid jakie ten świat widział. Ujawniono dokumenty w których Jobs proponował innym koncernom Krzemowej Doliny zmowę by nie zatrudniać pracowników chcących odejść do konkurencji. Chciał zrobić z ludzi niewolników jednej korporacji. Typowa miernota u władzy żerująca na osiągnięciach prawdziwych twórców.
I definitely agree on the trust issue, I always tell my friends from outside the country. A Pole has two faces, private and public. That's why they say we don't smile. The public face is neutral in expression, it observes, evaluates, and analyzes. Most often, it takes a lot of time and "trials" for the Pole to lower his guard and let you get closer. Sometimes it's like meeting a new, different person. but you should remember one thing by gaining a Pole's trust, you gain a new family member-literally.
I love how insightful you are. I applaud your knowledge. As a Polish girl in the USA I often feel misunderstood. I find Americans way too joyful and I miss Polish natural grumpiness. That's how we bond! By complaining together. Hugs from Nebraska 👍❤️
Ciesz się, bo o uśmiech u nas nie jest łatwo. Mi brakuje pod tym względem USA gdzie mieszkałem. U nas można sobie pogadać z polakiem: ale zimno kur..., ale gorąco kur...Kobiety najczęściej są bardzo niemiłe i dowartościowane przez simpów na instagramie. Czasami mam wrażenie, że współżyją online ( potwierdzone w sumie). Nie znaczy, że wszystkie są takie, ale tak, żeby nie przesadzić z 99 procent😅
I lived in Poland and now live in the Netherlands. Maybe it's because I came originally from Russia, but i don't fully understand the stereotype about Polish unwellkomness and lack of smile. When I moved to Poland I noticed that Polish are more friendly than Russians. And even to compare to Holland, where I am now, Polish don't seem angry. It is quite weird perception of Poland. Either you see what you want to see, or just got too much "smile-overdose" in the US:)
@@ТимурЧернышев-ш2ц Poles are RESERVED. you go to Sweden, and people will also be reserved and aloof if they don't know you. if they know you and like you, they will be very warm and welcoming. Same in Poland. Very different culture than in USA with its plastic, FAKE "hi how are you" and fake plastic smile on face.
Down to earth, yes. We are pragmatic. What a shame that Poles lost all the momentum because of the partitions, only 30 years and we are catching up with the world.
Oh sure, Poles are the epitome of anger, especially when you compare them to the famously serene Italians, and let's say Brazilians. It's not like South America is known for any sort of emotional expression or violence, right? And let's not forget how in Southern Europe, they practically meditate instead of using animated gestures in conversations. In Poland, gesturing wildly in someone's face is not commonly recognized as a part of the cultural code. It's more like a charming tradition elsewhere. And the Germans, oh, they are the picture of calm and politeness, especially after a beer when a girl rejects their romantic proposals. And when the plan does not go to plan, they are not shouting at all. Nope! As for the Middle East and North Africa, they practically invented tranquillity. Ever tried declining a souvenir in Egypt? It's like refusing a cup of tea at grandma's house, so warm and understanding they are, isn't it?
As a Pole, I thank you for your indulgence. 😀 In your statement, I would use the phrase "be careful in interpersonal contacts" more often. As a consequence, there is a reluctance to show feelings in public (among strangers). In the company of friends we are no longer so reserved - we know who we are dealing with. That's why we rarely beat up a stranger - more often a friend. Especially when we feel betrayed or deceived (by him). Loyalty is very important.
Gdzie tam jesteśmy mili - Masz jakiś problem?! - powszechne pytanie części współobywateli obniżające głęboką troskę o innych, wyartykułowane w celu pomocy nawet obcemu bliźniemu
You want to see how look our real emotions, bare to public? Come to traditional Polish "wesele"(wedding reception) Poles behave completely different amongst friends than in public. You have to earn our trust and friendship because here they are real, not superficial, when you do, we open up and you can see what real trust and friendship looks like.
re 1st point by western countries you mean by UK/US (or anglo countries in general) i assume, couse France, NL, Germany, Scandinavians etc are same as Poles in this aspect
Swedes and Dutch are cold, however I found them confident in public, socially polite and complex-free, unlike the average Pole. They are not afraid to make eye contact, to smile, to trust you, to offer help without asking them,.
«The Slavs were very open, joyful and trusting. They had the "sacred right of hospitality", but later they met the Germans. » Yes. This is a gross simplification, but there is a lot of truth in it...
For me there are two negative absolute emotions. Annoyance and anger. Annoyance is 99.9% of stuff that happens, and I let it slide real easy. Now real anger. you want to gtfo of a situation with a real angry pole.
Vigo do jakiego imienia Polskiego to pasuje :D Brachu ty masz lepiej Nas rozmkinionych niż my sami siebie haha .Słucham sobie ciebie i pierwszy raz się nad tym zastanowiłem (pewnie jak nie jeden z Nas ) i wychodzi że tak jakby masz rację w tym własnym odczuciu
Masz dużo racji Powiem tak Polacy to nie jest Naród który chce się kłócić który chce szukać agresji negatywnych wibracji jak to mówią tylko po prostu od razu mówią co im się nie podoba w danym zachowaniu tudzież mówię a wiedząc że masz polską żonę to wiesz że Polacy potrafią być niemili dla innych ale jeśli tylko dla na to zasłużył bo tak to Polacy są naprawdę w porządku narodem tylko trzeba słuchać Trzeba wiedzieć kiedy powiedzieć Nie A kiedy tak że my jesteśmy asertywnym narodem
Man, Poland ist THE SAFEST COUNTRY IN WHOLE EUROPE. I don't know, where did U get this statistic from. Germany? France? Sweden? Ahead of Poland? Come on... I turn off.
Angry? Post war trauma makes us angry and inpatinent. Transgenerational trauma. You can learn about it in Polish on the Internet. But yes. Honestly tell sb why he or she makes you angry and it's solved.
We also have a common history with the Dominican Republic. After all, the Polish legions sent by Napoleon were supposed to suppress the uprising in Haiti? (except it turned out the other way around) 😀
I think it's because to us Poles emotions are more private thing. They're like taboo in public and only shown between friends. We also tend to not show how we feel even to the closest ones which might be seen as this "heart-coldness".
That's right,our trust issues have to do a lot with history. Possibly peoples lives depended on loyalty and how thuthful someone was. Personally being a Pole I do have trust issues but to be honest it worked for me. Honestly when I meet somene and that person i "so nice" automaticly a red light in my head turns on saying watch it its to good to be true😅
East: I'm allowed to say whatever I want about anyone I want. We're free here. West: Nobody is allowed to say whatever they want about anyone they want. We're free here.
I think also, Poles are quite judgemental, but equally, assume other people are too. They judge and fear judgement. Hence they are reserved, try to not make a scene, be loud, obnoxious and out of the line (sticking to status quo) to avoid that judgement.
I think there are lots of very angry people in this country, which is a shame. Being polite and delicate to one other makes life so much better for everyone.
Przyjechałam do Polski że względu na sytuację rodzinną.44 lata temu wyjechałam do aJaponii,w której mieszkaliśmy 16 lat,potem były inne kraje.Przylecialam z pięknych,słonecznych Hawajów ,uśmiechniętych ludzi,przyjaźnie nastawionych do siebie i turystów z całego świata.Po 44 latach przyjechałam i przeżylam SZOK!!!! Ludzie bez uśmiechu,wyglądają na złych,ubrani na czarno,jakby nosili żałoby.Rzadko slyszę trzy słowa; proszę,przepraszam, dziękuję.Język,to rynsztokowym slang,co drugie słowo przekleństwo.Wszędzie dookoła palą papierosy te oryginalne lub elektroniczne.Nawet 12-14 lat.... Często młodzież siedzi w tramwaju i nie ustępuje miejsca o sobie niepełnosprawnej lub starszej,czy ciężarnej.Pijani awanturnicy na ulicy,skorzy do bójki.W sklepach bywa róznie,daleko do serwisu i naprawdę dobrej obsługi klienta.Mijając kogoś na ulicy uśmiechnęlam się,życząc miłego dnia.O coś poprosiłam,podziękowalam.Czasem patrzono na mnie z miną,a czy ja ją znam??.Polacy pytają " A pani,to nie stąd,prawda??" Poczekam chwilę mówiąc,prawda.Spotykając Straż Miejską,Policję, Strażaków pozdrawiam zamieniając kilka zdań.Zawsze to samo pytanie.Początkowo nie wiedziałam dlaczego.Kolega,który spędzil 22 lata w Irlandii powiedział powiedział,że jestem inna,z innego świata.Cudzziemcy,dużo studentów,którym chętnie pomagam,pytają,czy jestem Polką?? Znam kilka języków,więc nie ma problemu.Angielski jest uniwersalnym,do porozumienia.Niedawno spotkałam 3 studentki z Japonii,podeszłam i po japońsku zapytałam, w czym mogę pomóc.Byly zdumione i ucieszone że,im pomogę.Dalam mój numer tel.aby dzwoniły i możemy porozmawiać, spotkać się.Więcej lat spędzilam za granicą 44, niż w Polsce,około 2. Świat jest piękny, unikalny i ciekawy.Bądźcie dla siebie mili,empatyczni usmiechajcie się .Szanujcie siebie i innych. Przesyłam hawajskie pozdrowienie ciepłe i serdeczne od serca ALOHA 🤙🌈🥭🍍🏄♀️☀️
Even among Slavs, Poles are considered... cold and aloof, one could say. I know Russians and (some) Ukrainians think we treat them with superiority attitude. We rarely hug each other in public, nor (usually) greet each other with a kiss on the cheek. It's about personal space, I think. We value it, and our personal bubble tends to be bigger than other Slavic people. Where a Russian would go for bear hug and back pats, we offer a handshake. Or a hand wave if we can get away with it.
We're just not as happy as other nations. We keep our distance and we don't trust other people. Why should we be happy? For more than half a year it's cold, salaries are low, everything is expensive. We have our problems as everyone. Personally I'm not looking for friends and I'm not going to smile at everyone like crazy and pretend that everything is fine and dandy. Americans are more likely to do that.
I would say that Poles are Latinos of the East, they just mask it better. I mean we , as a fellows Pole , a Polish woman to be exact I can say that Poles are definitely warm blooded animals, we are just taught that you need to tame your emotions from a young age and also we are taught to assess the "oponent" . But we work hard , party hard and love hard ;) Yeas it takes a little to open up , warm up to people , but when you get a Pole on your side - you get loyalty and true care! When a Polish friend asks you how you are feeling we really do care how you are and will let you vent - but will also need to do the same. Poles love venting! It's a national sport honestly and we can get together and say "I feel shit, life is shit, work is shit" but we let all that out and go on about our day.
You’re a good observer of our Polish culture and traits but completely wrong about your own culture, sorry to say. I’m married to a Latino for 30 years and know many many of “his people “ I must say definitely their anger and related feelings leave us Poles in a dust😁😁😁
I just came across your channel. My great-grandparents came from Poland when my grandma was younger, I often wonder what Poland is like & wonder if I have any family over there ( I didn't know a lot of my dad's family & only got to spend time with my grandma when I was too young to ask questions and by the time I became a teenager she was gone & it was too late :( ... I have watched a couple of your video's and I can definitely say for sure I have a lot of polish DNA in me because I have many of the same characteristics ( thankfully some I have grown out of. Like the need to prove to someone, I am right. Now I am just like ok you think what you want ROFLMAO!) I should note I am honest to a fault so I usually never say I am right if I am not 99.9 % sure I am right, otherwise, I will say "I am not 100% sure but I think" Wait til I tell my daughter that when we are goofing around & call ourselves lazy or stupid etc.. we are just coming by it naturally :) I actually detest lying Especially if it's for a stupid reason :( Thanks for the video :)
I love your channel. I am using it as a manual to understand my beloved husband (just kidding, I have known him for 45 years now as we met in school as children, had friends in common, then became closer friends and then a couple only 6 years ago and married last April at the ripe age of 54. But this channel does help me understand just how Polish he actually is despite moving to Canada at the age of 4
Poland is one of the safest countries in the world but beware of that "babcia in Biedronka" 😅 , a granny in a hurry if you move to slow in a queue to the checkout 😂
He :D never thought about it that way. That telling the truth is rude in opinion of Westerners, like statistic US citizens, full of plastic chrome and all that BS :D Sad truth is that even as Pole, i have problems to talk truly about topic, problems, without going too emotional. Look at politics. Poeple could not stand technocratic goverment. Now it is all about emotions, zero engadgment in topic of discusion cutted from logos of parties.
I have mixed heritage, my mum was Italian, dad was Polish. Met at the end of ww2. My character therefore is an amalgam, I'm rather loud, hug everyone, gregarious, want to feed everyone, and that's the Italian side, then the Polish side often tells me to calm down a bit but then starts yelling and wants to give everyone a drink! So no one leaves my house hungry or thirsty (aka sober)! My internal conflicts are usually because one side is arguing with the other!!
my wife from philipines have spanish attitude .... not be confrotable infront of public .... and my polish attitude is oposite ... you wanna fight ? ok ..... and trust issue is from russian occupation when many betrayals was reporting any behavior against russian propaganda and was strike with force ... so your neghbour could report to the miltitia that something " they could kill you" and nobody will know ....
Maybe now you give a try on topic with "Polish R*cism"? And how this topic isn't really treated that serious here because we were always monoethnic and never even had colony?
@@GdzieJestNemo Hmm, i don't certainly agree on calling Kresy a polish colony, this was a deeply integrated part of country, same as it's hard to call siberia a russian colony, although i'm open for a debate
@@michuXYZ that how polish/lithuanian nobility refereed to Kresy. It was hardly integrated - you essentially had series of manors with close to no urban settlements where trade, craftsmanship or education would develop.
@@GdzieJestNemo It makes sense, but it was still different type of colony, we never enslaved any black man as western countries did, in fact we went to Haiti with Bonaparte just to change side on arrival and start helping Haitians. Some people will say, "Yeah, but you know you tried to buy Madagascar from French?" Yeah, i know, but we didn't succeeded, and situation with Courland's colonies wasn't really that straight
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Mówi o teraźniejszości, opisuje to co widzi wokół. Co kogo obchodzi polski charakter sprzed wojny? Poza tym zrobił dobry materiał o tym jak Polska odmieniła bieg historii i często odnosi się do niej.
WIEM CO MÓWI..NIE CZYTAM Z RUCHU WARG TO JEDNO-A DRUGIE NIE ROZUMIESZ MOJEJ UWAGI DO JEGO MATERIAŁU TO SIE NIE WTRACAJ...JAK WIDAC BRAK CI PO PROSTU ..CZEGOŚ..@@mahu5766
Opisuje co widzi co powinno sklaniac co autorefleksji a nie defensywy. Ten komentarz tylko potwierdza o czym Pan w filmie mowi, poelcam odrobine dystansu.
