Hi Kass and Josh although children ARE alot of ENERGY AND TIME, you will not find any humanely LOVE like your own child(ren). Watching other people's kids are TOTALLY different! Good luck with your decision. Don't forget to PRAY about it!
Y would be great parents, he's not your kid so it will be easier when it's your kid. You raise them the way you want them to turn out. Much love to you guys.
Why would you say they would be good parents. They have no clue what life is about. They cant even take care of themselves. Not being mean stating an obvious fact.
@@kellymatthews1304 I meant which their ready to have kids, they would be great parents. Not at this moment but eventually they would be, when their ready to do su. I know you weren't being mean, I'm not either.
Taking care of another kid is no mean feat! When you hav your own, you grow with them from a newborn, so you teach them the ways of your house, and they have their own toys there, and they know your rules and boundaries, which will def be different to another families. You'll be fine. You have a stable home, a stable marriage, and plenty of family support, so it'll be sweet :) Not to say there wont be hard times when you are sleep deprived and think the baby has been sent to torture you, but you get thru those, and realise it's all worth it. I have incredible problems with my 15yr old, but i still love them, and our family wouldnt be whole without them.
All kids are different no one is the same, y'all will know when you are ready for your own. Pray about it and don't be rushed into having little ones, my hubby and I waited 7 years, because we wanted time for each other and to be financially stable. You don't have to wait as long as we did, but give yourselves time with each other first. Because when you do have little ones time for each other flies out the window for the first couple years😊💖