Are You Even Alive????? [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.02.12] 

I'm glad that they blurred the daughter's face because children that age can tend to be very mean and they might make fun of her because of her family problems so I'm glad they protected her.

"you don't have to be married to have a kid" Dongwoo looked so shook

This is actually one of the most serious ones I've seen😅 especially after hearing about her daughter

Her having a child and leaving without a care in the world was so frustrating..wow

This episode makes me soo upset and sad.. i hope she keeps her promise.

This girl/woman needs some serious help and therapy - I think the bad people she met had something to do with drugs/gambling or something like that. And it’s clear that is what started it all. Also she is alcoholic. BUT the fact that she came to the show, shows that she really wants to change and wants help so desperately. I feel bad for her. This is very serious. And the effects it has on her daughter is just heartbreaking and a concern also.

i think, it's about time for hello counsellor to invite a psychologist/counsellor as well

The fact that she kept complaining about her family and saying she doesn't want to live with them, but then she expects her parents to pay for her debts. And she abandoned her daughter damn it! This might sound callous, but honestly, she ran away. She turned her back on her family. They owe her NOTHING. They should stop paying for her debts. Her not selling her father's jewelry was the only redeeming action.

The *worst* concern

Her situation is similar to mine. I am still a teenager and both my sister and I are raised by our grandparents. My mother left with another man with four kids and my father, well, he's still around, imprisoned for false accusation, but is with another woman and has a son. Everyone in our house, my grandparents, aunt and uncle, treats us like slaves, telling us things like "You should just sell yourselves so you could earn money" or "Even if you sell yourselves, no one would dare buy you" and even "When your grandparents die, you will either be our housemaid or just go work in a nightclub" which was always said to us when we sometimes do not clean the house or feeling lazy, because we're still just teenagers, we want to socialize and have fun. My grandmother would embarrass us, especially me, at public places, e.g. school, if she doesn't believe what I say or if my grades lowered or if I go home late because of projects but thinks that I've been out with friends. She would beat me in front of a crowd and yell at me. I have always been at the top of my class and what more do they want from me? Us? We tried running away but somehow it doesn't feel right and my grandmother always comes to pick us up. I've thought of cutting myself but I couldn't do it. But my sister did. Seeing her with those cuts made me cry while I was cleaning them. They have gone too far. We have been treated like it was a mistake that we were even born in this world. It's heartbreaking even though we try our best and I know we can have lapses at times. But it's suffocating here, in this house. The woman is lucky to have such understanding parents and she should move back in for the sake of her daughter. Seeing this made me cry because how I wish I could hold my mom again and be with her, get out of my house because everyday is torture. Not a day passes by without the yelling and nagging in this house and I don't know if I can still hold it in. But I should right? One day, I'm gonna get past all of this and have a bright future. Someday. I hope the best for their family.

at first I was angry at her but later I was super upset because she doesn't even realizes what she is doing wrong..... it's so sad and the daughter , I just want to giver her daughter a huge hug :(

It is really sad when dongwoo mentions his late father

Yes she may be wrong but I feel like she needs to see a real therapist. This will help her feel a lil better at least. But we cannot deny the chances of it going downhill again soon without proper help. I wish for the best for this family!

That 11yo girl they said so mature... she will be very upset as adult realizing she matured too fast.. missing the chances being a kid.. i grew up similarly as her.. being told my face remind them of my father and how they hate him.. tip toeing around uncles and aunts when u hv to ask for favors they hate to do.. staying in their place knowing u r not welcome... crying silently... all this will scar for life.. but once u learn not to self-pity, everything will be just a meaningful experiences that helped u grow.. then hardest to overcome---- comparing your unusual life with peers at very young age, which she have to go through... wish u all the luck in the world

It's really a concern. The problem is psychological, in one side the older sister can't take pressure from others or environment, other side the parents takes a hard way treating their daughter. Poor the granddaughter that takes thr hate from her grandparents. The solution is I think that the older sister could start prioritize her daughter, since she is her responsibility. And endure the stress from works, because she needs to pay a lot of debt. If she still can't endure it, there's no solution for it, to make she pay the debt. Since she wants to pay it first. Sorry bad English, and please take no offense.

The moment the dad started crying, I instantly started crying too. Poor parents honestly..

How could u not know ur daughter doesnt like u? U abandon her and left her. This is so frustrating. A 33yrs old acting like this is so selfish.

I love Baek Z Young, she gets straight to the point and adresses the concerns in the best way possible.

I really started crying after I saw the father crying. When the older sister came in, it looked like he wanted to act like they were already losen up their trust and hope of her. But then he started crying which made me realize, he really still loves her and it looks so much like he’s in emotional pain about seeing her daughter living like that. Everything good to their family!❤️😭

everybody has their own life story, whether it's bad or good. just saying. but dongwoo's expression is the best, he didn't even know that you can have a kid even without married, he's the best! XD

This is so sad. Her daughter even had to tell her to grow up. Everyone is suffering because of her actions. Her parents make her daughter cry because they are overwhelmed by the similarities she has with her mother facial wise. It's just not right.

Woohyun is crying😭

I somehow can relate to this. I've been run away from home for 3 years now, i only come back when its christmas or lunar new year. Same with her, i cant do regular job, i worked at a night club too, if i stay at home my parents would make me do some regular job in office or factory. But i dont have children, i also never send my bills home so my parent would be the one who pay that, i live in my own without being any burden to anyone. But this lady has a daughter, also she made her parents pay her shits and thats totally not okay, you're grown up woman you should be more responsible and stop saying things like "i need more freedom so i'd prefer to live by myself" NO GIRL, ITS NOT GOING TO WORK THAT WHY!! When you are already a mom, your child should be your number 1 priority, put aside anything about yourself, just focusing in your daughter and act your age!!!!!

I cried after heard her daughter's thoughts and the fact that Woohyun cried too its so heartbreaking 😭😭

So like in the end, when she met her daughter. She didnt look happy or like she was grateful. Its my opinion

언니의 행동은 가족이라ㅡ볼수가 없는것 같아요

“Pregnant for 100 days “ why is he such a baby lol😂😂😂😂 so cute

I’m imagining how different her life would be if she had good friends growing up...it’s so important to surround yourself with GOOD people throughout your life

When will she ever realise that her Daughter is the one who is hurting and in pain? I get that you have debt to pay, but you also have a daughter who is missing out on her childhood...wtf! And it must be frustruating for the grandparents but don't say that you hate your granddaughter just cus she resembles you own daughter. Dats fucked up

Its sad that the niece is gonna wind up being raised by her aunt and hate her mother. I can only see the oldest daughter changing when their parents are no longer around. And by then it'll be too late; everyone will blame her for her parents death, her child will have trust issue's and the aunt will have to put off getting married to raise her. How selfish can you get?

Woa, i just really want to apreciate the staff / production team for bring her there

when she was talking with her mom I cried 😢 that’s so emotional. She probably loves her mom so much but her mom isn’t making her a priority and that is so sad. My son is my first priority, not even just one of them.

When Dongwoo talked about his father, tears fall down. He even wrote song for him. 삼가 고인의 명복을 빕니다 아버님.

One of the best shows in Korea. I still watch the old episodes. It's very nice and relatable with social and family issues🥰

She cannot accept criticism. It's all about her. so frustrating, she doesn't even care about her daughter

This concern was.. exhausting. It's probably one of the most serious on the show, I was surprised. It's one thing to make a debt for your old sick parents and still want to drink with friends and not work, because it's hard. It's a whole another thing to also have a child at the age of 11, so mature and understanding. I can't blame her parents for telling the girl they hate her sometimes, they have so much on their heads. They can't even take it out on their own daughter, because she's somewhere living her life. Hope everything was resolved and she does what she said she would, gets a proper job and takes some of that stress of her parents and daughter's shoulders.

This is the most serious concern I've watched and this is the first time I cried watching this show

This is my favorite concern. I think about it regularly and watch it every time it comes into my recommended. I truly hope she kept her promise and their family is happier now.

WOOHYUN COULDN'T SAY ANYTHING PROBABLY BCOS OF ANGER AND DISBELIEF

돌아갈 곳이 있다는 것에 감사하시길 바래요..

This is the first time I’ve ever cried while watching this show. The moment they told to daughter to talk to the mother and the mother could barely speak back and ask what she was doing I burst out crying. It just broke my heart. I’ve seen so many episodes and this is the very first time I’ve cried.

Let's all be grateful for how lucky we are after hearing about the truly heartbreaking struggles others endure

I have nvr seen this kind of case before....I cried jst listening to that kid voice...I hope that kid will get lot of love from her mom nd grow up well.

Heartbreaking as it is I am somehow glad she finally got some sense in her head. People tend to be selfish sometimes always saying this is what I want but tend to forget their real purpose in life. I hope her daughter grows up well.

I've been watching Hello counselor for years and this is the first time I've ever cry. ah~ I do hope she's going to come home after this month.

my mother left me with my grandparents when i was a year old and she had similar reasons with this woman but i never really understood why. she brags about me to her friends and social media accounts about me receiving medals as the top of my class every year, and her friends praise her without knowing that i never bonded with her and i always think that she doesn't deserve the praises. i am not even comfortable when im with her.

Everytime I come back here, I can’t hold my tears. I hope they resolve everything and live happily.

This show have taught me alot. How precious moms are,how much our parents worked for us,how cruel parents can be and how ignorant they can be,how precious siblings are,how mean siblings can be,how much people love their friends,how spoilt can a child or your kids can be,how parents discriminate their children and so many other things too....this show needs to come back asap

This hit so close to home its unreal. I was in tears the while time 😢

This is the most complicated case that i’ve ever watched . i think it all started by the parents were not there when she needs them & also at some point she might be sick of all the madness of her parents threw at her but no one hear whats going on in her life she has no one mature enough at that time someone who would listen to her prob. grandparents her and sister all needs change to make better life for one and another , don’t be selfish and compliment even just A tiny change it’ll make it’all better. but i think she do need doctor to just opens up and clear of her head.

It’s fine she want to leave and live her own life but don’t send the bills over to you parents house. She knows her parents will pay for it or she will get in trouble. Don’t get pregnant and leave your daughter for you parents to raise. She is selfish and all she wants is to have fun and not have responsibilities.

Her mom is trying so hard not to cry. I just want to hug her tbh

i have watched this show for so long now and this is one of the first concerns that have actually made me cry. The way that she treats her family is just so rude, especially her daughter. I get that she had her at a young age but she's 33 now! She is more than old enough to be responsible of her daughter. All she wants is to have fun. She's been doing that since her teenage years, when is it ever going to be enough? She's just being selfish and immature at this point in life. She still makes excuses to run away from her responsibilities and doesn't want to do anything apart for fuck around. It makes me so mad. Even her daughter is more mature that her, i swear. ANd her poor parents? Gosh they are so sick and are going through so much that they even want to kill themselves! Is this how you're supposed to treat people who brought you up and only wanted the best for you??? I'm so done with her and i get that she wants to change but i honestly do not think that she will. best of luck to her family. If you actually read through this, God bless you and sorry for wasting your time.

The most concerning concern ever! I cried. And it’s not easy to make me cry.

i watched a lot episodes of hello counselor and sometimes cried but this ep was the most sad its so painful to see what the family had been going through bcs of her and especially for her daughter she needs her mom the most at that age. I hope they become a happy family now as they used to

I cry so many times while watching this show. There are so many broken hearts it just sucks

With them crying i can feel their deep longing and care for her no matter how frustrating she is to them 😔

I can't blame her of being that immature that was a psychological issue and most people can't really overcome it no matter how we see ourself normal. She really needs a counseling. Though on the other hand , the reality is whether the world is cruel or kind some people do good things while some people don't. Its weird that how could it be that some people can't do well instead even its good or bad.

진짜 맏딸이 저러면 마음이 무너지지 부모님 입장으로서...어휴 언니분 정신차리고 가족한테 잘하세요 나같으면 호적팠다

It’s so heartbreaking to see a bunch of people on the shoot crying. I’ve never seen so many people cry before in one hey counselor video.

엄마보니 아직 멀었네 철듢었으면 목소리 듣는 순간 눈물터젔을꺼다

I'm actually curious to the reason why she ran

The most painful hello counselor segment i have ever come across, i can stop shedding tears althrough the video. Family is painful things, its your strength and weakness. I love my family and can do everything for their sake. I wish evelasting happiness for this family and to be honest i really hoped one of these celebrities to support this family financially (maybe they did it in private who knows) although their problems lies greater than money.

I'm crying while watching this I hope they're happy now and can solve their problem together.

I love how she came here to resolve the concern, but In those years she felt suffocated, she could've talked with her family instead of just leave without any reason.

For the work that the MCs and guests have done on this case and others, I salute them

รายการดีมาก ขอบคุณคนทีาแปลชับไทยให้อ่านนะคะ

I think I cried so much on this concern. This is the serious concern ever I've watched.

Wahhh I think this is the most serious concert as long as I watch Hello counselor. Idk why ppl keep thinking and their own life when they have a children. I can understand what she felt but I'm sure that she could do better ❤

It seems like she liked the freedom from everyday life she got when she ran away, but clearly she’s got herself in a complete mess. But when she had her daughter she started to get back on track and stuck around for 3 years, but sabotaged herself and left again. From what she’s said it seems like she feels like a burden to her family, but instead of trying to change and turn things around she just carried on with the way she was living. I hope this has given her the push to change things and the family becomes closer.

I cry is much... as a mom I don’t think I can ever separated from my child. God bless them.

they should have a part 2 to this I wanna know if the family is doing okay I can't help but feel so bad for them.

I actually understand the older sister as I felt quite similar and had this kind of experience when i was younger, but when you grow up you change your idea. Once you leave the home you get some responsability and looking back you understand that it should have been difficult for your parents too, even if they fail they tried their best raising you. You can let go of old grudges this way

Watched this a second time and still cry along when the dad cried :'(

Wow this concern/situation is the most serious I've seen on Hello Counsellor. I got emotional throughout the video 😭

I cant count how many times I cry watching this TT

Im tearing up this late at night 😫 I aint gonna judge her of how she lives her life knowing she has a daughter and is in debt...but as u all know its also something for us viewers to learn from. (especially teenagers like me) ugghh this is truly the biggest concer Ive ever seen so far! really emotional right now hoping they lived happily together now ❤️😢 #LifeLessonsHere

I burst out of tears just in a few minutes. well they're almost resolve it now, I hope they can live together happily start from now on

well i know someone who is really close to me has the same problem ....her mother left her with her grandmother and grandfather and now she is17 ...she is so cheerful and happy and she Really Love her grandfather and grandmother and even if her mother didnt come back ...she is not sad...i really love her and wish for her a happy life without worry about anything .... i wish all people that have the same problem to be stronge ....

I cried a lot, Since i'm the eldest, I want the best for my parents and for my little brother I want to make them proud of me I promised them that i would study hard and achieve my dream job and i would help my brother finish his studies and achieve his dream too Watching this makes me really upset of how her older sister did to them

"When do you miss your mom?" "Whenever it rains after school, and i don't have an umbrella, i have to walk home by myself." THIS IS SO SAD 😭😭😭

This is a really serious concern that they can't joke about. I hope this family does well and survive!

I'm so sad for the parents and the sister despite everything she did , despite putting them in really bad , difficult situations and acting all selfish , they still felt happy and emotional seeing her and considered her family

this was deep> i really hope that she went home at the end of the month and got herself together. i cried this whole video.

She should start by paying that 9000$ first

Oh God !! Have mercy for this family !! I cry like a river !!! The daughter oh gosh

She reminds me of my step-sister and for the reason alone I don’t know if I have any faith that she will change. Best of luck to her and her poor daughter who suffers the most in all this.

This is so upsetting. There was obviously a deeper reason as to why she doesn't want to be with her parents, than just wanting to enjoy her life. I hope she seeks professional help to guide her through her pain and struggles. Her father being abusive, may have caused her to be traumatized for ever wanting to be in the same house, or even room, as them. Plus she experienced too much pain when she was young, from the people that lived in that area. Hopefully she manages to find a good paying job and pay off her dept, then she could afford to live, with her daughter, somewhere away from her parents (because they seem to be the underlying problem).

아이 통화에 만감이 교차하는군요. 자녀를 키우면서 어른이 되어가기도 합니다. 아이가 이모 할아버지 할머니 품에서 바르게 잘자랐네요

this is the first time i cry while watching hello counselor...

She have a understanding and good daughter❤

I cried a river while watching ths😢😢😢

She's crazy, leaving home withount any words and come to program tv after 5 years

No doubt she's probably gonna run away in 1 month probably feeling suffocated.

Hello counselor should be in all countries it is just such a good show they solve everyone's problems

Pity every one in this family. Everyone is depressed because of one person. I'm mad with her but she's also living a lonely life, and she gets stressed for over thinking about all her mistakes. She's afraid to go home because of the problems she made. I'm so glad that her sister came to this show and try to solve everything. I'm also glad that this show exists to help people out with their problems.

It's so saaaad 😢 I hate to see people sad. I hope they would live a happy life

This is one of the strongest cases I have seen in this show

They were really brave to shared their problem on TV.. Not everyone can do this..

I can't even find words to describe this woman