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In this podcast, we discuss the topic of are you ready to get married in Islam. Being ready for marriage in islam, or being ready to get married religiously is a very big step in self improvement, and we touch on some of the fundamentals such as deen, finances and intimacy. This topic is well discussed by other youtubers such as Gabriel Al Romani (Gabriel Al Romaani), Mahdi Tidjani, Ali Dawah (and his marriage documentary), Mohammed Hijab and Naima B Robert. This podcast all in all aims to give marriage in islam advice for muslim marriage, and discuss intimacy and financial readiness as well!
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00:00 - Join The 3 Muslims
00:11 - Introduction
00:44 - Necessity of Preparing for Marriage/nikah
02:42 - What it means to be ready for Marrage/nikah
05:28 - Being Financially ready
10:27 - Discussion on Mahr & optimum range
16:10 - Divorce in Islam
17:24 - Mahr other than Money
18:35 - The Truth about Finances
20:19 - Financial Advice for Men
21:01 - Investing in your spouse
22:09 - Being Physically Ready
27:47 - Importance of Intimacy
30:46 - Dealing with Physical issues
32:31 - Being Mentally Ready
39:30 - Dealing with Anger as a Man
43:40 - Being Spiritually Ready
48:45 - Closing Remarks
49:54 - Wrapping Up
50:06 - Join The 3 Muslims
50:17 - Outro
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@The3Muslims Год назад

SUBSCRIBE and let’s get 5k likes on this ep! Audio is fixed next ep! We MAY get Ali Dawah on this weekend ;) 🚨 Please Support Our Work ⬇️ ru-vid.comjoin

@DagestanderGustaffuson Год назад

Fresh & Fit and Tate are well aware of Sneako’s blue pill friends that have done hit pieces on them, Playback, Aba & Preach, Jordan Welch. They bring him around to see what type of info he’ll divulge because he can’t stop running his mouth nonstop on camera imagine what he tells them off camera. Not to mention, wise men realize someone who talks about others will likely talk about them. Best believe they know he’s talking behind their backs but bring him around for a certain reason we may not know. Think about it, he doesn’t benefit them the way they benefit him, he can’t help or teach them anything or even provide any value to anything they do the way they do for each other and him. Sneako doesn’t stick to his word, he said he’d stop making fun of Islamic prayers, apologized live on stream and then turns around and does it again on Fresh’s vlog yesterday after meeting a Muslim fan that wanted a picture with him. Once the fan was gone he made fun of his religious prayers. That’s a snake

@Emonss-mf6vq Год назад

Bros y’all should do an episode where you guys talk ab how to be more like the prophet Muhammad. It would be a great episode

@Saarimul_masloolUnapologetic Год назад

Write sallalahu alaihi wasallam that is compulsory

@MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df Год назад

How to be more like Prophet Mohammad (Sallahu Alihi Wasalum)??? 🤔You can't but can be a better Muslim by following his footsteps...

@pts394 Год назад

Yes please

@saaleha6603 Год назад

This was solid 👌🏽 - I duno where my previous comment went.. RU-vid doesn't like me 🙃.. -It's also important parents teach their kids being realistic about expectations regarding mahr and their weddings. More barakah is gained in simple ceremonies, and like Rami said mahr can be dependant on your current financial status and doesnt even need to be money. -Go into marriage with the right mindset and intentions. You go in with negativity then expect negativity to happen. We really need to stop the whole 'what if' or 'just incase' mentality. Have tawakkul and trust in Allahs plan whatever happens.

@The3Muslims Год назад

This is very true! May Allah grant you ease while they’re c3nsoring u

@saaleha6603 Год назад

@@The3Muslims I need sabr they testing me 😂😂

@gagsjjmomom9014 Год назад

the what if mindset is from shaytan, stay away!!

@thetruthwithproof8802 Год назад

✝ The Christians have no reply to the following 3 Questions The Christians are celebrating Jesus died for our sins 🕺😊🕺😊🕺😊🕺 The Christians claim Jesus had to die for Our sins, because we humans are too sinful ➜ Why was there no need for a human sacrifice in the past according to the bible ❓❓❓( Mankind has always sinned from Day 1 & the teaching from all the past prophets was just REPENT ) ➜ What did the Christians gain from the so called sacrifice from Jesus if they must repent just as the muslims do ❓❓❓ ➜ If Jesus really willingly died for our sins, why did he beg God to save him from getting killed ❓❓❓ ( Jesus cried out in a Loud voice, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?") ( Matthew 27 : 46 )

@danaeskandarani4251 Год назад

Mash’aAllah! Jazakum Allahu Khiran for this beneficial episode! It would be great to start a marriage series insh’aAllah! May Allah (SWT) reward you immensely for your work! Ameen!

@SRS541 Год назад

Make a podcast for the younger brothers who are trying to get over a haram relationship and come back to Islam.

@Happy-out-side1234 Год назад

MashaAllah this was amazing advice, you guy's are good strong Muslim men your already setting a great example all three of you,that's why Allah has gifted you wife's I know one's not married but insha'Allah he will to be snapped up. MashaAllah my Allah bless you all.Ameen i love making that Du'a♥️

@Gearz4lyfe Год назад

Content always on point Allahumma Barik

@BluetekFREEGAMES Год назад

Im a man i agree with brother Rami with the Mahr , it depends on your income 100%. Lets be honest she leaves her home to come to you , she gives you her body , she obeys you , rasing your children. I dont know if you guys are aware but women are more fragile . if a divorce happen , it will harder 5x times to find another spouse for her. but a man is build diferently we can move on and marry an other women . she is left a vidov(yes its a good deed to marry a vidov but comeone , people will always try to search for virgins naturaly) . my conculison is that i would pay whatever is in my capability , and i think she doesnt even have to tell you what she is gona do with that money . I know the other brothers perspective that if it is a good muslim women why would she ask for lots of money , i also agree but you cant complain if it is in your capability ,

@tjc4085 Год назад

Yes, please do an ep on domestic violence. I’m Bengali and I’ve had to grow up in a world where punching your wife in the face is common and easily forgiven and forgotten

@faizahzubairu5321 Год назад

Maa Shaa Allah, it's the editng for me💜

@shidous Год назад

JazakumAllahu khayran brothers, solid advice, just wanted to add to the physical aspect; hygiene is extremely important, you have to be able to take of yourself properly and not be dirty! The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: Cleanliness is half of faith... (Sahih Muslim 223)

@shannons6188 Год назад

I understand what Anghel is saying but from a woman’s perspective some may believe that if you’re earning a million a year then why should it be hard for you to give me 50k as mahr. She’s assessing his mentality and how he is as a person because if he’s willing to give 50k (whilst being a millionaire) then it shows he’s serious. Otherwise why is it so hard for you to give me that amount of money? Of course she would ask the amount based on the potential husband’s income. But Subhanallah it’s interesting to hear about this from a man’s perspective. EDIT: ok Rami just said what I commented Alhamdulilah 😂

@AccursedBlade Год назад

mA amazing episode. I feel bad for those who clicked off cuz of the audio, y’all rlly missed some gems.

@hermainkhan8965 Год назад

You guys are close to 100k subs yay!!

@asadullahsaaid3794 Год назад

*Timestamps:* 00:00 - Join The 3 Muslims 00:11 - Introduction 00:44 - Necessity of Preparation for Nikah 02:42 - What does it mean to be ready for nikah? 05:28 - Being Financially prepared for Nikah 10:27 - Discussion on Mahr & its optimum range 16:10 - Divorce in Islam 17:24 - Mahr options other than Money 18:35 - The Truth about Finances 20:19 - Financial Advice for Men 21:01 - Investing in your spouse 22:09 - Being Physically Ready for Nikah 27:47 - Importance of Intimacy 30:46 - Dealing with Physical issues 32:31 - Being Mentally Prepared for Nikah 39:30 - Dealing with Anger as a Man 43:40 - Being Spiritually prepared for Nikah 48:45 - Closing Remarks 49:54 - Wrapping Up 50:06 - Join The 3 Muslims 50:17 - Outro SubhanAllah 💖🤍❤️ Excellent Discussion 👍🏻👌🏻 _May Allah ﷻ bless you all and reward you for your efforts._ 🤲🏻

@OneWorthyofWorship Год назад

May Allah constantly reward you for always putting the time stamps

@hamnarajput2175 Год назад

May Allah bless you immensely

@blue-rw4zf Год назад

Beneficial as always. May Allah bless you all!! I just had a suggestion. While we are talking about all the topics. Can we also include the corrupted cultural practices that seemed to be practiced in large numbers in the African/Arab/ Asian society.

@maaz461 Год назад

Mashallah ❤️❤️, you guys are my favourites 😍🥰🤩

@ellem.o.6641 Год назад

Why is the audio not clear?

@Full2635 Год назад

26:40 It’s better to be a Warrior in a garden than a gardener in a War

@MisterSolitude Год назад

Depends. There's a lot you can do with a spade and a chainsaw.

@jojobaoil8736 Год назад

Intelligence and maturity is very important to us girls.

@sirArminFazeli Год назад

MashAllah brothers ❤️

@Mohamed-zo3mn Год назад

What was the name of martial art Anghel mentioned?

@KA-ou5lg Год назад

Great video brothers, Allahumma Baarik. One thing though, MMA > Krav maga 🤣

@sekoudiarrassouba9456 Год назад

23:03 was too good😂😂, couldn’t stop laughing wallahi

@MHShah17 7 месяцев назад

I am 25 and have epilepsy, living off ODSP (ontario Disability Support Program) and my parents, I don't have a job or experience, I dropped out of university because of my seizures, am I worthy of trying being a husband? My seizures have also made me lose confidence and made me feel useless, incapable and even suicidal, I try to find hope in Allah and my family, but after 10 years many medications and a brain surgery didn't do much, do I have any hope?

@Hudanasheeds Год назад

Think about it the more you improve yourself the better will be the quality your future spouse, hight quality man wants a high quality woman and the other way around

@Mohdzn Год назад

25:23 what did he say? i didnt catch it

@Saifjadallah95 Год назад

Does it sound like they’re in a washroom or is it just my new iPhone 13?

@jennet6080 Год назад

Your mic is not working

@fahmidafatima3394 Год назад

A documentary should be made on "What is a man?" instead. We are in a society where we rarely see feminine women and masculine men. What we see is a creature in between. i.e feminine men and masculine women.

@Ghuraba1990 Год назад

Did Anghel marry a Thai lady? Was that the reason he moved there lol. Also as he’s newly married would love to know how he found his spouse, was it through ppl or websites

@salmaanli6188 Год назад

Ur mics were off

@HarisH-my2lm Год назад

Mahr of the Mothers of the Believers With regard to the question about the mahr of the Mothers of the Believers: Muslim narrated in his Sahih (no. 1426) that Abu Salamah ibn ‘Abd al-Rahman said: “I asked ‘Aishah, the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), what the mahr given by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was. She said: ‘The mahr that he gave to his wives was twelve uqiyah and a nashsh.’ He said, Do you know what a nashsh is? He said, she said it is half of an uqiyah. That was five hundred dirhams. This was the mahr given by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) to his wives.” Ibn Khaldun said: “The consensus of the scholars from the beginning of Islam and the time of the Sahabah and the Taabi’in has been that the shar’i dirham is that of which ten coins weigh seven mithqals of gold. The uqiyah is forty dirhams of this type, and on this basis it is seven-tenths of a dinar… All of these amounts are agreed upon by scholarly consensus (ijma’).” (Al-Muqaddimah, p. 263) Based on this, the weight of a dirham in grams is 2.975 grams. So the mahr of the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was 500 x 2.975 = 1487.5 grams of silver. The price of one gram of pure silver that has not been worked is approximately 1 riyal, so the mahr in riyals is approximately 1487.5 riyals. In dollars it is approximately $396.70 (this varies depending on the present price of silver).

@shamstabrizi4985 Год назад

Can you talk about suicide and depression?

@bootsmade4walking Год назад

I don't know if I agree about not being set financially before marriage. Women crave stability and kids are expensive!! Their needs (and reasonable wants) should be met without stress, inshaAllah. You want to be set before taking on that HUGE financial responsibility. Men without a college education should consider going to trade school to get a formal skill to build a stable income upon.

@weshouldsaveourselves6780 Год назад

i sorta agree. best thing to know is get married asap. so many benefits. sexually. mentally. deen wise

@bootsmade4walking Год назад

@@weshouldsaveourselves6780 that's real

@MisterSolitude Год назад

Should poor people never get married? What is your solution

@bootsmade4walking Год назад

@@MisterSolitude Financial literacy and (relative) stability can be achieved at any level of wealth -- whether you're blue collar or white collar. If a man wants kids, he should prepare to financially provide for his family -- that doesn't mean he has to be a millionaire or live in a mansion. It does mean that his income is enough to provide stability and core family needs based on Islamic standards

@MisterSolitude Год назад

@@bootsmade4walking what if he can't? "stability" could take years sometimes decades. Especially with the picky women of today's day and age. Let's not forget that upskilling is also difficult. Many universities /colleges are expensive and the loans contain riba.

@Saarimul_masloolUnapologetic Год назад

Maximum people here are too young to get married 😀.....

@ItsMeRunNgun Год назад

Maximum?

@Saarimul_masloolUnapologetic Год назад

@@ItsMeRunNgun i suppose 😀

@akram-wonders724 Год назад

Shout out to who 5:13!?!?

@weshouldsaveourselves6780 Год назад

the faster you can get married the better.

@khadijah372 Год назад

Aanghel = Roaring Lion 🦁

@pts394 Год назад

Day 1 of asking you to create an official discord server

@Simple_Minded Год назад

you just have to be 5.11 my 5.4 ass watching this XD

@amaanmuhammad2502 Год назад

Says who ?

@tjc4085 Год назад

Go for a girl whose 4.11

@amaanmuhammad2502 Год назад

@@tjc4085 why ? . I’m 5’10 who might grow a bit more cause of my age

@Simple_Minded Год назад

@@tjc4085 oh yeah, its all coming together :D

@Atae01 Год назад

Bro relax

@Userdoesnotexit Год назад

mic not working ?

@manofthefuture_LD Год назад

Ther is summiting wrong with audio

@The3Muslims Год назад

Have u read the message in the first few seconds LOL

@Dont-worry1618 Год назад

The first millisecond they talked about that. Unless u skip the video.

@muslimresponses9731 Год назад

Jazakallahu khairan for this! I seriously need to know everything about marriage I wanna be a good husband inshallah I plan on marrying a niqabi (with the gloves and covered nose as well) Please make dua for me Edit: don't mind me i can't watch this video in one sitting 11:50

@mufunyiibrahim3655 Год назад

I just saw a niqabi walking out of a lodging with a non Muslim man after a few hours since they entered. Its unfortunately the place is near my workplace so don't be deceived by niqabis

@donquixote3292 Год назад

1. Have a consistent monthly & full time employment 2. Workout daily (lifting weights in the gym or training a martial art). This will get you in shape, and give you mental fortitude and discipline. 3. Get involved in your local Muslim community. Be confident and make others aware of your intention to get married, so you are more likely to be referred someone. Most of the guys I know who are happily married, followed this formula here. They were in a stable career, they were in shape and also mentally tough, as well as introduced to a woman from their local Muslim community.

@dom3073 Год назад

@@mufunyiibrahim3655subhanAllah, where is this? which country?

@Ak-vl7xb Год назад

How old are you?

@Saarimul_masloolUnapologetic Год назад

Boi asalamu alaikum.... Look for deen not niqabi

@Adam-kh9rb Год назад

Haram and zina is now so normalised hence people don’t want to marry its like the need is not there. Its too easy with all these apps to do flings or short term tings esp as we all live busy lives so you get that physical satisfaction so easy like what you need to marry for when you already have everything. This is the real issue in western countries esp.

@mufunyiibrahim3655 Год назад

Not in western countries alone, its happening here in Africa. You won't believe how hijabis are doing zina with non Muslim men

@Adam-kh9rb Год назад

@@mufunyiibrahim3655 theres a reason brother why more women will be in the hellfire and fewer women will be married as the years go on. Rise of the dayouth and weak men is allowing for this to occur.

@mufunyiibrahim3655 Год назад

@@Adam-kh9rb there's nothing men can do about it unless you want to be falsely accused of violence and spend some time behind bars

@Happy-out-side1234 Год назад

No one wants me 😭🤣🤣🤣 never mind it's all in Allah s plan. Please make Du'a my dear brothers. 😔😊

@noneofyourbuizness Год назад

You made me laugh. Be patient sis Allah will give you a good man Inshaa Allah . Keep working on yourself ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Happy-out-side1234 Год назад

@@noneofyourbuizness aww Jazakum Allah Khairun brother 😊♥️

@Happy-out-side1234 Год назад

@Adoan Mian SubhanAllah you guys have shown so much love your your sister in Islam 🥲🥲🥲 this is what the ummah is all about being concerned for one another MashaAllah.♥️♥️♥️