ARIELLE SCARCELLA AT IT AGAIN?? 🔪 (REACTION VIDEO) 

Just Miles kudos to you.

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So much respect for you🙌 everyone should think like you. I mean your right what if a gay man called you homophobic for being attracted to girls..anyway I get a lot of people are pan or bi but some of us are boring and straight. And I'll acknowledge you are the gender you feel like and present as but if I like dick and you don't have one then I'm sorry...I can acknowledge you look like a man and even your good looking but am I turned on..? No and that shouldn't be he end of the world lots of people will find you attractive. I'm not transphobic because of that

Smoky The bear that’s all we ever want, we are men/women regardless of there genitalia

Agree, 100%.

Maridith Stading It is so transphobic, I have no words.

Sen Tariana It isn't

Sen Tariana are you for real? Hasn't the LGBT community been fighting to say that who their attracted to isn't a choice for so long? Now they have to argue themselves saying that who their attracted to isn't their choice? Jesus Christ is went from defending your right to be attracted to someone to defending your right to not be attracted to someone. YOU AREN'T ENTITLED TO OTHER'S ATTRACTION.

But that's exactly his point tho.. u stated the exact same situation with two different opinions

Maridith Stading How is not wanting to date someone who is trans not transphobic but when your already dating them then it is when you want to break up? That's dumb. That person has every right to break up with them if they want to. Just tell the person you are trans! If you feel they wouldn't date you if they find out then don't date them. Find someone who wouldn't mind dating a trans person or better yet date a trans person too. Don't just start dating someone before telling them something like that because it's not ok. They might not like the thought of dating trans people to begin with so dating them then telling them might not change their mind. And think about this. What if a trans person date a straight person and keeps it secret then he finds out, gets upset, feels lied to and wants to break up. But no! He can't dump her because they already started dating and it's too late to back out now! Never mind the fact she should have told him in the first place. It's not fair.

SJ Nielsen hey, just a quick support message, if you identify as a man then you are a man! Stay strong! No tran gets left behind! 💙❤❣❤💙

SJ Nielsen sorry, I know that my words can't really help you, but I get it. I felt exactly the same watching two cis woman tell me in a patronising tone that I was either a tomboy or a man in a dress during the two genders video. The best way to deal with it is remember that these people are cis, they don't know shit about what it's like to be trans. And you know how you can sort of look into yourself and see what gender you are (after all, that's how you know you're trans in the first place)? I find it can be really comforting to be able to look at yourself and know that what you see is a man (or in my case, a genderless person). You know what you are, so remind yourself that while you might not have what Arielle considers a male body, she's just some TERFy stranger online, and you know you better than she does.

Oscar thank you!

SJ Nielsen I have no idea if you've ever come across this on tumblr but there's a post on the internet about this song from Mulan that talks about the characteristics someone would need in order to be considered a man and how never once they mention penises. So don't worry about what Arielle says, what counts is that Disney and Mulan know you're a guy no matter what your genitals look like

That the lgb community makes. The t does not believe that at all clearly.

Ribb Rotgut You must really like helping Chase out with all these comments you're leaving! Also you swerved past the point so hard it's laughable.

Alexandra You must be trans, I see you everywhere complaining about people not wanting transgender people

He never said it wasn't.

If the way you react to an argument is by completely disregarding what they *actually* said, or by somehow switching your mind off and hearing what you wanted to hear, you should seriously reassess pretty much *every* position you hold, since if this is how irrational your thought process is it's basically a shot in the dark.

At this point, I choose to assume that you didn't watch this video and it's compiled 10 minutes of chase saying that having sexual preferences, and your responsibility to analyze how they work and what is the root of these preferences, are two different things.

Thank you!

Univerzion Ya, it kind of reeks of conversion therapy.

Univerzion :) I agree

THANK YOU! i was trying so hard to put this into words (it was a little hard because i’m bi and can be attracted to anyone) but this is exactly what i was trying to say.

Yes but there's a difference between not being attracted to trans women and not being a trace to women with penises because a lot of trans women don't have penises! So by saying you don't like a trans woman's parts you're assuming all trans women have penises which is a stupid generalization. So it is understandable to say you're not into penises but not to say you're not attracted to trans people, assuming what they have downstairs.

Seva Quinn Parra an inverted penis is also not a vagina.

Anj Mirage 👍 much love brother

the assumption of trans people not having children is why I left a comment. not because someone was saying I didn't exist. I'm not sure why you are so angry. lol everythings going to be alright.

Nobody's denying your reality.

I'm not going to repeat myself but you can read what I left for a comment again if you want. just go slowly, if you need to, so that you can understand it more easily.

yess bless you and your family

long distance phone relationship

That was My question!!!

Hahahah my thoughts exactly

Blind date?

Online dating which is pretty popular -_-

this is my favorite comment ever.

THANK YOU!

There's a difference between being offended and facing rethoric that feeds into extremely high rates of suicides or hate-crimes and having it aimed directly at the person... Like, I'd laugh at a christian being offended that I said I'm an atheist because, I'm not aiming at him and he's being a dramaqueen-king, my atheism isn't out to get him-her. But going out of your way to tell an entire community that based on what You think is in ALL of their pants, not their character, nothing of the sort.. just the assumption of how the trans-sexuality works (visible identity and opposite sex genitalia) you don't want to have a relationship, that's not "I'm offended" level, that's basic bigotry... Why ? Because at no point do you stop and think "hey maybe, this community doesn't care that I, as myself, don't want to date them... Let's just wait and see if I ever meet a trans-person, if I find myself wondering if I'm attracted, if not move on like any other case of not being attracted to a person..Simple.".. The fact that at the point where you need to ask yourself the question, you give a broad answer is already weird in a way because it denies the chaos of life and replaces it mechanically with "all thousands of them : nope".. When life just keeps on showing that whatever you expect, you probably wont have as planned.

Marion MetathInk So you want pity fuck, well that’s not going to happen.

it's his entire personality.

See how the video says “reaction”? Or how at the beginning he says multiple times that he is “reacting” to? What you describe in your comment are reactions.

@@Ranga3595 lol exactly

it’s a reaction video. this was never made to be an argument you idiot

@@Ranga3595 hear how miss chase the girl said it’s fobes to not like lady men??? That’s silly, sir ma’am

Morticia Bloodsworth I don’t think having preferences based on sex is necessarily transphobic but it is to assume the genitals and experiences of all trans people and then to base your decision on whether or not to date them on those assumptions. Chase is being really dramatic and he could be much more collected but I don’t really blame him since the topic of the video is something that obviously hits really close to home for him

I agree if it was asexuals like myself would be the most bigoted people out there

Morticia Bloodsworth TYPING IN ALL CAPS MAKES IT TRUE

No, but excluding trans women because they aren't 'full women' because of their genitalia IS TRANSPHOBIC. Beginning to say i wouldn't even date a trans woman because they must have a penis and I don't want to have sex with her genitals IS TRANSPHOBIC.

alms sosa no it’s not dude. I don’t like pussy. I am a straight white female. Why would I like it if it was attached to a dude??! And I don’t like females like the actual body type and gender and wouldn’t want to date them. So why would I want to date a chick with a dick?! I want a dude with a dick this shit is fucking rape culture. I want someone who is both physically and biologically a male. I’d like to have kids , the natural way with my husband. Wtf is wrong with a fucking preference??

stupid people do and trash

There are woman that really want to be pregnant. It's important to alot of women. They want the experience. The experience of women's superpower. Having a human being grow inside them.

it's not about who she is/isn't attracted to, it's about the way she is using language in a way that makes dysphoria worse, and makes assumptions that aren't true.

@@idkwhatthisisanymore7840 well perhaps if trans activists stopped policing others' sex lives then maybe gays/lesbians wouldnt feel the need to 'use language in a way that makes dysphoria worse'

Vasilije Rajović that’s not true at all. That’s a way over simplification. Do you know why statutory exists? It exists for “consensual” rape. So when an older person has sex with a younger person it’s rape because the adult are assumed to understand their actions and a child is not. This also applies to boss and employee. Which, some people think is rape. The boss like an adult holds power over the employee. So even if it’s consensual it’s still coerced sex. Then there is the case of a drunk and sober person. Is that rape? The drunk person said yes. You see, sometimes people say yes and it’s not a yes.

Vasilije Rajović you clearly didn’t read my post. First off, you will notice I didn’t say that no means yes. Although I can see you don’t know how to read. I was showing that rape has a broader definition. Secondly, you don’t really help your case when you imply people who have a more nuanced opinion than are incels.

Vasilije Rajović you just be trolling. You aren’t even responding to what I am saying. Good luck being uncritical. I am sure it won’t serve you well.

Kojla MC it's a woman

Chase has already stated he doesn't want anything to do with Blair White because she's horrendous so he won't respond to any of her videos. I think it's a good decision, she doesn't need any more validation. She does not speak for the trans community, she's a fucking bigot.

@@Winterappleby How are they a bigot?

aytnsd that’s not true, he won’t make a reaction video to blaire bc he’s a pussy

@Samuel Clamuel Yeah, no. Just because someone calls themselves a man doesn't make them one. Just because they call themselves trans doesn't mean they are. I won't be lumped in with the likes of him lmfao.

(Also your hair colour is on point omg you're making me miss having pink hair haha)

Lololol 😂 😂 😂 same!!!!!!!

teenagerfrommarss i was about to per my dog and I stopped to watch this

Drew Jahnle shit that's dedication

Right like I"m at work right now just LIVING

That comment was more about race than trans issues but I'm a racial moinority not a sexual? Minority. Is that it? Gender minority? Idk I'm sure you know what I mean but is it transphobic of me to date a man and then refuse to sleep with him cause he's pre op trans? I don't have sex with vagina. From what I know there is no surgery to replicate an organic penis (correct me if I'm wrong). And I'm not into dildos or pack and plays. I find them a plastic knock off of the real thing (which they litteraly are) and they are not sexually arousing to me. Ik this may be limiting sex to penis involved sex but I'm a bottom who likes sucking and receiving and so then the whole point of sex (pleasure and intimacy) is bisected because I'm not receiving pleasure from my partner (if they are trans). Intimacy is great and all but it's not enough for a full relationship so yes. I will break up with a guy if he's trans cause have the relationship is gone. Does this make sense. It's not about being transphobic. I'm not. I beleive everyone human deserves the right to be happy in their own individual and unique way. That includes people having the freedom to be attracted to whom they want with out fear of being shamed or called a bad person for not conforming to your specific type of happiness. Everyone is diffrnt. Embrasses it. Different opinions and ideaologies is what makes the world a rich and diverse place. Stop trying to make people conform to what you want them to or else we'll always live in an echo chamber and in a world of thin skinned weak willed people

I truely am sorry if my mention of trans men not having penis's makes you feel disforick. I really am. I don't want to come across as attacking you. I'm only stating my opinion on your video just as much as you are for Ariel. It's no excuse but I don't have the termjnology or vocabulary for what trans men call their genitalia and I'm not going to say "I don't have sex with trans genitalia" cause that's limiting my opinion to not sleeping with trans men when I also don't sleep with cis women (except in a few drunk three ways). I'm sorry if this all sounds super objectifying but I'm a sexual blunt human being. My relationships are heavily sexual and intimate and it makes me just as uncomfortable sleeping with that particular biological genitalia. I'm just trying to state my honest opinion and give you a different perspective. Again I apologize profusely for inflicting any sort of disforia on you with these comments. That's not the purpose

Also her saying "My sexuality is I'm a lesbian, I will only date women" like...TRANS WOMEN...ARE WOMEN. It's so odd that she keeps saying she only dates women as an explanation for not dating trans women and then says like "of course they're women but..."

That's what I'm saying!!

thats the thing about straight cis people love = sex

Listen and believe, no I will not! No I'm sorry sexual orientation is not about the genitals only. It is about what you are physically attracted to. If you are homosexual that means you are attracted to the same gender or sex , If you want to put it that way, is how it is defined. But it is not only about someone's genitals. People first look at someone and find them attractive. They are not looking at their genitals. They are first and foremost attracted to the physical body of a person and then they realize that they are attracted to them because A, B, and C. Genitals do fall into the mix at some point but it is not the first thing a human being thinks about when attracted to another human being. And if that is the only thing you think about when you look at a person then you're mental.

Sex is also a social construct but these people could read a thousand page study about that and still not get it.

Matthew i'll bet *anything* i have even more little fists but i won't hesitate to use them

Matthew Im not a trans woman and like 5" but I am also here to defend trans women!!!!

Me and my little fists will join you!

Y’all need to be excluded. You aren’t women. Get over it. You’re making LGB people look bad by not understanding what consent is. We don’t like the opposite gender, your hormones doesn’t change you

Men*

Almost 14 minutes in, had to make another comment. Chase you've made some really good points but using these dysphoria inducing terms provides clarity. These two are cis with largely cis audiences and most cis people still don't understand terminology and the importance of correct terminology. I agree that what she said was wrong, mostly because a trans girl isn't gonna want her part to be the center of attention like you said; most of the time anyway since some girls are fine with it. But this person is trying to have a high amount of clarity. I haven't had any problems with what she's said so far. She says she isn't attracted to classically male parts and therefore will not date someone who has them. If she did indeed say she wouldn't date a trans girl who was pre-op it's possible that it's because she would be depressed and conflicted during that pre-op time and without intimate knowledge of a person (which no one has at the beginning of the dating cycle unless they were friends for years) there's little reason to subject herself to that. I think that's fine, it again sucks but it doesn't make her transphobic. People will always protect themselves first, at least when it comes to strangers or near strangers. What she was saying about race is that racial attraction is based on appearance so if you are attracted to someone you obviously don't have dating preferences against that person so finding out their race shouldn't change things. For me I think people also get off the hook because of culture, but that's a little cowardly depending on the cultural things they aren't attracted to. Anyway, trans people are different because the revealing a person is trans reveals that things you haven't seen might not be what you expected. Racial differences aren't so hidden so finding out a race and finding out a gender are very different things. Very different. Extremely good point about assuming genitals but so many cis are called out for asking what genitals a trans has, what other option to they have? They either have to ask or assume and people are going to choose what they percieve as the safest option. What she said about sexual vs romantic is correct, sexual attraction is most of the time physical while romantic is mental. Like I said in the above comment, a person who is initially attracted to someone should try to look past these things or ask if they are even a concern but relationships are complicated. I feel like you're demonising what they're saying with little to no basis in it simply because they've been transphobic in the past... What they have said so far is NOT transphobic, ignorant of trans nuances maybe but not trans phobic. You said yourself that she's allowed to not like male parts so I don't understand the drastic reactions. However, some of the things you're saying make sense and needed to be said, I think a video dedicated to teaching these things to the cis community would be good, perhaps better than this reaction video but it's online now so that's fine. Anyway, continuing now, man this is gonna be a long one.

17 and half minutes in. First thing they said I have disagreed point blank with. EXCELLENT POINTS about children. I'm actually kind of pissed off about that. Video is still running and Jaclyn said if she built a connection with a trans guy who was pre op or not op she would give it a try because she now loves that person. I think that's very good of her. I understand you being upset but she obviously doesn't know about genital changes on T or E so... I think you should try to understand what she's trying to say, she's not trying to be offensive.

30 and a half minutes in. I... am conflicted lol. I agree for the most part with what they're saying, sexuality is about physical attraction and its definition is based on who you would be intimate with. I agree. Romantic attraction covers the other side of relationship and attraction. I literally cannot see what was wrong with them saying that. But I also agree with a lot of what you're saying. One thing though, ouch. "I don't know why they'd call themselves gay if they were [attracted to boobs]." Ok so first thing, there are guys who are attracted to big men, biiiig men, men who have moobs because of fat. These guys often enjoy the pre top surgery form of a trans guy if that trans guy is fat or large because they see them as big moobs. Second point is that I often call myself gay, I am attracted to both women and men but because I prefer men and I have had bad experiences dating women I describe my sexuality as gay because I am most open to a relationship with a guy and it makes things simpler. That being said if I was interested in a girl I would probably revert back to called myself bi. Third point, you JUST distinguished sexuality and romanticism yet you say that being attracted to boobs invalidates you as a gay man? How? What if they're gay romantically and bi sexually, they'd likely call themselves gay for clarity. What if they're attraction to boobs is fetish based even though they're gay? It's sad and offensive to see her generalise like that. I've made a lot of conscessions for her up to this point - mostly saying that her use of terminology and lack of understanding the complexities of transness is because she is cis and likely just doesn't know this is wrong and because she's trying to be as clear to her audience as possible and using correct terminology can make debates like this confusing. But she is gay, she is close to the issue of attraction and she even knows about romanticism vs sexuality so it is extremely sad she has generalised this point so much. I'm also getting sick of her referring to penises, it's making me a bit emotional as well. I was able to ignore it before but it feels like this whole debate is stupid and it's just making me sad.

33 minutes in and BAM yes, oh man they made that classic mistake of assuming transition is simple and that every trans person is the same. Fuck no. Another point is related to the video they are reacting to, disability... um, no? I mean I agree we shouldn't discriminate, I am disabled by frequent body pain, headaches and anxiety so I understand a little about disability but here's the thing; I would never blame someone for not dating me because of my anxiety. I would be pissed off and depressed because I need them but I would understand. Brain damage, autism and a bunch of others puts a huge strain on communication which is hard enough as it is. And what if part of what you are attracted to and love in people is they're active side or how you feel when they are standing over you? When you lose that it hits like a train. If a person you loved became disabled and you left them there are countless reasons why that could happen that all essentially boil down to leaving them because of their disability. But it's way more complex than that and the pain, emotional conflict, personality changes, loss experienced during this time takes an incredible amount of strength and self control most people don't have to get through it. It's hard. I am personally not that attracted to people who are disabled physically, I am terrified of falling in love and that person becoming disabled. I would try of course and if I met a disabled person who I found I was attracted to I would definitely try. But this is a huge issue and to call people out as monsters for giving into their primal instincts to avoid people who are disabled or who give in to the stresses and loss associated with their loved one becoming disabled is, in my opinion, invalidating the struggle they go through. I'm sorry if this offends you, disabled or not, I realise it can be extremely difficult to be disabled but sometimes people just can't look past what the disability means for a relationship. I love guys who are active, into art and music, erasing those things makes it very difficult. I realise that there are artists who are blind, deaf musicians and disabled athetes but it isn't the same. It feels different. And maybe my preference against them or aversion to dating them is rooted in my own fear of mortality. I am facing constant threat of disability and it is the last thing I need from a lover to be constantly reminded of it. I am already anxious enough in every day life. So yeah, I disagree with that disability statement mostly. Of course I would try if my loved one became disabled or if I was attracted to someone who was disabled and my aversion is mostly for physical disabilities. If someone was a sociopath or had dissassociative personality disorder or schizophrenia I would be more open to a relationship with them because my aversion towards those kinds of disabilities are less. Some people may have the opposite viee and be fine with dating someone who was disabled as long as it isn't mental. I think it's way too complex to assume anyone who wouldn't date a disabled person is being.... uh... disabledist? Disability is extremely diverse and complicated and out instinctive reactions to disability are involuntary. Anyway, I think I've articulated my point as best I can. I hope readers of this comment understand and don't assume I hate disabled people. I consider all people equal (provided they are good people) but relationships and attraction is very personal and complicated. Anyway, continuing watching now.

Ok, essentially I agree with the ending. I HATE when people say they wouldn't date a trans person without provocation. I mean... no one asked. And everything else you said at the end I agree with. I've had a lot to say about this video but this part, yes. However, having zero attraction to trans people IS like body type preference, the problem is that they are making assumptions about that trans person. Having zero attraction to people whose parts resemble the sex you aren't attracted to, their scent, their voice, their mannerisms, etc. That's what these people mean when they say they wouldn't date someone who is trans and they are ignoring the distinction between those people and literally the huge amount of trans that don't fit that category. Another reason could be the emotional strain being trans has on the trans person and their loved ones, the person may not want to deal with that, that is again assuming that this trans person is mentally unstable and wracked with depression. Not always the case, you can't know until you get to know them. Plus this isn't trans exclusive. The only other thing is that a person doesn't want to have the LGBT community or activism shoved in their face and they don't want to be ridiculed for every slightly non-PC thing they say. But again there are heaps of trans that aren't activists and are pretty flexible. And again this isn't trans exclusive. So it all boils down to stereotype and assumption, that's the issue. I am perfectly fine with these people not wanting to date people like what's listed above, I am NOT perfectly fine with a person rejecting someone based on assumption before even finding out if that fear is valid. Regardless, this was fun. I hope everyone has a great day.

i agree

As chase said I think that they were confusing the argument. With Riley's original videos I struggled to agree because just not wanting to have sex with a specific type of person doesn't make you any kind of phobic. It would be an issue if you found out they were trans after the fact and then had a problem with it, or had the kind of mindset like "I really like you but I can't because abc" It's one thing to find out your partner is actually a trans person that hasn't had bottom surgery, try to be intimate and realise you physically can't. It's something else entirely to be dating someone or like someone who you would never even be able to tell and then find out and have an issue with it. That's why blanket statements in that sense are not okay, it portrays that everyone who falls into that category is exactly the same, like how she basically said all asian people look the same it's just not true

look i know there's plenty of trans people who are open to talk about this, but trans people are also never obligated to explain this to you. or to cater to your transphobic beliefs. you mentioned you're cis in a previous comment and it's honestly much more productive for you to find information online (that already exists) from trans people to educate yourself.. as opposed to expecting trans people to put time aside in their day to discuss with you things that a) they're already way more well-versed in and b) they've had to debate constantly. because you're not the first one to think these "preferences" aren't transphobic and you won't be the last. and trans people are honestly tired of having to explain to cis people why our existence isn't a preference.

snickerdoodles and almond milk don't wanna explain? cool, then take my word and stop with the moral crusade thinking you have an effect on people's preferences, just leave those dudes alone. You think i cry and moan if a dudes grindr profile doesn't prefer me? No, because there's no power in someone's prefences. I'm not gonna pretend to be a victim.

you have all this free information available to you on the internet, videos and podcasts and countless pages of writing explaining this topic.. yet the first trans person who says they don't want to take time out of their day to personally guide you through this is the bad guy..ok. and cool, you refusing to feel like a victim when dudes reject you doesn't mean trans people have to put up with entitled cis people like you trying to tell US what transphobia is or isn't. if you actually want to have a constructive conversation with a trans person, belittling them and telling them what kind of transphobia they're allowed to feel hurt by isn't the way. maybe you'll find the answers about trans topics that you're looking for by.. actually listening to trans people?

snickerdoodles and almond milk I've literally watched and paid attention to every Riley Dennis video, some of Zinnea Jones and Kat Blaque, and you probably don't even consider Blaire White valid. I'm not going to pretend I don't hear trans people, i literally take my time of day to watch them, one of my closest friends back in high school was a pan trans woman who would explain her sexuality to people who dont understand. Fiona is bi/pans and is coming from a place where gender and or genitalia doesn't matter, but you, her, Riley, or Chase cant seem to accept the fact that it matters to A LOT of us, you guys can't even seem to accept the fact that cis bodies and trans bodies are DIFFERENT, as if those differences aren't a big deal to people. Not everyone is pansexual. But I digress, you are free to cry transphobia, you guys are on the extreme side of the trans community anyways. While your community cries and plays victim, you can also have fun being lonely.

wow you watched a few videos, cool! and are STILL telling trans people how to view the bigotry that targets them (and doesn't target you). ooh you had One trans friend, guess you're automatically incapable of ever being transphobic now, LOL! and hey genitalia doesn't equal gender and if you say it does, you admitting that you think trans people aren't actually the gender they identify as. which is (surprise surprise..) transphobic! and, despite what literally two cis girls on youtube said, trans people who believe what chase and i are saying aren't on the "extreme" side of the community. and we're definitely not a minority within the community. plenty of trans people agree with chase and i and all the other trans people on the internet who call you a transphobe lol. wow really love how you talk about the trans community.. really shows how much of a supportive ally you are LOL

John Fisher thank you!

Looks it’s racists to exclude an entire group because of race If you would otherwise like this person and find them attractive emotionally and sexually but they are also white. You then say you won’t date them because of their race. That is racist. If you happen to have never met a single white person you have found attractive in this way that’s not racist I am not sure if that makes sense. That is the argument

Conrad Korbol honey so d’you think the rest of the world is racist because why do you think most couples aren’t interracial..... people are mostly likely going to be attracted to what they look like or the people they’ve been around in their life

Stephanie Tyson Exactly

No they didn’t, lol.

@@noahpereiro1986 No they didn't

Torrin Ashley Yes they did

@@z-past1454 No they didn't 😂😂

Laurabyrinth And yes, that's sad, and it will make your partner feel bad, but you can come to decisions in your relationship in a mature manner without bringing your partners' transness into it. Being trans and fertile are not mutually exclusive, that's the point.

Alexandra I understand that, but my point is that sometimes things can drive people apart no matter how much love is there. I love my partner more than anything, but he wants children and I do not- this causes a lot of tension and upset when brought up, and we may not stay together because of it. Sometimes people cannot grasp certain things. There are people who cannot handle certain things. Not everyone will think alike and handle things the same way. I still have trouble understanding the differences in people, but I've been told that some people just can't handle things like I can. It's... hard to believe and trust in, but we can't really see what happens in someone else's head.

imagine not loving someone simply bc they can’t have kids 😭

lil v thanks dude :')

aeipathy.x i know i know and saying not to listen to them won't make them or the dysphoria they caused go away, but...bear in mind they're don't know anything and their idea of trans people is incorrect and your awareness of who you are, even in the case it faltered when you feel terrible, will always be worth so much more than any transphobe's opinion. i know what i said won't change anything but remember that even if you're closeted you have a community to love and support you, and even in the case you didn't know anyone who's part of it in real life there's still plenty of people worldwide that would defend you without thinking twice. hope your dysphoria and closetedness will get less suffocating with time 🌻

lil v of course!!

aeipathy.x Same, I look exactly like the dude on your profile picture when they said this. Like wtf. I am a boy. We are boys. We are Boys when we have a vagina. We are Boys when we have a penis. We are boys when we have something in between. When I say I am a boy, I am one. Regardless what's in my pants.

i know, same. it hurts. i can't imagine how trans women watching this feel.

Charlea Couldn't agree more!! I can understand having a preference I guess, but if you meet someone, you have a great connection and they are exactly what you are looking for in every other way, and their race is the only factor that makes you not want to date them, then that's racist.

For exemple, my mom say she isnt racist but she has preferences towards "white" people. Bit if it happend she loves someone non-white, she'll date him (she hetero). So its not racist. Just she's not really attracted to non-white people but she doesnt mind dating them or having sex with them so not racist. But saying "i dont want because of their race" is really racist.

Stephan Tyrone Rey Exactly! Great example.

It's racist if you fall in love with that person and then chose not to date them because of their race. No one is hating on you if you're never attracted to them in the first place.

nuclearpeacex To not find a single person in an entire race attractive is weird though, don't you think? I like curly hair but that doesn't mean I don't find a single non-curly haired person attractive. Not liking anyone at all of a particular race is a VERY strong preference which, subconsciously or otherwise, is probably racist.

neonfiona Damn friend, love your videos! :)

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Also, you and Riley are the cutest, Arielle is missing out by being a TERF hahaha

neonfiona mom

Sweters Yeah I agree with Koija here. I can still respect you and treat you the way you feel that you are, wether that be a woman, or male and call you the right pronouns, so I know for sure I’m not transphobic. I don’t hate on Trans people. But I just don’t want to date a trans woman. That’s just how I feel. But on the flip side of the coin I guess I can try to see where you’re coming from, sweeter. Not to say I know exactly what it feels like to be trans at all, but i guess you mean you want others to not single you out like that and determine you as someone undatable for them just because you weren’t born the gender you identify as, even though that person you become involved with, at least on a romantic level, may be attracted to the gender that you identify yourself to be. Therefore, making you feel like you are an Invalid male or female or whichever you are. That makes sense in my head in some kind of way. However, still the matter of the fact is, if someone is dating another person who didn’t know the other was trans and everything was going swimmingly up until the point the trans person sat down and talk to them about it, that person still has the right to walk away from the relationship. For whatever reason really. I mean, if that person didn’t feel ok about it at all, then they really probably should walk away anyways so that trans person can be happy with someone who’ll love them the way they are. Just a disclaimer though, I don’t think that’s a go ahead for Cis people (I think I spelled that right) to be jerks about it to the trans person after figuring that out while in a relationship with someone. That’s just awful.

It's not the same thing. Because if you're straight, that doesn't mean you're only attracted to cis people. If you're a straight man, you're attracted to women. Trans women are women. So if you reject them it's not on the grounds of your sexual orientation, but on the grounds of their being trans. I'm not saying anyone has to date anyone they don't want to date. I'm just saying that people should stop pretending it has to do with their sexual orientation.

^ I don't need a specific fucking reason NOT to have sex with somebody!!! It's not for you to understand the whys and why nots of other people's sex life, ffs!! Could be I woke up on the wrong side of the bed, could be it's raining today, if I do not wanna fuck you, I won't! And there is nothing "phobic" about it. It's called free will and to deny me the freedom to say no to sex for WHATEVER reason I see fit is rapey as hell!!

Ipernova No one is denying you the freedom. No one is saying you have to have sex with anyone. We're just saying that stating that you won't date trans people is transphobic. Not dating a particular trans person for whatever reason is not transphobic. Stating you won't date trans people is transphobic. Do you see the difference here? Deciding, on an individual basis, that you won't date someone, is okay. If the only reason for that is because they're trans, that's transphobic. But you're free to be transphobic, just like we're free to call you out on your transphobia. Not dating someone who happens to be trans is not transphobic. Announcing to the world that you won't date trans people is transphobic.

orangesanguines Thank you for explaining this in such a perfect way. I’m trans and it’s really hard to explain (for me personally) why this is so transphobic but you described everything perfectly. I thank you for that and calling out the transphobia in our society.

Sawyer Wood* throws popcorn at Arielle*

Fatal Immortality Ooh I like that. However, don't you think it's a little unfair to the popcorn? I wouldn't want to be anywhere near Arielle tbh

Chase liked my comment. Excuse me while I have a slight fan boy moment.

Sawyer Wood true and I can't see whether he liked mine too or not ahh ffs g+

Sawyer Wood Jesus you people are disgusting fucking goblins. All you care about is pettiness.

Ashlynn Alston EXACTLY he never gave any facts or real critizim, he just got offended the entire time

Yeah I agree it was really extra and dumb

i think this guy is full of shit , he can't even talk , he didn't listen carfuly what they were saying , i don't think they said anything wrong

He did explain what was problematic about Arille and her cis buddy. It was all very clear to me

Yeah idk why he made this video

Lizzy Phillips no one is saying that!! What he's saying is if you are physically attracted to someone and THEN find out they're trans THEN not want to sleep with them, that's transphobic. No one if forcing anyone to have sex with someone they're not attracted to.

At this point, I choose to assume that you didn't watch this video and it's compiled 10 minutes of chase saying that having sexual preferences, and your responsibility to analyze how they work and what is the root of these preferences, are two different things.

Victoria Pichon at this point I'm gonna assume that you prefer the brainwashing of anyone saying anything stupid with enough followers. No one has a perch high enough to tell others to examine their sexual preferences. If anyone told me that in real life, I would turn my back to them

this isnt the 1950's as someone already told you idiot

report them

Jolisa Ward 😂😂😂bitch you just through it in there I live

She is attracted to vaginas. She said she wouldn't date someone with a penis. THAT IS LITERALLY IT. She said she would be attracted to Post-op vagina, because it is a vagina and that is what she is into.

Rip In peace but how does she know what kind of genitals anyone has just by looking at them? So either she rudely asks every woman she meets or she makes assumptions. People usually don't go around volunteering information about their genitals on their first dates.

If she was seeking some sort of sexual relationship with a trans person it would come up in conversation. She said ''Before you know what's in someones pants, you're attracted to physical appearance. The way they look, smell, sound, feel.'' And ''Trans women are women, but alot of trans women have penises and thats not something that most lesbians enjoy. And having to suck a penis, which I have never experienced - and never want to - is very different'' MEANING - In a sexual partner she can be attracted to trans women who are post-op thus having a vagina, as she exclusively likes vagina.

Rip In peace who said that she would have to suck on anything? She is making assumptions about trans women and how they have sex. Chase mentions this in his video many trans people are repulsed by the very mention of their genitals much less the idea of someone touching them in a sexualized way. As someone has already stated in the pinned comments. It's not really about genitals for Arielle it's about dictating what she thinks is the acceptable amount of transitioning to make her comfortable. Trans people don't live to make cis people comfortable.

??? If a trans woman is pre- op, then the genralization is that she doesn't have a vagina and is not completely sexually attractive for a lesbian. There's nothing wrong with an obvious fact.

Right, but that's not exactly what they are saying. They are making a statement that they would never date a trans person, just because they are trans. They are deciding that it would be too much work to get to know the person and figure out IF it would work. I think the issue is that they are completely rejecting an entire group of humans and deciding that they are "too much work to figure out" and that's not fucking cool. I hope I'm making sense.

Rachel would you say that to a gay man, that he shouldn't rule out females cause ya never know...that's ridiculous. Gay men don't like women, that's ok!!!! No one should have to force themselves to want someone else, life is too short. Why on earth would a trans person want a partner to have to give it the old college try to be with them, that would suck. Move on and find someone who's into what you have to offer.

You're totally right, I would never say that. I definitely didn't explain myself enough in my comment. To clarify, I mean that the problem is reducing humans to their genitalia. 1) You don't know if the trans person in question even has the genitalia you prefer 2) It's kind of rude to say publicly that you would never even consider a relationship with a trans person because they may not have the preferred genitalia. Relationships are about more than sex. To rule out an entire population of people based only on the fact that they are trans is (by definition) transphobic. **disclaimer: I haven't watched this video for about a month or two so I might not be remembering the context exactly right

Rachel I get what you are saying but I still wouldn't want to have sex with a transwoman with a penis even though I really like penis . It's not just about genitalia. And yes you can omit certain people based on their genitalia if you want too. It's your right. No one should be made to feel like they have to include individuals they aren't attracted to regardless of the reason. I can't believe this is so hard to understand. I'm attracted to cis men only. I'm 45, I have been around alot of LGBT people, some of whom I call my closest friends and no matter how much I opened my mind to different experiences it just never happened for me. I like cis gendered men, I can't help it and I don't feel bad about it. It is what it is. I can safely say I'm not attracted to transmen, sometimes wish I was because it would have really opened up the dating world for me a bit more but I'm not and it's not something I can change. When you enter a relationship with someone it's already a challenge to make things work, relationships are very rewarding but are hard work. Why would I add the element of not being attracted to someone in to that, It would be just another thing to try and figure out. I want to be attracted to my partner because intimacy is important to me. I'm not asexual. I love the fact I can be intimate with my partner and FULLY enjoy myself. I can't do that if I have to force myself to come in contact with a vagina durring sex. Let's say that trans individual doesn't even want me to come in contact with their genitals because of dismorphia, well, that doesn't really work for me either because I'm really into the give and receive aspect of sex with my partner. I wouldn't enjoy only getting to receive. So with all of this in mind and the fact that I can make a choice why would I even choose a relationship with a transman? Why would a transman even want to deal with that obstacle when there are plenty of people who would be attracted to them? I'm not transphobic, I'm a supporter of trans rights. Phobic indicates a fear of something and I'm not afraid of trans individuals at all! I admire and look up to them for forging their path and living an authentic life. I just like cis men....why is that wrong? To say people like me are completely rejecting a group of humans is a little exaggerated don't ya think. I'm not rejecting them, I just don't want to date them just like a gay man doesn't want to date me. I'm not calling gay men hetrophobic because of that.

Same i can't agree with him

I’m trans and I do not agree

I’m gay and this video ticks me off so much

His only argument Is that is offends him and he thinks he’s right

Kojla MC IKR!

I totally agree with you

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they are all misconstruing each other's arguments deliberately

Arelle won’t talk to him except to say he’s stupid, if she would politely he would

It's literally not even arguments he just pauses everytime he hears something he doesn't like, sighs and rolls his eyes like a 16 year old girl, pretty much just says "I'm right because I am" and then hits play

lol the hypocrisy is strong

Exactly.

ferahgotheassasin You're looking for hypocrisy.

Yeah it's okay for cis people to call other hetero or homo sexual people (people attracted to one gender and one set of genitalia) that they are transphobic but it's not okay for said homo/hetero people to react back and defend themselves. This is not a trans issue. When you(trans) people start attacking other people and wrongly accuse them of being transphobic then yes it becomes a hetero/homo issue (cis or trans or intersex) and they then have a right to defend themselves against YOUR accusations.

More thumbs up please.

"these types of trans people" these types. god

He's not a cis lesbian. Should he stop talking about lesbian things? Or cis things?

James Mertens but this video wasn't directed at trans people or cis people. Moron.

This was a video from a cis woman talking about trans topics. They are cis women commenting on another cis woman's video.

Oh for f***'s sake. She's talking about sexuality in general, which isn't limited to trans people. And non-trans people have the right to have voice and have their voice heard on issues that are also relevant to trans people. What is this SJW BS.

Sparsh Bajpai Wait so you DON'T want her to be inclusive? Okayyy

SleighJessi I'm calling her a hypocrite of the highest order.

Oh huntyyyy all the trans 101 videos are already scheduled ;) 8am EST every morning of August!

Yaaaaaaaaasss!

Shhhhh...You're not supposed to say that on shit-talking videos. Apparently, this SJW strain has rendered people incapable of viewing things beyond their bubble. Jaclyn and Arielle were fine, in this instance and I have the same objections to Riley and her girlfriend that Jaclyn and Arielle do. It's crazy that there are people who don't understand this.

No she really didn’t

Happy thoughts I’m saying there’s a lot more to sex than walking vaginas and penises. This cis view of sex is intoxicating and hurts people. You can have whatever preferences you have but don’t call it sexuality to fit the anti-trans narrative. Of course you have sex with whoever you want but don’t be a butt about it. You can have a preference for blondes and not create a freaking RU-vid channel to trashtalk brunettes. Be nice and stop making countless videos to explicitly make non cis people feel bad for not identifying with the binary.

Do you know what sex is? Sex is inclusive of those and how you feel about one or the other ISN'T a choice. Sex is a big part of relationships for most people so demonizing people for their sexual preference is not only counter-intuitive but hazardous to humanity. Complaining about somebody saying they, "Wouldn't date a trans individual' because it rattles your cage is asinine. The only time complaining about somebody's statement of preference should be done is if they voluntarily offer it. However, if it's a part of a discussion and they state their preference, just fuckin' accept it. Anything else is just bitching because somebody doesn't want you.

FrizzKid05 !!!!!!!!!!

sparrow10uk like seriously Arielle she could get you off and not all "lesbian sex" (quotes bc both partners might not be lesbian) needs more than one vagina?

She is attracted to vaginas. She said she wouldn't date someone with a penis. THAT IS LITERALLY IT. She said she would be attracted to Post-op vagina, because it is a vagina and that is what she is into.

Honestly, if it looked likea dick and worked like a dick, then yeah I would be

sparrow10uk it's almost like people don't owe anyone sex, if Ari isn't attracted to pre-op trans women, she just isn't attracted to them, she doesn't owe her sex.

Paula Ramirez because jacklyn said hurtful and dysphoric things

Paula Ramirez The hormones are affecting his brain

Let me guess youre a cishet

Because he's a narcissist and not very bright. He expects everyone in the world to be constantly understanding & sensitive towards everything to do with being trans. Yet he has no desire or ability to see anything from any perspective but his own.

@@jumpstreetdepp "Cishet"?

Sam is trash Oh shit...I just realized that lmfao 😂

Sam is trash They're definitely a time traveler

Sam is trash if you donate $10 or more to Chase on Patreon you get to see videos before they're put up, he put this one up on private early and gave us the link.

Noelle Waren Damn that's cool, I learned a lotta new shit today lmao

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David Vanpatten dude

No, it's not. Because sexual orientation is not a choice.

no.

It's not. Lack of attraction =/= phobia.

he never even debated how it IS phobic and that was the whole point of him reacting to this video lmao he just got offended a lot and threw tantrums

Same here!! You're not alone

Aw man that sucks. I've went through something similar. A guy that knew I was trans (FTM) told me that he would've date me if I "stayed a female". He then proceeded to ask me if I could be happy without getting "the surgeries" and living my life as a "female". It was so hurtful hearing him say that stuff and later on, I ended up breaking ties with him because of his transphobic tendencies (we've had multiple arguments in the past where he was transphobic)

Artanya Engel That's awful. If I were you, I wouldn't let him be a part of my life anymore. You need to be surrounded by people who will completely support you as you go through your transition and your "friend" isn't going to help you go through everything if he keeps thinking like thatl

Ugh, I'm so sorry. I hate it when people still think they're straight for wanting to fuck the opposite genitals regardless of the gender attached. Your still super manly. 🍖🍺🍻🏉🏈⚽️⚾️🏒🎸🗡⚒⚒(My attempt at putting down stereotypical cliché manly stuff)

Or when someone is clearly into you and straight up tells you that you should keep your vagina because then is not gay (tf WTF) this has fucking happened to me twice. I was in fucking highschool

Ribb Rotgut Sure, people are still gonna fuck who they want, but you're still a shitty person for fetishizing ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Native Japanese women are cute as fuck, and they know it.

yeah, it would almost be better for him to watch the video beforehand , collect his thoughts, and THEN make a video. i love chase just it was tough to follow sometimes and i KNOW he could have churned out better, more well thought out responses.

andy Cole, true true. just i could tell chase was trying to articulate why he was upset. but he was too emotional and in shock to articulate it clearly. idk you make a good point though.

Claudia Pariona So true!!!!! I don't understand how it even is

Jaime Wareham, Question for you: Are homosexual men misogynists?

Okay, I'm not going to try to be a douchebag smartass by asking you questions to lead up to a point and just ask straight out: You are NOT saying though that somebody who is not physically attracted to people of different ethnicities is necessarily racist? Right?

Going by that logic: Gays are not physically attracted to women. Every gay is a misogynist. Lesbians are not physically attracted to men. Every lesbian is a misandrist. Asexual persons are not physically attracted to anyone. Every asexual person is a misanthrope. Do you agree with these statements?

"you need to stop making blanket statement" I agree! I hate blanket statements, which is why I took offense and responded to you in the first place. What I'm saying is that sexual attraction is not something you have any control over as a person, obviously. That includes ethnicity, which is simply a part of just basic outer appearance. A person could happen to not feel physical attraction towards people of certain skin colours, however that does not necessarily mean they think less of those people. You can control how you think of and behave towards people of different ehnicities- that's what being discriminatory or not is about. But you can't control who you actually feel attracted to.

Its homophobic, straightphobic and transphobic to be asexual! You bigot!

LOL ikr :°D

Shut up, nobody careeeees

lindsay becker There’s a huge difference between saying “I find brunettes extra sexy” and saying “I would never, ever date any trans women, an incredibly diverse group of people who have widely varying looks and personalities.” Do you really not see the difference?

Speaking Truth what if it’s like really good plastic surgery and you couldn’t tell?

Politically right?

Aerin Hawke Yep he's just overreacting

Agreed

Kojla MC maybe because... this is a trans topic... and he is a trans man? Hmmmmm

prettylittlegamers being trans doesn’t automatically make you right about all trans issues. Some trans people don’t agree with him. If he’s not able to analyze a subject without throwing feelings and sentimental bias in the discussion, then he’d better not reply because he doesn’t see things clearly.

I THOUGHT IT WAS GOING TO BE TO LONG

uppercaseCHASE1 never! *gasps in an over dramatic way* I live for your reactions to trash people ;)

Olivia Treip because he's dumb

Olivia Treip He made detailed arguments from start to finish...

He actually made really good points so idk what your talking about😂

Kojla MC no, valid points. They aren't feelings at all. They are valid points that correct the stupid statements that Jaclyn and whoever that idiot was. He's speaking on behalf for the lgbtq community, which has alot of facts that someone who is straight, would probably not understand. They are both extremely transphobic, and if you don't think that, you're mental.

Kojla MC she doesnt wanna date them JUST BECAUSE they are trans. THATS TRANSPHOBIC. THATS WHAT THIS ARGUMENT IS ABOUT. SHE IS TRANSPHOBIC AND CHASE MADE MULTIPLE POINTS PROVING THAT. jesus.

But if you know you are transphobic, you don't try to justify it, you try to work on it.

ValerieRaya Not when it comes to sex and relationships. That's not "transphobia" that's sexuality

Kennedy Toms There should not be transphobia in sex nor relationships, that's true. There is much, however, in our society and in our dating. Example: If you are a gay man, you are attracted to men. If you now exclude people from your potential dating pool because of their race and/or because they are trans (or if you add people because they are trans) or because they are intersex, then that makes you racist and/or transphobic. And then you should try to work on that and become a better person. I have gay men tell me they would date and be attracted to women if these women have penises. Just as Arielle, a lesbian, said she would date men.

^ fuck off. my body, my choice in who I want to fuck or not. It's called CONSENT. Trying to manipulate people into fucking you because otherwise they're something-phobe or racist is fucking rapey. You're basically bypassing people's consent like sex and relationships are owed to you. That's not the case.

Ipernova "my body, my choice in who I want to fuck or not. It's called CONSENT." Absolutely. Don't let anyone try to blur your boundaries. Consent that is not freely given is not consent at all. Everyone who tries to guilt you into sex is garbage and you should cut them out of your life if necessary. "Trying to manipulate people into fucking you because otherwise they're something-phobe or racist is fucking rapey." I fully agree and that was kinda what I was saying all along. You should always try to change to get rid of your enmities and strive towards becoming a better or decent person, yet that is something you need to do, not something others can do for you.

MellowJelly its a "reaction video" this is his reaction not a formal response he said that at the beginning of the video

It's an overreaction video with no real, valid interjections bar "OH MY GODDD, I CAN'T WATCH THIS. WHAT THE FUCK. THESE WHITE CIS PEOPLE."

@@rue8438 except he said at the beginning he was setting the record straight

You have an opinion. I don't agree with it, but you're valid.