Ariha in Germany Case | Ariha Shah's Mother Dhara Shah | Detailed Interview Of Ariha's Case | 

Pragyaji one question..If you have to choose one thing for your daughter from the below, what would you choose? 1. Unsafe environment with following Indian culture 2. kids safety with non-Indian culture. Just to let you know even Indian government has now said they are happy with German actions.

Jus because ur Jain some one is using ur community name Jain u can’t support child abuse did u know baby has may injuries on head and private parts… doctor strictched private parts due to bleed is it common

On what grounds are you fighting? Just leave if you find it so hostile? Moreover many conditions cannot be detected prenatal.

World is aware, German people speak only their language. Did anyone force you to go to Germany and is anyone forcing you to continue to stay? If you are facing issues then please come back to India.

Request you to come to motherland India. We have best doctors and health care. Why suffering in Germany??? Are Germans forcing you to live in Germany?

The girl has suffered serious injuries & in multiple places. From head fracture to serious injury in genital region for which, no treatment was given (as per forensic report). Culture gaya tel nela. These parents are demons. She is now in safe hands, in a first world country, away from evil.

@Being__Ricky and her mother has given justification and has taken timely medical care and attention for all. Some injuries with children are self-inflicted too, head injuries especially. She has sought timely medical attention and even went for follow ups, any parent involved in harming the child won't do that. Next, she has all the documents and proofs, hence even MEA is backing her and she is still fighting for the child even when it feels like she isn't winning. A careless parent won't waste so much time and resources. Though, you are ok to make such inferences out of this, do think on other aspects too and find out the problem of prostitution and nudity going on in Germany. It's quite a dark nexus. This isn't about culture alone.

​@@learn_apply_repeatA German Court has listened to her plea & has rejected all her claims. The head injury wasn't a minor scar. It's a head fracture. Plus she has also sustained a serious back injury, both of which she got while she was being bathed in April of 2021. And the genital injury was from September of 2021. All these injuries cannot be all coincidence. The Court has gone through all the evidence & reached a conclusion that these injuries weren't "accidental". We cannot support people just because they are Indians. You have to support what's right, based on evidence. German authorities don't enjoy keeping minors in foster care, spending tax payers money. They had to do it, seeing the gravity of the situation.

Just think that if the mother/family was at fault then why would she go on public forum to talk about it. Believe me many young parents make mistakes.. raising kids is a difficult task. Let's give her benefit of doubt here.. she is saying that they followed whatever doctors told them ... let's not assume that only the parents/family can be at fault here. When we say taxpayers money there is so many activities happening under that umbrella and not all of it can be justified.

​@@Being__Rickyyour first world country is more dengerous for that lil girl

What you wrote is absolute true. She wants sympathy only and not telling truth. Germany child welfare not holding child if parents are innocent as she informed.

Exactly my same thought

True what you mentioned, there is an environment for child abuse and the German authorities have done what they do in a case of child abuse . A young baby being snatched away from parents can definitely gain sympathy but don’t hide the truth .

Yes …she seems dubious….she is saying ‘we Indians’ ….which Indian takes a patient unnecessarily for follow up….if patient is fully fine…doctor is not asking….why will you go for follow up….bematlab …her statements are illogical….

I agree with you that the child was being abused and she seems to gloss over that .

Agree

But earlier she mentioned that her mother in law inflicted the injury on the child on behest of an astrologer

Har video mein statement change ho jaate hain

@@archana1016 Unko lagta he indian court he.. kia farak padta he.. But ab baby nahi mile wala unk.. Thank God for that. These guys dont deserve. Maybe mom ka fault nahi but usne dadi ko bachaya he authorities se. Not good.

What offices? We have the Embassy there. They have been useless.

@@mital2003 💯 ..... absolutely no use. They are so laid back and do nothing to help and blame it on their higher up's and make one run from pillar to post. Offices are useless. My sister and quite a lot of people had horrible experiences in Hamburg in Germany with the Indian Embassy.

​​@@user-gq7bk3jl4xAb Kamlesh Tiwari aur Kanhaiya Lal ji jaisa case hoga to mulle to pele hin jayenge.

Didi u know baby has bleed due to penetration in private parts?

And also there are people who abused 7 months baby ariha don’t be lame…

Really.. how can mil cause such injury to baby.. why it was not investigated properly

True, they must have done something that's why she has injuries to her private parts, impossible to bleed on her own. She is less concern about her daughter.

That's why doesn't look so emotional; only defensive 😢

And then blame it on a foreign government is not good.

When u don't know the whole story u must keep quiet .

Docter ne to bola ki kuch serious nahi hai

Dum nhi Modi main

​@@Metagamer88 hahaha so true

​​​@@Metagamer88if u hv dum, u try to bring that child here....why always blaming Modi For ur kind information, this is sexual abuse case....

Impossible

If you can help them, do so. Do not take a chance to belittle someone when they are in trouble. If you fall today, will you say utne ke pehle sochna chahiye?

Every time she comes up with a new version

Aukat nahi hai. Sirf TV pe hum global leader hai.

Aile hayatının zulme döndürulmedi. Irkçılık

Because german govt has so many proofs of injuries in baby’s private part that she had to get stitches down there Not once but twice

Coz they also know something was wrong with the parents and grand parents. They have changed statements multiple times. Govt already said they are happy with German actions. So that is it. I understand everyone is worried about the baby not following the Jain culture but safety is much important than culture at this time.

Hi janvi

I agree…. It is not a joke… no translation errors

@@Sbj0206 She is clearly lying.saying they misunderstood hum with me...sounded like a total BS.It's not like we are living in 1980,we have resources, internet translator.. Everything is available. That baby was probably a victim of unimaginable crime. All they need is a lie detector test. Wish we had something like Steve Wilkos show.

Which statement?

Because she is lying.

@@shalinimittu1888 that they took the child for follow up but earlier she said that she went to the hospital the second time when she found blood in diaper again. Earlier she said when they went to hospital the doctor was confused and suspicious but gave them benefit of doubt as it happened for the first time, she never mentioned about hormonal bleeding earlier. How could a six month old baby have bleeding for hormonal issues?

​@@wannabedatanerdGoogle it harmonal bleeding is possible in female baby girl. Though have been following her and she has changed her statement.

Yes she is changing statements every time

Modi govt ne bol diya he ki vo log khus he Germany k actions se. Press conf me ek minister ne bola tha. Matlab govt ko bhi pata he kuch to gadbad he. or ye mom har baat apne statements change kr rahi he,, pls kuch mahine purana video dekhe

I can give you the whole timeline: Ariha was kept diaperfree as much as possible for that whole week as she had developed rashes due to diaperwear. A 7 month old baby is constantly trying to get up and falls, that normal! The chances are very high that Ariha fell on a sharp toy on that fateful day. The grandmother who first discovered the blood too tried to treat it her way - which our elders do, which aggrivated the wound! 16th sep 21: Dhara discovers blood in the diaper. 17th sep 21: she takes Ariha to the pediatrician for check up. Doc lets them go saying everything looks fine, it could be haromanal bleeding. Nothing to worry. 21st Sep 21: Dhara takes Ariha voluntarily for check up. This time doc says it is external perineal injury. They send the baby for examination to the hospital around 11:00. A surgeon is involved. Then multiple docs come for checking who keep arguing over if or not to stitch the wound. Then at 7pm the treatment actually begins (then she got stitches for the wound). On the 21st the mother and child stay in the hospital. After one whole year of pleading with the hospital, Dhara finally got the reports of what the doctors actually tested for! The surgeons did too many inspections (Cystoscopy, vaginoscopy for example) which actually aggrieved the wounds! Such tests should be avoided on babies and children this small. On 22nd sep 21: Child services enters the scene. An interpreter (Pakistani male) comes into play who translates everything on behalf of the parents. The parents are questioned in detail. When Dhara says the child was throughout with the family (wo humare saath thi), he mistranslated it saying the child was continously with the mother (hum is main in urdu). So the child services believed that the child abuse was conducted by the mother. Police is now involved. It takes the family 3 days to find a lawyer who informs them that Dhara is accused of child abuse and police case has been registered on her and her husband. After 3 months in Dec 21, the same hospital who called the child services, gives their medical reports and rules out child abuse. The reports say the wounds were external and not internal, which could have been accidental. Police, based on this report, close the case and does not charge them. Now child services takes the case to family court. Family court asks for psycho analysis to be done of parents to see if they are fit to be parents. 11 hrs of questioning happens by the appointed psychologist. They wait for the reports which come 12 months later in Dec 22! Reports are in favor of parents and suggest that Ariha should be given to parents and kept under child services supervision. A cultural expert too is appointed by the court to observe parents bond and behavior around the child everytime they meet. This report too is in parents favor. Mar 2023: court hearings go on for 2 days straight. In that around 9.5 hrs are given to cultural expert and psycologist who speaks in parents favor. Only 2 hrs are given to parents to defend themselves, however tare not allowed to defend on how the child could have been injured. On 13th june: verdict is out. Court gives full custody to child services. They now take 2 injuries as the reason. One was a head injury child happened while Ariha was 4 months old. Second is the vaginal injury. When Ariha was 4 months old, Dhara was oiling her like its traditionally done in India. After a nice oil massage, Dhara takes her to the bath tub and Ariha slips from her hand while putting her in, causing an injury. Anyone living abroad can understand how difficult it is to bathe babies in bathrooms with bathtubs, especially when one has to do it alone! Dhara and Bhavesh have been consultad an external doctor from the US regarding the vaginal injury. Firstly the injury is external, not internal, secondly the injury has been aggrivated by multiple examinations conducted by the doctors in the hospital and thirdly, there are at least 30 reported cases with external perineal wounds worldwide which do happen on diaperfree babies. Most importantly, by putting Ariha in foster care - moving her for the 4th time now (next in May 2024), how is the child services doing any good to Ariha? Ariha is an Indian citizen. She now speaks only german, her parents can't speak the language. How will she communicate with them in the future or even manage in India? This is my take on the matter. Its been hearings after hearings! Whoever meets Dhara knows instantly that she is lost in the system and needs urgent support. If Germany decides to apply law of continuity, Arihas citizenship will be changed to German and India will then on be able to do NOTHING! We have then lost a daughter.

You were born in New Jersey.

Get to know facts before you make such statements. German law against child abuse by their own parents are very strict. Sometimes such parents refuse to let go of their stringent roots and want their child to follow them no matter even if it's in a country where more concern and emphasis are laid upon child welfare and trauma.

@@adolfinathamm5344 Keeping the Child away from its parent is the WORST TRAUMA of a Child's life...

@@jvimpex6824 German authorities aren't so lame just to take the kid away for no reason unless it's something serious. Know the full truth before you pass comments. The mother is more worried about Jain culture rather than the well being of her kid. I have lived in Germany and my brother's and sisters also still live there. My niece was taken by the child care authority as her mother was focusing more on her roots where she came from while my brother was working on board the ship. The neighbours complained after noticing this and the kid was kept with the child care till my brother left his job to be with his daughter so that she would not be ill treated and learnt whatever was taught as per the system of that country. Here the mother changes her statements all rhe time. Germans respect people where ever they come from and support them in all ways. Their Social system is perfect and they have all sorts of people from different walks of life who are respected and even allowed to follow Their customs and Traditions. But here there is something fishy regarding the injury marks. I have seen too many parents who have done such grave crimes to their kids where some kids have even succumbed.

@@jvimpex6824 even if the child is ill treated and mishandled by the parents ?

​@@adolfinathamm5344or by grandparents. This was either sexual assault by dada or genital mutilation by dadi, on the 7 months child due to which she got 4 stitches on her private parts.

You are Muslim ?