Armando And Kenny Clash Over Their Parenting Styles | 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way 

Yesssss!!!! It's literally two parents disagreeing how to raise a kid hahahaha, it doesn't matter their sexuality

Its almost too civilised for this show haha

@@Tobstarrilez hahahahhaa totally!!!! They dont deserve to be in the show

Yeah, it's on camera and everyone shows restraint or TLC pays them less

It's called men

Lmao right! She's apparently spoiled, but she doesn't have outbursts (that they've showed, at least)

@@GabeThinks - Even if she's spoiled, she asks nicely, doesn't demand, pout, throw tantrums, act entitled, or basically act like any other adult on the show. She's a kid... they're going to ask for indulgences. That's what kids do. They want to enjoy every moment. They don't know how to wait yet.

Amen to that.. She's so mature for her age, she has had to grow up in a hurry. Because I know how it feels to lose your mother.. Bless her sweet heart

Facts💯

@@FlyingTigersKMT i never really asked things to my parents when i was little... only if it is the time to ask... or i just get it without asking

She is sended by God to stop this wrong relation

@Drizzt Fitz still doesn't make it right.

@Jasmilan Lehal why are you surprised? They're guys, not women. Lol

@Drizzt Fitz omg 😂😂😂

Because both are men 😂😂😂

Sure make her fat 🙄

@@JT-xj1pg I hope your joking lol. She not gonna her fat

😂😂

Lol that's my husband with our daughter 🤣

@@JT-xj1pg why are you being disgusting? Talking about a child's body like that? There's nothing wrong with being fat, but there's definitely something wrong with you.

@Cooper Smith until you earn your place in the family yeah. I'm closer to my daughter now than either of her birth parents, I'm not her mother she has one already, I'm her step mom, I'm a back up or stand in. I would protect her from anyone, I'm on her side and im impartial, it's easy if you Know your role.

@Cooper Smith she is 18, in university and we are very close, I've raised 4 amazing kids and 2 step kids while working as a nurse, you have no idea what you are talking about. I know my kids very well, I'm engaged and connected but for the mothering it's very unhealthy for a step parent to go in making rules and demands on kids without proper boundaries first, that takes years. How many dumb people bring in new partners as step parents and they are left in charge and the kids beaten molested or killed, seriously I didnt leave my grown kids with my husband for a long ass time til i knew they were comfortable YEARS, And i wouldnt have trusted him as a parent if he left his kids with me or wanted me to parent them. My kids were never molested, beaten, or harmed because i was vigilant, think about how well creeps are at hiding.

@@scootchieandboo7475 you seem like a great parent/guardian figure and I am sure your loved ones feel blessed to have you in their lives. Best to you ❤️

This is exactly the way to go. It works better than trying to fight for a place as a third parent. The child already has parents there’s no need to be a replacement. I’m a step mother myself.

My step mom told me and my sister to our face that we were not her kids there for not her problem. And the days we would see our dad all they would do is fight. We asked him not to bring her so many times even my mom told him and he always brought her. We just stopped hanging out and talking all together. My step dad complete opposite, literally feel more comfortable calling him dad than our own dad.

It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

For long term I agree to Kenny parenting cz kids knows how to manipulate the more u give them the less they appreciate.

Don’t let emotion clouds your judgement

So true, and all parents have their own technique, it's something that has to be discussed and any changes should be "gradually blended in after" they have come to an agreement.

@shrey my mom died unexpectedly when I was 4. It's not good to spoil the child for any reason. He should focus on moving forward with her and not feeling guilty.

true

She is on TV and there are a lot of changes around her. It's a one day thing.

He likely feels guilt over how much his daughter has had to endure, so he's trying to make up for it by purchasing everything she wants. I understand it's not the best thing to do as a parent, but he feels pressured : (

And deaven can learn from Kenny and Armando 😂

@@kimstar4532 period!!😂😂

My best guess, you're missing a couple kids. That kid had a camera crew, new brother, moved. Don't expect anything less than a little out bursts for attention since she can't communicate her feelings yet.

@@firststar5809 well that certainly doesn’t mean running wild on streets and sticking your toe in the food and throwing a puppy in the air

Don't throw shade to a kid.

Kata right , wish i had listened to other parents, but I didn’t this boy now 12 gets what he wants but is in trouble all the time but im alone trying to raise him

He needs to make the effort to learn Spanish (Rosetta Stone maybe) so he can truly be a constructive person in his environment, in all situations. Don't put it off, do it now.

Yes until that one argument of Armando about the major loss Hannah experienced weighs pretty heavy here

Yeah, he wasn't being disrespectful or anything

Yes i agree but this isnit his child at the end of the day

Omg ai flipped I guess I am just strict with my kids but how dare she ask me what I want to buy her. I would tell my kid Well now since you feel entitled you get nothing. She knows shes spoiled, what she actually wanted to hear was “oh baby I can buy you both”

@@arwenrosalie3031 weirdooo !! That’s soo wrong that you feel entitled to act soo ugly towards ur kids for simply asking for something but My babies deserve the world ❤️✨🌎

@@Apartmenttherapy333 that not a damn baby thats a little monster he’s making. I am kind to my kids but they are not allowed to play “games” like that.

I’m American, but I love how you’re dissing us. I actually agree with you😂 we spoiled af

Yes!

@Innaa Dynamitee oh the shade

@Innaa Dynamitee it’s not a culture thing its a person thing, idk why there is always so many labels on everything and everyone. I am mexican and trust me there is a loot of misbehaved kids out here too it’s not where they come from its how they are raised

I'm Brazilian, so let me tell you something, we might be "spoiled", but if we do something wrong... boy, hahahahaha our parents know what to do. They might stop talking to us for days, or beat us if we disrespect them again 😂😂😂 the funny thing is they dont talk to us, but dont let us "leave the house", they are angry until we know how to say "I'm sorry, I love you", then all the family starts to cry 😂

This! I would never move to a country where I don't know the language. How can I even communicate with people or understand them. Especially if I kkow the said person I am gonna be a step parent to doesn't know English I would learn Spanish to communicate with her. I felt awkward myself just watching them not talking and waiting for Armando 😂😂

I think he'll learn Spanish in time

I really think he actually will want to. I see Kenny and Armando as good guys

@@beccasmithers2672 it's good he will, and he kinda has to he is in Mexico and that's a Spanish speaking language, but he should have learned Spanish before going to Mexico so that he is able to speack to Hannah, communicate well and express his emotions etc well in Spanish for Armando to understand. (I know Armando understands and speaks English) But Kenny and Armando are really good together!!! :DD

@Cooper Smith for sure, Hannah should also learn English, it will be beneficial for her to. But I'm saying zkenny should learn is bc he will live in Mexico no? So

it will take him a lot of effort and time, but yes he should

Effort and time is worth a family.

@@posarandposeryep :)

Seriously...he can’t even speak Spanish or communicate with the girl yet and he’s already trying to parent her

That’s definitely agreeable. however, the longer you wait to correct behaviors, harder it is to stop them. I think he was just giving advice, as a partner.

@@monikstar09 , hé was just giving advice, however, he should step back. Being a stepparent means you are backup. It’s not the same as co-parenting your own child. He seems to not have read up on the differences. I know it’s hard to switch off the parenting when you have raised many kids.

Absolutely agree with you 😊

Nah he's right this child does not know the concept of money you cannot spoil a child rotten I love my little sister I would not have bough her icecream because they already bought her a meal

It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

@Drizzt Fitz totally agree

saurabh gaushal whats the definition of guilt parenting i can't find it anywhere

Cooper Smith Come on now. She's a child and he's moving to HER country. He had years to learn the language. It's a matter of communicating with ANYONE. Instead he's making Armando responsible for translation.

@Cooper Smith Yes! I don't think Armando really appreciates just how difficult it is to learn a language as an adult (most people who learn another language as children don't understand). It's totally possible, but it won't happen overnight. However, since he's perfectly bilingual, it would be easy for him to teach English to Hannah, and she would learn so much faster than Kenny. It takes effort from both sides here, it's not fair for all the blame to be placed on Kenny.

@Cooper Smith Right. And the whole reason they chose to stay in Mexico was because Hannah doesn't speak English. Kenny literally gave up his entire life to move there in order to be with Armando. Some patience is the least he should be afforded. It would have been a lot easier for Armando and Hannah to move to the U. S., since both Kenny and Armando speak English and Hannah is a child, who would learn the language very quickly.

At least learn even a little of the language. He knows nothing and that’s kind irresponsible of him lol

People who spoil their kids usually are a bit lazy. They are showing love via buying them things.

@Cooper Smith understand your stand of point. But some things need time. They have been doing it before Kenny was around. I also think he feels guilty and sorry for her, that the mother died etc. this goes deep... so of course they need to find a way in the middle. He could talk about it with Armando before giving these low. Blows and complain. Just because someone wants something doesn't mean it goes natural.. lmfao Co parenting isn't easy let alone in their situation. The way you say things it is very important. This has nothing to do with him not being mature because he sees what he's doing. He just loved his child so much and need to. Learn that saying no doesn't mean you don't love her.. Kenny can't compare his situation on raising his child with him raising his. Also there's a big cultural diffrence and they hae diffrent characters ..

@Cooper Smith Kenny needs to shut up and stop tripping over stupid things

@Cooper Smith but kenny has to learn Spanish if hes going to be living in Mexico...but I agree with u on hannah not having to get whatever she wants even though she lost her mother that's no excuse she seems like a good kid but not setting those boundaries will become an issue as she grows older

@Cooper Smith yeah he complains way to much about all kinds of shit. and Armando wil get tired of it.. He's always on his high horse. The way he's sending his message 😂😂 A lot has changed in this little grils life. Imagine living there and having two dads. I dont think I can call someone a step dad just because your dating someone. It takes time, love effort and understanding.. Of course she will act like a brat some times. It's a kid. At the end of the day he gave her ice cream so he also gave in. 😂 😂 😂It's smart so now he's the good guy. Kenny is manipulative.

@Cooper Smith Kenny should accept that people raise their children differently..and that you don't become step-dad overnight. He gave her ice cream at the end of the day.. Practice what you preach.. 😂 😂

@Drizzt Fitz you must have not read my comment correctly I didn't say give her everything she wants! I said if she was good why not let her pick something out. I do have 4 kids and 2 are grown and I Never got woken up in the middle of the night to police calling me telling me to come get my kids! They don't do drugs my 22 year old barely tried weed when he was 20. They graduated high school and have jobs. So I must have done something right.!

@Drizzt Fitz I accept.

She might get spoiled and have a nasty attitude when she grows up. I’ve seen this happen to kids who get spoiled and get everything. Kenny is only helping out and can see more in the future. His daughters are grown, mature, and very respectful.

@Hello It's K They already raised kids who aren't entitled -3- read their replies

I agree. It's hot and she's being very well behaved- so why not let her get an ice cream cone? He made a deal with her and it's his job to keep it. It's not as if he's just giving her whatever she wants, just because. I do the same thing with my baby sister and she's very well behaved. People need to chill some.

Yes I agree with you. It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

She’s a little girl at the market! Hello 😒

It would be cruel to take a little girl to the flea market and not let her get anything, alot of things are cheap, I give my 2 kids 5 to 10 dollars each and let them decide what they want, we only go maybe twice per year.

Yes I agree with you. It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

Lol yeah Typical Americans, they expect everyone in the word to adjust for them.

I agree but like that whole “now she has two dads instead of one” was pretty shitty of you to say....

@@LA3STR3LL how is that shitty she does have 2 dads now lol

It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

Agree his not her parent im sorry you cant just walk in to a childs like and act like the parent there has been big changes in her life too

Yeah exactly i remember some spanish from 4th grade and now im in 10th grade

@@inniekuteyi2096: What you learn in a text book isn't the same as the native language!

TieuM: Yes Spanish is a beautiful language! For some people learning Spanish isn't very easy! Textbook Spanish isn't the same as they speak! Yes he needs to learn it especially being in Mexico where it's their native language! Armando could even teach him! I learned from an ex boyfriend whose from Mexico 26 years ago! In fact each state has their own slang!

Kenny is like 50+, Im pretty sure it’s not as easy to pick up languages the older you get, so it might not be as easy for him. BUT I absolutely agree. He should have learned at least enough to get by before moving to Mexico. He can’t even talk to Hannah

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True

So do the Mexicans in the USA

He's American, going to be good way or the highway, name one couple where it was any different

Hopefully the highway. Armando can do better. Kenny beaches too much. Kenny had plenty of time to learn Spanish to communicate with his little girl. Maybe it's a good thing that he don't speak it. He would have her crying all the time. He talks rude.

Once the communication start she's going to tell her daddy she don't like him

His kids are already grown. He wants Armando all to himself.

But he's prob just trying to go more easy on her Armando is be ausr she just lost her mom

A think A LOT, at times.

That's why people don't want to date people with kids, you can't just sit there and allow your partner's kids disrespect you, your partner and the household and tell them to step back. It doesn't work like this, my step dad disciplined me and my brother, he clothed us, fed us and we lived in a house he paid for and for someone to say step back it's a no no. The kids will feel not welcome if the other partner doesn't take an active part in their upbringing.

@@disabledbabe OMG all in time!!! Those two are still getting to know each other themselves and they don't even know what kind of parents the other is, no one is talking about disrespect here but do step back and watch/learn how the parent does it,you don't just come into a situation and want to dominate the situation...it won't end well because kid's are not stupid actually.

@Hello It's K he is a step parent and there's no shame in being a step parent but that's just what he is, I'm sure I don't have to explain to you all the other ways people get to be parents outside of being biological. She has two biological parents dead or alive so I don't see your point 🙄.

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And that's why you don't have kids, keep thinking this way and you'll be single forever. A relationship is supposed to be a 2 partie decision not 1 sided.

1000% agree with you.

Exactly

But she will realize later on in life...that kenny was doing it in her best interests.

Hope not

He’s just watching out for her in the future.

He is just giving sound parenting advice. Spoiling and coddling one's child does not produce a good adult

He's jealous of the lil girl 😒

Exactly

I feel that way about most couples on this show. Lol Like Jenny and Sumit. In 10 years, she never bothered to learn Hindi???

No,he told Armando Hannah should learn English.What a douchebag.

Spanish is easy to learn too

@@alexandrathearmy4773 maybe he suggested that because kids can pick up a new language faster than an adult. But I definitely think its a two way street!

@@LanaRioss she'll learn English as she goes,but he needs to realize he's in Spanish speaking country.

@@alexandrathearmy4773 I kind of said that.... not in those exact words but I did say it's a two way street, meaning Kenny needs to take initiative

Yes very good input because otherwise you get them used to always receiving something when you’re out. I do it with my niece I sometimes get her toys when we go out and I sometimes don’t but i have her understand that just because were in the store that doesn’t always mean she’ll be getting a toy

What’s cute about a spoiled entitled brat??. You earn gifts.

@@SandyOHIO 💕yea be dope

@@irafibrahim8125 darlin when you spoil a child and don’t discipline your children, according to the bible you hate your child. Discipline and structure is our job as a parent; not reward a child for nothing. You earn it. If he does not change, she will be ten times worse than Drucilla. Proverbs 15:24. Please read it. Amen.

@@SandyOHIO You are nuts

😢🤦😲 omg are u serious ?...i didn't know that's what happened to the mother😢

@@babytroll559 yes see the others episodes

How can people not learn English before moving to America?

Yeah because he’s gay bro so why would he be attracted to the young girl? Lots of adults have more affectionate parent styles and it’s fine. I say that as someone who was actually abused

I don’t really agree with that. I mean not really with this couple. I guess its perspective. Armando’s over 30 and Ken’s more than 50. So it’s more of a perspective thing. If he was 18 and Ken was 60 then yea it would be kinda weird. Just as long as one is being used for money or sex then all is good.

@Yyfree vvfdrt thank you!

@Hello It's K Armando is the same age his kids but whatever you're wrong

@Hello It's K Armando is younger then his kids🙃😬