I live in a Non Muslim country since 6 years. 2 years ago when I visited Dubai and heard the azaan, I swear to my life i started crying like a baby in public. I can’t describe in words what i felt in that moment.
I live in a Muslim country and the first time I went overseas to a non-Muslim country and got human rights I started crying like a baby. Words cannot describe how precious that feeling was.
For a guy who didn't talk to parents for 2 years. I can totally understand what you are going through. 1. Do not call them to live with you permanently. It will hugely disturb your peace. 2. Take some good place at rent for few weeks, call them there and take them to places near that rented place. 3. Send them on top class umrah or hajj package whichever is available ( due to covid situation) and go with them if that's possible for you, just you 3. 4. Fix any day of a week and call them till they are alive. Do this just for the sake of Allah. It will bring peace to your heart. 5. Don't overthink. Allah will also ask parents for their wrongdoings. Allah is Allah. Parents don't get a free entry pass to jannah just because they are parents. 6. Do what you can for them. And don't do what you can't. List down what you can and what you can't and Stick by them. May Allah give you ease. Amen
This is a good list to follow. To be obedient doesn’t mean we have to make them happy. Only your effort and intention count. Live by this rule for everyone in your life. They might have a different childhood and their experiences are unknown to you. Just do what you can with intact boundaries in your part.
I used to listen during my boring travel. Thanks Sir. I am a teacher,I used to share your ideas with my students(9th, 10th),they understand and really appreciate your ideas.
Thanks Junaid Bhai. I was about to ask for your advise to get rid of my great mountainous debt burden. You shifted from topic and took time and talked about your experience and now I am certain I could gather some courage and I can overcome my stress and worries.. Totally relatable word… barakat hi nahi hai
First question: someone has suggested that you should journal and you should, apki dil ki bate nikal jaengi to ho sakta hai k apki adat kam ho jae, (or khtm hona zarori nai hai, tora bohat sb e bt krte hain kudse) Secondly, there are a lot of books regarding habits, how to get rid of bad ones and how to adopt. Look them up and read them. You'll get something out of them. Thirdly, aik kahani (summarized version) hai k aik sharabi k 2 betay, aik bara ho k sharabi ban gya, us se pocha k tm sharab q petay ho to usne kaha k " qk mera baap Sharabi ta" . Dosre ne baray ho k sharab ko kbi hath b nai lgaya, us se pocha gya k tm q nai peetay sharab to usne kaha "qk mera baap Sharabi ta". You have to choose k apko konsa wala banna hai. Habits change ho sakti hain, bs apko ye nai sochna k me aisa ban chuka hu ya mje virasay me laziness mili hai to me lazy honga. The choice is yours! Apne figure out kr liya problem, ab solution dondhne me lg jae, hope this helps!
@@anaonymous31 I talk to myself a lot, people use to make fun of me but I didn't give a fuck about it and they stopped. I know what I have done can work for only some people, the point I wanted to make is that there nothing wrong with talking to yourself
For the child who speak to himself: I had the same issue, this is from childhood trauma, anxiety disorder. Kindly go for a psychotherapy. You need cognitive behavioural therapy. Let the thought flow, don't hold on to them. Brain noisen natural, stay relaxed at all times.
2. Feedback of embassy All the digitization that is happening in Punjab is because of Dr. Umar Saif (a graduate from MIT). He took many initiatives in the previous government under the leadership of former CM Shehbaz Sharif. All the project's of digitization inaugurated by this government were initiated by Dr. Umar Saif.
Man....#askganjiswag just became my healing power...listening to other people problems...I have known that how easy is my life..Alhamdulilah🙌❤️May Allah(s.w) shower his special blessings upon all of us Ameen
The netflix thing you are referring to at 1:24:15 is called "the social dilemma" a documentary explaining how social media is designed and how it works behind the scenes. They explain your "two people getting different results for the same search" on it. A very good and informative watch for anyone.
For me, azaan ki awaz na ana is a peaceful thing. I grew up near 3 mosques and they would literally fight over who'd have the loudest loudspeakers. My sleep is very easily broken and I would regularly wake up, startled over the loud noise early in the morning. I had to shift to a room on the other side of the house to make it bearable.
Living near a mosque is a blessing itself and if you're Muslim then it is special because you can be woken up by the azaan itself and you can pray every prayer in the mosque
@@ayanahmad9739 Why is your blessing a nuisance for other people? Install azaan app on your phone and get woken up by azaan in the morning or whatever. Why fire up 6 loudspeakers to full volume instead?
@@Bdawg. imagine a religious person that can't afford an expensive house and somehow lives quite far from the mosque. he has an old nokia phone that has its own specific alarm tones and cant be changed now if he wants to wake up for fajr to PRAY, would he use a song??? the mosques specifically use loud speakers so that more people can be convened.
@@ayanahmad9739 Let's cut to the chase here: mosques use loud speakers in competition with other mosques, specially if those other mosques belong to a different sect. I'm not some gora you're diluting down these problems to. I spent almost my entire life in Pakistan. As far as that fictitious person is concerned, they can easily set up alarm on their old Nokia phone. People used to wake up for fajr even before loudspeakers, didn't they?
For the first question, I would suggest therapy. The guy can easily share his feelings with the therapist and overcome his insecurities. Once he gains confidence, he should make friends with like-minded people with similar hobbies. Hopefully it should help!
Q2) I have been living in Australia for the past 3 years or bilkul Sindhi dangar bethe hue hain embassy mai. Driving license ki verification krwane mai hi itni lambi krdi thi inho ne. Bhai k sath ittefaq se acha experience raha shayad Khan sahab ki zoom call ki wja se. I have seen the video you are referring to. Thanks
I can relate a lot to the fist question I used to have friends that I used to play with but that was when my father was in the airforce and we lived in a airforce camp in Peshawar so parents had no safety concerns but after moving to Islamabad I didn’t have anyone and I spent a lot of time alone with my thoughts.i learned to enjoy my own company but sometimes I wished to talk with others,I kept myself sane by talking with ppl online in this day and age it is rlly easy to meet anyone from around the world .I met this person who’s Turkish but lives in Germany and this person is really into art and they made me get into drawing aswell and we share art and talk about random things from time to time
For the person who talks to himself. Take it easy, it is normal. I talk to myself as well to cope up with feelings, planning things and what not. People had been mocking me as well. And as Mr. Junaid says, dheet bann jao fir sunai nahi deta. I am a successful laywer now, been through things, handled mental pressure with self talking, and wo log aaj bhi pareshan hain. More power to you bud!
To the guy with self talking problems, I was a self talker too, but the problem faded once i started socializing in my college days !try socializing with people who doesn't care about this problem, and once you find good company your loneliness will fade away so will your self talking habits
First Question I overcomed my self talking habbit by making friends in university. And alsways remain busy in any task. And make any goal in life try hard to achive it. Be a truth lover😊
for the first boy- Bro I am a 28-year-old Doctor who had the same habit, I have a philosopher's style of thinking, that is all theory-nothing practical. But I read a book about changing habits where one thing that stuck with me was that there are 2 psychological layers to our habits. first is the neural pathways that execute a given habit. The second and the bigger problem is the underlying undertones that are the primary root of that habit. You might feel a sense of pleasure when you talk to yourself because you will be validating your self and seeking validation is a kind of an innate desire for us humans. So try to go through these steps I developed for myself. This is not a standardized model. but something I came up for myself. 1. Finding out the reasons for doing what you do. These are your undertones. (you have a lot of this figured out already). 2. say to yourself you are not going to go for easy pleasure by talking to yourself. 3. Whenver you start talking to yourself break that chain of thoughts by saying any thing that would divert your brains attention. I start saying Astaghfar and lahol wallah quwata illabillah. this stops that chain of thoughts that prompts me to talk to myself. once you have stopped thinking in one way. you have to build something else on the cleared mind. otherwise your brain is going to revert back to old habit. 4. Now build a new thought pattern. A practical one. Push yourself to be the person you want to be. IT will be very hard in the beginning. It may make you very anxious. But stick to it. In a year or more it will bring rewards. If you would like, there is no harm in talking to a good behavioural therapist like a psychiatrist or a psychologist. 1lib.us/book/2523383/4ff873 here is the link to that book.
That all happens because of lack of Serotonin (harmone for making person's mood better and making less worry).It enables brain cells and other nervous system cells to communicate with each other. My friend also went through such mental disorders. So we contacted to a psychologist and he suggested him tablets (Seradep). It happens due to anti social behavior.
Its my first comment ever on RU-vid. Junaid bhai with your platform, I just wanted to inform the younger generation; never get trapped in a cycle of credit cards (in Pakistan especially). I am an ex-banker, and in my training I was advised by one of the most reputed and experienced banker - to never get hooked on credit cards, between even as a senior management person he never applied for a credit card in his career. And for the people who are wondering why as a banker I never used credit cards, well here is the reason "Don' t get high on your own supply" - Scarface
Just made my week. Thanks junaid bhai really enjoy these, get horrified listening to the problems of adult life as a 16 year old. Hope i dont make these mistakes.
Don't know how much Chinese will extract money from cpec loans they also have same plans as the bank so they grow and take more money in interest rates
My Story: bhai me Standard chartered k Credit card me phans gaya tha meri 30k salary thi or mene 18k ka bill pay kara or usi din soch lia tha k ye bht ziada chiz he even although i spent only 5k phr mene socha ab pay to karna hi hai, so mene 18k pay kia or bank jaa k email likhwai central bank ko k mjhe jhoot bol k card dia gaya tha to mene jo interest me pese pay kiye thay wo mjhe waapis kiye jaaye... kher somehow unhone mjhe 5k wapis kiye. Alhamdulillah.. Allah sabko sood se bachaye. aamen
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Getting PCC in India is very easy and hassle free. You have to visit the passport office, within 7 working days the police department sends someone to your house for verification. After all is done your PCC wil be mailed to you. This whole process onle takes 7 to 10 days. Ps-: no bribe is asked
Embassy in Canberra. 2 years ago I went to the embassy to get my family's Pakistani visa. The person who took the passports from me was just having a chat with me and learnt that I work for a media company. He asekd me straight away.."sir meri beti school mai first ayee hai..yeh news lagwa dain newspaper mai, Pakistan mai rishtedaron ko dekhaoonga 😄". I explained it to him respectfully that a lot of children get 1st position, this is not news. However he still gave me top service in the hope of me giving him the favour.
Oh God...so much difficult time he has gone through :o....Sood is sucha BIG laanat!...It is said in Quran that Sood is Allah and Rasool say jang...MashaAllah he did very pakki tauba.
SELF TALK PROBLEM Khud sy bat karna is not a bad thing, ziyada tar intelligent log bat karty hyn, i myself talk to myself sometimes, but i have never felt insecure, Since you talk to yourself then you should talk about your future goals, taky apko apka purpose bhi yaad rahy and iss habit ka acha faida bhi utha logy.
Best advise for the 20 yr old. I have been in that situation at 23 yrs female I was man of my house and I am only married today becoz of my own savings etc. I used to send a fixed amount and save rest.
1:20:54 I always correct my parents, friends, and many people when they make an anti-Semitic statement. Because I hate it when someone is spreading hate in front of me based on lies and bullsh*t. And I also have to face a lot of backlash for that. I hope the people of Pakistan become more accepting of other religions especially Jewish & Hinduism.
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For the changing parent's different views guy: Having these kind of generalize opinions without any facts and totally ignoring the atrocity faced by other side is what people like him are doing nowadays in india and has become a common norm ...i live in UP and there is village nearby where Hindus have to put boards of their house on sale just because Muslim population in that village is 80% and they dont allow marriage processions of Hindu families and Hindu festival to be celebrated in that area.
Surviving without a credit card seems like a whole different world to me . Here In USA if you use cash for all your transactions people look at you with suspicion . You can’t even buy a plane ticket without it . Credit card in itself is not a problem , you need to know how to manage your finances .
The guy called from India is misguided. In india Healthcare is state subject not Central. He put all on Modi. Every single government is responsible for this. You can not counter hatred by hate. Thanks 😊
For the guy in first question - You can make new friends by joining somenew class of learning, visiting any place, social media and others. Even people can come forward to talk to him. Bhai aap mjhsy baat krlen.
Credit card helps sometimes. Some airlines like BA dont accept payments through debit cards. Also fee payment is made through credit card. Overseas banking is far better than pakistani banking. IB like barclays hsbc are better
i talk to myself almost as much as hes saying he does and tbh i dont think its a problem mera agar mazaq bhi uratay hain tou mai agay se aur unka mazaq ura deti hu ya taunt maar deti hun becuase seedhi si baat hai koi buri adat tou hai nahi. so i just hope the person who went through this is doing well now and talking to your self isnt a problem thats for sure.
That's good It sounds peaceful that you don't have to deal with other people's shit But still it's a condition apkay Ghar walo k saath or husband wagera k saath relationship kharab hogay or duniya wagera mein nhi chal sakay gay
Time waste hai bhai, pakau...bass algorithm bura hai ye hai wo hai....this what the whole documentry is about....agar wo algorithm na ho tou bhai koi channel chalega hee nahi
