I love how Millie didn’t shut down any of Spencer’s answers. She just kept it cool and was understanding of where he was coming from. They have a nice friendship
sashaa x because it is an exact copy of the video of @nicole rafiee based on title and the cover picture hahaha your title would have been to creative😂
Elisa L. Hahahahahahha it did sound like that but no. I have actually being diagnosed with NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) and ASPD traits (what you would call sociopathic traits ie not feeling empathy). I also have an addictive personality. I have struggled with sex addiction in the past. I don’t want to sound cocky but i also have lots of money (which doesn’t really help me with my addictions). On top of that I do think I’m happy and certainly happier than most people. (Maybe because I’m smarter idk)
lauren frater there is so many boys like him, they’re just not good looking so no girls give them a chance and go straight to the good looking dickheads who break their heart and makes them feel like there’s no good people, when they’re really everywhere
maybe not in combination with the same looks, but personality-wise there are a ton of boys/men out there with the same personality. I dont think anything he said is unreasonable and that most boys would agree with the stuff he said.
@@santinerino624 i agree they keep saying that while i know so many guys who have really great mindsets and i have friends who are like that, but honestly ladies you kinda ruin things for yourselves with your own hand. Girls just gravitate to the shiny lights and the guy that comes with all the bells and whistles. But it takes a real human being to see the amazing in what seems ordinary. I wish good luck (person who wrote the original comment)
majestic movement sis, you’re the one who seems obsessed over the guy in the video. Stop acting childish and start to behave like an adult. No adult would ever say “I’m more attractive than him”💀 That’s kindergarden behavior
Hey, just a quick reminder that these answers are subjective and do absolutely NOT reflect on everybody, so if this made you feel insecure or bad, which I am certain some ended up feeling, just know that there are plenty of people who think otherwise.
Why can’t all boys be like Spencer😭😭 there’s not a horrible bone in his body! Edit; ( let me just get this straight, I’m not comparing him to any other boy. I’m comparing him to problems I’ve had. So pls don’t come for me :) )
Before I watched the whole vid I thought Spencer looked cute. Just cute; nothing special. But as I was watching and got to kinda know his personality, he became so much more attractive. Like wow. They were so right about how personality really makes a person.
@majestic movement Stupidiest shit I´ve ever heard. He is genuine a good guy and doesn´t care about the wrong things. There are a lot of people out there like him. I´m sorry you never came across someone. No reason for you to say he has no personality. You saying this about him, says a lot about you. You´re one of these girls that want a guy like that but when you find someone like him you don´t believe him ...
before the video started i was reading comment about spencer and i was like “he can’t be that cute right? you guys are so dramatic.” now i’m the one commenting..
Girls when you get into a relationship & the honeymoon period is over believe me most of this won't even matter. You tend to become more confident as you get older whether you are in a relationship or not. What you find 'embarrassing' now you will not care later on. If you are in a long term relationship & end up living together, you become confident & more comfortable with each other so if something 'embarrassing' happens, neither of you will even care. Plus you got to get use to each others bad habits aswell. They should do this video again in 5-6 years time & see if any of their opinions/answers change. Especially if have had experience in a long term relationship (eg 3 years+)
I also agree, since living with my partner I have become incredibly comfortable around him. Stuff happens and you learn to get over it. We are super open with each other and talk about a lot so when stuff does happen we can laugh it off 🙂 but I completely agree, the older you get and the longer you're with the person the more normal things become xx
I personally would not want to live with my boyfriend before marriage because I don't see a point. If you are really willing to commit to someone by living with them then you should be willing to get married. I don't want to be in a relationship that isn't leading anywhere. That's just my opinion :) But yes the longer you are with someone the more comfortable you will become with, being a bit uncomfortable is perfectly normal in the beginning stages
@@fancygal444 sooo true, amen, honestly its best for girls to wait to have sex til marriage, that commitment is such a strong testament that he actuals wants you and wants you for life
True. Yet some are not comfortable with themselves, mostly find some difficulty with others being very much around & very involved within their circles. Living, working, traveling,etc. reveal much of individuals' characters & test the norms or unusual "what if" scenarios before getting long serious partnership relation or so.
You know what makes me really happy? My boyfriend would have mostly the same answers as this, but I’m so sad that people think this is a nice or lucky thing, it should just be the standard of how men view and treat women
