The grandpa attitude is so wholesome.. he seem very nice.. and although he lived in an Islamic country before, he kept saying “I think”, “if I’m not wrong”.. he seems like a great person
@@deety45asf88 dude Islam isn’t an ethnicity lol one could be of any nationality and be Muslim.. plus she’s from Saudi Arabia, we had and still have many Korean expats along with so many other nationalities.. stop your “developed countries” crap, your ignorance is honestly embarrassing
@@abbyismail2298 i respect his willingness to learn other culture and religion while staying there. cos some people just dont bother to knkw about others despite the length of staying
Is Korean mainstream media like that? I didn't expect them to value beauty more than the one with most qualifications? I am clueless on Korean media.@@Aksarallah
Just to clarify some things from the video. For the polygamy, in religion it is stated in Quran that marrying up to 4 women is allowed only if they can be completely fair and give them equal rights. However exactly in the verse right after, it says "you won't be able to do that anyways". So many scholars say that it's a way to say that you actually shouldn't marry a second wife. And that it will only be making you a not fair person to your wives which is bad. But the religion still gives them the chance to try. This chance is what many men use in their favour to justify their unreasonable and uncontrollable thirst, by actually gaslighting women and those who defend them and say "are you going to defy God's words? He gave me permission " but he forgets that god told him that he will not be successful in being fair. It's a patriotic way of thinking and taking advantage of the religion that is bad. The woman ofc has the right to ask for divorce if she doesn't want him to have polygamy. She can simply leave. But it's still sad. About smoking, in religion IT IS forbidden like she said because it harms the body. But many people do smoke different things and it's not illegal in many muslim countries but that doesn't mean it's permitted in the religion itself as the religion is independent from whatever policies the county takes on.
Also, In the case of polygamy - in Islam if you have the finances and time to support more than one woman, the 2nd/3rd or 4th wife should all be women who would usually find it difficult to get married due to societies bias. For example: Widow, infertile, elderly, disabled. It is a way to take them in and protect them from loneliness and lack of income if their disability affects their ability to work etc and they can't rely on their parents forever.
I was going to explain too about this. cause I don't want many people misunderstanding about Islam and polygamy. but since here already has been explained so I'm relieved
props to the ahjussi for being so well mannered and informative!! the previous video the ahjussi told her he lived in saudi for 7 years maybe he learn about islam and quran there
And I love how he delivered those information only as “that’s what I learned” and not as facts.. he spoke in a way letting others know he might be right or might be wrong about the info.. like even though he lived in an Islamic country before he seemed open to learn more and clarify the information he already had.. he honestly seems like a good person
I don't know about other people and their cultures but It is uncomfortable for me to watch the elders sitting on the floor while she herself is sitting on the chair
Don't worry korean like sitting on the floor, have korean friend, they have a sofa but rarely use it because they sit down on floor, they find it more confortables than chair or sofa. Usually they have an underfloor heating so it is even warm during winter
I’m Catholic and British but I also found this uncomfortable. No big issue If it’s normal it’s just for me if it’s my elders I’m giving up a chair for them and I’m sitting on the floor instead or I find a chair for them as I worry about their comfort and getting back up bless them.
Smoking is haram forbidden, just because a lot of our people smoke doesn't mean its halal, smoking is forbidden by the agreement of the people of knowledge in Islam , please if any muslim read my comment try to stop smoking to eventually stop it, its not easy but we are required to take care of this body , Allah entrusted us with this body so we should try our best.
@mrsharpy7419 she said it's neutral in the sense where it's not haram. She knows it's sunnah but she said you won't have any sins if you don't do it (which is true)
its MAKRUH not HARAM. because unlike drugs and alcohol it doesn’t affect your mind and make you lose your senses. but it is toxic, therefore it is makruh, meaning strongly disliked. but not haram, ie strictly forbidden. be careful
Cigarettes ain't haram though.. Weed is Cigarettes ain't Anything that makes u lose ur consciousness or mind is haram, e.g alcohol, weed and drugs. Cigarettes don't do that. However, it's recommended to avoid anything which is harmful to your body
@@maisundergroundasmrisleng5061 Nah bro anything that harms the body is haram, therefore cigarettes are. Allah says in the quran (And spend in the way of Allah and do not throw [yourselves] with your [own] hands into destruction [by refraining]. And do good; indeed, Allah loves the doers of good.) 2:195 So we should not destruct/harm ourselves. Also spending money on cigarettes/vape/… is spending money on harmful things so… ifykyk Just bc a sin is so normalised in today’s society doesn’t mean it’s okay. (I thought dating wasn’t haram bc of how many muslims do it but turns out it is haram despite muslims who date🤷🏻♀️)
I'm sorry, but cigarete is haram. It is harmful to your body and the surroundings. Cigarettes and alcohol are both considered haram by ulama, ustadz, and syech in Indonesia. However, you may find it wherever in Indonesia.
True, deena could give explanation very quickly instead of giving blank facial expressions. Even in previous video deena didn't gave good explanation and said all seafood is allowed which isn't true. Even in fish only the one with scales are allowed.
@@userfriendlyforever " Even in fish only the one with scales are allowed"? Where did you get that from? Anything that lives in the sea is Halal, there is a clear verse regarding that. Please do not spread misinformation.
harimha No one is spreading misinfo. You needs to get complete inform. Every living being under the sea is definitely halal, but the one that can be poisonous aren't not. And fish without scales are poisonous, most of them are so.
*In the case of polygamy* - in Islam if you have the finances and time to support more than one woman, the 2nd/3rd or 4th wife should all be women who would usually find it difficult to get married due to societies bias. For example: Widow, infertile, elderly, disabled. It is a way to take them in and protect them from loneliness and lack of income if their disability affects their ability to work etc and they can't rely on their parents forever.
Wish they elaborated on this more. It’s a system that was used to protect women and not to be abused by men! It’s not about lust or finding an avenue to cheat, it’s about ensuring that women (especially back in the day who were widowed) are looked after. Today there is practically no need in many countries as women can work for themselves and are offered systems of support.
@@alberxenos Why do you think this verse was revealed? No verse was revealead by random occurrence or without context at all. If you really understand the context when that verse was revealed then the explanation above makes complete sense.
2:35 & 3:55 i wish that she would be given a proper explanation, it's sad to see things like this but it was probably due to the lack of time. deena tried her best tho, i understand it's difficult to explain certain topics to others.
Me too because it sounded like she thinks Islam is unfair but Deena didn’t mention the fact that men have all financial responsibilities and women don’t have to pay a dime nor about the fact that a woman can say she doesn’t want her husband to have more than 1 wife
I love the grandpa so much and I can say as a muslim, he is doing such a great job and even mentioning about what the Quran says, which to me is surprising. Thank you for this video, I feel happy and calmed!
I love this video! But as SEAsian, somehow it makes me uncomfortable seeing older people sitting on the ground while the younger one sit on the chair 😅😂
Tbh i could respond better, she just gave basic answers that might sound unfair but she didn't gave an actual explanations that add more sense to these thoughts
7:00 Does she even know about our religion She literally said we can eat with both hands Thats not true its written in quran they should not eat with left hand only with right hand
These videos teach me so much. I have a friend who I consider my precious younger sister and she is Muslim so these videos help me so much to understand her religion better.
Ahh they're all so respectful and get interested by the answers.. But the man is soo sweet, the fact that he used the Quran as evidence really suprised me🥺💞🥰
Quran and evidence are two things that are completely unrelated. Quran is a story book written by men, for men. Too bad your oppressed mind can't see that.
7:50 there is a case in Indonesia around few months ago There's a muslim lady that make a content about Saying Bismillah before eating pig skin . And then she got jailed
The topic is very good and interesting, but there is one thing that concerns me, why do older people sit on the floor? Why don't they all sit on the floor or all sit on chairs? I think we should respect our elders and that is part of manners.
I want to clarify some things not about Islam but about few minor things mentioned. First, she mentioned that beef is sacred for Indians but I want to correct this saying that rather for Indians it is specifically for and only sacred for Hindus of the Hindu religion and not all Indians. Because as an Indian Christian myself my state (Kerala) has a lot of beef dishes/foods and we eat beef a lot here as there’s a lot of Muslims and Christians in Kerala, India. And ofc you won’t go to jail for that. Just that it’s only for the Hindu religion only. Another thing is that, just like Islam, in Christianity we are NOT allowed to eat pork. It’s even written in the Bible that it’s unclean and not supposed to be eaten. I have even been forbidden from eating it by my parents and grandparents too. But it’s just taken lightly by Christians.
Wow! I seriously didn't know that in Christianity there is any forbiddance related to pork! I have always seen porks being glorified by christians. Most of the christians eat pork and even in movies and stuff, I always saw them eating it. It was really hard for me at abroad since most non-veg dishes were made of pork. But it's really insightful to know that it's not the case for christians either! We are similar in this case then,haha.
I would like to add that when the question of pork came up she said that minor things are not included but the Quran says that it is Haram (prohibited ) for Muslims to eat it. Here are a lost of things forbidden for Muslims to eat : "Forbidden to you (for food) are: dead meat, blood, the flesh of swine, and that on which hath been invoked the name of other than Allah.” [Al-Qur’an 5:3]
For the polygamy part, the girl next to the grandpa said "Since their culture is more about men above women" This is completely incorrect no gender is above the other and idk what she means by that.
@@nannomaniacthere is nothing in Islam that goes against human rights. It gave more rights to people than anything ever before. You are more than welcome to find out more about that.
@@NoahMarcay didn't muhammad killed saffiyahs husbands, parents and married her within 3 days? this is j one example. each of his wife has a traumatic tragic story.
A knowledge about Haram in Islam: If there are more negative impacts than positive impacts, then don't do it. For example, don't use khamr (anything that is intoxicating) because it damages your body. Appreciate your own body because it is a gift from God.
Wrong!!, Cigarettes are NOT neutral. Your giving wrong information. If u do anything that causes harm to your body is haram, So please dont take advice from her. You have seen muslims smoke but it doesnt mean that its haram, Please stop giving wrong information.
I don't know if it's the translation problem or what.. It's about the part with smoking. I don't know if it's Haram or Makhruh for cigarette or cigars, but DRUGS is definitely Haram. Drugs a.k.a narcotics or psychotropics or even weeds/ganja/Marijuana are intoxicant because they mess with your mind/thinking, just like what alcohols did (being drunk).
Drugs and alcohol are haram because they are intoxicants (alcohol also causes harm to the body in the long run). Cigarettes are haram because they solely cause harm to the body. Cigarettes did not exist in the time of the Qur'an and the hadiths hence no direct mention of them and why so many people nowadays don't consider them haram. But the Qur'an says that we are not supposed to harm our body in any way and anything that causes harm to the body becomes haram for us. Nowadays with the advancement of medical science, it is proven and well known how toxic and harmful smoking is for the body. It causes countless types of cancers and diseases of the throat, lungs and heart. It is a slow poison that shortens your life span with every cigarette you smoke. So all the good scholars of today's generation have concluded that cigarettes are in fact haram and the one smoking them is sinning.
About eating with your right hand, my big brother is a leftie but since he was a kid, he's been eating with his right hand and still does. I find it very facinating and intresting. 😂
2:33 I need to disagree, Islam is not just more about men above women. Women is actually above men. Men need to protect women. Men need to do the house chore. No, Muslim women are not oppressed.
What a lovely video, I really appreciate how correct and informed the Muslim girl is, she didn't "water down" our faith to appeal to them and has explanations to everything. Great job!
One of the reasons we are supposed to eat in right hand is...just like in India..the arab people eat with their hands..and left hand is considered dirty hand and Allah will bless us if we eat food with our hands..its a "sunnah/blessing".since its create a connection between us and the food. I'm a muslim from india and again india is not banned to eat beef in many states..it depends on the religion and the region actually cuz Indian has some population of muslims as well😅
if we believe in eating and giving to others we must use the right hand, if you want to do anything else you can use the left hand as well as the right hand, so if it's normal to eat with your left hand.. *I don't think it's right,* except for those who are left-handed and can't use their right hand at all forever, I think it's acceptable, oh sorry I'm talking about the video, didn't mean to offend anyone 🙏🏻 By the way I believe that in some places in India it is permissible to eat Beef or other meat, right? but what is the name of the place?
wow I can't believe the Korean girl said "Since their culture is more about men above women" that's not true because men and women have different roles in life, and it is literally said that you should respect women. When the prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) was asked who I should respect the most, he first said, your mother, your mother again, and your mother the 3rd time, and then your father.
Yes, but we can't explain that to the world under the influence of feminist pop culture. Muslim men should behave in the same way as our Prophet treated his wives. They should take our Prophet as an example, but most of them behave like children...
9:09 pork is haram yes it is forbidden But there is an exception If u are starving to death and u have only haram foods ( like pork,lion,alcohol) left to eat or drink and that food becomes halal and u can eat it only in this situation
There is a comment thread here which goes long on the matter of polygamy so for everyone in that thread I will say that the girl in the video said the most accurate thing. Polygamy is not an easy thing to do but doing it is not forbidden as well, so we shouldn’t go to the extreme of vilifying it as patriotic tyranny and we also shouldn’t be too lenient saying a man can do whatever he wants with these women, it’s marriage not dating, there are responsibilities and financial justice must be uphold. So the actual consensus stance IS the middle ground the girl mentions in the video.
based on mazhab shafiee , cigarettes is ultimately haram . but still many muslim do . some muslim doesnt take this seriously compare to alcohol . it is not neutral
For people wondering why polygamy isn't allowed for women,I'm not a scholar in this discussion, but I can state one reason- When a woman with multiple husbands has a baby, there is confusion about who the baby's father is and it can lead to various disputes within the family later on(now we have dna techniques and all, but it wasn't the case a thousand years ago)
And according to science a women should not have sex with 2 or more men at the same time or with in month because women contain bacteria in there body from the 1st man so the bacterias from different men are different and they can cause damage to the women's body
matrilineal societies solved that by making inheritance through the mother, as almost always it cannot be disputed who the mother is so people from patrilineal societies (me included) have the dumbest system
As an west asian muslim i really find it an appropriate because it is respecting older people's so important it'll be more better if they let her sit in the ground with them
So SAD that the girl herself is ignorant of her own religion, Islam. Even the aged man is knowledgeable than her! May Allah (SWT) give proper hidayat to all Muslims around the world to read Quran, Hadith and learn to imply those learnings in real life. Misinformation hurts!
judging by the she dressed i could tell she doesn't know anything about islam , but after hearing her explain to them i confirmed that she doesn't know anything about islam . (she ignored many things and twisted alot)
Listenshe at-least covered the basics of covering the knees and arms she is Egyptian and they wear their hijab in a different way so stop judging people for not being super religious on their clothing she explained a lot of things perfectly to the non Muslims
honey what?... so each country practices islam differently that doesnt make sens!! in the end there is one heaven and hell. Plus i could tell shes egyptian.. they way they are.. @@tokkiamane
I’d like to add sth also to the answer of question two (for people who’re interested) since you have to be fair to all your women like deena said, nowadays it’s unlikely for men to get married to more than one woman because (there’s no wars like before so) you also have to be fair emotionally, if you love one more than the other it’s considered a sin and according to all studies you can’t love two equally, that’s how human work, it’s impossible you’ll always have a favorite even if it’s just a little bit more…so islam allowed polygamy for a reason (in the past and even now sometimes you can marry more than one for certain circumstances ) but also prohibits it at the same time (for peace time like now) so that men could not act as they wish and be unfair to their women…. That’s why islam is called the religion of all time ❤
exactly... its the intention that matters , if the intention behind polygamy is cheating and lust,it should be prohibited,but sadly a lot of men today do not understand this.
She represented it very well. Despite the variations in perspectives or rules within Islam from country to country or between different schools of thought (mazhabs), she explained it thoroughly without any inaccuracies or controversies.
I don't think so. She should have got a proper knowledge of Islam before sitting in that position. It's a public media, and thousands and thousands of viewers will be watching them. So she should have been knowledgeable in that topic.
@@tasmiazakariah6278exactly! Muslims go and answer questions about Islaam waayyyy too easily not knowing how dangerous it is to lie or misinform others about our deen. 😕
Just for clarification and explanation. Allah has mentioned more than once that men can't and won't be fair about it and that we only have one heart for one person. I am honestly upset that the vid made it seem as if Islam isn't fair to women which is the complete opposite. And regarding the point, women can't do polygamy too, there is a reason for that. It should have been explained. I usually don't comment on posts, but it has made me upset.
The Qur'an does not give men the right to have more than one wife. It is considered more of a responsibility to ensure social justice. For example, when a widow is unsafe, he can marry her to protect her, or during the war when several men died. A man can marry up to only 4 wives, and each of the marriage should be because of a reasonable reason. Also, when marrying the second wife, he needs the permission of the first wife.
In Malaysia, our Mufti has made decision that smoking is HARAM. it's because of the effect of smoking that not only harm the smokers but also all people's around him esp his family. But still there are still a lot of Muslims can't avoid smoking.
Actually muslim really can't eat with their left hand, and I noticed she use left hand. For muslim, using with left hand for eating and drinking are same as the way syaitan eat. Syaitan eat with left hand, so muslim couldn't eat with left hand
4:32 in islam it is compulsory to ask permission from first wife for second marriage. If the first wife does not give permission, then the second marriage cannot take place.
HOPE YOU FIND THE RIGHT PERSON AS SOURCE PERSOB. SHE DIDNT ANSWER CORRECTLY ESPECIALLY THE PART OF EATING WITH RIGHT HAND AND THAT POLYGAMY THING. There are many requirements on polygamy, not only financial thing, so not all men are allowed. GOSH SHE JUST ANSWERS BASED ON HER PERSONAL OPINION!!!
Dude chill…. I think she did great.. they brought a Muslim they knew for the episode, not a sheikh.. and she explained most stuff correctly.. I’m actually thankful she represented Muslims and Arab well
@@amyGurl8483 who said they must invite a sheikg? They need to find a source that can explain opinion on facts, not just opinion based on her self thought. Grandpa repeatedly saying "based on Quran", he signaled her to answers based on the law not her own opinion. If she is smart she would understand what grandpa tried to say.
@@amyGurl8483 and she just answered a man can do polygamy if he is rich enough to buy house for his wives? Ridiculous. Such a veeeeery smart answer. Every muslim, even if they don't read Quran much, basically knows surah Annisa about polygamy requirements and she didn't even quote that to emphasize that men are not that easy to have many wives. Portraying Islam being unfair to women. Good job.
@@narana997 the other Korean girl is the one implying Islam not being fair to women (and she said this many times through the other videos too showing the prejudice she had).. Deena even seemed upset when the Korean girl went on about Islam putting men over women (which isn’t right obv).. also please remember that all shows cut the parts they want.. a 30 minutes video can be cut to be a 10 minutes video.. Also again, the show just brought a Muslim they knew to talk about their religion for education AND entertainment proposes.. I actually respect her for pointing out her hijab isn’t the right way to do it.. knowing so many hijabies many of them will try to justify the way they wear hijab saying “it’s still hijab” or “hijab comes in so many shapes” so kodos to her
The question about whether you'd go to jail if you eat pork, I think it refers to the case in Indonesia about an influencer who's caught eating pork and got sentenced by law. So here's the explanation. In a country which have the biggest population of Islamic people, there is an institution that usually takes care of all Islamic rules and laws and manages the regulation of these rules in community. What happened was that the influencer is a muslim, who did a vlog (or a streaming video, I don't remember exactly) of her eating and conciously saying "Bismillah" (Means "In the Name of Allah") before eating pork, which is forbidden in Islamic law. After that she was reported by an islamic preacher so hence she got sentenced. So the answer is, eating pork is okay as long as you're not a Muslim. But if in the country there is an instition has a definite law to sentence any muslim who openly breaks the Islamic rules, they could probably go to jail. It doesn't have to be specific on eating pork; drinking liquor, drugs prostitutions and couples living together without marriage status, they're just the same.
Polygamy thing: Let me explain what the quran, our prophet and hus family have taught us. So a man can only marry more than one wife if the women he's going to marry are widowed or very poor and no one is there support them, or women in critical situation such as disability and the society is not accepting her, after these conditions the man has to treat all these wives with these conditions equally and fairly. Also the first wife doesn't have to be widowed or anything these conditions are only for the women he marries after his first wife. He has to pay and maintain all of them equally also if his wives want to work or do a job they are not forced to pay her husband but the husband is forced to pay the expenses lf his wife or wives but if she doesn't want to accept them and want to spend her money on her that's tottaly fine and here the man is okay to not share his money to her.
"Since their culture is more about men above women" Idk about the culture created by the people but in the religion itself, men and women are both equal:)❤
Incorrect. Islam is inherently patriarchy in its presumption of how women are weak creatures that are assumed to be less capable to the point of being comparable to children.
