Rae, you’re definitely not being dramatic. While the house stood empty for 2 years, sure I guess I could see them using the pool. But you and Eli now own the house so family members should respect that. They shouldn’t just come over uninvited. They should wait till you guys invite them over to use the pool. I think you’re totally right.
Girl you have every right to speak up. You are NOT being dramatic. They need to respect that someone lives there now. They need to ask you if they can if anything. And even if you wanted to keep it to yourself you have every right! Its YOUR house! PLEASE dont let anyone walk over you.
thank you for listening xxxx i really appreciate it!! eli and i both dislike confrontation so it’s gonna be a bit hard, but if they keep pushing we won’t have any other option than to let them know how we feel about it 😅 i appreciate you very much!!!
That pool situation would drive me insane! I love family but I also love and value respect and it's not respectful and also entitled, whether they realise or not. You could totally be mature and make yoir boundaries clear...or like the child I am...I would say definitely come over... although if I were you I would check unless you want the suprise of seeing our bare butts skinny dipping in OUR pool. I'd just make them feel uncomfortable so they never just show up uninvited 😂.
You're definitely not being dramatic. Its frustrating that family members always feel entitled to your stuff just because you're related. Its your house and your pool now and they should only use it when you say so. On another note, I feel like a cold brew flight would take. Me. Out. I would be so anxious and jittery 😂
