No offense but plenty of people use kink as a coping mechanism and a lot of people called it abdl and other things before agere was a thing decades later. I understand you wish to designate yourself as different through a distinct label but that doesn't change the fact that people cope in different ways. who is to say the people who don't use the same labels but feel the same way are any less valid because even though my dynamic with my own cg is non sexual I would consider the dynamic to be that of a kink/bdsm dynamic. if you think about it abdl gave way for agere to exist and be accepted in the world.
@SageHollows age regression is a headspace, a shift in the mind, I think you could call dissociating? Anyway, when someone fully regresses, for some ppl it's like the younger version of them is at the front of their mind, and their usual older self is at the back. In some cases, some regressors may even forget a bit of the time they were in little space. Most involuntary age regressors regress due to stress, trauma, and/or a mental disorder/illness. However, if a person is role-playing or acting as a little, then yeah I would consider that as a kink. Acting little is not age regression, it's roleplay. Please don't get the two mixed up.
@@artandfiction4534 you don't need to educate me I'm aware of these things. I'm making the distinction that people also use kink as a way to cope with trauma which seems to be a new mentality in the ABDL community which is the prototype of the little community since regressors have identified under that label before agere became a big thing among Tumblr. Whether it's kink or it's not people cope in different ways and you can't really disprove that. This whole thing came about due to "puriteens" who become parts of communities and they wanted to make a distinction between them and the "bad" people aka the people who cope with kink but a lot of that is internalized shame and misunderstanding. There's nothing wrong with kink or coping with it because people used say bsdm to process certain types of trauma. So in an attempt to distinguish themselves they shamed people who process their trauma through kink. Some people process through regression, some kink. I support both because there is nothing wrong with both. I belong to the little community and I belong to the kink community. Although they are separate things and regression and kink never mix nor do I do anything like that or "pretend" I'm not ashamed of both. I've been on this planet for 26 years and I know how I've always felt and I know who I am is more complex than one sided. I've seen and been though a lot and before there was even an "agere" community I've always described myself as an adult who at times is about three years old. And it's not really an act so much as a headspace that can be triggered by specific things. Almost like a really strong neural pathway that slowly opened when i was in my teens. I don't see that part of me as kink, just someone to be protected. I associate only my adult self for lack of a better term with kink and stuff.
@@ligma212I'm severely sex repulsed and kink is highly triggering to me so I feel more welcome in the agere community where that stuff isn't allowed than in the ABDL community where every post I see is sexual nine times out of ten :( I literally saw a post in the ABDL subreddit of someone sticking marshmallows/bananas up their butt to irritate the bowel lining and cause diarrhea... I just don't feel safe in an environment where people harm their bodies like that.
@g3rm4n.s0d4.c4n I'm not saying that, so i don't appreciate the misrepresentation. I'm saying people also cope with trauma through kink and some people cope with trauma through regression. Before it was called agere a lot of people who regressed identified as abdl and abdl can be anyone from regressors all the way to people who don't regress but they like things like diapers or people who are in a kink dynamic although people keep them separate plus respect boundaries of others in the community. I'm saying people cope with trauma in many ways and although some may not regress but may cope with trauma through something like bdsm that's perfectly valid and who is anyone to tell them they are wrong for that? There's a misconception that kink is somehow a bad or dirty thing but kink doesn't necessarily imply sexual. I'm someone who regresses as part of bpd, it's not a sexual thing it's the result of trauma but I've spent time with people in the abdl community who don't do things out of trauma but rather to deal with stress but abdl gets spun as a "kink" and not a spectrum of people doing things for different reasons.
im sorry to hear that you never received any comfort as a kid, i come from a similar background, so i know how unfair and unfortunate it is. So im happy that this video could help ease any stress you had and make you experience that sense of comfort (^ω^*)
I've always been so ashamed of regressing until recently. I've only regressed a few times around certain friends. This makes me feel a lot better and very comforted, thanks for this.
ahhh as a new caregiver for my partner, im def using these for some help...ty dae for these its helping me a lot :] and if any caregivers or agere people have tips or places to go for help id take it! we are ldr so its harder this way but
pinterest and tumblr have good things! id reccomend asking if there's any names or things that comfort your little, even shows! i use those in my ldr and they work a lot :))
Yeah i agree pinterest and tumblr rock i have a board on pinterest with littlespace activity's like diy's and crafts if you'd like the link just let me know!
*Because of trauma with my abusive ex mother, I feel safe being little again, thank you for letting me be my gender and not have to pretend to be a boy*
i very late (smoll rn) wif certain foods it can be hard too eat, den the wittle wont wanna eat, so find foods dat dey do wanna eat. sowwy if it not understand
I love listening to these but even with them just can't regress mostly because I need someone actually there to take care of me. it's hard finding people to trust though
HOLY MOLY this is the first time i actually was able to go into little space easily i put my phone down and played this and i hugged my plushie and sigh happily and i didnt even notice myself sucking on my pinkie and i kept giggle and kicking my legs around happily THIS IS THE BEST THING IN THE UNIVERSE‼️
Thank you so much, this video helps me regress. Im 15 so I still live at home with my parents so I dont have anyone to treat me like a baby apart from my gf but this video helps alot so thank you very much
This was so relaxing! I actually fell asleep around halfway so I’m watching it again now to listen to the rest Thank you Dæ! I hope everyone is either getting or has gotten some good rest, including you Dæ (also, I love the new channel icon!)
my apologies, i was'nt aware of this term being used as alternative, so many of my previous agere roleplays include it in the tumbnail so thats why you see it being used here as well, thank you for letting me know about this though i apprecite the heads up^^
@@RiverTheFlux thank you for understanding instead of being an ass about it ! so many people will do all they can to use ageplay terms (like abdl, cgl, little etc) and then when i say “hey let’s not use borderline pedophilic terms” they gets pissed. so thank you for taking the time to understand and reply :)
This channel gives me peace and happiness I can’t stop watching his stuff when I need it, I didn’t think I need it until this adorable guy uploads ❤❤❤💖💖💖💕💕💖❤️❤️ 😊😊😊
I new I was gonna regress cause I was startin to wanna bite tings, which tends to be a sign that am regessin and this was good timing to show up, my mama left me a wile bak an m haven't been able to control mself from slipin
Anyone else looking through the comments to find the OwO person in the ageplay vid that said that they were gonna unsub if there was more agere/ageplay? Lolol
I got too attached to my caregiver for oneday... He got work and all i did was just cry while waiting for him.. It made me feel bad and blocked me after comforting me.. He comforted me but after 19mins he end connection with me... I cried so much like literally.. I'm just here now to comfort myself because i can't find a caregiver...i wanted to apologize but i don't know how cause i lost contact.. I promised myself.. Next time i have caregiver i won't cry when they are busy with work..
i dont how to make my gf my caregiver.. i told her that i liked babied a lot but she is kind of bad at these things and she doesn't gete me in these things ):
My boyfriend not fully into being Daddy for me only thing he want do cuddle and that it nothing else. I just don't know how to tell him that I want be treated like this.
