ASMR | Coming Out to Your Dad

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Of course I still love you. Your mother and I will always love you no matter what.
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@Blujaye18 11 месяцев назад

I came out to my dad before he passed away last year and it hurt when he said “I know, you’re still my son” because i kept to myself our relationship suffered because I thought he would hate me for telling him. This just broke me. Very wonderful job Jeremiah.

@heathermkdg 11 месяцев назад

This was such a beautiful expression of what a father's love for their child is meant to be. When you said the house was a safe place is exactly how a child should feel. Safe to be who they are and be loved no matter what. ❤

@philipdensted1755 11 месяцев назад

This was so beautiful and so emotionel. 25 years ago i came out to my parents . I remember all the tears and the things running through my head about how they would react. But they embraced me and said that they love me no matter what. It was so nice . You are helping so many people Jeremiah with the work that you do. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Philip from Denmark.💚

@GabeSan-fj6kt 2 месяца назад

How did u come out i have 2 spilt parents and they both think being gay or trans is bad and not with god what would u do in this how do i come out

@philipdensted1755 2 месяца назад

@@GabeSan-fj6kt I know its so difficult. And if your parents are very religious people it must be even more difficult. My parents are not religious so i many cases it can be a bit easier. Its the most important that you love yourself and if your parents really do love you , they will accept you in time. Love is the most important thing . I believe in god my self, but i am not religious.I am a spiritual person. God loves all of us no matter if we are straight or gay. All my best to you.

@Oarboar 11 месяцев назад

Man I didn't realize how much I needed this. Came out earlier this year and it didn't go over well, especially with my dad. You healed a bit of my soul.

@Knot_in_to_it 11 месяцев назад

I’m not, not crying. This is seriously your best dad video. If you have taught me anything, it’s that it’s okay and safe to have and to show emotion and that at times is where true strength comes from. 🫶🏻

@xyxyx-- 11 месяцев назад

Two "not"s mean you are crying 🧐 caught it 4k being emotionally honest in a healthy way

@elliottrae9355 11 месяцев назад

Not me starting to tear up at the title and then tearing up even more seeing your emotion! Seriously, I have so much I want to say, so much I want to share... for now I will just say thank you. I wish I had this and my only hope is that others have this, no matter at what age or stage of life they come out. Also, the nonbinary inclusion was beautiful, I wasn't expecting that. Thank you again. For being you and for the amount of love and care you put into your videos. It always shows. ❤

@nataliecrouch5946 11 месяцев назад

Im not even gay and this hit me. 😢 just the level of acceptance, this video would work for any situation honestly. Edit: i love when u talk about where you grew up bc ive been to all those places. Grew up in the same general area.

@LBDservices 11 месяцев назад

💕💕 This was amazing. Caring, supportive and compassionate like all parents should be in this situation. That camera hug 🫂 was like a virtual healing balm. Your own emotion and words talking about unconditional love from our parents brought all the feelings to the surface for me, as I navigate that adult relationship with them while being far away. ❤️ What a priceless video, Jeremiah.

@joshua8483 11 месяцев назад

The sheer amount of work this man does for people he doesn’t even know is astonishing! Mad respect and appreciation

@poetess-troubadour 11 месяцев назад

Never thought I'd click so fast, but damn. I haven't got a dad since I was barely 9. Always been dad's daughter. Losing that connection, that trust broke something deep inside. I never thought about that before, but if there could be a person in my family that I can imagine coming out to, it would definitely have been my dad. If only things were different. Thank you for this experience. This channel has done many great things for my mental health since I subscribed, but this is next level of acceptance. It feels so good.

@deadlynightshade6769 11 месяцев назад

This is so filled with acceptance, understanding, caring, and such unconditional love from a parent to their child.. This is beyond beautiful and positive and inspiring and hopeful… Just breathtaking, Jeremiah.. Thank you for this.. 💗

@maxthemillion10 4 месяца назад

I need to go to bed but I am down a rabbit hole crying watching dad comfort videos

@leosc8731 11 месяцев назад

Hear when you said "That's okay" make me cry, when I came out it didn't go well for me, this video is like a comfort to the heart 😿🫂

@Kate81-yi3dt 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for tackling this topic J. As a straight person who has several lifelong gay male friends, I have had many conversations with them over the years about them just being their true selves, and letting their "tribe" find them.

@Vivimizzi 11 месяцев назад

J, I need tissues man I need tissues! I just love how you were able to bring out the beauty of acceptance and showing that love and support. This dad video is truly a masterpiece and it really shows ❤️

@maëstvsn 10 месяцев назад

as a lesbian girl with very homophobic parents this genuinely feels so good to hear this, i can’t thank you enough

@goodish9765 5 месяцев назад

W parents you should listen to them

@237.zr9 10 дней назад

@@goodish9765why would you say that?

@DawnAnew 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for making this...just came out to my dad recently and it didn't go very well. But listening to you and your comforting words made me feel a bit better. So really, thank you soo much! 💝

@relam97 11 месяцев назад

Wish my father were like that when I came out. But sadly some bad things happened that time, and I thing I hit my lowest point in life after that. Lucky, that was 7 years ago, and now everything is fine. But not gonna lie, this video was really emotional for me, and I cried watching it. Thanks for being always supportive, specially for not forgetting the existence of nb people. You're such a great person, and by far my favorite ASMRtist. Thank you so much for that! ❤

@matthansen1561 10 месяцев назад

This reminded me how lucky I am to have had parents in my life that responded to my coming out exactly like this. I think it’s fantastic and so wonderfully compassionate to have made this video, and I hope maybe it gives some comfort to people who didn’t have what I did. Everyone deserves love and acceptance from their parents for being their true selves. Thank you for this, truly. ❤

@cadence-cr4lb 10 месяцев назад

As a bi-sexual woman who’s mother doesn’t even think that bi people exist. And who’s dad is… religious to say the least. Thank you for this, thank you thank you thank you.

@phoenixflame36 9 месяцев назад

I bawled my eyes out listening to this. I would do anything to hear my dad say anything this supportive just once.

@Snow-gk3dj 11 месяцев назад

As a trans person with anti-trans parents, this is lovely. Thank you.

@NyxSpirit 11 месяцев назад

I come out gay to my dad before my mom and she didn’t care at all. Being a male and my dad’s only child I was TERRIFIED. He however had a brother who was gay and was very mistreated by their stepfather growing up. I believe it really bothered my dad to see his brother be treated that way and I know he’d never want me to be mistreated and he accepted me and even cried. His brother unfortunately passed away before I was ever conceived or born. I wish I could’ve met him honestly and I like to think of myself as a reincarnation of him. Thank you for this video! 🥰

@fruttaesotica_ 10 месяцев назад

Now I realised how much I don't feel accepted and how much I don't accept myself. I think this is one of your best videos, I cried watching this because today it's very difficult to feel accepted in society when you are just yourself, in this society you need to be like anyone who is "traditional", it's really boring and annoying. Thank you for bring love, everyone needs it!❤❤❤❤ (And sorry for my bad english😅)

@kaiscote 10 месяцев назад

Appreciate you! So many people will find this so healing.

@jimmy.1br 10 месяцев назад

I respect you putting a video like this out. Most people are too afraid of backlash and hate comments. You’re powerful Miah

@SpasticSquirrel543 11 месяцев назад

When my then 13 yr old came out to me I just told her I still wanted the same things for her in a partner. Integrity, Kindness, Faithfulness, someone who brings out the best in you etc.

@nobodysgirl7972 11 месяцев назад

Right. Only thing that matters is that your partner is good for you

@annarhee5852 5 месяцев назад

Omg my dad works have killed me! I’ve never even hugged my dad because I was afraid of him. You made me cry. Thank you!! I wish I could know someone like you .

@cloudyouva7791 9 месяцев назад

As a female were born into a troubled family, you are the one I feel most safe with. 🌹

@jakeblaisdell6369 11 месяцев назад

This is probably one of my favorite videos of yours. This is what I had hoped for when I came out to my dad but it didn’t turn out that way. This helps that part of me that was hurt when I was younger. Thank you for this ❤

@DiyonJude 9 месяцев назад

Ive been closeted gay since I was 13. I tried coming out to my parents in 2021. I kept stuttering and it felt like they had no patience and wanted me to just spit it out. I told them nvm and cried in my room. Now 2023 almost coming to an end I'm 16 and I still haven't told them, it hurts... a lot. It hurts more every time my mom keeps saying "you're my one and only boy" Because it just makes me feel guilty for being gay. So now im watching this, and it makes me feel somewhat better.

@yourgirlgabinha 11 месяцев назад

i just cried over this video, it’s good to hear this from an “parent figure” since my own parents could never say something like this to me

@Angelkiss2266 4 месяца назад

Well, didn't expect to be crying at 1am.... but this video means a lot. My father will never know about me being bi... he's too full of hate for him to understand. But seriously, you just made my heart feel so happy. Thank you for this video. ❤❤❤

@elliottrae9355 10 месяцев назад

Just commenting once more to say how much I appreciate this video. I'm tearing up yet again!

@corysimpson7495 11 месяцев назад

I know you probably get this all the time. But you're a really great actor. Thanks for making this video.

@scottwang9526 10 месяцев назад

As a already out gay man I would recommend this video to all my LGBTQ friends looking for mental support. Very touching ❤

@bethany986 6 месяцев назад

This is my absolute favorite video of yours. So beautifully well done.

@xTonyabc Месяц назад

I remember my coming out as trans 2020 and I just wished to get such a reaction from my dad... All I got were a "Come back in five years" and a "God didn't failed with the way you were born" (he doesn't even believe in god). I cried afterwards. But this video made me smile a little, made me feel better somehow. :) thank you very much.

@Justmebeee 10 месяцев назад

I wish I had this reaction when I came out in high school 😢 thank you so much for this. ❤️

@Rayan7x 11 месяцев назад

Coming out is not an option for me since i live in the middle east. Jeremiah, thank you for making this video❤

@winterwolf0100 10 месяцев назад

Well this one definitely hurt. Not gonna lie, I'm definitely crying right now. Thank you, didn't know how much I needed to hear this

@theredravenspirit9096 14 дней назад

Une très belle vidéo roleplay encourageante, rassurante, et respectueuse. Chapeau bas. J ai beaucoup apprécié😄

@-FallenEclipse- 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much. I turn 17 at the end of the month, and im a trans girl who is scared to come out. My dad is not supportive of trans people, and im not sure on my moms opinion. But anyway, this video makes me feel seen and accepted, thank you!

@goodish9765 5 месяцев назад

W dad

@laurencampbell1713 10 месяцев назад

I know I’m late, but..oh man. This hit me hard. I came out a year ago, and I’m still trying to figure it all out. This video was the help I needed. This was so beautiful, Jeremiah. Thank you very much.

@NatsShortVids 3 месяца назад

Im not crying- YOU ARE- 😭😭😭

@mateusz11123 11 месяцев назад

That was so wholesome

@zionw1837 11 месяцев назад

Omg, on one of your recent videos I asked if you were going to make a video like this and you did! Thank you so much :) 💚

@Folklovermore13 11 месяцев назад

A lot of us wanted and needed this♥️

@Folklovermore13 11 месяцев назад

The video I desperately needed!!! If I could reach through the screen and hug you I would!!♥️

@ASMRJeremiah 11 месяцев назад

You were the inspiration for this one. 😊

@Folklovermore13 11 месяцев назад

@@ASMRJeremiahawww that’s very sweet and I’m so glad you took my suggestion😊♥️ I’m sure this was helpful and will continue to be helpful to a lot of people

@viskaleido 5 месяцев назад

sobbing in my plushy cave wishing you were my dad. I wish my dad was nice, I wish he loved me. I wish he hadn't left. I wish he was everything that this video is. This is everything I've ever wanted. I just wanted to be his son.

@MisterWhatWhat 11 месяцев назад

This is beautiful! You’re an awesome man!

@unkind6070 2 месяца назад

That’s so beautiful ❤ thank you

@StupidPoetry 11 месяцев назад

sob sob cry cry. thank you for this one.

@antonioccortes 11 месяцев назад

you're the best

@twistednerve444 4 месяца назад

I know this might sound creepy, but I'd truly love to adopt someone like you as an additional father figure in my life. Thank you for all that you do and the comfort you bring us, good sir. 🤎 🤍 💚 Be well.

@user-bu1uh8kq8y 11 месяцев назад

Finally! ❤ Exactly what we all wanted 😂

@user-xi3lb2qd2w Месяц назад

I'm from the other side of the earth. It took me 4 minutes and I started to get hysterical. This man said more words to me in 4 minutes than his own father. Okay, it's not even about accepting my peculiarities, this man told me more words about love than my father. It's tragic...

@happymum279 11 месяцев назад

Wow another amazing video. It made me cry as I remember when someone came out to me they thought I was going to turn my back on them but I could never do that and if any of my children ever come out to me I would always have there back forever as I love them and it doesn't matter who you love it doesn't change you as a person ❤❤❤

@aatilampinen6923 11 месяцев назад

What a beautiful video♥️

@Enclosurewall 11 месяцев назад

beautiful as always

@dog6413 11 месяцев назад

This is such a beautiful video, honestly I wish every person that was questioning or even completely sure in their identity had this kind of support because it truly does mean the world when you’re potentially (depending on your circumstance) against a world that doesn’t want to support you on your own humanity. Thank you, so much. This is more than just an ASMR video. Great work as always my friend.

@Benji-p9k 26 дней назад

I sobbed the entire time because I could not come out to my parents because they aren't even half as supportive as him

@glueyossi 5 месяцев назад

If only, if only we all had dads as such

@birolakgun_ 10 месяцев назад

I am not sure if it was real or acting you getting emotional but it definitely felt real and made me tear up.

@mssims8142 21 час назад

I’m not crying you’re crying 😭

@claudiabronsteijn4612 11 месяцев назад

I love Your asmr video's you are amazing

@tnbhhh 9 месяцев назад

Im so not crying * lie * 🤥

@paulomimangale9047 7 месяцев назад

You are the best bud!!! Love you and thank you for this video!!❤

@DouglasPiperASMR 10 месяцев назад

This is such a great video. It’s such and inspiration for the people scared to come out. I wanna let everyone know. Don’t be scared to be who u are. Embrace it and love it. If u are LGBTQAI+ u are awesome and no one should judge u for who u love. And if anyone needs support my comments are always open. Love u all

@Folklovermore13 10 месяцев назад

Mine too:) I was the one that suggested this video and the amount of positivity is insane I can’t believe how many people this video has helped you are not alone!!

@goodish9765 5 месяцев назад

I’m gay, do you know any places I can get help?

@goofball5707 7 месяцев назад

i needed this, thank you

@yabbistar 3 месяца назад

I legit paused it and looked around when i heard the knock lol

@carterfogg422 10 месяцев назад

Thank you, Jeremiah! I can’t express how meaningful it is to see videos like this on RU-vid. This was very similar to my own experience coming out (even down to the “we already kinda knew” comment), and I also grew up in Ohio (Cincinnati). Also, I wanted to ask: have you heard of a musical called “The Prom”? I hadn’t until recently, but it’s a story about an LGBTQ+ couple and it’s very cute.

@Folklovermore13 10 месяцев назад

Are you talking about the Netflix film?

@carterfogg422 10 месяцев назад

@@Folklovermore13 There’s a Netflix film, but it’s also a stage musical. It’s the same story, though.

@Folklovermore13 10 месяцев назад

⁠@@carterfogg422I’ve seen the Netflix film but I’ll have to find the musical

@saintsea-hat7891 5 месяцев назад

Based Jeremiah

@user-me3wq1wj1h 11 месяцев назад

My dear god i love you dear jeremiah ❤️❤️

@fretorkicu7936 9 месяцев назад

That was amazing😢

@Cassie_Lyn 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this ❤

@Folklovermore13 8 месяцев назад

My suggestion:)

@axel6640 11 месяцев назад

I had parents who kinda ignored my first coming out and my mom isn't the best about it. p.s. You play the perfect parent complete with the random really cool and sometimes questionable story you tell once and never mention ever again

@cloudyouva7791 9 месяцев назад

Now I have returned to listen to you Jeremiah, you are too good to meet me but i'm glad and lucky enough 🎉.

@missem1981 11 месяцев назад

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

@michaelhayes476 10 месяцев назад

beautiful, really beautiful

@williamdecker986 11 месяцев назад

good thing i just bought new kleenex oh my god

@user-dm5yb4ew2c Месяц назад

“Nigel” why does that just scream “tour guide” to me?

@shayeribhowmick9782 10 месяцев назад

Hey! ive always been a fan of your videos and i was wondering if you could make a video finding out about your kid's sh habits and comforting them? just a suggestion tho, love your videos and good luck ❤

@user-me3wq1wj1h 11 месяцев назад

Oh my Goodness for you so sweet happy honey Jeremiah ❣️❣️💋💕

@user-xr1zk6zp7k 9 месяцев назад

Your production is like a dream, sweet and comforting to me when I'm watching the video, but I have to face the reality, it's not practical for me.😢

@user-zo5xc7jj7u Месяц назад

Ja sam u Suzana Nemoj in ti my goodness bro

@user-me3wq1wj1h 11 месяцев назад

🥰😍😍

@Angellady11 10 месяцев назад

Even though I’m straight , female and open minded I frequent lgbt places

@mayaavelarde6490 11 месяцев назад

🧔🧔🧔

@clgil77 11 месяцев назад

If only all parents and relatives were like this. So many use religion as a way to tare people down and make their kids and relatives feel isolated and unloved in the name of Jesus.

@victorcunningham 10 месяцев назад

He sounds like the joker not being rude

@Joksimovic795 8 месяцев назад

😢😢😢😢😭

@cloudyouva7791 9 месяцев назад

oh Jeremiah the months i was away on your videos i only find alot of asmr use the (Daddy issues) A tool to subjugate me... even in my really life i try to find a husband but they asked for more beauty and tall (Not enough). They hand my condition as a threatening tool😢.

@lukahater Месяц назад

Can you do a trans version?

@benjaminfaubel 8 дней назад

we did not need this video

@user-dp5cw6nm8j 11 месяцев назад

Gay

@tnbhhh 9 месяцев назад

You called me??

@basicindiebro 2 месяца назад

I came out at 14, 10 years ago, and it went absolutely horrible. I was basically given the silent treatment for 3 years and they still don’t accept me. This is healing to me. ❤️‍🩹

@hannahmorey6699 11 месяцев назад

Coming out to my dad didn’t go well so this is a nice second run through 🫶🏻

@Cruisetravelers 6 месяцев назад

My wife and I lived next door to my parents when I came out in 2018. I was 35 and was so scared that I couldn’t tell them in person so I called my mom and I texted my dad because I was even more afraid of how that would go that I was too afraid to even do it on a phone call. I was surprised when both of them were ok with it since we live in Oklahoma and are they are conservative Republican Christians. Such a huge relief after they both said they just wanted me to be happy. 😱🥹

@cloudyouva7791 9 месяцев назад

There is no ads in video😮😮😮😮... Why Jeremiah?, This is how you will earn a little. Why didn't you put your benefit firstly?... You are very kind 🤍

@giigix 7 месяцев назад

I have a really religious family and i'm am Middle eastern so coming out is never an option and I will never come out but online I'm pretty open about it and this just made me so comfortable 🤍 thank you