This is exactly what I need as a 14 year old girl whose been in the field for 19 years. The stress of being a father to 3 kids, and helping others with their family issues in court can be very stress full. thank you so much for your service
THANK YOUUU! Finally an asmr video for divorce lawyers. As a 15 yr old highschool student who has been a divorce lawyer for over 30 years I appreciate it, thank you love🫶🏻🩷
just a reminder, if ur a minor, it’s not the safest thing to give out your age online on a public platform. it’s so easy to find ppls information now, giving out your age as a minor makes u an easy target
I was quite thrilled to see that a new video was uploaded, but I was soon heartbroken to realize that it is exclusive content for divorce lawyers. As upset as I am, I will respect your intentions for the audience of this video and partake in other activities.
I was in the same boat, but I just couldn’t get this video out of my head so I went ahead and pursued a career as a divorce lawyer, now that I’m back here, I can say it was totally worth it🙏
As a dude, the closeups don't discomfort me at all, and I dont think it's weird for guys to watch other guys do ASMR. You're definitely top 3 of my picks in male ASMRtists because of your very laid-back and casual style. You're very genuine with what you do and you've definitely become one of my favorites!
@@alishhaa Did you watch the video? Patrick apologizes for the up-close triggers because he feels that it might make his male audience uncomfortable, and I'm letting him know that his male audience (being myself) doesn't feel that way. I'm sorry if I gave off the wrong idea, but it might be better to gather more context before making presumptions like that online...
Many people have said it, and I agree: Don’t worry about 33:56, you being a dude won’t ruin it at allllllll I’m pretty chill when guys do closeup triggers in videos, in fact, it’s one of the best types of triggers. Do what you feel comfortable with doing, because, honestly, everything you do here is perfect, man
Gotta agree. Don't worry about being a dude. ASMR isn't gendered! Do whatever you feel comfortable and confident doing. Might seem harsh, but if someone is insecure about themselves enough to feel uncomfortable 'cause a guy is up close whispering in an ASMR video, that's not your problem lol
@@chao4340 One man being close to another isn’t gay But one man being flustered by another man being close is a bit gay So it’s more about the viewer than the video XD
No one is talking about 8:00 - 8:25 and it is SO AMAZING! The closeup, the individual finger tapping but also the tapping and scraping combo is so good 😴
This is such a fantastic step in the asmr community!! It's so difficult to find GOOD content as a Divorce Lawyer. Diversity is so so important, seeing a video for me, a 23 year old Divorce lawyer of 45 years, just made me feel so welcome. It's such a shame that in 23" there is still a stigma around us...We are just normal people!!! It's really tough, but after a hard day of separating beanie babies and begging the judge to give my abusive client full custody, its just so relaxing to see something just our community. Thank you, truly.
As a 9 year old dog who has been practicing divorce law for 25 years this was really soothing. Will definitely help me get through my own divorce whenever that time may come.
33:56 was super duper tingly, and you shouldn't worry about whether there are lots of "dudes" listening, that kind of thing shouldn't prohibit you from doing or trying out certain triggers
Honestly I love when they do close up whispers to the camera! Don’t feel too embarrassed about your lips. I didn’t even notice when you did it at 33:56. It was super tingly! Of course don’t feel pressured and only do what you’re comfortable with. But if people don’t like it and you want to try it out. They can just skip! 💪love the vids as always🎉
I'm a guy, and have no issue with it. This was an amazing video. What I hate is when either man or woman become sexual to the point that it's not ASMR. I can just watch porn for that, no need. Just saying. You're doing a great job so far, no worries!🙂
THANKS!!!!❤❤❤ As a 14 year old girl and also single father of two 76 year olds, I’ve been in the field for -7 years and I must say that this is quite relaxing 😊❤❤
As a musician I feel what you mean about it being hard to create when life gets tough. I’ve been going through depression and i’ve found it almost impossible to generate new ideas that I like (that’s also key). I think my brain is just busy trying to self-preserve what it can. I try to remind myself it’s only temporary
Ooo maybe u can try to make a music piece about how busy and stressed u are, it would help express ur emotions maybe. I’m not rlly a musician, so idk if thats how it works 😅 sorry if im wrong :(
Dig deep into your feelings. Use words that describe the emotions in your most troubled moments. Literary devices are a great way to make it all connect. Godspeed and stay strong.
Same. I like to take it out on some throw-away project I'll probably never finish. Just throw paint on paper with no effort or planning. It's cathartic.
As a divorce lawyer for 40 years with 9 kids with 7 baby daddies and a McDonald work certificate, never in my 22 years of living have I seen something so touching that has made me cry. I feel heard. I feel understood. Thank u
there's nothing wrong with getting close my boy. Men who feel otherwise are insecure and fail to recognize those types of feelings come from a homophobic and anti-vulnerable mindset. BREAK THE MOLD. (seriously do some more of those whispers dude we love them)
the "you wanna get flossed?" was vaguely threatening but also so soft spoken and gentle it gave me a little giggle lmao. and then at 9:38 you kept the humor going with the dentist bit. i loved it and i love this asmr video btw!!!!
played this like 4 nights in a row- you’re so good at this omg , and its so cool to find an asmrtist who is so unique in their style - the amazing visuals, the calming atmosphere… its so good
Truly the only asmrtist to give me tingles in forever. The camera rocking and the popping crinkles from the fan when you brought it closer to the mic 🤌🏻 chefs kiss.
It's rare that I comment on youtube videos and stuff, but this channel opened up a world to me, it's been months since I discovered this channel and every night I always come back to watch the latest videos or even the old ones. There's something about the way you do asmr that just amazes me, let's say that it's natural, genuine, I don't know how to describe it. It's wonderful and any trigger just comes out perfectly, every sound is so balanced somehow it's so WOWW. And btw, don't you worry about the close up triggers, dude or not it doesn't matter, just do it, I'm sure it'll be a success!! ^^
@@YourIvyGroves well f you because if you had really known me you would’ve known that cake is my favorite dessert and you wouldn’t had to have eaten it I could’ve just described it for you hut NOOOOO “I’m gLuTeN iNtOlErAnT”. If I had leftover bleach and didn’t just want to dump it away and ask you to finish it you’d probably go “NoOoO I’m bLeAcH inToLeRaNt” too.
You never have to apologize to us. ❤ Your hard work is deserving of appreciation, & I think the softness & vulnerable space you provide viewers is so incredibly valuable... Especially to the boys & men watching who do not feel they have a space to feel safe in their own softness & vulnerability. ❤️ Keep up the excellent work!
I figure I should tell you that my cat loves your asmr videos ❤️ she already loves asmr (because of things moving on the screen), but she's never had as much interest as she does in yours. She followed your hand movements and batted at the screen. Thank you for being so creative and awesome 🫶
the closes up whispers were AMAZING, its so tingly and somehow you manage to do it just right. everything you do is just so tingly and relaxing, ive fallen asleep to your videos for like a month now
Oh my god, that up close whispering to the camera at 33:56 was so tingly!!! Please don’t care about what some ‘dudes’ think of that. I’m sure 97% of your followers, like myself, will absolutely love that trigger!!!
@@on-the-rocks Wellllll he was talking about how other dudes probably wouldn’t like that, as he is a dude (and not a woman) with his lips upclose to the camera.
struggling a lot lately, not only in life but to just sleep too and turn off for a while. your vids are a life saver i can’t thank you enough man keep up the good work
This came up in my recommended and I’m so glad it did. I’ve had tingle immunity for a few months and received them right back within 4 minutes of this video. Immediate sun, thank you!
The up close whispers were very tingly, don’t be afraid to do them. You have a great style and I would love to see more up close whispers incorporated. Much love!
I'm glad I find it. This is what I needed so much. Thank you dude, your submission is something unique that I lack in this huge ocean of diverse ASMR content
i dont know how to explain it, but this is the kind of asmr i like, i really dont know how to put into words why this is different to me than other asmr, but it is. This is the asmr i was looking for
ahhh i like your voice a lot! it's really soothing and the kind of uncertain way of speaking is really soothing as well! :] your videos are good, keep doing you!
I love the soft spoken asmr, much better and more relaxing than whispering. Also love the background ambience- like an AC sound? pls never get rid of it
This is monumentally astoundingly astonishingly concretely positively unimaginably the best asmr I’ve ever watched, I can’t even explain how much I love it
33:56 was super tingly! been wanting a video like this from you for a while, your up close triggers are the best! thank you for your consistency & dedication (:
god u always hit the spot! love your creativity with sounds and movements. part w interviews was so tingly! really hope life will get better for you soon…this is the private domicile and I will not be harassed🙏
i"m so happy seeing that you are growing so much on the platform!! finally getting the feedback and all these new people interacting and watching your amazing videos!! it feels like it was yesterday that i found your channel when you still had a few subs but it actually been months lol hope you continue doing theses videos and growing youre own fanbase here Patrick ❤
Bro I never get tingles. I’ve maybe had it 2/3 times in the years and years I’ve been watching asmr. Gotta give credit where credits due, this video was full of unique triggers that were really enjoyable. Keep it up bud !
i really enjoyed the background noise mixed with the asmr!! i just found u and i love how soothing u are 🥹🫶🏼 the rocking was fantastic as i am a baby divorce lawyer
