As a nurse in Texas that has been really struggling the past 2 years and especially so after this past week, I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. Thank you for the incredible work you do
This video really hit home for me. I struggled with addiction for over 20 years but am now almost 3 years clean. I think you may he helping more people then you even realize. God bless
Congratulations 🎉 My brother was an addict for about 10 years, I have seen how hard it is to admit to the problem and ask for help - you’re doing amazing, genuinely so happy for you x
I adore that you’ve done a video on such an important topic to so many people! And you’re right in your description… this is our time to be heard. Such a great video ❤️
wow i'm so excited for this video. normally i avoid psychological videos like the plague because my battle with bipolar has been so hard i can't stand the "everything is fine" attitude most medical ASMR has. but i just know you're going to handle the topic with your usual grace and compassion. i'm like a minute in but i can already tell this will be a favorite of mine
I was struggling with bipolar and my psychiatrist was judgemental and i stopped seeing him after watching your video it is quite positive and comforting to the mind i hope theres psychiatrist like this 🙏🏻🙏🏻
It’s such a small thing but I love that she invites you to take off your jacket but adds that you can keep it on if you prefer. Even if I’m not cold sometimes I just prefer having the weight of a jacket on me
1,5 hours? That’s amazing 💖 I am going to try and stay awake, but you always manage to help me unwind and relax so much, I end up falling asleep haha 😴 However, I always try again 😉 Thank you for your continued hard work! I hope you and your family are doing well 💕
Thank you so much for making this video. I was diagnosed with BPD, Major Depression and Social Anxiety about 4 or 5 years ago. Last summer I ended up in the mental health ward for self harm and suicidal ideation. I was referred to a DBT program that ran through the fall and helped. Am going through a lot right now and would say I am in survival mode. I've begun seeing how truly pervasive the BPD is in my life, thoughts and personality. It screws with every single facet of my life and having a video like this is truly amazing. Helps me feel like im a little less broken. Thank you again.
This is such a powerful video and you’ve handled it brilliantly Nicola. The background is just right, calming and cosy. You would make a good mental health nurse in real life. Thank you 😊😊
Thank you for this! My depression and anxiety have been pretty bad lately and I’m already feeling more calm! I cannot fully express how appreciated this is!
I absolutely love your videos, whenever I can’t sleep I go to your channel. And that you make videos like these and talk about serious topics is amazing 🫶🏼 you’re such a sweetheart 💕
Thank you so much for this, truly. I have been dealing with severe depression since I am 10 years old and sometimes it gets really difficult to deal with. This video helped a lot to relax and find a way to calm down when I needed to sleep.
Being someone who has been assessed and has been diagnosed with bipolar 2 disorder, this is spot on! I love it! Reminds me of inpatient intake a bit too 😆 I don't mind going in. It's like a vacay
I haven’t watched it all, but this is absolutely excellent. I have my first psychiatrist appointment on Thursday and I’m super nervous and this video was so lovely, calm, and well organised/researched and the way you have put this together is amazing - thank you so much!
Nicola, I wanted to thank you so much for your love and care to the people in the world and the overwhelming care you provide. This channel has changed my life recently and has helped me cope with my anxiety and major depression lately. Thank for the absolute amazing channel and making a video on this topic truly means the world to me❤️😭
Nicola, I absolutely LOVE this video! I've been waiting for you to upload more mental health content, you are doing it in such a delicate way, and it make me feel human and understood... thank you so much.
You are so awesome thanks for the assorted ASMR triggers are perfect for relaxing and unwind your soothing voice makes me feel sleepy 😴💤😳 you are an angel 😇
Nicola, I feel that every content you create on this channel is meant to be a cycle of good energy that will heal us whilst is healing you too. It's a win-win space. That must be why I feel so connected to you. Thank you so much for that. I hope you are well. Sending you my love 💛
You have a wide variety of videos. We really appreciate the efforts and research you must have to do before your vids. My mental health is awful bc i have bpd. I appreciate all your vids and how relaxing they are 💗😇
I properly love that you create such well handled and empathetic videos on sensitive topics, it really means a lot. Also the bit where you ask for pro-nouns? omg! made me smile from ear to ear. Thank you for everything you do ♡
I love this video. I’ve really been struggling with my mental health a lot at the moment. ( I won’t go into too much detail) I’ve been debating reaching out because people say a lot of negative things about reaching out for help but this video has given me the sign to reach out. Thank you ❤️
this was so comforting. i felt very safe and comforted by your presence in this video. i felt the heaviness inside decreased and that my anxious self relaxed a bit. thank you so much, i needed this. i'll be coming back to this video from time to time for sure.
Oh my goodness! I am so grateful to you for making this video and for coming across it. I could relate to so much. I am currently waiting for an appointment with a psychiatrist and this is everything I hope it will be and more. Thank you Nicola x
I've never been admitted to a psychiatric unit, but I've wondered about the psych unit many a time. MANY A TIME!! I don't want to have to be admitted into a psychiatric unit, as it means I'm very mentally ill, however I sure love this video!
@@BeBraveBeYouASMR1 he did brilliantly it took 11 minutes for sedation to kick in (he is only three) got his result on Friday everything is clear and normal so it was a definitely a relief
The loneliness thing is so frustrating & depressing 😪 I get tired of people saying just be around/talk to any random person to not feel lonely....maybe it works for some people but for me loneliness only goes away with specific people. And most people don't fill that void 😫 thanks for doing such a comforting video! It felt nice to play along & answer knowing it's a safe place with no chance of feeling worse after I answer unlike in real life! 💜
Thank you for this video. I normally don't be a fan of opening up on the internet, but I have a rough time. I don't expect any answers but I just have to let it got out of my brain and maybe a little bit from my chest. My husband suffers from depression. 4 years ago it was so bad so he got into a daily clinic where he got therapy etc from 8:00 to 16:00 every day for 3 months. It helped him much. We even had 2 therapy sessions together and it was helpful. It was recommended that he hat to go to therapy after this 3 month... but well ... he never even tried to find a therapist. A short time it seems okay, but very slowly it changed. We have almost no intimacy anymore. The only intimate things he does is giving me one or two little kisses a day and a "dito" when I say that I love him. It never comes from him. I know this doesn't sound really bad, and I have to say that we are a very good team. We have a good chemistry and our living together is easy and I like it. But he has only little emotions. Most the time I think he loves out cats more than me. I only get a hug when I hug him. I talked to him and he said, that he don't feel much at all. That he has no sexual interest in anybody anymore and that he is very satisfied with how our marriege goes. But for me it is hard. First of all: I think it is sad that he says he don't feel much at all and that he don't want to change that. He is a really wonderful and caring man when he gas his "good times". He shows his love on his own special way and even though, I am lying here and cry.... because I miss him. The hugs, the kisses.... the kisses on the forehead, his touches. I miss him saying "i love you". I don't know what to do. I don't want to lose him. And I know he don't want to lose me. He won't go to therapy for his health, and he don't want therapy for our realationship. I think he is afraid of the outcome... me too. I am afraid that it will reveal that he just don't love me anymore. That is the reason why I stil haven't tried a session yet, because I am not ready for this possible outcome. I know all of this sounds not that bad at all, but I don't want to tell all the things that are going on with him, his moods etc. I just needed to verbalise my fear and sadness. I thought I found my happiness with him but he aleeady struggled with depression his entire life. I just want him to feel things. To be happy or at least happier and able to feel something for somebody even if it means that this person would not be me. I really hope that he will one day be open for getting help, because right now I am just make it comfartable for him and suffer in silence... well not so silent because he knows all of this. I talk about it from time to time, hut he is not open for that. Sorry for this long text. Sorry for the words that don't make sense and are confusing. Just needed to let it go. Thanks Nicola for all your work. You are my save place!
Psychiatrists I've seen: don't tell me about your life take this for depression this for anxiety this por paranoia and this for borderline bye Her: ok let's elaborate some questions let's be comfortable and relax
I’m watching this because I can’t see a real psychiatrist because I’m a minor and my parents won’t let me go my mom always says “ if I thought something was wrong with you and you weren’t just being dramatic I’d take you” but she’s seen me have panic attacks and mental break downs she just pretends that it never happened
I like you so much, you are so supportive and I would say sincere 💞I am so stressed all the time, because my homeland is being destroyed and invaded. I must stay in another country due to the danger, I miss my mom, because she stayed there. I constantly think about people who were murdered... Your video is my safe zone.
pausing the video to say that i appreciate you so much for asking us our gender and our preferred pronouns. i'm non-binary and go by a different name (ember) and my family doesn't accept that, even though i've never come out to them. it means so much to me that there are people in this world outside of my family that care enough about me to ask my identity and how i'm comfortable being addressed. thank you so much for that.
My confidence is back to zero again. My boyfriend's friend said something about my body he said there's already a coke but why did you choose Gas tank.. its worse. I don't like my body too...i thought i have confidence again but now its all gone